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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by ironheart(m): 10:33pm On Jul 29, 2017
It's not a must to forgive, if you cannot handle it, let it go

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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by ABIOLAXYZ(m): 10:33pm On Jul 29, 2017
Rasheedat Forever
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:34pm On Jul 29, 2017
Afromalaika:
Try and acknowledge sources of your information. This is a direct lift/copy cunningly modified from the original teaching of Rev. Mrs. Funke Adejumo.

Nothing stops you from quoting or lifting someone else work BUT, you must always acknowledge them in the context wherein their work (s) were quoted.

Plagiarism is a punishable offence.
Be warned.
lol, i can swear with anything i wrote thise within 15 minutes as a blog reader requested for it. For your information, relationship topics ngba lorimi ni o. Check my blog i never do that, as in, i detest copy and pasting. And please don't accuse without concrete evidence, it is punishable and it has extremely positive effect on someone who work hard to achieve a thing. I don't even know that woman you mentioned let alone copying her work,God forbid.

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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:35pm On Jul 29, 2017
ironheart:
It's not a must to forgive, if you cannot handle it, let it go
i know some people cannot, but this post could cause some that cannot to be able, Saul was changed you know!
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by johnbimbo12(m): 10:36pm On Jul 29, 2017
Legit, and timely.
Its the bitter truth.
Thumbs up OP!
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by goodnewscliff(m): 10:37pm On Jul 29, 2017
it hurt me to see a guy leading in dis relationship forgiveness thing!!! its either theres trust or not will u forget if u forgive is d issue abt infidelity?? once trust is broken,, it may or may never take years to rebuild

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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by akwaforum2020: 10:46pm On Jul 29, 2017
bamisepeters:
Our intention most times determines the success of our relationship, not what anyone says.

Like we know that it is never possible for two people who are blood related to stay with each other for little period of time without offending each other.

So also, it is paramount that we know that two who are not related by blood nor gender can never be together in the name of love and expect an offense-free relationship.

Personally, i feel when your partner go wrong it makes you know more about them and how to handle them in the future.

I understand there are some offense that are hard to forgive, but love knows no offense as it even forgives before any offense is committed.

I have heard, read and witnessed some extremely bad situations whereby the partners of those involved still overlooked the sin and moved on happily.

One thing i used to tell those who care to listen to the sense making relationship nonsense that i say or write especially when they need to forgive their partner is that it can be anyone's turn, and it can be the other way round the next minute because we are humans and not spirit.

In a relationship, which other offense is greater than seeing your partner whom you have sacrificed all for moaning in confirmation of a great sexual experience under someone else?

For your information, I have seen couples who still moved on together after the above happened.

Believe me, it is never easy to forgive one's partner after such experience, in fact, many people will tell you to even run as far as possible from such partner.

Most times you take some decisions on your own when it comes to relationship because other are blind when it comes to what you see in your partner as they don't know your desires and the point of attraction.

This is not about the sacrifice or desperate measures you've taken to sustain the relationship, but the love making you to be as foolish enough to see reasons why you must forgive your partner.

This post is not just about cheating, it can be anything else apart from cheating.

The fact is that offense and forgiveness is what makes many relationship or marriage to be as strong as they are.

Remember, you are not a perfect man, neither is she a better woman, we are all striving to be the best to our partner.

And as your partner is trying all to be better for just you, you need to be ready to give room for mistakes.

I don't want to give some of the examples I have witnessed so as not to look as if I am on the side of one gender, because to me we are all the same, what is good for one goose is good for another goose.

As I am preaching forgiveness, it should make us to try harder at achieving great union free of scandal and divorce which is rampant this days.

This should make those that cheat see reasons why they must stop as it harms the partner emotionally.

Those that abuse their partner physically and mentally should also stop as the pain inflicted on your partner is more than your understanding, don't take the spirit of forgiveness which accompanied the love for granted.

In case you don't know; the day your partner stops forgiving you is when they stop loving you.

Don't abuse the spirit of forgiveness, don't do it to the point that your partner will see nothing attractive in you anymore.

Love is blind they say, you may not be the one to share the experience when the blindness receives healing.

Cc: Talk2bella, Rorachy, tosyne2much,

Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2017/07/relationship-is-for-those-who-are.html


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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by elantraceey(f): 10:46pm On Jul 29, 2017
True repentance is when you're truly sorry and don't go back to same mistake, a lot of people are never truly sorry for wrongs they do hence forgiving is more difficult.

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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by akwaforum2020: 10:47pm On Jul 29, 2017
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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:47pm On Jul 29, 2017
goodnewscliff:
it hurt me to see a guy leading in dis relationship forgiveness thing!!! its either theres trust or not will u forget if u forgive is d issue abt infidelity?? once trust is broken,, it may or may never take years to rebuild
i rebuke the spirit of unforginess in you in Jesus name... grin
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by pocohantas(f): 10:50pm On Jul 29, 2017
austinosita:
Very true!

Men can easily forgive. Atleast matured men! But ladies.....whether matured or not, can never easily forgive.

I'm saying this from experience, ask me why or reasons and I'll give you enough!

Men EASILY forgive infidelity? LOL!
This has to be the joke of the decade...
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by lonelydora: 10:51pm On Jul 29, 2017
shinarlaura:
Nice write u but then do u think u can keep on forgiving ur partner for committing one and the same mistake over and over again. undecided

My bible said you need to forgive 70×7 times.
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by canalily(m): 10:51pm On Jul 29, 2017
shinarlaura:

My night was good.
I slept like a baby.

Hope u had enough rest...
am ur hapines
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by simchi2(m): 10:56pm On Jul 29, 2017
you made sense bru, keep it up.
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:57pm On Jul 29, 2017
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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 10:58pm On Jul 29, 2017
lonelydora:


My bible said you need to forgive 70×7 times.
thank you for this jare.

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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by shinarlaura(f): 11:00pm On Jul 29, 2017
canalily:
am ur hapines

Seriously? shocked
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Toks2008(m): 11:00pm On Jul 29, 2017
I agree and I remember creating a similar thread
www.nairaland.com/3877485/only-type-partners-enjoy-best/2
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by shinarlaura(f): 11:01pm On Jul 29, 2017
lonelydora:


My bible said you need to forgive 70×7 times.

That's true but it's not easy wink

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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by richard870(m): 11:13pm On Jul 29, 2017
shinarlaura:
Nice write u but then do u think u can keep on forgiving ur partner for committing one and the same mistake over and over again. undecided
sighs *
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by omooba969(m): 11:14pm On Jul 29, 2017
Marriage can make you just as it can destroy you ! cool

Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 11:20pm On Jul 29, 2017
austinosita:
Very true!

Men can easily forgive. Atleast matured men! But ladies.....whether matured or not, can never easily forgive.

I'm saying this from experience, ask me why or reasons and I'll give you enough!
we are listening joo...
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by burakado17: 11:24pm On Jul 29, 2017
Even when you caught her or him in the act with her or his ex on your matrimonial bed
bamisepeters:
Our intention most times determines the success of our relationship, not what anyone says.

Like we know that it is never possible for two people who are blood related to stay with each other for little period of time without offending each other.

So also, it is paramount that we know that two who are not related by blood nor gender can never be together in the name of love and expect an offense-free relationship.

Personally, i feel when your partner go wrong it makes you know more about them and how to handle them in the future.

I understand there are some offense that are hard to forgive, but love knows no offense as it even forgives before any offense is committed.

I have heard, read and witnessed some extremely bad situations whereby the partners of those involved still overlooked the sin and moved on happily.

One thing i used to tell those who care to listen to the sense making relationship nonsense that i say or write especially when they need to forgive their partner is that it can be anyone's turn, and it can be the other way round the next minute because we are humans and not spirit.

In a relationship, which other offense is greater than seeing your partner whom you have sacrificed all for moaning in confirmation of a great sexual experience under someone else?

For your information, I have seen couples who still moved on together after the above happened.

Believe me, it is never easy to forgive one's partner after such experience, in fact, many people will tell you to even run as far as possible from such partner.

Most times you take some decisions on your own when it comes to relationship because other are blind when it comes to what you see in your partner as they don't know your desires and the point of attraction.

This is not about the sacrifice or desperate measures you've taken to sustain the relationship, but the love making you to be as foolish enough to see reasons why you must forgive your partner.

This post is not just about cheating, it can be anything else apart from cheating.

The fact is that offense and forgiveness is what makes many relationship or marriage to be as strong as they are.

Remember, you are not a perfect man, neither is she a better woman, we are all striving to be the best to our partner.

And as your partner is trying all to be better for just you, you need to be ready to give room for mistakes.

I don't want to give some of the examples I have witnessed so as not to look as if I am on the side of one gender, because to me we are all the same, what is good for one goose is good for another goose.

As I am preaching forgiveness, it should make us to try harder at achieving great union free of scandal and divorce which is rampant this days.

This should make those that cheat see reasons why they must stop as it harms the partner emotionally.

Those that abuse their partner physically and mentally should also stop as the pain inflicted on your partner is more than your understanding, don't take the spirit of forgiveness which accompanied the love for granted.

In case you don't know; the day your partner stops forgiving you is when they stop loving you.

Don't abuse the spirit of forgiveness, don't do it to the point that your partner will see nothing attractive in you anymore.

Love is blind they say, you may not be the one to share the experience when the blindness receives healing.

Cc: Talk2bella, Rorachy, tosyne2much,

Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2017/07/relationship-is-for-those-who-are.html
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by HarveySpecter1: 11:27pm On Jul 29, 2017
Talk2Bella:



he many times do u forgive a cheat?

Is it your Dick he used to cheat?
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jul 29, 2017
True sha.
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by smith666999(m): 11:28pm On Jul 29, 2017
I keep forgiving my gf but she doesn't forgive thoroughly. I had to break up with her.
now she is my Ex!

some girls aint worth it at alll.
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jul 29, 2017
HarveySpecter1:

Is it your Dick he used to cheat?
Hahaha, omg, this got me .

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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jul 29, 2017
bamisepeters:
Our intention most times determines the success of our relationship, not what anyone says.

Like we know that it is never possible for two people who are blood related to stay with each other for little period of time without offending each other.

So also, it is paramount that we know that two who are not related by blood nor gender can never be together in the name of love and expect an offense-free relationship.

Personally, i feel when your partner go wrong it makes you know more about them and how to handle them in the future.

I understand there are some offense that are hard to forgive, but love knows no offense as it even forgives before any offense is committed.

I have heard, read and witnessed some extremely bad situations whereby the partners of those involved still overlooked the sin and moved on happily.

One thing i used to tell those who care to listen to the sense making relationship nonsense that i say or write especially when they need to forgive their partner is that it can be anyone's turn, and it can be the other way round the next minute because we are humans and not spirit.

In a relationship, which other offense is greater than seeing your partner whom you have sacrificed all for moaning in confirmation of a great sexual experience under someone else?

For your information, I have seen couples who still moved on together after the above happened.

Believe me, it is never easy to forgive one's partner after such experience, in fact, many people will tell you to even run as far as possible from such partner.

Most times you take some decisions on your own when it comes to relationship because other are blind when it comes to what you see in your partner as they don't know your desires and the point of attraction.

This is not about the sacrifice or desperate measures you've taken to sustain the relationship, but the love making you to be as foolish enough to see reasons why you must forgive your partner.

This post is not just about cheating, it can be anything else apart from cheating.

The fact is that offense and forgiveness is what makes many relationship or marriage to be as strong as they are.

Remember, you are not a perfect man, neither is she a better woman, we are all striving to be the best to our partner.

And as your partner is trying all to be better for just you, you need to be ready to give room for mistakes.

I don't want to give some of the examples I have witnessed so as not to look as if I am on the side of one gender, because to me we are all the same, what is good for one goose is good for another goose.

As I am preaching forgiveness, it should make us to try harder at achieving great union free of scandal and divorce which is rampant this days.

This should make those that cheat see reasons why they must stop as it harms the partner emotionally.

Those that abuse their partner physically and mentally should also stop as the pain inflicted on your partner is more than your understanding, don't take the spirit of forgiveness which accompanied the love for granted.

In case you don't know; the day your partner stops forgiving you is when they stop loving you.

Don't abuse the spirit of forgiveness, don't do it to the point that your partner will see nothing attractive in you anymore.

Love is blind they say, you may not be the one to share the experience when the blindness receives healing.

Cc: Talk2bella, Rorachy, tosyne2much,

Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2017/07/relationship-is-for-those-who-are.html


I doubt if you are married yet... The greatest sin in marriage is infidelity.. If your partner does not respect the institution called marriage.... If she is such a serial infidel that runs after anything in trouser and a car, tell me how many times you'd forgive and overlook? And please don't give me any biblical 70x7.

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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jul 29, 2017
austinosita:
Very true!

Men can easily forgive. Atleast matured men! But ladies.....whether matured or not, can never easily forgive.

I'm saying this from experience, ask me why or reasons and I'll give you enough!
I refute your claims, its actually ladies that easily forgive cos they have soft mind.

The thing about forgiveness is just that if you love someone, to forgive the person won't be that difficult cool.
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jul 29, 2017
bamisepeters:
Like we know that it is never possible for two people who are blood related to stay with each other for little period of time without offending each other.
So also, it is paramount that we know that two who are not related by blood nor gender can never be together in the name of love and expect an offense-free relationship.


The fact is that offense and forgiveness is what makes many relationship or marriage to be as strong as they are.

And as your partner is trying all to be better for just you, you need to be ready to give room for mistakes. In case you don't know; the day your partner stops forgiving you is when they stop loving you. Don't abuse the spirit of forgiveness, don't do it to the point that your partner will see nothing attractive in you anymore.

OP, nice write up but this theory is wrong and somewhat pretentious...

the reason siblings stay together and bicker and make-up is cos the love of siblings is different from what partners share, there are things that i would forgive a sibling for no matter how hard it is for me but every relationship has boundaries and if my own sibling crosses an unforgivable line, the relationship is over and we'll become estranged. if my sibling stabs my mother to death multiple times or rapes my child who went for holiday in his house, i will never EVER forgive that and we will never be the same again, even sibling bonds can be broken by wrong-doings of unbearable gravity. same with partners. there is no such thing as "love knows no offense" if that was true the phrase "love is forgiving" will not exist since there's no offense in the first place and the phrase "love is forgiving" does not count if a devastating harm has been done, the fact that u love someone does NOT mean they are good for u, simple.

what makes a relationship stronger is memories of good times, mutual satisfaction and hard times(experienced together) emphasis on the words in bracket!! when 2 ppl go through something and feel it just as equally, if they get through it together, it can bond them but if one person is hurting and the other, not so much, it does not bring them together at all, even worse if one person caused the pain of the other. if 2 friends are broke and starving, when they finally get food to eat, they'll both laugh at how hunger dealt with them, it's not the same as one friend is starving and the other is there eating indomie and saying since he's in the same room with the starving friend, it'll make them closer. false! if an experience is not equally shared by both ppl, only the hurting person is affected and it strengthens nothing, only breeds resentment.

also false, the fact that a person cant forgive an act from a partner does not mean they stop loving them, they just decide to not be with them anymore for the sake of their own happiness and move on and over time, u stop loving them. everyone has their own breaking point and it's better for u to walk away than to stay in a toxic relationship. some ppl have gotten into use of narcotics with their partners, they go to rehab, get clean and go back to this same person and relapse into the same toxic cycle, their partner is their enabler and they have to quit him/her in order to kick this addiction, they either walk away or stay till they die of an overdose. some ppl have partners that can never close their legs or control their dicks, they keep forgiving and crying their eyes out in private and finally get their wake-up call when they're given the gift of HIV, some ppl have gone back to partners who get angry and lash out of them and eventually left in a casket.

love is never enough to sustain a relationship, it takes work from BOTH SIDES and if one side is malfunctioning to a point the other side begins to break down, a dissolution becomes absolutely necessary, a relationship is not everything, yes, it's nice to find a good person to be with but it's better to be happy alone than utterly miserable with someone you love.

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Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by bamisepeters(m): 11:36pm On Jul 29, 2017
azeezhy:



I doubt if you are married yet... The greatest sin in marriage is infidelity.. If your partner does not respect the institution called marriage.... If she is such a serial infidel that runs after anything in trouser and a car, tell me how many times you'd forgive and overlook? And please don't give me any biblical 70x7.
the bolded got me grin. I mentioned something that many didn't read, the last two paragraphs.

You don't have a choice after you have tried to be spirit more than at least 2 times. When your forgiven spirit it taken for granted several times many people will know you have even over tried. But there are some people who can forgive over and over again sha o, but before you can forget about forgiveness you should try to put others in your shoes, it fit be you ooo.
Re: Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other by Buking1: 11:38pm On Jul 29, 2017
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