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She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Bblackq(op): 10:52pm On Sep 29, 2017
I have bin dating dis gal for abt 5 months now. We never have sex bcus i'm Hiv positive and i tried to keep it from her cos i dnt want to lose her.
Last night, she drugged me and had sex with me. When i woke up, i asked her what she has done but she said she wanted to knw maybe i'm impotent. I asked her if she used condom but she said NO. Apparently, she must ve contracted d virus from me. I've ruined someone else's life.. How do i tell her she's HIV positive. A friend directed me here. I nid a matured advice pls.
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Sep 29, 2017
Let her suffer for it,why would she rape you?na so her toto dey itch her?Na wa 4 some babes o
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by charlesluthor(m): 11:00pm On Sep 29, 2017
Lemme consult d gods
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by BornAgainMay:
Tell her to take post exposure prophylaxis

Pls before 72hours

Modified*

This is a cooked up story. I am not a medical practitioner but dick can't stand while you're asleep..


Op, you purposely allowed her to Bleep you, be sincere to us. Maybe when she was touching you liked how she was doing it n couldn't stop her...

That's why I encourage suicide after one had contacted it. Now, another innocent guy will go n carry the cross
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by BornAgainMay: 11:01pm On Sep 29, 2017
sexybbstar:
Let her suffer for it,why would she rape you?na so her toto dey itch her?Na wa 4 some babes o
Look at what you're saying
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Fernandowski(m): 11:01pm On Sep 29, 2017
She is stimulated

She a big girl dawg.... Let her take care of it
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Sep 29, 2017
BornAgainMay:
Look at what you're saying
Seriously, I just don't know why i'm angry at that babe,why you go dey rape man?thats very bad.
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by BornAgainMay: 11:04pm On Sep 29, 2017
Bblackq:
I have bin dating dis gal for abt 5 months now. We never have sex bcus i'm Hiv positive and i tried to keep it from her cos i dnt want to lose her.
Last night, she drugged me and had sex with me. When i woke up, i asked her what she has done but she said she wanted to knw maybe i'm impotent. I asked her if she used condom but she said NO. Apparently, she must ve contracted d virus from me. I've ruined someone else's life.. How do i tell her she's HIV positive. A friend directed me here. I nid a matured advice pls.
Tell her to take post exposure prophylaxis... Buy it for her and then you tell her.

Why will you date a lady n you know you're positive?

You wanted to infect her with it.. Bastard
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by BornAgainMay: 11:07pm On Sep 29, 2017
sexybbstar:
Seriously, I just don't know why i'm angry at that babe,why you go dey rape man?thats very bad.
They have dated for 5months and the Geh wanted to confirm if he is potent to know the kind of man he is

Its normal bcz she truly loves him. The HIV guy should have informed her about him being positive before now..
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by stano2(m): 11:08pm On Sep 29, 2017
Ur dick stood while drugged
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Nobody: 11:10pm On Sep 29, 2017
BornAgainMay:
They have dated for 5months and the Geh wanted to confirm if he is potent to know the kind of man he is

Its normal bcz she truly loves him. The HIV guy should have informed her about him being positive before now..
She should have protected heself. I'm really sorry for her sad
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by ericlove4all: 11:14pm On Sep 29, 2017
Bblackq:
I have bin dating dis gal for abt 5 months now. We never have sex bcus i'm Hiv positive and i tried to keep it from her cos i dnt want to lose her.
Last night, she drugged me and had sex with me. When i woke up, i asked her what she has done but she said she wanted to knw maybe i'm impotent. I asked her if she used condom but she said NO. Apparently, she must ve contracted d virus from me. I've ruined someone else's life.. How do i tell her she's HIV positive. A friend directed me here. I nid a matured advice pls.
She might not necessary be positive. You can tell her So she would be on PEP (Post Exposure Prophylaxis) in any government or private hospital. This will decrease the chances of her being positive
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Bblackq(op): 11:15pm On Sep 29, 2017
ericlove4all:
She might not necessary be positive. You can tell her So she would be on PEP (Post Exposure Prophylaxis) in any government or private hospital. This will decrease the chances of her being positive
Thanks fam
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Bblackq(op): 11:16pm On Sep 29, 2017
BornAgainMay:
Tell her to take post exposure prophylaxis

Pls before 72hours
Thanks fam. I wil get dat 4 her
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Nobody: 11:17pm On Sep 29, 2017
Guy..go to the hospital,and get her some appropraite drugs sharp sharp..she might be lucky

some girls ehh.NUNU will be itching them but they can pretend for life.
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Sep 29, 2017
BornAgainMay:
They have dated for 5months and the Geh wanted to confirm if he is potent to know the kind of man he is

Its normal bcz she truly loves him. The HIV guy should have informed her about him being positive before now..
Are you for real?The girl RAPED him,that is a criminal offence.The op should prolly be thinking of how to get her arrested.
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Joislim(f): 11:25pm On Sep 29, 2017
OP is a good person....... tell her to go for treatment.
The girl didn't try at all,
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Nobody: 11:26pm On Sep 29, 2017
Evaberry

we need ur expertise here

eva-fvcking-berry
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by BornAgainMay: 11:26pm On Sep 29, 2017
Bblackq:
Thanks fam. I wil get dat 4 her
Be fast abt it....
Tomorrow
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Nobody: 11:32pm On Sep 29, 2017
You should have told her that you are hiv positive, staying without sex for 5months, the lady must have been sex starved.
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Sep 29, 2017
Op u can lie, but continue.
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Skinni(m): 11:39pm On Sep 29, 2017
Continue
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by McBrooklyn(m): 11:40pm On Sep 29, 2017
grin
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by engrtee(f): 12:57am On Sep 30, 2017
tellher you will give her fifty thousand if she gets you her HIV test
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Nobody: 1:09am On Sep 30, 2017
BornAgainMay:
Tell her to take post exposure prophylaxis... Buy it for her and then you tell her.

Why will you date a lady n you know you're positive?

You wanted to infect her with it.. Bastard
So somebody that's Hiv positive cannot date againhuh.

Fine, it was wrong for him not telling her his status in the beginning, but fam calling him a bastard?! Not cool, bruh.
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Nobody: 1:14am On Sep 30, 2017
Bblackq:
I have bin dating dis gal for abt 5 months now. We never have sex bcus i'm Hiv positive and i tried to keep it from her cos i dnt want to lose her.
Last night, she drugged me and had sex with me. When i woke up, i asked her what she has done but she said she wanted to knw maybe i'm impotent. I asked her if she used condom but she said NO. Apparently, she must ve contracted d virus from me. I've ruined someone else's life.. How do i tell her she's HIV positive. A friend directed me here. I nid a matured advice pls.
Just because she had sex with you doesn't automatically implies she has HIV, moreso, from studies, HIV can be treated within the first 20days of contracting it. If you love her, you should have told her your status from the onset. Tell her now, let her seek medical counsel, if she takes , i don't know if those drugs are available on the local market, even in the medical community, but i am 100% sure, that HIV cases are treateable only within 20 days of contracting it....so there's time to do the right thing.
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by ULSHERLAN(m): 1:18am On Sep 30, 2017
sexybbstar:
Let her suffer for it,why would she rape you?na so her toto dey itch her?Na wa 4 some babes o
By doing this, Hope you know that your advice is endangering someone else's life. I suggest he tells her.
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Daeylar(f):
Tell her to go to the hospital like others said,
(she deserves it though as far as I'm concerned),

Make sure it's known she was infected when she drugged and raped you so she can't change the story and accuse you of anything

Then DUMP HER
she drugged and raped you. That is NOT ACCEPTABLE AT ALL,
Rape is never acceptable no matter the useless excuses always given. You shouldn't be dating someone who raped you.
Someone who loves you will never rape you


You can also report her to the police if you want, let her learn that it's never acceptable to drug and rape someone.


Although Op you should have told the girl that you were positive before starting the relationship, do that for your next relationship It doesn't
negate the fact that she drugged and raped you,


That girl is a rapist and shouldn't be walking around thinking it's not a big deal to drug and rape someone she "claims" to love
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by Nobody: 4:17am On Sep 30, 2017
Daeylar:
Tell her to go to the hospital like others said,
(she deserves it though as far as I'm concerned),

Make sure it's known she was infected when she drugged and raped you so she can't change the story and accuse you of anything

Then DUMP HER
she drugged and raped you. That is NOT ACCEPTABLE AT ALL,
Rape is never acceptable no matter the useless excuses always given. You shouldn't be dating someone who raped you.
Someone who loves you will never rape you


You can also report her to the police if you want, let her learn that it's never acceptable to drug and rape someone.
What a rant. but you didn't blamed the idiiioot that never disclosed his status to his partner. What do you call that too? Abi its now acceptable to date someone without telling them your hiv status knowing fully well you 're infected. Just read what the dude wrote again before you start wasting bandwidth.
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by jayloms: 4:47am On Sep 30, 2017
You were drugged and active? Goodness!!
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by IAMSASHY(f): 4:57am On Sep 30, 2017
Hw cn u b wt sumone 5months and u cnt open up ur status, yet u claim u luv her. Oga,4get luv dis time, if she ends up contacting it, she might neva 4gv u. Some gals cn b desperate bt u shud hv told her, if she like u she stay, if she doesn't she leaves, u no try at al
Re: She's HIV Positive, How Do I Tell Her?? by MistaBabz: 5:50am On Sep 30, 2017
Just marry her to avoid further victims from contacting the virus
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