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marry early so U can see your grandkids

do you want to be 60 and your first child is in ss3

no tym is late for men

nope! buh for a lady, i guess so.. menopause issues

Yes its late, your mate's children by then should be 5 years old or even 6.

No competition

Do people still get married ?

yes NEXT!

LePrezident:
And since when was marriage and/or childbirth a competition or achievement?

It's not...but I can bet that you would feel more fulfilled having 2 graduates by the age of 50 than having kids in senior secondary at the same age. Think about it...and you will want to settle down on time.

I know the next thing you will say but let me wait for you to say it....

It's not late....Forget what those kids on this forum telling u it's late.What about women this days that marry between 29-34yrs!!! What would u call that

My advice:Anybody who looks up to his children for help in the future I call that person a failure...Cos for me I have already built houses(both for myself and for tenants) including lots of investment in Treasury bills and bonds etc,which gives me a secure future..So my friend secure your future!! And don't look up to ur children during old age(just give them the very best education!!

Go and ask Dbanj or Don jazzy......

If u already know what he will say, please reply him..:p the tread is getting interesting

Yes its late, your mate's children by then should be 5 years old or even 6.

That's a very poor reason to get married.

Go and ask Dbanj or Don jazzy or Banky W...

Yes its late, your mate's children by then should be 5 years old or even 6.

Which primary? If he marries at 35, the wife gives birth the following , at 50 years the child is 14 years old almost finishing secondary school. Please next time do not compare children.

No not really

I will get married before I am 30 hopefully, but 35 is not too late, every man has his own morning

JONNYSPUTE:
Marriage is never a competition Nd besides who told u that if u marry early let's say 25 or 30 that its a guarantee that u will ve babies so early? I know of a guy that got married earlier than his elder brother because he said he wants his kids to be all grown by the time he gets to 50, he is about 48 now no issue. The elder bros that married 4yrs after,is now 52 with grown boys Nd girls. Also even if u starts having issue immediately,is it a guarantee that they will grow to become successful people in life? Just pray to ur God to always lead u in everything u do,so pls don't try to compete with anybody in life especially in marriage.Also marrying at 35 should not be ur worry,u should ask urself if u re ready,mentally,emotionally spiritual Nd even financially.

thank you

TrumporIdie:
it's not too late but it's better to Marry earlier, except you want your kids to still be in primary school when you are 50.

And What if you don't meet the right person until much later in life?

60 is not even old

Its not late. But if you are financially stable, better

exlinkleads:
60 is not even old

Chai

Op,must You live your life exactly how others live theirs? Nigerians and their obsession with marriage and children.Pls do what feels right for You.

Stellie:
swithrt its nt, infct its far from late

I see u

I hope is not what I'm thinking

Bt me no pray for baby mama

All the best

it good to marry early to have long life unless you want to use your pension to nurse your children

Samirana360:
no tym is late for men

even at 80 years.

Jman06:
No. It is not

One needs to secure one's future before marriage.

Keep securing your future. That billions may never come and if gets to a time you start regretting wishing you had started earlier.

jchioma:
Yes or no. Yes, because of early bird advantage. You get to start building your family and raise your children on time, because no time.

No because, in Nigeria, the economy and other factors have made it almost impossible for young men to think of marriage. So, some guys even get into their fourties and fifties waiting for the perfect time and chance.

What if you don't meet the right person until later in life?

Are you in competition with someone?

Mbkite:
I sincerely need to know our views about getting married at the age of 35 for men. Is it late to marry at 35?

Kokaine:
some 10

some 14 and almajiri roaming the street.

JONNYSPUTE:
Marriage is never a competition Nd besides who told u that if u marry early let's say 25 or 30 that its a guarantee that u will ve babies so early? I know of a guy that got married earlier than his elder brother because he said he wants his kids to be all grown by the time he gets to 50, he is about 48 now no issue. The elder bros that married 4yrs after,is now 52 with grown boys Nd girls. Also even if u starts having issue immediately,is it a guarantee that they will grow to become successful people in life? Just pray to ur God to always lead u in everything u do,so pls don't try to compete with anybody in life especially in marriage.Also marrying at 35 should not be ur worry,u should ask urself if u re ready,mentally,emotionally spiritual Nd even financially.

U just said my mind,so so on point.
I have so many experiences to share there, but no need again.
Early marriage is not a guarantee for anytin ,na Gods grace b everything.

Evaberry:
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marry early so U can see your grandkids

do you want to be 60 and your first child is in ss3

What if he doesn't meet the right person until later in life? Should he just settle down just because he wants to start having kids early?

It is not late.

I have a friend who is 39+ and he's not married.

Me sef neva marry and I don pass 35

At times, things don't fall according to earlier plans!

Don't rush it bro.....you should be very ready in all aspect, most especially....finance!

higgs:
Op,must You live your life exactly how others live theirs? Nigerians and their obsession with marriage and children.Pls do what feels right for You.

Abi o. The way Nigerians reason dey confound person.at times.