Women are the worlds major problem

RealHaute:


What fellow men? Your feminist inclinations have blinded you from seeing the apparent truth: these so-called 'men' are boys with zero responsibilities and zero authority. You might want to have a more inclusive control group next time you want to draw conclusions. Smh!

...anything else?

Everything has really changed,right now everything is about the naira.most girls alway's say it goes beyond cash but in their relationship they will always put the naira above every other thing only few do the beyond cash policy.

Everything has really changed,right now everything is about the naira.most girls alway's say it goes beyond cash but in their relationship they will always put the naira above every other thing,only few do the beyond cash policy.

pocohantas:

...anything else?

Not really. Just watching you enjoy the taste of defeat. Cheers!!

Buchi95:
Broke Nigerian men keep complaining that women reject them because of their lack of financial ability. This self pitying consoling thought line is always sold by these men to compensate their poor ego, but that's not usually the case. It's not always because of being broke. Sometimes, maybe, most times.

Now, here's the reality.
We always assume that every women rejects a man because he's just broke.
This makes us ignore the possibilities of other inadequacy that could be a deal breaker in men.

Money is not all. In fact, it's a myth that women are after money. A lot of broke dudes still fall in love and get married.
So?

Please Read Ecl. 7:12 (in the Holy Bible)

There's something these rejections are about that is far from money.

Cool, you don't have money.

How about your confidence?
Your self esteem?
Do you exude low self esteem and talk out of pity?
How intelligent and engaging are you?
Can you make intelligent conversations and brainstorm with a woman?
Do you have a vision?
A feasible and promising vision you're relentlessly pursuing?
How's your sense of humour like?
How's your sense of dressing?
We know you have cheap few clothes as a broke dude, but how do you use and combine the ones you have?
How romantic are you?
How clean are you?
What are your values like?

You are talking about vision..... everyone has a vision. But the realities on ground says something else. How
I have a business proposal i have been trying to submit all this while and the conditions being given to me is that I should be ready to part ways with more than 67% of the profits. So what would you do in that scenario?

A lot of broke young men are nil when it comes to these aforementioned questions, so when they hit rejection from a female, they rant, they cry, ‘Its because I am broke..’
‘Women love money .’

No bro.
You're your problem.
You lack money.
What else do you have.
Or is money now the essence of your person?

See, I keep saying it, Money doesn't make a man. Most times it's low self esteemed men that flaunt money to attract women; they use money to cover up their inadequacies.

Take away money from them, nothing is left.

Poor souls.

During this Eid el- Fitr (i.e. on Saturday), I had to wake up as early as 4:15am in order to beat traffic at Agbara - Mile 2 - Costain route in order to meet up with a GoMyWay^(R) buddie which I conserved some amount of money. And yesterday while I was on my way back, I spent more than 2 1/2 hours in the traffic (Mowe - Ojodu Berger - Otedola/Ikeja Bridge axis) and I had to trek from Berger to Ojota yesterday night so a to meet up with today's work. If a young man is financially ok, he would be able to plan/organize himself because if I am financially bouyant, my family would have been in Lagos and there won't be need for me to travel around

Y'all broke guys should go back and build yourself, nah, I don't mean financially.
Go check your confidence, intelligence, humor, resourcefulness, maturity, focus, etc.

Go check all of these.
Many times you're rejected for something far from your broke state.

Ain't meaning to brag sha..
But pre-rich me, women be falling in love with me anyhow. Lol.
I don't have money, so I keep wondering when they say women love money. It's not always about it.

Yea, women love money but it's not the way we make it be.

Broke dude, go fix yourself.
Aside financial inadequacy, there might be lots of inadequacies you have. ��

Kindly SHARE!

Solomon Buchi Bartholomew
Life Coach/Motivational Speaker

Every man has high levels of confidence. But the Holy Bible says that oppression makes a wise man mad Ecl. 7:7a a man that is not financially ok is not a COMPLETE MAN At least, everyone would attest to the fact when there is no money in the hands of our daddies that's when you see them "acting" at home

My 2 Kobo

hordmax:
WELL . . .

TRUEEEEEE . . . BUT !!


Broke is BROKE, no matter how you choose to paraphrase or obscure it; because deep-down, he'd still know that he's Broke, and that's ugly. Could be depressing, even.

Now, without disputing these facts that "money doesn't make a man", money ain't really everything, well. . that's true; but then, money is still key —immaculate packaging, appealing courtesy, down-to-earth attributes, convivial sense of humor and affable mannerisms don't take on financial responsibilities, they don't pay the bills; hence, a man needs to make money.

I mean, how prevaricate can any broke guy act in any "love relationship". . for how long can be evasive? —Of course, someone has to expend money as there would be expenses, no matter how inexpensive; that essence of financial capability must at least be perceived otherwise, the love would just burn-out or wither away in no time, after much of the fondness and physical attractions have phased out.

All I'm saying is, "financial security" is still a cornerstone in any whatever relationship(s) and should/must NOT be neglected —Let the broke ones strive and hustle to make money as they self-develop themselves, simultaneously.


"I just wanna stay broke forever", that's that shii no one ever said — Gerald E. Gillum.

. . thanks.

You're saying the same thing as the OP sir, your point of emphasis just happened to differ slightly. Personality, looks, charisma, smarts, financial muscle, confidence, and VISION are all important. The OP is saying that if you're financially lacking, other qualities can compensate for that deficiency to make you worthy of consideration by women, at least FOR A REASONABLE PERIOD OF TIME, afterall, you don't plan to remain broke forever, do you? And you validly replied that money REMAINS IMPORTANT. Of, course, it is. And the OP never suggested that it isn't.

The thrust of his argument is this: When ladies reject you for being broke, it might not be just about the money, it might be because you're lacking all of the other qualities they can cling unto to compensate for your financial scores that aren't so good at that moment. So, what are those qualities? They're there in the OP. It's not always about the money. It NEVER has been.

And yes, this drab and dumb ridiculously stupid_ stereotyping of Nigerian ladies as being all about the money by miserable sad bastards has got to stop!

OP u maybe right by saying its not all about money

I wrote in one thread that the knowledge of a reasonable sum in one's account inspires confidence on its own

My brother, Aku na esi obi ike

Talking about women... Yes a broke guy can eventually get a lady for relationship but such relationship can't be sustained without money in this era...

Hence money is love security.


Even ur male friends who had made some money no go too love you if u are a broke ass...they go just deh Dodge you like bullet.

Sometimes u go deh yarn off point...at this time u go know say the owu don enter ur brain gan.

Ooooooh... OP just forget it only do me a favour by advising any broke dude u see to focus on making money...legitimately.. Ooo

No do the other way..oo hmm even Falz no go hail you.


Bros OWU na bastard. I swear

Please I want to know if Nigerian ladies really worth this. Nonsense

HIPROFILE:
OP u maybe right by saying its not all about money

I wrote in one thread that the knowledge of a reasonable sum in one's account inspires confidence on its own

Talking about women... Yes a broke guy can eventually get a lady for relationship but such relationship can't be sustained without money in this era...

Hence money is love security.


Even ur male friends who had made some money no go too love you if u are a broke ass...they go just deh Dodge you like bullet.

Sometimes u go deh yarn off point...at this time u go know say the owu don enter ur brain gan.

Ooooooh... OP just forget it only do me a favour by advising any broke dude u see to focus on making money...legitimately.. Ooo

No do the other way..oo hmm even Falz no go hail you.


Bros OWU na bastard. I swear

Even ur male friends who had made some money no go too love you if u are a broke ass...they go just deh Dodge you like bullet.
It is presently happening to me (I am a living Witness)

make your money I make mine lady!

hordmax:
WELL . . .

TRUEEEEEE . . . BUT !!


Broke is BROKE, no matter how you choose to paraphrase or obscure it; because deep-down, he'd still know that he's Broke, and that's ugly. Could be depressing, even.

Now, without disputing these facts that "money doesn't make a man", money ain't really everything, well. . that's true; but then, money is still key —immaculate packaging, appealing courtesy, down-to-earth attributes, convivial sense of humor and affable mannerisms don't take on financial responsibilities, they don't pay the bills; hence, a man needs to make money.

I mean, how prevaricate can any broke guy act in any "love relationship". . for how long can be evasive? —Of course, someone has to expend money as there would be expenses, no matter how inexpensive; that essence of financial capability must at least be perceived otherwise, the love would just burn-out or wither away in no time, after much of the fondness and physical attractions have phased out.

All I'm saying is, "financial security" is still a cornerstone in any whatever relationship(s) and should/must NOT be neglected —Let the broke ones strive and hustle to make money as they self-develop themselves, simultaneously.


"I just wanna stay broke forever", that's that shii no one ever said — Gerald E. Gillum.

. . thanks.

This guy i just gbadu you jare. You sabi book!

hordmax:
WELL . . .

TRUEEEEEE . . . BUT !!


Broke is BROKE, no matter how you choose to paraphrase or obscure it; because deep-down, he'd still know that he's Broke, and that's ugly. Could be depressing, even.

Now, without disputing these facts that "money doesn't make a man", money ain't really everything, well. . that's true; but then, money is still key —immaculate packaging, appealing courtesy, down-to-earth attributes, convivial sense of humor and affable mannerisms don't take on financial responsibilities, they don't pay the bills; hence, a man needs to make money.

I mean, how prevaricate can any broke guy act in any "love relationship". . for how long can be evasive? —Of course, someone has to expend money as there would be expenses, no matter how inexpensive; that essence of financial capability must at least be perceived otherwise, the love would just burn-out or wither away in no time, after much of the fondness and physical attractions have phased out.

All I'm saying is, "financial security" is still a cornerstone in any whatever relationship(s) and should/must NOT be neglected —Let the broke ones strive and hustle to make money as they self-develop themselves, simultaneously.


"I just wanna stay broke forever", that's that shii no one ever said — Gerald E. Gillum.

. . thanks.

Nice

All in all.... Money � is good,, even the Bible said that money answereth all things.... Therefore 'money is everything'

Evaberry:
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A broke man is a broke man
leave all this nonsense alone
The worst disease in this life is poverty and I pity the soul of anyman that's broke

in my opinion broke men should be castrated or thrown to the dogs

What's your opinion on broke ladies?

Evaberry:
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A broke man is a broke man
leave all this nonsense alone
The worst disease in this life is poverty and I pity the soul of anyman that's broke

in my opinion broke men should be castrated or thrown to the dogs

where did you come out from?? The a.nus or v.irgina ?? Wasted Sperm

Like someone said, how can you have the aforementioned qualities and still be broke? Bro, there is nothing confident, intelligent, classy and esteem in being broke. Everyone should have the aptitude for making money in a legitimate way. Evans did not have this aptitude hence he kidnapped those who have it just so he could rob them of their hard earned money.

Zandha:
You're saying the same thing as the OP sir, your point of emphasis just happened to differ slightly. Personality, looks, charisma, smarts, financial muscle, confidence, and VISION are all important. The OP is saying that if you're financially lacking, other qualities can compensate for that deficiency to make you worthy of consideration by women, at least FOR A REASONABLE PERIOD OF TIME, afterall, you don't plan to remain broke forever, do you? And you validly replied that money REMAINS IMPORTANT. Of, course, it is. And the OP never suggested that it isn't.

The thrust of his argument is this: When ladies reject you for being broke, it might not be just about the money, it might be because you're lacking all of the other qualities they can cling unto to compensate for your financial scores that aren't so good at that moment. So, what are those qualities? They're there in the OP. It's not always about the money. It NEVER has been.

And yes, this drab and dumb ridiculously stupid_ stereotyping of Nigerian ladies as being all about the money by miserable sad bastards has got to stop!

I was almost giving up...
Goodness me!! Who are you and where are you from?

Evaberry:
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A broke man is a broke man
leave all this nonsense alone
The worst disease in this life is poverty and I pity the soul of anyman that's broke

in my opinion broke men should be castrated or thrown to the dogs

I wonder how much your father has or your brothers have. Grow up!

op ten million gbosa to u.
u just hit d nail on the head.

Zandha:
You're saying the same thing as the OP sir, your point of emphasis just happened to differ slightly. Personality, looks, charisma, smarts, financial muscle, confidence, and VISION are all important. The OP is saying that if you're financially lacking, other qualities can compensate for that deficiency to make you worthy of consideration by women, at least FOR A REASONABLE PERIOD OF TIME, afterall, you don't plan to remain broke forever, do you? And you validly replied that money REMAINS IMPORTANT. Of, course, it is. And the OP never suggested that it isn't.

The thrust of his argument is this: When ladies reject you for being broke, it might not be just about the money, it might be because you're lacking all of the other qualities they can cling unto to compensate for your financial scores that aren't so good at that moment. So, what are those qualities? They're there in the OP. It's not always about the money. It NEVER has been.

And yes, this drab and dumb ridiculously stupid_ stereotyping of Nigerian ladies as being all about the money by miserable sad bastards has got to stop!

You really got what the op was trying to say.

Evaberry:
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A broke man is a broke man
leave all this nonsense alone
The worst disease in this life is poverty and I pity the soul of anyman that's broke

in my opinion broke men should be castrated or thrown to the dogs

may 40ft container loaded with motor spare parts fall on you

I'm as broke as....buh i have two babes going haywire..all for the broke as nigga..i guess I'm just romantic..

Zandha:
There are people WHO WOULD, so your point is just as void as the vacuum you drew it from. Sorry.

I'm talking about the majority here, not hilariously misguided exception to the rule.

My brother it's really a good read but then financial security is a major key. Do you have an idea of the kind of confidence that comes with having money Try being broke bro even your parents attitude towards you wl change in no time

Zandha:
There are people WHO WOULD, so your point is just as void as the vacuum you drew it from. Sorry.

I'm talking about the majority here, not some delusional and hilariously misguided exception to the rule.

pocohantas:
I have to agree with you on this.

I noticed the so called broke guys do lots of emotional blackmail. Once you reject them, they feel it's because of their financial state.

I know broke guys that are dating very good-looking girls just by their sense of humour...lots of our Nigerian comedians are perfect examples. Back then in school, there were guys that had girls flocking around them because they were intelligent.

All this money talk is just consolation for guys who have no wow factor. I am not surprised though, the average Nigerian man only knows how to use money to get a woman, later they will wonder why the woman cheated with a broke guy. They will end up saying women are confused, instead of facing the reality...it goes beyond money for lots of women.

Yes, financial security is important, but what if it's no more there tomorrow. You mean there is nothing else you can offer your woman or be remembered for?



I will suggest you stop convulsing because of my comment. You please women, you don't please them...your business. I only commented on the topic, you should do same.

When your fellow men create topics everyday on women matter, you didn't help us tell them life is beyond their erect pricks.

You make a good point but as much as i'm tempted to agree with you to an extent, the fact is that rich guys get more girls than broke guys. There is a definite pattern here. For this to be true (which it is), then it means there is something that rich guys have in common that makes them more attractive, and there is something that broke guys have in common that makes them less attractive. The obvious: money--or the lack thereof.

Girls would be the first to own up to this. No girl would say i want to be with a broke guy.

Now you could argue that broke guys don't get girls because they lack some other qualities and i would say that since wealth does not come in the DNA, there cannot be any characteristics that automatically separate the personality of rich guys from that of broke guys. I'm saying broke guys and rich guys are likely to have the same spread of personality traits. Some will be funny, some would be boring, some will be confident, some will be timid, some will be intelligent, some will be idiots.

I put it to you that there are three primal factors that drive all women:

1. Luxury
2. Sex/lust
3. Notoriety

Women are attracted to men who possess one or all of these traits. But when you look at the true average Joe on the streets, he really does not possess any "sex/lust" or notoriety by nature. How many guys do you see out of the thousands who cross your path on a daily basis, who you feel powerfully attracted to? At most 2 on a good day, and 1 a week every other day.

How many guys have that aura of notoriety or power that women love? statistically, leaders and lone-wolf bad boys are outliers.

This means that the average guy really is not notable in his natural state. So let us exclude those outliers--the anomalies--who are broke but have an aura of notoriety or power, or are exceptionally good looking. Let us look solely at the average broke man, and the average rich man who both lack exceptional sex appeal or notoriety/power factor.

Within this scope, we have already established that is might be a statistical fallacy to say that all broke guys have a different personality from rich guys since personality is innate and wealth is not. Take for example most comedians who started out dirt poor (as a matter of fact i hold the opinion that these comedians are funnier when they are still poor). So we take a broke funny guy and a rich funny guy and offer him to 10 girls. 10 out of 10 will choose the rich one, and that is why we say girls like rich guys.

Even where you differentiate between the average broke guy and the average rich guy, by other factors such as intelligence or kindness etc, most girls of nowadays at best would say okay i will be with you for now because i think you might be able to give me the luxury i want at some point but if you don't show any signs of making it within such and and such period of time and i get a better offer, i'm off.

At the end of the day it boils down to money. Even when women say they want a man with vision, it is not as though having a vision itself is attractive to them, rather it is the understanding that having a vision means the guy might make it in life that appeals to them. Thus the driving factor is still money.

Amadaz:
may 40ft container loaded with motor spare parts fall on you

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No mind the OP she does not know love and all the other craps she put up is not enough these days we all need that financial security my dear i pray you dont ever fall into the hands of a play boy or gold digger them full everywhere now ,properly dressed ,good manners ,well behaved scavenging for who they want to devour them full Abuja ,Lagos,Benin .Abeg let him flaunt it oooo the other things can be fixed but make financial security they abeg .Me as a guy a woman must show me she is okay financially before we can do anything i no fit for liability not in this time and era

pocohantas:


I was almost giving up...
Goodness me!! Who are you and where are you from?

I'm from Neptune. Got dropped in Nigeria by accident. And our spaceship hasn't returned ever since. But we hopefully cling unto hope for an exit from this dunghill. I hope it doesn't take long. I don't feel like I'm among my people. You probably feel the same.

PastorAji:


Even ur male friends who had made some money no go too love you if u are a broke ass...they go just deh Dodge you like bullet.
It is presently happening to me (I am a living Witness)

Bro all I wrote up there is also born outta personal experience. I used to feel so devastated that the day I stumbled on one JOE BADASS song DEVASTATED, I made it my best track on continual replay..

My case is that I used to have money..I mean I was balling but something happened along the line.and this particular situation is the worst of it bros as junior dudes who used to call me boss when the going was rosy now resort to insulting me sarcastically and my guys would rub it to my face through their attitudes reminding me that em a broke ass... I broke into tears the day a lady...... infact forget it. It was at this point I clearly understood the meaning of frustration and depression. bro jast keep pushing dant ever give up...insha Allah you/we will make it. I am a testimony today and I bless God for allowing me pass through all cos it made me wiser and stronger.