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Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by FaithZion2(f): 10:43pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Conji is curse, e~fit be woman don swear for u...... |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by kobijacobs(m): 10:43pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
the write up is confusing |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Nobody: 10:44pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
maybe u fvcked a dirty pussy 1 Like |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by aylive02(m): 10:44pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
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Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Sfateema(f): 10:45pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
It's the Op's name that I'm interested in 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by EmagNig(m): 10:46pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
It's normal |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by greggng: 10:48pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Go for deliverance you re not normal. Tb joshua can help u 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by DonaldJTrump: 10:49pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
kolaranking1:how do you no. he definitely has shortcoming. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Lewaluv(f): 10:49pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Maybe because you are bored with her after you accomplish your task. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by joeeee240(m): 10:49pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
OP I DON'T THINK YOU'VE RETIRED. AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED YOU'RE STILL ACTIVE MEMBER OF THE LABOR MARKET IN THE MUMU INDUSTRY 11 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Machiavelli1(m): 10:50pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
kingmeme:Yea, I think it got something to do with age/phrase, if he's still a teenager or in his early 20ies I believe he'll outgrow it. When I was a teenager I always got mad whenever I see guys with my sisters, but now who cares? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Livefreeordieha(m): 10:51pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
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Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by itsmeurLady(f): 10:53pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
It's normal when u sleep with a woman u don't love 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by AreaFada2: 10:54pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
misscrystals: Spirit wives ko, masquerade/egungun wives ni. It is not at all unusual to feel such hate. In fact it is one of the reasons some guys womanize a lot. Thinking they have now definitely found the girl they love. But same happens after sex. Once you have "conquered" her, your hunter instinct is to get a "fresh" one. Fact is that you have not really fallen in love with a girl. Not even the latest you are "planning future reference with", whatever that means. I feared same feeling so much that I turned down two/three girls who were all over me. One as a teenager, and another was a work colleague years later. I confided in a female friend about the work colleague. That she was really pretty and most guys at work toast her but she refused them. That as shapely & pretty as she was, I had no feelings for her. Though because we were so close, everyone called us bf & gf. But we were NOT. The female friend advised me not to date her or be intimate with her. That she'd could trap me with a pregnancy. I called her one day and told her the truth. That I had no feelings for her. She'd not even speak to me after that. She looked sick for a few weeks. The second work colleague seemed like "donatus" in that she had two other guys, gleaned from talking to her. Maybe even more. She liked me but was not in love with me. She had the most curvy shape you could find. And tall. ALL work colleagues toasted her. ALL. And she told me so. And asked why I never toasted her. Really, people yearn for something seemingly out of reach. It took the Grace of God not to bang her one day. Very close. Before I regained my composure. She was gagging for it and her disappointment was obvious on her face. A few months later, I left the job. Thank God. Working with her had become very difficult. @OP, In essence, you can feel "dirty" after sleeping with a girl you should not have slept with. The hate you suddenly feel may be partly due to your own guilt. We all have conscience, no matter how hard we try to suppress it. Work harder at resisting the temptation of random sex. If there's a girl you really liked initially and started disliking her after sex, consider if you now suddenly hate those things you previously liked about her. If not, then it is the sexual act that you really feel bad about. Maybe somewhere within you have a deep religious or moral side. Perhaps subconsciously. You might be hating what you see as the "seductress" in her. But remember it takes two to tango. 13 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by tosyne2much(m): 10:55pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
If you don't kill this feeling, you might hate your wife after making love to her |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 10:59pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Honestly you save yourself alot of stress when you abstain from sex b4 marriage. Things like: Guilt Unwanted pregnancies STDs Lack of commitment Possibility of cheating when married. And many more. Youths learn to stay away from sex b4 marriage. I have said my own 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Emenandez4lyf(m): 11:00pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Hollysaint:Guy, we're in the same boat |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by joeeee240(m): 11:00pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
OrdercityWeb: AND YOUR OWN HAPPENS TO BE TRASH 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Livefreeordieha(m): 11:01pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
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Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:01pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
tosyne2much:I doubt that. Alot of young, sexually active, unmarried men can actually relate to what he's saying. What he's experiencing is guilt. It's nature's way of telling you what you're doing is wrong, but later on some young men have learnt to supress this feeling. So the best thing for young people is to stay away from sex before marriage. OrdercityWeb: 9 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Abegfucklife(m): 11:03pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:
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Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by DanoskiDaniels: 11:03pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
luk fr a gal dat sexually arouses u n date n nt a mere gal u just luv av u ever 1dared y a married man wit a beautiful wife will still b cheating on d wife wit one olosho hu z nt even half beautiful as his wife? d problem is u ppl only luv bt u don't lust. if u still don't understand u could gv me a call I think verbal explanation will suffice. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Livefreeordieha(m): 11:03pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Tonythriller:i don'т ĸnow wнy тonyѕ are alwayѕ ѕмarт,logιcal and pragмaтιc. ..тυale ғor υ.. |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Hargbo(m): 11:04pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
YOU NEED TO GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS, that is the solution to your problem 10 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:05pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
joeeee240:Lol! It seems i struck a nerve right? You can't dispute with what I've written and its obvious you have no logical rebuttal for it so you simply opted for the easy way out. So intelligent of you. Lol 6 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by bobseto: 11:06pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
The interest of a man settIes a man |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by joeeee240(m): 11:06pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
OrdercityWeb: ITS NOT GUILT 1 Like |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Nobody: 11:06pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Livefreeordieha: guy too much english. besides OP wants attention so we are giving it to him, why you bothered, is this the OP's second account ? 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by LordKO(m): 11:07pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
@OP Believe you me, until you find out what constitute the ambiguous word "love" to you, your problem will persist. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by OrdercityWeb: 11:08pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
AreaFada2: OrdercityWeb: 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Hatred Towards Girl After Love Making, Help by Nobody: 11:08pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
LordKO: that's why i said he is confused. 1 Like |
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