JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

lol, bro you know the truth but u are only trying to give hope to yourself. Her excuse of always sleeping fron 7pm to 2am gave her away as a serial, unrepentant cheat.

1stCitizen:
At the rate Nigerians girls have thrown all decency to the wind, sooner or later the average Nigerian man will end up marrying an olosho.

that one is already happening

Promise I won't call u an ass...hole

Go spend some days with her to confirm your suspicion.click on this link to get the latest entertainment news http://padigist.com/2017/07/01/teenage-girl-reveals-raped-close-friend-sleeping-just-days-grandmothers-funeral/

Pay her another visit and pretend to spend d night intentionally.. her reaction wud give u that which u seek.

kenex4ever:
yes o, for those to agree to live dat close it means Dey have something going on. And he does not pick d guys call btw 7pm-2am.

Exactly d same issue I had with my ex, once I call her in d evening she will say she is cooking and before she picks my call again will b d next morning.

I made her visit n I tried to open her whatsapp and she dragged d phone with me to d extent dat she became violent. She passworded her whatsapp app and I managed to get d password from her without her knowledge. One morning, she was cooking and I came across a guy dat was asking her where she has been and she was giving excuses, d guy was even angry and insulting her on d chat that was when I knew I was d side boyfriend.
She saw me checking it and she became speachless n she confessed then I made love to her for d last time and we broke up. I later discovered she had a third guy then too.

infact I am tired,can we just scrap dating and go back to the way our grandparents conducted marriage?, everyone seems to be trying to outsmart the other, both male and female. She was obviously keeping her options open thanks to some guys who use dating as an excuse to have body count just to earn bragging rights,this is just tiring

You guys ain't even seeing the main problem here, if she's doesn't have anything with the guy then why is the fiancé just knowing about the arrangement now. I bet if he hadn't visited, he will be in the dark about it.

Obiwiz:

Why be the one to secure an apartment for another man's sex buddy? I'm against men becoming too emotionally attached to women; OP knows he should call it quits, but emotional attachment to the 'fiancee' is making him look for reasons to hang in there. Brother, walk away from this emotional manipulation and abuse. Marriageable women plenty for 9ja; don't limit yourself.

God bless you sir.


Voice of man -voice of God

frenzyduchess:
infact I am tired,can we just scrap dating and go back to the way our grandparents conducted marriage?, everyone seems to be trying to outsmart the other, both male and female. She was obviously keeping her options open thanks to some guys who use dating as an excuse to have body count just to earn bragging rights,this is just tiring

hahaha, yes o, you are right. she told me dat she was keeping her options open incase any disappoint.

Seconded

thorpido:
You should make out time to spend some days with her.You will find out all you need to know then.

AlanTuringAI:

The fact that the lady hid her living condition from the guy all this while until he found out himself after an August visit shows she has something to hide, coupled with her suspicious behaviors between that ungodly hours and his dreams,as he put it, shows guilt written all over. How can you hide such important information from someone you call fiance, and not an ordinary boyfriend? Come on, let's put 2+2 together na. Reading the guy's story alone is making me angry already. Some ladies are just too wicked.

Yes, the details are convincing but being calculated is of maximum importance. The fact that the details are convincing means that he has to assume the worst and be ruthless.

Mac2016:

Mhen! See comments from guys... Well your fears are all understandable. But really she might up to nothing... If I had not experienced it I would not say so... Do you know why?
I slept on the same bed, not only lived in the same room, with someone's fiancee for two months or so... We are not related in anyway o. I remember there was a night or so that it was so cold that our bodies touched on that bed and I got erection and I was almost tempted but I moved away from the bed to the ground and I controlled my "cassava" and thoughts. Although not advisable cos many guys can't do that.
We moved away from there later and lived together in an ensuite apartment.. She had her room and I had mine inside the same flat... We were there for almost a year with no other partner yet no nothing between us...her fiance used to visit her during that time... And now they are happily married with kids.... This a confession from a man (my confession) like you so it's possible she's not into infidelity. Get more evidence before u conclude.
Little tips: Visit her to stay with her for some days... If she's somewhat resistant to ur proposed stay without genuine excuse.. That's a sign she might be a traitor.
Secondly... Make sure u stay with her even if she resisted.... U can observe the kind of relationship between her and the guy... If she kinda show no elderly or just brotherly respect.. If sense there's philia connection between them.. That may be another precarious sign... But guy, make sure u remain unassuming! Good luck

God bless you bro,


I didn't just want to be presumptuous that's why I came all the way up here to share my pains....


Some people are abusing me as if they know what their partners are also upto wherever they may be in this world rife with immoralities of all sorts, especially Nigeria.




I'm not sure God isn't the one talking to me as people combine their voices to condemn the act.


Thanks once again

Adelekeee:
....so in developed countries where people/students share apartment for whatsoever reason,,..is it proven nothing happen between them(??)...very funny....

You can't understand because you haven't been there.

Juliearth:



LOL! Bro,I am a realist. He has no fact as such,should not act. The situation is a dicey one,but a little patience wont hurt. The break up would be sweet and worthwhile when he has gathered enough facts...until then,he should not break up with her.

Ok oh, you really are generous in character in giving the benefit of the doubt.
To me, the whole story is weird ... imagine your fiancée living with another man ..... something seriously fked up with that set up. This story was built for front page.

Dc4life:
Sounds like a recipe for disaster. You should look for more mature thoughtful women to date. Sounds like it's time to upgrade.

Abi Ooooooh

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

She did not pass The test of marriage suitability readit here: http://www.dailyfamily.ng/20-tests-must-give-lady-know-can-marry/

Kayoski:
Fiancée? its better you start addressing her as your ex

Gbam!!!!!

Shantyken:
that wouldn't stop anything is there are bleeping each other. the best thing is the to pay a visit unannounced stay for 2 days

If you check my comment, you'll realize it's a reply to a comment I do not agree with.

CROWNWEALTH019:
women wicked sha

Dem wicked no be small, abegi.

ITS INDEED NOTHING..... MY BROTHER SHE HAS COOKED SOMETHING FOR U TO EAT APPARENTLY.... GO FOR DELIVERANCE...

freshvine:


You're just bitter don't know why. It's all written in your negative rebuttal.

Bro, they're recording device as little as a ball point pen and it'll take her ages to find it before I get there

...truth is bitter,...u will learn someday...thought I could help buh....

kenex4ever:
hahaha, yes o, you are right. she told me dat she was keeping her options open incase any disappoint.

you see, logically you cant blame her but morally its wrong

Beautiful. You get sense.

thorpido:
You should make out time to spend some days with her.You will find out all you need to know then.

if you truly love her, just beg her make she fvck remain for you.

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

their is no friendship between a man and a woman dat wont lead to sumthing...guy pls also find a side chick for urself..so if she Bleep he no go pain you...

what happens when a rat lives in a cat's cage?

Jacksparr0w127:
yea, JHus - Friendly

Thanks bro, Jamming already

frenzyduchess:
you see, logically you cant blame her but morally its wrong

yea dats what 98%of girls do, most times it backfires. They keep 3 to 5guys then wait for who will first make enough money or propose.
Sometimes bcuz of greed because they feel one guy won't give them enough money.

kenex4ever:
yea dats what 98%of girls do, most times it backfires. They keep 3 to 5guys then wait for who will first make enough money or propose.
Sometimes bcuz of greed because they feel one guy won't give them enough money.

and guys do what, let's not be sentimental here, most guys are nothing but emotional scammers who use dating as a guise to free sex while tying her down even when in thwir heart they know they dont want to settle down with her, so my dear the bird too has leaned to fly without perching,it cuts both ways

bros try get her another apartment, bt if she declines...quit d rlship

This one weak me...
Ifa's judgement, "ODE NI BOBO YI SHA"

Josh44s:

Gerrarrahere mennnnnnnnn!

Bleep off dumb-skull.