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Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Nobody: 11:37am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Women are the worlds major problem |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by pocohantas(f): 11:39am On Jun 28, 2017 |
RealHaute:...anything else? |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Bizibi(m): 11:39am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Everything has really changed,right now everything is about the naira.most girls alway's say it goes beyond cash but in their relationship they will always put the naira above every other thing only few do the beyond cash policy. 1 Like |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Bizibi(m): 11:39am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Everything has really changed,right now everything is about the naira.most girls alway's say it goes beyond cash but in their relationship they will always put the naira above every other thing,only few do the beyond cash policy. |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by RealHaute: 11:41am On Jun 28, 2017 |
pocohantas: Not really. Just watching you enjoy the taste of defeat. Cheers!! 2 Likes |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by PastorAji(m): 11:46am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Buchi95:Please Read Ecl. 7:12 (in the Holy Bible) There's something these rejections are about that is far from money.You are talking about vision..... everyone has a vision. But the realities on ground says something else. How I have a business proposal i have been trying to submit all this while and the conditions being given to me is that I should be ready to part ways with more than 67% of the profits. So what would you do in that scenario? A lot of broke young men are nil when it comes to these aforementioned questions, so when they hit rejection from a female, they rant, they cry, ‘Its because I am broke..’During this Eid el- Fitr (i.e. on Saturday), I had to wake up as early as 4:15am in order to beat traffic at Agbara - Mile 2 - Costain route in order to meet up with a GoMyWay(R) buddie which I conserved some amount of money. And yesterday while I was on my way back, I spent more than 2 1/2 hours in the traffic (Mowe - Ojodu Berger - Otedola/Ikeja Bridge axis) and I had to trek from Berger to Ojota yesterday night so a to meet up with today's work. If a young man is financially ok, he would be able to plan/organize himself because if I am financially bouyant, my family would have been in Lagos and there won't be need for me to travel around Y'all broke guys should go back and build yourself, nah, I don't mean financially.Every man has high levels of confidence. But the Holy Bible says that oppression makes a wise man mad Ecl. 7:7a a man that is not financially ok is not a COMPLETE MAN At least, everyone would attest to the fact when there is no money in the hands of our daddies that's when you see them "acting" at home My 2 Kobo |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Nobody: 11:46am On Jun 28, 2017 |
hordmax:You're saying the same thing as the OP sir, your point of emphasis just happened to differ slightly. Personality, looks, charisma, smarts, financial muscle, confidence, and VISION are all important. The OP is saying that if you're financially lacking, other qualities can compensate for that deficiency to make you worthy of consideration by women, at least FOR A REASONABLE PERIOD OF TIME, afterall, you don't plan to remain broke forever, do you? And you validly replied that money REMAINS IMPORTANT. Of, course, it is. And the OP never suggested that it isn't. The thrust of his argument is this: When ladies reject you for being broke, it might not be just about the money, it might be because you're lacking all of the other qualities they can cling unto to compensate for your financial scores that aren't so good at that moment. So, what are those qualities? They're there in the OP. It's not always about the money. It NEVER has been. And yes, this drab and dumb ridiculously stupid_ stereotyping of Nigerian ladies as being all about the money by miserable sad bastards has got to stop! 6 Likes |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by HIPROFILE(m): 11:46am On Jun 28, 2017 |
OP u maybe right by saying its not all about money I wrote in one thread that the knowledge of a reasonable sum in one's account inspires confidence on its own My brother, Aku na esi obi ike Talking about women... Yes a broke guy can eventually get a lady for relationship but such relationship can't be sustained without money in this era... Hence money is love security. Even ur male friends who had made some money no go too love you if u are a broke ass...they go just deh Dodge you like bullet. Sometimes u go deh yarn off point...at this time u go know say the owu don enter ur brain gan. Ooooooh... OP just forget it only do me a favour by advising any broke dude u see to focus on making money...legitimately.. Ooo No do the other way..oo hmm even Falz no go hail you. Bros OWU na bastard. I swear 2 Likes |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by jrerico1(m): 11:49am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Please I want to know if Nigerian ladies really worth this. Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by PastorAji(m): 11:49am On Jun 28, 2017 |
HIPROFILE: Even ur male friends who had made some money no go too love you if u are a broke ass...they go just deh Dodge you like bullet. It is presently happening to me (I am a living Witness) 5 Likes |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by iamtardey: 11:49am On Jun 28, 2017 |
make your money I make mine lady! 1 Like |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Lemmy123(m): 11:51am On Jun 28, 2017 |
hordmax:This guy i just gbadu you jare. You sabi book! |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Godisgood456(m): 11:53am On Jun 28, 2017 |
hordmax: Nice |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Enugufirstson(m): 11:53am On Jun 28, 2017 |
All in all.... Money � is good,, even the Bible said that money answereth all things.... Therefore 'money is everything' |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by LaExpert: 11:54am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Evaberry: What's your opinion on broke ladies? |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by jrerico1(m): 11:55am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Evaberry:where did you come out from?? The a.nus or v.irgina ?? Wasted Sperm 2 Likes |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by teebillz: 11:56am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Like someone said, how can you have the aforementioned qualities and still be broke? Bro, there is nothing confident, intelligent, classy and esteem in being broke. Everyone should have the aptitude for making money in a legitimate way. Evans did not have this aptitude hence he kidnapped those who have it just so he could rob them of their hard earned money. |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by pocohantas(f): 11:56am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Zandha: I was almost giving up... Goodness me!! Who are you and where are you from? |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Pope22(m): 11:57am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Evaberry: I wonder how much your father has or your brothers have. Grow up! |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Nobody: 11:59am On Jun 28, 2017 |
op ten million gbosa to u. u just hit d nail on the head. |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Daeylar(f): 11:59am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Zandha: You really got what the op was trying to say. 1 Like |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Amadaz(m): 12:00pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Evaberry:may 40ft container loaded with motor spare parts fall on you |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by bennytrips27(m): 12:03pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
I'm as broke as....buh i have two babes going haywire..all for the broke as nigga..i guess I'm just romantic.. |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Curvinus(m): 12:04pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Zandha: I'm talking about the majority here, not hilariously misguided exception to the rule. |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by emmauc(m): 12:04pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
My brother it's really a good read but then financial security is a major key. Do you have an idea of the kind of confidence that comes with having money Try being broke bro even your parents attitude towards you wl change in no time 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Curvinus(m): 12:06pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Zandha: I'm talking about the majority here, not some delusional and hilariously misguided exception to the rule. |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by SmartyPants(m): 12:14pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
pocohantas: You make a good point but as much as i'm tempted to agree with you to an extent, the fact is that rich guys get more girls than broke guys. There is a definite pattern here. For this to be true (which it is), then it means there is something that rich guys have in common that makes them more attractive, and there is something that broke guys have in common that makes them less attractive. The obvious: money--or the lack thereof. Girls would be the first to own up to this. No girl would say i want to be with a broke guy. Now you could argue that broke guys don't get girls because they lack some other qualities and i would say that since wealth does not come in the DNA, there cannot be any characteristics that automatically separate the personality of rich guys from that of broke guys. I'm saying broke guys and rich guys are likely to have the same spread of personality traits. Some will be funny, some would be boring, some will be confident, some will be timid, some will be intelligent, some will be idiots. I put it to you that there are three primal factors that drive all women: 1. Luxury 2. Sex/lust 3. Notoriety Women are attracted to men who possess one or all of these traits. But when you look at the true average Joe on the streets, he really does not possess any "sex/lust" or notoriety by nature. How many guys do you see out of the thousands who cross your path on a daily basis, who you feel powerfully attracted to? At most 2 on a good day, and 1 a week every other day. How many guys have that aura of notoriety or power that women love? statistically, leaders and lone-wolf bad boys are outliers. This means that the average guy really is not notable in his natural state. So let us exclude those outliers--the anomalies--who are broke but have an aura of notoriety or power, or are exceptionally good looking. Let us look solely at the average broke man, and the average rich man who both lack exceptional sex appeal or notoriety/power factor. Within this scope, we have already established that is might be a statistical fallacy to say that all broke guys have a different personality from rich guys since personality is innate and wealth is not. Take for example most comedians who started out dirt poor (as a matter of fact i hold the opinion that these comedians are funnier when they are still poor). So we take a broke funny guy and a rich funny guy and offer him to 10 girls. 10 out of 10 will choose the rich one, and that is why we say girls like rich guys. Even where you differentiate between the average broke guy and the average rich guy, by other factors such as intelligence or kindness etc, most girls of nowadays at best would say okay i will be with you for now because i think you might be able to give me the luxury i want at some point but if you don't show any signs of making it within such and and such period of time and i get a better offer, i'm off. At the end of the day it boils down to money. Even when women say they want a man with vision, it is not as though having a vision itself is attractive to them, rather it is the understanding that having a vision means the guy might make it in life that appeals to them. Thus the driving factor is still money. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by benjaminiyke(m): 12:15pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Amadaz:[quote author=Amadaz post=57916424] |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Fhowe: 12:17pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
No mind the OP she does not know love and all the other craps she put up is not enough these days we all need that financial security my dear i pray you dont ever fall into the hands of a play boy or gold digger them full everywhere now ,properly dressed ,good manners ,well behaved scavenging for who they want to devour them full Abuja ,Lagos,Benin .Abeg let him flaunt it oooo the other things can be fixed but make financial security they abeg .Me as a guy a woman must show me she is okay financially before we can do anything i no fit for liability not in this time and era |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
pocohantas:I'm from Neptune. Got dropped in Nigeria by accident. And our spaceship hasn't returned ever since. But we hopefully cling unto hope for an exit from this dunghill. I hope it doesn't take long. I don't feel like I'm among my people. You probably feel the same. |
Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by HIPROFILE(m): 12:19pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
PastorAji: Bro all I wrote up there is also born outta personal experience. I used to feel so devastated that the day I stumbled on one JOE BADASS song DEVASTATED, I made it my best track on continual replay.. My case is that I used to have money..I mean I was balling but something happened along the line.and this particular situation is the worst of it bros as junior dudes who used to call me boss when the going was rosy now resort to insulting me sarcastically and my guys would rub it to my face through their attitudes reminding me that em a broke ass... I broke into tears the day a lady...... infact forget it. It was at this point I clearly understood the meaning of frustration and depression. bro jast keep pushing dant ever give up...insha Allah you/we will make it. I am a testimony today and I bless God for allowing me pass through all cos it made me wiser and stronger. |
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