Bester44:


You roasted the muggin.

Mup4life:
BET YOUR PREPARING DEM E-BOOKS FOR SALE? BROKE NIGA TRYING TO B RELEVANT.

thesuave10:


More from the broke team

Amarabae:
Why bye? Are you running away? Oh thank God for social media, even Cockroaches have an opinion.
Are you really a graduate or these half baked droppies who lack basic comprehension of any writeup before opening their mouth.
Broke pretender? Hahahahaha, thank your star you have the priviledge to exchange words with Amarachi offline, because face to face, You can NEVER stand my class or neither are you in the class of ladies I mingle with.
You voomed into this MY THREAD to talk rubbish, that shows you personality which does not worth my attention.
I repeat again, keep your mouth out of my marriage, I am NOT the reason why you are still a MISS in late 40s.
Ok? Go and look for your level, shoe get size.

Amarabae:
Why bye? Are you running away? Oh thank God for social media, even Cockroaches have an opinion.
Are you really a graduate or these half baked droppies who lack basic comprehension of any writeup before opening their mouth.
Broke pretender? Hahahahaha, thank your star you have the priviledge to exchange words with Amarachi offline, because face to face, You can NEVER stand my class or neither are you in the class of ladies I mingle with.
You voomed into this MY THREAD to talk rubbish, that shows you personality which does not worth my attention.
I repeat again, keep your mouth out of my marriage, I am NOT the reason why you are still a MISS in late 40s.
Ok? Go and look for your level, shoe get size.

thesuave10:


I tell men everyday and it's what me and my high status Guys believe in. " too don't chase success, you attract it, success comes as a result of the work you've done on yourself " if opportunity hasn't knocked on your door, you simply build a bigger door [/b]

Amarabae:
drop your emotional ranting and counter my point intellectually.
So you will not marry? Is it not a girl you will marry or are you a gay?
So what do you mean by making money for your family and not on any girl?
Who cares if you can bed a girl for 1k?
Some boys are sexually cheap too.

Amarabae:
A LETTER TO THE BROKE GUYS.
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Greetings all!
I will like to briefly to thank all who wished me a Happy Birthday yesterday.
Thank you my Darlings. *kisses*
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Back to my main subject, THE BROKE GUYS.
I have noticed that one of the most frustrating moments in a man's life is when he is broke!
This era of financial scarcity always leave many men with feeling of emptiness,
No wonder the sighting of that word "BROKE" always touches the nerve in many guys, no wonder the insults, bullying and aggressiveness they exhibit as a response to any thread that is dedicated to such a dreaded word.
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NOW Broke Guys listen, let me give you a bit of advice..
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Every woman dream of a comfortable future, a future where even if she is not been treated like a queen, atleast she will not be a slave.
Most ladies grew up and saw the financial difficuly and suffering their mothers went through in the name of marriage and thereby took a resolution not to be part of that fate.
So before you blame them for rejecting you as a broke guy, remember this.
1. Being broken is NOT a permanent situation, work hard to change the status.
2. Even if you are an unemployed graduate, you can raise a capital and move into business.
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FINANCIAL STABILITY AND SECURITY is an Important Requirement many women look at including me.
How can you expect a girl to reject a rich guy for you that live in a public yard and earn below #30,000 monthly?
The girl may really love you but she need a partner who is Financially stable,
Many ladies are not looking for a Dangote kind of guy but a Hardworking Financially Stable Guy.
and I see nothing wrong in that.
He may not have his own house, atleast let him afford a 1 or 2-bedroom flat.
He may not have a murano or quest, atleast let him afford a mercedes even if it is old model.
Women just want to be comfortable.
So Mr Broke guy,
Why not focus on improving your financial status instead?
From #30,000, aim to be getting atleast up to #70,000 and above, monthly.
From Public yard, aim at living in a comfortable apartment.
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No woman want to suffer, YES the woman may have a good job or business, but she need an equal or higher earner than her as a partner.
You get the drift?.
ALSO.
Some Broke Guys are LAZY in nature!
Women do appreciate hardworking guys, we do.
But the lazy type! Hush.
There are many unemployed graduate who love staying indoors, sleeping and always online looking for a girl to bully.
Why are such guys suprised at being broke?
They are proud and lazy to humble themselves and learn an income earning skill.
Tomorrow, these are guys who will be calling girls "GOLD DIGGERS" for rejecting their lazy azz.
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Dear broke guy, Wake up,
Work hard to improve your financial status,
Go and learn an income earning Skill,they are many out there to learn from.
My Final point is that a guy should be financial stable first before thinking of a serious relationship or marriage.
OK. Broke is not permanent to a hard working guy.
LOVE YOU ALL.
Thank you.

Prevho:
First, dating a broke guy is your own perogative but at least, date one with potentials and big dreams.
“If you want to eat frog, eat the one with eggs”.

Second, if you cannot stay, do not stay. Some broke guys are very analytical, they know when you are not for real and when chips are down, they drop you like a bag of potatoes.

Now this is coming on the back of Kondomatic comment on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/3944387/staying-him-when-he-broke
I feel it is imperative we trash this once and for all. I keep hearing ladies talking about how a guy they stood with when he was broke ditched them when he made it.

No logical and smart man will ever leave a lady who stood with him in this life, especially during his trying period.
The problem we have here though is in how you interpret the word “STAND”.

Most girls think standing with a broke guy means not asking him for money, giving him sex as he wants, cooking for me perpetually, not nagging and generally docile.

Most girls are actually STANDING without any verbal and active efort and they watch the guy do all the heavy lifiting, now when it is time to reap they say they were with you, REAAAAALLLLYYY!

The real idea here is the value of your worth in his eyes and how he rates you, there is a way you place yourself and you just become a time machine to him and he rides till he can get a better one.

You don’t pamper such guy or what other challenge is there for him to see (when in the real sense, you should be the challenge), instead you need to change your role.

So what does STANDING” with a broke guy means…

Most of the girls who claim guys leave them are mostly docile and when they act, they make it seem like they are doing you a great favor, broke guys can smell that from afar.

It simply refers to the level of influence you had in his life to achieving or actualizing his future ambition or getting better in life.
Are you the cornerstone or the pavement stone?


How much of your imprint and name will be mentioned when he tells that story?

ASK YOURSELF: If that guy was a company, what percentage will be your own share?

In this context, things like food, sex and even little financial push does not really count, there is a lot that matters more
The following are some of what you should aim to be and he also has to see you in the same light:

You have to become his -
Motivator everyday
Catalyst for success
A reason to be a success etc.

You may not help him financially, but once he can tie you in with his grass to grace story, my sister, you are going nowhere!
Some guys can be ruled out though, but it is only a negligible percentage.

Disclaimer: This is my own opinion

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MissRaine69:

I cannot fathom how you can not see how superficial you come across in that statement you wrote.
In a nutshell according to you a woman wants a man with a 3 bed house and a car that's your prerequisite for a man. With those things a woman is comfortable? This is why women get dumped when a guy's hard work starts to bear fruit.
How many women grew up in a three bedroom house or had a car that you put that as a minimum for someone else's child to provide for you?
Does his mother live in a three bed house andoes she drive she drive an old Camry? That is what I call being entitled beyond the very word.

Collyno82:
best reply so far. nnem keep it up.

Amarabae:
just look at yourself.
Better take my advice, I am real, she is on fantasy.
Winter is cold.
Uguru na atu oyi o.
Go and Hustle for money, be financially stable b4 thinking of marriage.

Amarabae:
why meeting tblachot? Why not meeting Emeka the hardworking Engineer or Femi the Telecommunication guy or Ahmed the banking guy with a good salary? Huh?

Collyno82:
is like ur a house wife cos there is no career lady that will wake up by this time just to respond to mentions DAT was not directed to her.

Amarabae:
I am on maternity leave,dear.
I have a good paying job..
So I am not a house wife and mind you, calling someone a house wife is meant to offensive in your thinking? Huh?

Collyno82:
on maternity leave I hear. I think DAT ur new born baby deserve more of ur attention than making unsubstantiated assertions on Nairaland. Give ur Baby n husband attention if u really have any pls

Amarabae:


My Final point is that a guy should be financial stable first before thinking of a serious relationship or marriage.

Mup4life:
chai!!!! See babe, beauty and brain. I for like marry you o but unfortunately am part of the Broke guys crew, will you manage me

Amarabae:
you dodged my question, what are you doing now?
Because serious guys are busy going to work or shop NOW.

Collyno82:
still on my bed.

Amarabae:
Thank you for saying the truth.

Amarabae:
Thank you for saying the truth.

Amarabae:
irresponsible comment.

jaksmillioniar:
I agrre wem am I hv notin but no dat wen I hav money I can use u as a toy anytym I like