lilyheaven:

, let me gist you small. One faithful night, I went to change a catheter, as I held the penis , it was erected, I looked at him, his eyes was all red, I was so scared, with his eyes, I didn't know when I started praying. Because I was alone in the room with him. Anyways with God's help I did my job and ran away from his room.

Dont you guys know dat thing hurts esp when dre is urine in the bladder alrdy? Males are bound to av an erection with lil urine in the bladder.

lilyheaven:

, let me gist you small. One faithful night, I went to change a catheter, as I held the penis , it was erected, I looked at him, his eyes was all red, I was so scared, with his eyes, I didn't know when I started praying. Because I was alone in the room with him. Anyways with God's help I did my job and ran away from his room.

Dont you guys know dat thing hurts esp when dre is urine in the bladder alrdy? Males are bound to av an erection with lil urine in the bladder.

iluvpomo:

Ok oh, you really are generous in character in giving the benefit of the doubt.
To me, the whole story is weird ... imagine your fiancée living with another man ..... something seriously fked up with that set up. This story was built for front page.

Sh** happens,but lets leave it at that.

litaninja:
wait. WTF is an "hagast visit"

The correctness of the preposition should be enough to lead you aright.


"Aghast" is the word.




Wouldn't your typing stinks if you found yourself in such appalling situation?

You are in trouble!

kenex4ever:
yes o, for those to agree to live dat close it means Dey have something going on. And he does not pick d guys call btw 7pm-2am.

Exactly d same issue I had with my ex, once I call her in d evening she will say she is cooking and before she picks my call again will b d next morning.

I made her visit n I tried to open her whatsapp and she dragged d phone with me to d extent dat she became violent. She passworded her whatsapp app and I managed to get d password from her without her knowledge. One morning, she was cooking and I came across a guy dat was asking her where she has been and she was giving excuses, d guy was even angry and insulting her on d chat that was when I knew I was d side boyfriend.
She saw me checking it and she became speachless n she confessed then I made love to her for d last time and we broke up. I later discovered she had a third guy then too.

.. Insp. Gadget..well, you talk true sha..

For a start, a lady who hides her fone from her fiance dey obviously cheat or plans to. As a guy, my bae knows my password to probably all my Social Media accounts, i know her email password etc. She even gifts me her fone whenever she is around because she is always having one complaint or the other about it. Never deletes chats cos, i get to see old chats both on Whatsapp and I.G.; i no dey even read them again because i am tired and between, we aint officially engaged yet o but we know we want to grow old together.

My point is, he should deliberately try to snoop through her phone although me know say she dey cheat, all indices point towards that.

egopersonified:


You have got something to lose, so you keep off. This man might not. If a guy is interested in a girl and they live in such close proximity, he will make a move. If the girl is interested in him or lonely or has nothing to lose, she will fall for it.

Most people use their phones more in the evenings and weekends. You come home after work and you don't call or chat between 7pm and 10pm, EVERYDAY, with your supposed fiance, to me the op is even the side bobo.

YA,the bolded is the major concern and the guy is not bold enough to confront issues, in my own case my girlfriend became a friend to the girl and the boyfriend comes weekend sometimes and the boyfriend was grateful to me for the assistance and uses me to monitor the girl,but the girl have other boyfriends which comes to her under strict surveillance,she off our bell and jam lock the outside door so that the main boyfriend can never barge in.

JahsPet:


God bless you bro,

I didn't just want to be presumptuous that's why I came all the way up here to share my pains....

Some people are abusing me as if they know what their partners are also upto wherever they may be in this world rife with immoralities of all sorts, especially Nigeria.

I'm not sure God isn't the one talking to me as people combine their voices to condemn the act.

Thanks once again

Good Guy Advice
Guy, we've been there, you may not want to believe it, but too many of us were up this same sh!t-creek you're in right now. Same scenario, some broke, some bounced back stronger. I passed thru similar isshh, twice, got crazy, changed; unfortunate really, now i meet enuf 'good' serious ladies, it's just me that's crazy-crazy furked! She's most def emotionally and sexually entangled. So, don't kid urself. Take it like a man. It's enuf for you to wanna lose faith in and hope for real true love but beautiful, kind, loyal and god-fearing girls are still out there, and one is waiting for you right now.

Normal Me Routine (Get PayBack)
Step 1. You wanna be sure, ehn, find a way to bug that room. Go buy those mp3 recorder/camera pens, visit her, leave there around 8:30pm and make sure you forget it there OR buy her a wall-clock with hidden cam insyde (they're selling these things everywhere)

Step 2. Now that you've seen all the facial expressions your girl can make on doggie and the styles she can give anoda man whilst denying you same, what you gonna do? CLASS ACT: Act like you don't know!

Step 3: Start Dating anoda gal on the low while screwing her like she's owing you money every chance you get. Reduce the arguments, name-calling or causes for suspicion and focus on drilling that bish for what it's worth.

Step 4: When ur truly sure the new chic is not anoda refurbished olosho, invite madam-pretender over OR drop the hint however you please; Revenge is best served cold!

NB
You're free to swing any which way but i'll advice you to go for the former; you sound like some normal guy looking for no-trouble, so, just go easy on urself!

kenex4ever:
True.
But there are more honest guys than girls, most guys learn to b heartless after a girl has broken their heart.

The same with some girls though

there are more honest guys than girls?let me guess a survey conducted in your head and conclusion influenced by gender bias and sentiment, anyway have a nice day

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

UR PROBLEM IS A PROBLEM;DIS PROBLEM IS NOT OUR PROBLEM

JahsPet:
Thanks very much sir

You're welcome

frenzyduchess:
there are more honest guys that girls?let me guess a servey conducted in your head and conclusion influenced by gender bias and sentiment, anyway have a nice day

lol, that really pissed u off.

I may b sentimental though, being a guy.
Why I said so is because girls generally get sexually active at a younger age than guys. One cute guy in an area can date almost all d young girls in dat area and they will b dragging him while rejecting advances from d guy's friends. After suffering heart break from d guy they will learn from it and b breaking d heart of innocent young guys later.

No mind me o, don't take it too personal.

Oluwapresley:
I once thought that a lady and a guy with clean minds won't have any problem staying together.. but that mentality changed when I stayed with a lady myself.. I don't wanna paint pictures in your head, bro but if I paint pictures of what happened between us............. I don't wanna be d cause of a break up..

Bros, paint am make we see... Sincerely.

I like your signature...So true

kenex4ever:
lol, that really pissed u off.

I may b sentimental though, being a guy.
Why I said so is because girls generally get sexually active at a younger age than guys. One cute guy in an area can date almost all d young girls in dat area and they will b dragging him while rejecting advances from d guy's friends. After suffering heart break from d guy they will learn from it and b breaking d heart of innocent young guys later.

No mind me o, don't take it too personal.

for one case you bring about a lady ,I will counter it with 5 cases, this cases are not gossip,they are cases i have seen.Girls become sexually active at a young age than guys?where do you get this conclusions from?,I am not pissed off,just don't have time to deal with people staying in their little corner and dishing out unverified claims and concocting theories according to their state of mind. Do you know how many innocent girls have had their hearts broken? It's just that women dont shake up the world about it,they simply cry and move on,but when it happens to a guy, the whole world wil not hear word,enough abeg ,enjoy your Sunday

frenzyduchess:
for one case you bring about a lady ,I will counter it with 5 cases, this cases are not gossip,they are cases i have seen.Girls become sexually active at a young age than guys?where do you get this conclusions from?,I am not pissed off,just don't have time to deal with people staying in their little corner and dishing out unverified claims and concocting theories according to their state of mind. Do you know how many innocent girls have had their hearts broken? It's just that women dont shake up the world about it,they simply cry and move on,but when it happens to a guy, the whole world wil not hear word,enough abeg ,enjoy your Sunday

enjoy urs too. Tnx for d chat.

It's just like keeping a yam and goat in the same apartment and saying the goat won't eat the yam

It's simple nau u sef look for a pretty girl to stay with and tell her it's not problem solve

kenex4ever:
enjoy urs too. Tnx for d chat.

you are welcome

thorpido:
Only if he isn't smart enough.If I spend time around you,I will decipher your relationship with your neighbours.Do you know that you avoiding your neighbour will give me a sign I will explore?Guy,I could work for the CIA.

hmmmmm

mofeoluwadassah:
are u sure you need advice or u seeking for attention.......

Sometimes, we need attention. We're all guilty of this. Op needs our attention.

frenzyduchess:
for one case you bring about a lady ,I will counter it with 5 cases, this cases are not gossip,they are cases i have seen.Girls become sexually active at a young age than guys?where do you get this conclusions from?,I am not pissed off,just don't have time to deal with people staying in their little corner and dishing out unverified claims and concocting theories according to their state of mind. Do you know how many innocent girls have had their hearts broken? It's just that women dont shake up the world about it,they simply cry and move on,but when it happens to a guy, the whole world wil not hear word,enough abeg ,enjoy your Sunday

He is right there: girls mature/develop sexually faster than their male age mates. That alone accounts for who becomes sexually active between the two genders. Secondly, when boy of sixteen, seventeen, eighteen years old are still timid about how to talk to a lady, a lady of the same age is already been hunted/tempted/seduced by older men with high degree of success in most cases.

maasoap:

He is right there: girls mature/develop sexually faster than their male age mates. That alone accounts for who becomes sexually active between the two genders. Secondly, when boy of sixteen, seventeen, eighteen years old are still timid about how to talk to a lady, a lady of the same age is already been hunted/tempted/seduced by older men with high degree of success in most cases.

maybe where you are ,timid ke, my friend go out and conduct your survey before talking,anyway ,you can sit and concuct theories ,na you sabi

op where u see this kind girl? dont even visit her again, disconnect from the babe totally. ur girl is cheating and making you look stupiid

maasoap:

Sometimes, we need attention. We're all guilty of this. Op needs our attention.

he shld av jxt said so instead of making up stories nw

frenzyduchess:
maybe where you are ,timid ke, my friend go out and conduct your survey before talking,anyway ,you can sit and concuct theories ,na you sabi

I put two observations up there, you only commented about one.
Even at that, I grew up with boys in the hood, went to secondary school, I had friends. We knew our challenges, there is no deceiving ourselves about it. It is common, it is normal. What survey do you need about this? Boys need to build confidence through trial and error, boys need push from boys. You don't need survey, it is a natural phenomenum

mugu...

mofeoluwadassah:
he shld av jxt said so instead of making up stories nw

His story might be real but definitely, he doesn't need advice on this.

maasoap:

I put two observations up there, you only commented about one.
Even at that, I grew up with boys in the hood, went to secondary school, I had friends. We knew our challenges, there is no deceiving ourselves about it. It is common, it is normal. What survey do you need about this? Boys need to build confidence through trial and error, boys need push from boys. You don't need survey, it is a natural phenomenum

and I on the other hand know when i bacame sexually active when boys my age probably had body count going to 10, so its not a natural phenomenum, and i can give you other examples too just like you have of you and your guys in the hood

maasoap:

His story might be real but definitely, he doesn't need advice on this.

exactly!he doesnt need advice on dis issue hes jxt an attention seeker jare

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

The day u visited her, It was very obvious she didn't allow sex to happen, so that she can tell her flatmate that her cousin just visited and left