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Saliman22:
Good morning my wonderful family, I had an issue with my girl 2015 which I open a thread here in romance section, we settled early this year,.

Lemme go straight to the point, I work with micro finance bank which I don't normally have time, my girl is on her IT at ministry of health in my state, what happened yesterday shocked me, my church is having a youth conference currently going on now in Anambra state, for the past two weeks now I'm in the village, she don't normally go to her IT place telling me that there are on malaria program which she don't considered it useful according to her.

What happen yesterday I'm still in shocked right now that is like I'm dreaming which I'm not.
It was past 11pm at night that my girl woke up and shout dear dear and I asked her what happen, then she narrated how she had a dream and I was killed in the dream, I was like what is going on because someone warned me about this month that I should be careful, so I went outside immediately with my Bible and olive oil for prayers. I was in the middle of the compound praying and I asked her to wait for me and she said she cannot wait, that she feared standing alone at night, my compound has a very big gate o, now she went inside my last born room and I was still praying.

Some spirit entered me and I stopped half way and to my surprise ever when I stop she couldn't come out and I waited small and it wasn't up to 2mins she came outside and asked me to wait for her and I didn't wait, she followed me, when I came to the house, I didn't talk to her for some minute and she asked me what the problem is and I explained to her that she should stop that thing that is going on with my last born. She said she's surprised that I could think about this kind of a thing and she's not stupid to have make love with my brother, I told her immediately that I want to make love to her and she said until we finished our discussion and I objected and go straight there and put my hand, behold she was extra wet, so at this point I went inside my last born room and called him to come and the boy followed me.

I now asked him to knell down and he did, at this point I brought out a cable and asked him to tell me why she make love to my woman, at this point my girl knell down and started crying, both of them confess that I did it twice. I now asked my girl the reason she did this even when she knew I was praying, she didn't give me a concrete answer.

So this things has been going on under my roof and I have spent my hard earned money for my brother and her.

Pls I need your advice. Pls what can I do, this morning I have called her aunty to inform her, and she said I should meet her on Saturday.

Pls help me brother and sisters.
I need help Pls.

Guilderland1:
Don't you read and comprehend? You people will just rush to comment section like J5 WAGGON. THEY SAID 16 YEARS

NCANpatroller:
I want to be soft. I cant
You calculating your expenses on a girl that cheated on you with your kid bro?

In my court; the girl is sentence to death by hanging literally. I ll cut my losses immediately!


There is nothing to think about.

A cheating woman is like a trojan horse
That ll eventually hurt your progress spritually and financially.

Kick her out now! If you dont

On behalf of your parent. I ll place à curse on you.

Reuben was cursed cos he slept with his father's wife!

Futureberry:
[s]being naive is not the issue, lawyers work with evidence, and the evidence on ground shows that the lady cajole the under age boy to have sex with her...where is your brain,if it was a girl now,you would have ask for the boy head on a spike...and you yourself is a man,supporting older women that are sexually abusing an under age minor....I spit on your corpse..oo ni kure ...your soul be damed[/s]

generationz:
I am a lawyer in equity, so I know the provisions of the child's rights act as to who a child is.

However this has nothing to do with criminal justice system. This is a family issue
Are you aware that in developed countries such as the USA 16 years old are already working and own drivers licenses.
A 16 year old can impregnate a woman true or false
Except the boy is mentally retarded or was under a spell his action is nothing short of betrayal to his older brother and benefactor
It's also a sign of gross disrespect.


In a country when 10,12 and 13 year old boys are already frolicking with their house helps and nannies, and 15 year old have girlfriends who have committed abortions, you are here telling me about being cajoled without his will

Even a sharp 5 year old , has been taught how to say no when they are told to do the wrong thing "no my mummy will beat me".

No, the boy knew what he was doing he should go back to his father and mother before he poisons his brother or his brother poisons him out of hatred, because you have no idea what can happen when love turns to hate it is ten times stronger.

The boy has seen his brothers unclothedness he would never respect him till drastic action is taken

If you don't know I'll refer you to the Bible
When cannan saw his grandfather Noah's unclothedness, Noah cursed him
When Reubens slept with his father's wife, he cursed him

beautydutch:
his English tire me o. unnecessary blunder everywhere

beautydutch:
sorry but instead of brooding over the sad event, why not use that time to work on your English., it is messy

generationz:
I understand how you feel

There's no doubt that with what has happened you might just have to let her go not because you do not have a forgiving spirit, but because of the future consequences of her staying with you. It could be very dangerous to your life who knows what the both of them could begin to conceive in their hearts, what if they continue and he impregnates her and passes the child as yours etc

However I would like you to apply wisdom too
Maybe you would call her and ask if the problem was if you couldn't satisfy her sexually. If that's the problem and it lies with you then I'll advise you to find a solution not because of her but because of your next relationship, because if the problem is with you history might repeat itself and this time it not with your brother bit with outsiders

I'm not condoning cheating from either a man or woman, but gone are the days a woman dies in silence at her man's in capabilities in bed these days many ladies are helping themselves out, cheating us even as common among ladies as it is among men the ladies are just more coded about it.



My frnd is digging 1 presenting I just wonder,as a man shouldn't u b observant enuf 2 know if ur wife's attitude as changed towards u in bed

Arondizuogu:
Then you should know that legally in most countries like Nigeria a 16 year old is a kid. So blame the girlfriend and stop sounding like you are trying to defend her. The OP even said the girl who is an adult compelled him, legally she should be facing cases of child abuse.
Leave aside other ill mannered things little kids do now a days. Thanks.

joeeee240:
YOU AND YOUR MOTHER ARE BRAINLESS WITCHES. THE BOY KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING. NOBODY TOOK ADVANTAGE OF HIM. AT 16. IM SURE WERE A HOPELESS AND UNINTELLIGENT FÛCKTARD MAY YOU AND YOUR GENERATIONS UNHATCHED SEE NO PROGRESS

Amberon11:
Ok, it would have been better if the younger bro slept with her when they were married right? You men are just hypocrites. Newsflash, if the younger brother can sleep with the op's gf, he can sleep with the op's daughter. The girl didn't sleep with herself so the brother is equally to be blamed.

Briee:
I will call you too. I want to know if you're okay

Josephamstrong1:
This is just the second time you're hammering on his tenses.
Please why so much emphasis on his grammar?
Some of you girls are so annoying.
Please note that your grammatical constructions are so flawed.
What happens to rules/use of uppercase letter and your common punctuation marks?
Be careful!

Futureberry:
your auntie probably raped you before...like I said..o ni kure ...you won't die well...idiota

WenysAD:
Father's concubine to be correct
Back to d topic, d op's case is worse cos his useless wife to be seduced his kid brother and he is asking for advice on wat to do
I'll simply advice him to take rat poison now and save people d heartpain wen he's eventually given the poison if he finally marries dis LovePeddler for a wife cos she will kill him in future. Dats d truth with marrying a Lady DAT sleeps around worse of ur family member

Charley boy come and see dis op ooo. A rally should be done for him cos him mumu never do

Saliman22:
Thanks I will let her go but should I tell me parents the details of this, because our marriage is slatted next year

Saliman22:
Dear I'm not lying
If I do God should end my future
I can give out my facebook name
Pls what should I do now
I have spent so much

braxjay:
I'M NOT UNDERSTANDING. . . . . .

you still need someone to tell you what to do

my brother knee down where you are

place your hands on you head (Both hands o. your case is serious)

and say this out loud

" My father My father, wherever they have taken my head to, COME BACK ! COME BACK ! ! COME BACK ! ! ! "

Lalas247:
I no kuku u derstand but I will pretend like I do
I'm not good jare I'm not

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

Futureberry:
when it comes to a 16 years old boy sleeping with a girl,it becomes rape,but when a 21 years old girl forcefully sleep with a 16 years old boy,you still blame the boy...lawyers work with evidence and facts on ground, but you still pass false judgment on the abused boy...o ni kure...you are a fake lawyer... Learn to treat everyone with equity, shame on you..may your future toddlers be raped by their aunties and their senior female cousins... Then you can open this your Ebola infested mouth to blame your abused sons

beautydutch:
please take several seats

Divay22:
Shut your mouth...
When he opened the thread, the age wasn't stated
Why will i ask him of age if i saw it..
Don't just jump into conclusion.

Saliman22:
Good morning my wonderful family, I had an issue with my girl 2015 which I open a thread here in romance section, we settled early this year,.

Lemme go straight to the point, I work with micro finance bank which I don't normally have time, my girl is on her IT at ministry of health in my state, what happened yesterday shocked me, my church is having a youth conference currently going on now in Anambra state, for the past two weeks now I'm in the village, she don't normally go to her IT place telling me that there are on malaria program which she don't considered it useful according to her.

What happen yesterday I'm still in shocked right now that is like I'm dreaming which I'm not.
It was past 11pm at night that my girl woke up and shout dear dear and I asked her what happen, then she narrated how she had a dream and I was killed in the dream, I was like what is going on because someone warned me about this month that I should be careful, so I went outside immediately with my Bible and olive oil for prayers. I was in the middle of the compound praying and I asked her to wait for me and she said she cannot wait, that she feared standing alone at night, my compound has a very big gate o, now she went inside my last born room and I was still praying.

Some spirit entered me and I stopped half way and to my surprise ever when I stop she couldn't come out and I waited small and it wasn't up to 2mins she came outside and asked me to wait for her and I didn't wait, she followed me, when I came to the house, I didn't talk to her for some minute and she asked me what the problem is and I explained to her that she should stop that thing that is going on with my last born. She said she's surprised that I could think about this kind of a thing and she's not stupid to have make love with my brother, I told her immediately that I want to make love to her and she said until we finished our discussion and I objected and go straight there and put my hand, behold she was extra wet, so at this point I went inside my last born room and called him to come and the boy followed me.

I now asked him to knell down and he did, at this point I brought out a cable and asked him to tell me why she make love to my woman, at this point my girl knell down and started crying, both of them confess that I did it twice. I now asked my girl the reason she did this even when she knew I was praying, she didn't give me a concrete answer.

So this things has been going on under my roof and I have spent my hard earned money for my brother and her.

Pls I need your advice. Pls what can I do, this morning I have called her aunty to inform her, and she said I should meet her on Saturday.

Pls help me brother and sisters.
I need help Pls.

NCANpatroller:
Explain différence btw concubine and wife to an African man.
It's the same to me
You sleep with both without repercussions

IamKashyBaby:
Ooohh...i see..U mean his younger brother?

OP, u have 2 options here...

1. Kick that girl out of ur house & forget her mad azz ...
2. Forgive her and give her a chance...

But, the only thing is that she got itchy NUNU..maybe u cant satisfy her sexually.. This cud be another reason why she had sex with ur younger brother..If u wanna save ur marriage, both of u need a marriage counseling sha...

Guilderland1:
Oya come beat me here, beside what concerns this issue and the his age? No his is 16? What is your contribution to the issue?

I don't blame you it is the nigga that is washing his dirty clothes outside,

You people will be forming online e-councilor