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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by ghettochild(m): 6:43am On Sep 09, 2017
FutureLeader00:
Let me not bother you with too much stories, I will keep it short and concise.

My girlfriend has been acting strange lately and I couldn't find the reason why she's doing so. We started dating last year while I was still looking for admission, things has been going smoothly for us not until after ileya festival.

Before then, she celebrated her birthday on the 23rd of August this year had to sent a message to wish her, although I was around for ileya holiday as we both live in ibadan but am schooling in osun state.
She came to visit me on ileya festival(friday) which we talk extensively about her birthday, we both discuss on how to celebrate her birthday since I wasn't around then so we resorted to go to the cinema and have some few drinks.

Also, I promised to get her some women undies as a gifts before I left for school.

I ought to have been in school by now because the festive holiday has come and gone but have told her that I would love to spend some days with her before I leave. Before she left my house of friday I asked where she will be for the weekend, she told me she won't be around on saturday but sunday will be okay so I made up my mind to visit her on sunday and use the opportunity to see her mom and sibling.

I called on saturday to check on her but she inform me that she couldn't go out due to headache, the following day which was sunday I called her severally she didn't pick my call neither return all the messages I sent to her not until yesterday when she picked and told me that she intentionally not to pick my call because I wasn't caring enough for her. Asjed her what exactly have I done wrong, she said I didn't care for her meanwhile have been calling since sunday just to check on her but she didn't pick my call, mehn I was shocked!!.

As a gentle guy wey I be I asked for frogiveness and repeatedly told her "I'm very sorry" countless of time she cut off the line on three occassion, I was very furious by her action yet I keep cool had to call her once again she told me there's nothing she wants to discuss with me anymore except what she just did.

Till now, she hasn't pick all call neither reply my messages.

Now, have bought those things I promise to get her like pads, panties, bra, bum-short, and those girly things I even sent a text to inform her that have gotten her my promises she didn't reply me.

Pls I need your advice on how to go about this because it making me so sad.

below is the screenshot of my text messages I sent her
Help me to move it to the front page
believe me, ur girl was with another man on that day
Just forget her
give those gifts to ur females cousin or sister or any other girl u been eyeing...
if u like be begging her ooo
Then u b typical mumu

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by Nobody: 6:44am On Sep 09, 2017
No go read Ur books

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by bolaji3071(m): 6:45am On Sep 09, 2017
Most girls are like that op.

Just stop texting or calling her, if possible delete her number.

She will come back begging. Talking from experience
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by Frankicent(m): 6:45am On Sep 09, 2017
bibiking7:






You are very correct. You deserve a bottle of origin. She just compared the bday gift of the other guy with this dude's sanitary pad sad and concluded that the bigger gift wins. I think this dude should use the pad for himself cos He is more of a woman than his woman. angry


Lolz


For God's sake, who buys sanitary pads as bday gifts. angry
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by fidek(m): 6:47am On Sep 09, 2017
FutureLeader00 you are not caring simply means that she found another person that is more caring and romantic than you. . . my guess is that on that sunday, she went out with the guy that is more caring than you. My advice friendzone her and make her number 35 on that list and try and go out to find a new girl friend
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by Nobody: 6:49am On Sep 09, 2017
Hahaha you sound really gay
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by Clobis(m): 6:54am On Sep 09, 2017
i advise you face your studies, most times school relationship ends in school. u still have a lot of hustling ahead of you and remember when u succed u wont be crying for pussy as u are doing now.

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by Adeoba10(m): 6:57am On Sep 09, 2017
FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her angry cry
Bro, please prepare for heartache abi heartbroken anytime. You personally still hav a long way to go, likewise she.... Think of your final year, nysc and co. You will still meet different kind of people. Although wat u are going through is normal bcus dis is ur first relationship, but ask urself, will dis lead to alter, If No, den prepare for it.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by olabisimichael: 6:57am On Sep 09, 2017
FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her angry cry

Leave her and let her be! If you have bleeped her even for once! Take it as a reward for your stress! Don't let a girl undeservedly take away your emotional stability and academic firmness! She clearly has moved on or presently fucking someone else! Face your studies and I can predictably tell you that you guys are going to be friends again! Come back and tell Nairaland when my prediction comes through!

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by Slayer2: 6:58am On Sep 09, 2017
FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her angry cry

Come nor let me vex for you guy. Affect your studies say weiten na? Because of one girl when get shit for yance? Babes no full una school fa? . Don't be an ass licker. See my nigga. I can show you girls I have been with you go open mouth. I sure say this girl you they die for. If I see her. I won't even look at her twice my nigga. Go get a new girl. Dah Bleep is wrong with you? undecided guy I swear if you drool over any girl ehn you be yes boy, I swear I will fucking disown my kid if he acts like this, when his father is a slayer! . I pick up girls like sand everyday and I don't even bother to call some they call me! I can't even love anyone. After first sex. My nigga it's bleeped up I break up. Just flirt with them all!



Be like me.

Be like slayer. smiley

Slay them Queens and don't give two hoots about any girl. Dafuq. I treat all girls like my guy friends. Hell I ain't gon stress myself because of idiot.

I discovered after all the forming. Their poo stinks the most! angry

Goddammit! angry

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by iamxolomon(m): 6:58am On Sep 09, 2017
FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her angry cry
hehe ,fist relationship. Bro just take heart. I'm sure she finally found someone else. Just try to start erasing her from ur head and move on.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by joepentwo(m): 7:00am On Sep 09, 2017
Abeg leave d gal, na so ladies d form.
B4 i forget try send me d pad, bra and others mk i gv ma new gal frnd. Thank you!

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by jayplae: 7:04am On Sep 09, 2017
My Bro, though education no pay like football....lollllll.........

Seriously, i think u shd focus on ur studies for now.....if u no get money...no woman go wan associate with u...

First step.........let her be.........

When women start like dis..be assured someone is talking somewhere.

Half word.......make am whole on the inside of u....

No play with ur future cos of woman oo

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by fatymore(f): 7:04am On Sep 09, 2017
crunchyg:

Mrs know all, who told you she is under aged?
the guy is still young abeg.. Why will heart break jeopardize his academics...
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by fatymore(f): 7:05am On Sep 09, 2017
crunchyg:

Mrs know all, who told you she is under aged?
thanks good morning
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by fatymore(f): 7:06am On Sep 09, 2017
Drabeey:



and he should rather come for u ba?
drabeey was here.. It been a long Time. I don't do ebashing.. Good morning
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by obasiete: 7:08am On Sep 09, 2017
You are still a student and bothered about girlfriend? Don't you think you are experimenting with your future? My advice: Concentrate on your education, so you can graduate with good grades. Boy friend and girlfriend matter is a big distraction for one in school. Supposing she calls you 1 hour to your exam, requesting for your assistance to the hospital what will you do? Or what will happen when you have to share your provisions with her, even when you do not have? Even if you are on part time, now isn't the time to bother about woman. Wait till you graduate.

What if she gets pregnant while you are still a student? Obviously abortion will be the next option because you both aren't ready to face parenting....But you both will be guilty of murder...spilling blood.

There are lots of challenges in this my friend. It goes beyond I love I love.....Boyfriend and girlfriend is a serious issue because it can ruin ones life if done prematurely. It has ruined people's lives.

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by patola080(m): 7:09am On Sep 09, 2017
FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her angry cry
hope d school is school fees free ? because if ur parent re paying for ur school fees or if u re d one dat is paying d school fees u will knw how to face it well n think about how ur future will b or d gal ask you for sex n u do nt gv it to her So please bros face ur education or look around 4 good gal in ur school many gals will b thinking of you to ask dem out
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by Skoopy(m): 7:12am On Sep 09, 2017
FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her angry cry

Learn to draw the line between your studies and girls, guys over here can tell you they've gone through this countless times. Keep your calm and stay focus, it will not take long for her to get off whatever is distracting her. Only if you will still be interested in her, then.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by david22uu(m): 7:14am On Sep 09, 2017
Oga go and read ur book... U just gained admission and its woman thats on your Mind. Nonsense

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by godquality: 7:16am On Sep 09, 2017
Some have eyes but can not see
Some can see but have no eyes
We have eyes and we can see
Glory be to thee o lord.

If you can't see the writing on the wall then you are on your own.

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by okerekeikpo: 7:17am On Sep 09, 2017
Bro you have been used and dumped so deal with that
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by betty3(f): 7:21am On Sep 09, 2017
u like story sha
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by ramondinho(m): 7:22am On Sep 09, 2017
Fool of the highest order, u no get sis for house?
I don't think u are d one that ask this girl out, may be someone do, that's y u ar scared of loosing her.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by Klington: 7:26am On Sep 09, 2017
please is she the one sponsoring ur education cuz i can't figure out why u're begging her for no justifiable reason.

Like Pete Edochie said "women are like unripped mangoes, while u're waiting for them to ripe, some smart guys are busy eating them with salt",


Iffa hear say i talk to her again after calling her maximum 3 times. That dude that is sharking her, she go tell me when her brain readjust

Learn a thing or two from this geeee..

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by perdollar(m): 7:29am On Sep 09, 2017
bros leave dt girl, e go difficult but leave her. na so my ex take start I die plenty times on top her matter but I tnk God say I finally moved on n found sbdy dt love me so much.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by eminent007(m): 7:29am On Sep 09, 2017
FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her angry cry

u Neva get admission u don de get gf

I bow to u ooo.

Dis pikin, go face ur book asap.
heartache ko, heart pain ni
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by Nobody: 7:31am On Sep 09, 2017
All this pussy niggas.. You said I'm sorry tire and she still cut line.. Ahhh.. Your own haff done
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by nuelsam: 7:33am On Sep 09, 2017
On behalf of the bad guys association of the world...u fall our hand sha.
Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by koolaid87: 7:33am On Sep 09, 2017
Listen!

All these warriors commenting here have their weaknesses as well...Love get to us at one particular point in life and we looked back mostly, asking how could I've been so dumb..It's normal. The first cut is always the deepest..But the earlier you decide to get over this love sh1t, the better.

Your supposed dearie got someone else that's toying with her, and she's already done with you...Just scared to look you in the eyes and spit it out, hence the body language...

so, get the meaning already and be strong...although you might cry secretly, appear boldly out there and let her know that you're happy without her.


Time heals all wound, you'll get better..

Man up, little soldier...real war ahead of you.

My one cent

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by valirex: 7:34am On Sep 09, 2017
fatymore:
Mumu.. Lover boy.. Face your book joor and leave the underage gal alone

He asked for advice not insult, if you couldn't help, you should have passed by rather than displaying your primitive self

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Re: Help! My Girlfriend Has Been Acting Strange Lately by Believe7(m): 7:34am On Sep 09, 2017
bro wats ur plan for life?

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