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Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by basseyurom(m): 11:46am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Quit, maybe it's not your area of specialisatipn |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Foeniz(m): 11:50am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Its the consequences of premarital sex. Give your life to Christ totally. Abstain until u are legal married. Sex is for the married. Pursue God vigorous With your strength. God bless you 1 Like |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by MrDoGood(m): 12:16pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:You hate yourself and not them!!!! Try loving yourself after sex then and you gonna thank me latter. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by edunwanna: 12:20pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
see the name naaa:: RETIREDMUMU ? why won't he hate?? leave puna alone and focus on ur life and future. There is more to life than just sleeping around with girls and having fun. compare urself with ur equals and u will understand what an talking about. just passing.... |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Dailyfavour(m): 12:21pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
It means you befriends those girls because 1). Physical appearance (beauty) 2). Body position (Back side or so) However, you need to gradually build what we call LOVE. It's not a day perfected arrangement. Do you know you can marry the person that never occurred to you through love building? 1 Like |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Nobody: 12:34pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
HMZi: It hurts us women.. Trust me..Speaking from experinece..Like you guys have your fill and just want to be alone...Gosh!! |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by HMZi: 12:55pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Effiezynews: damn....never saw it that way.... |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Unionised(m): 1:15pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU: A little psychoanalysis for you. You don't hate the women, YOU ACTUALLY HATE YOURSELF BECAUSE OF GUILT. I suspect an ultra-religious background where FORNICATION is CONDEMNED in no small measure. I am very sure you need a no sex relationship that would lead to marriage. That's one. Two. You need psychiatric help. One or two sessions with a proper psychologist should point you in the right direction. Hope this is helpful. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by gocare: 1:21pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
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Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Kay25(m): 1:34pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Brother you have the spirit of lust in you .it will be better if u repent and give ur life to christ.then u can have the real love in your heart and be establishe.then u. Need deliverance from powers that does not want u to have a stable marriage . |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by tobbiest(m): 1:36pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
To come out of this problem,firstly,you must have an encounter with Jesus,that is,you must be born again..secondly,stop porns to avoid lustful desires |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Nobody: 1:41pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
tobbiest:bro, u mean born again solve this issue, this is different bro from emotional affairs but by tge the way lot of thankful |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by jfleece(m): 2:26pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
HMZi:guy I dey craze ooooo |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by jfleece(m): 2:26pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
HMZi:guy u dey craze ooooo |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by afriloaded(m): 2:35pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
I think its normal for some people.https://tbloaded.com/2017/09/03/wizkids-come-closer-certified-gold-international-market/ |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by jfleece(m): 2:36pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
AreaFada2:as ur crk teacher, wat is the moral lesson of this short fiction? Narrate the gospel of Mark in connection with this story. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by gemale(m): 2:37pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:I can't help you Op but God can. Submit to Him, repent genuinely & receive Jesus Christ into your life today. He would help you to flee from immorality & youthful lusts. IMO, what you have is the "amnon complex". Amnon, David's son lusted so much for his half sister Tamar & when he finally had his way with her, the bible said that he hated her so much that it was equal to the manner he once thought he loved her. If you search your mind well & are blunt & honest with yourself, you would realize that you never really loved any of those women you were sleeping with. They were just tools for you to satiate the lustful yearnings of your flesh. Hence, when that desire was met, they had no use for you again. Hence, you got rid of them like you would to a sachet of 'pure water' after downing its content. You really need Jesus Christ, who would teach you how to crucify the flesh with all its lusts & desires. He would overhaul your mindset & make you see things in a different light. Our bodies are supposed to be God's temple, a holy, living sacrifice to Him. Don't defile the temple of God because you were redeemed by a hefty price (the blood of Jesus Christ). Read 1 corinthians chapter 13, which talk about the qualities true love must possess. If you can't do this to any woman, don't even befriend her not to talk of being in a relationship with her. Instead of pursuing sex in a relationship, focus on weighty issues like the fear of God, trust, mutual respect, honour, concern, selflessness, responsibilty, purpose etc. Those are the things that would ultimately build a happy marriage for you. A woman is more than what is in between her legs, she is more than shapes, curves, looks & other physical attributes. She carries an image of God within that you should help her to fully express. Your aim should be to promote God's agenda in her life not engage in acts that jeopardize both your souls. Surrender unto Jesus, be a chronic prayer & bible studying & meditating practitioner & ask the Holy Spirit to guide you. Start with 2 corinthians 3: 3-5 focusing on the last sentence of verse 5. God bless you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Nobody: 2:42pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
gemale: thanks so much |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by kyaagbanairaland(m): 3:02pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
TrapHedges:I disagree with you. It only happens to boys who are not prepared to be in a relationship not matured minds. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by HMZi: 3:08pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
jfleece:SINCE 1923 |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by AreaFada2: 3:12pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
jfleece: Some people are so inexperienced that most things remain a fiction to them. I had a theology professor, one of the UK's best known eschatologists of the last 50 years. He died 14 years ago. So CRK was way before that. Your NCE in CRK is at least decades late. Many have travelled, read and studied across disciplines that you will find it hard to imagine. I can understand. But many things others have done might remain a fiction for you if you do not learn from those who have already been there. Doubts have got nobody nowhere. You can learn a lot from many people here. Like Jarus, Spyder and many others. Be ambitious and work hard. Your horizon will widen. And many things can become reality for you. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by SuperSuave(m): 3:13pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Hollysaint:I thinks say na only me this thing dey do sha 1 Like |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Godschild89: 3:30pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
[quote author=Tonythriller post=60065493]Whr do u want us to start in helping you? Obviously you don't know what yo want in a girl. Must it just be the sex? Looks more like it. Am sure if you can find something else in a girl,let's say companionship, confidant, crime partner or even good adviser I bet dix ur attitude will change. I will just conclude that you have not yet met the right girl for you. Look beyond sex nd physical beauty nd focus more on character. You will find that girl whose personality fits into your own life and you will always love and bleep her non-stop till rapture comes. Correct |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Nobody: 3:53pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Antecote: Securing a good future for their kids, finance is one of those things that can easily threaten a marriage. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by bayulll011(m): 3:55pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Sfateema:can't u be Ur brothers keeper Ni. Ehn I don't care attitudes is what's killing us in Nija |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by bayulll011(m): 3:55pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Sfateema:can't u be Ur brothers keeper Ni. Ehn I don't care attitudes is what's killing us in Nija |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by vioment: 4:04pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Fair enough Livefreeordieha: |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by alvin000(m): 4:08pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
you know what? you are a dumb asshole dude, you only view entire women as a sex products and once you achieve your goals then everything is over. A friend says that; You sucked your mama's breast for THREE good years yet U never buy her anything. U started sucking UR gf's breast without milk three months ago Nd U don buy Iphone7 for her. Brother, close your eyes. Let him pray for you.. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Emyogalanya: 4:23pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:try dangote daughter and see |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by kolaranking1(m): 5:42pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
beautiful232:your ass dey return person sense? |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by kunletexs: 6:16pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Tonythriller: Oga, you be pro o but where did you put sin of fornication in this advice ? |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by delpee(f): 6:46pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU: Think positively! Build a solid relationship before thinking about sex. If you focus on sexual curiosity aka lust, you'll always be disappointed. You have to love the person for good reasons to keep the relationship alive. |
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