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Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:30pm On Aug 15, 2017
Nomfanelo99:


Those very same morning after pills are not good for women .

says who?!
as much as it forces a woman's body to menstruate, it certainly does NOT damage the womb (to the point that women cant have children again)
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by united4men: 5:31pm On Aug 15, 2017
if she's from the eastern Nigeria, I will score a goal first so the negotiation can become easier grin
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Nobody: 5:32pm On Aug 15, 2017
LordKO:


That's ironical. His action showed that he was hypocritically disingenuous with whatever love he professed to her from the inception of their relationship. As I said earlier herein, mind games is only for small-minded people.





Exactly! angry
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by InvertedHammer: 5:33pm On Aug 15, 2017
Necessity is the mother of invention.

Out of so-called love, someone will inherit another person's avoidable problems by marrying without confirming the status of her womb or fertility of his sperm, marrying without lab blood tests. After about 3 years of marriage when the scales fall off their eyes, they end up in misery and regrets. Talk to all the divorcees, they all had happy weddings and hoped to live happily ever after...then reality happened.

No pregnancy, no marriage.
No HIV and hepatitis tests, no marriage.

I wouldn't want a wife that will be married to pastors and babalawos behind my back upon say she dey find pikin.
This is 21st century and we must move with time and adapt.

Final final na baby mama way.
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Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Lydia80: 5:34pm On Aug 15, 2017
Mynd44:
I will be marrying because I love and want to spend the rest of my life with the woman.

Children are an addition; no compulsory. If children come, fine, if not, I am totally okay so saying someone should get pregnant before marriage is just crap.
I love this
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by olanewton(m): 5:35pm On Aug 15, 2017
IffaCatchYouEhn:
Before A club signs a player, Will they call him to play with their players first and score goals before they buy him grin grin grin


The player must do medical. I guess this is similar to what OP said. lolzz
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Nomfanelo99(f): 5:42pm On Aug 15, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


says who?!
as much as it forces a woman's body to menstruate, it certainly does NOT damage the womb (to the point that women cant have children again)

some morning pills cannot be taken more than 3 times unless you talking about birth control pill
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:44pm On Aug 15, 2017
Nomfanelo99:


some morning pills cannot be taken more than 3 times unless you talking about birth control pill

only a very foolish woman would take morning after pill every times she has sex. any smart person would use it because the condom broke AND subsequently find appropriate birth control measures.

even aspirin is bad for you if you take it everyday, let alone morning after pills
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by kuchikau1: 5:44pm On Aug 15, 2017
Skillfullulu:
Shey no be human being him be?
na u sabi.
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Martin0(m): 5:49pm On Aug 15, 2017
Nomfanelo99:

Those very same morning after pills are not good for women .
Aaaaaaaaa you knew all theseshocked
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Nomfanelo99(f): 5:56pm On Aug 15, 2017
Martin0:

Aaaaaaaaa you knew all theseshocked
I'm a woman remember
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Martin0(m): 5:57pm On Aug 15, 2017
Nomfanelo99:

I'm a woman remember
grin Some women don't know oooo grin Hmmmm I gbadu u sha
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Nomfanelo99(f): 6:08pm On Aug 15, 2017
Martin0:
grin Some women don't know oooo grin Hmmmm I gbadu u sha
lol wonder what "I gbadu u sha" means
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by aalangel(f): 6:12pm On Aug 15, 2017
Mynd44:
I will be marrying because I love and want to spend the rest of my life with the woman.

Children are an addition; no compulsory. If children come, fine, if not, I am totally okay so saying someone should get pregnant before marriage is just crap.

This one too wants to marry...hope you'll not be banning your wife anyhow...
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Rozaytee: 6:19pm On Aug 15, 2017
Mynd44:
I will be marrying because I love and want to spend the rest of my life with the woman.

Children are an addition; no compulsory. If children come, fine, if not, I am totally okay so saying someone should get pregnant before marriage is just crap.
i luv u already....lol
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by zinny377(f): 6:21pm On Aug 15, 2017
Some Africans have a really weird mentality when it comes to marriage...

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Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Rozaytee: 6:22pm On Aug 15, 2017
Skillfullulu:
Oga this na lie...
I'm sure you must have given birth else you or your family members will show ur woman hell
its in nigeria such crap happens...as if kids are d ultimate in marriage..mtcheeew
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Rozaytee: 6:25pm On Aug 15, 2017
Ngokafor:
The average Nigerian male are so ignorant about fertility issues,they keep heaping the blames of childnessness on women

..Meanwhile 50% of them are infertile due to STD's not treated properly,impotency and dangerous life-styles like alcohol and drug abuse.

no mind dem..some naija men eh...
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Rozaytee: 6:28pm On Aug 15, 2017
Hades2016:
Make sense .... Some girls of our time don wash everything comot.....
lol...and na who dey help dem..no be una?
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Rozaytee: 6:39pm On Aug 15, 2017
alexialin:





Such scenario happened to a colleague. Her fiance got her pregnant, until belle reach 6months, before he paid her bride price, with church wedding. On the 7th month, she had a miscarriage. She had to be operated on through CS. The baby didnt survive, her fiance now husband is so bitter.
He stopped checking up on her in the hospital until she was discharged. He called his sister to go keep his wife company and he needs to travel for buisness.

They all know he is so unhappy with all the Monies he spent making the wedding come through.

Just too bad.

Is that love?
d man just wanted babies...he is a shallow minded cow

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Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Victornezzar: 6:40pm On Aug 15, 2017
Mynd44:


Tell this to a non Christian.

What is your point again?
Egbon seun don sack u??
Dis 1 wey u dey vex 4 people like dis
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by mzhorlah(f): 6:43pm On Aug 15, 2017
nonsense.

what if after paying the bride price she suffers a miscarriage. so it practically means end to relationship

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Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Nobody: 6:45pm On Aug 15, 2017
Victornezzar:
Egbon seun don sack u?? Dis 1 wey u dey vex 4 people like dis
You ehhh
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by 360command: 6:48pm On Aug 15, 2017
Mynd44:
I will be marrying because I love and want to spend the rest of my life with the woman.

Children are an addition; no compulsory. If children come, fine, if not, I am totally okay so saying someone should get pregnant before marriage is just crap.
saying someone is in love in this slay era is absolute mediocre
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by permit(m): 6:55pm On Aug 15, 2017
[quote author=Ask4bigneyo post=59501611]ONLY FOR VIRTUOUS WIVES!
As a Wife, Your BEAUTY attracts your husband, but your WISDOM will continue to keep him!
Your ELEGANCE catches his ATTENTION, but your INTELLIGENCE convinces him!
NAGGING irritates your husband, but your "CONSTRUCTIVE SILENCE" weakens him!
Remember that the "BOYISH" character in your husband comes out occasionally, But your ABILITY to always handle it, is a sign that you are a MATURED WIFE!
Every man has "Secret Struggles and Pains, including your husband, if you should ever find them out from him, Please exhibit the greatest maturity by asking the Originator of your marriage, (GOD) to help you with USEFUL IDEAS, that you will suggest to him (YOUR HUSBAND)!
In the long-run, your WORDS matters to your husband than your "LOOKS"! So always invest the RIGHT WORDS! Earn your husband's respect and he will consider you as the yard-stick for all his actions! Learn to mould your husband's moods, and he will naturally give you his "FUTURE" as he recalls your maturity in the past issues!
Note that, WOMEN are everywhere, but REAL WIVES are scarce, let the QUEEN in you come alive, and your husband will always hold you in a very HIGH ESTEEM!
Please don't forget to make GOD your MARRIAGE FOUNDATION, in order to destroy Every FOUNDATIONAL CURSES, so that we will together make the "BEST MARRIAGES" In our society at large. There may be Storms & Challenges but with GOD, your Marriage will come out Victorious. High five man.....
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Mccullum: 7:02pm On Aug 15, 2017
This issue is individualistic because some intending to marry because of love and fear of God while some deciding to marry because of having children and such person can't take the risk of marriage without achieving his paramount interest as such person is not a devoted Christian or Muslim due to both religion against the idea of being pregnant before marriage.
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Mynd44: 7:08pm On Aug 15, 2017
360command:
saying someone is in love in this slay era is absolute mediocre
I am not part of the slay era
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by LadyJasper: 7:10pm On Aug 15, 2017
ibkayee:
Did he mention what he would do if he's the sterile one?

Babe wey sharp! Correct!

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Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Skillfullulu(m): 7:31pm On Aug 15, 2017
Rozaytee:
its in nigeria such crap happens...as if kids are d ultimate in marriage..mtcheeew
kids are ultimate in marriage o
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by urvillagepeoplee(m): 7:42pm On Aug 15, 2017
IffaCatchYouEhn:
Before A club signs a player, Will they call him to play with their players first and score goals before they buy him grin grin grin
they know he can deliver that's why signed him.
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Victornezzar: 7:52pm On Aug 15, 2017
humeeh:
You ehhh
lol
babe watsup
it's been a while tho
Re: Waiting For Your Fiancée To Get Pregnant Before Going To Pay Her Bride Price by Martin0(m): 7:59pm On Aug 15, 2017
Nomfanelo99:


lol wonder what "I gbadu u sha" means

Ok I forgot you an SA don't worry it our own slangs of appreciation according to lefulefugrin

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