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saxwizard:
just like dat... oya be romantic jare

u expect make I just talk yes just like dat....I must play hard to get na...

oya re toast me jor

MISSNORA:
lol if u play hard to get.will port 2d next guy no time

Durchess:

TosinDru:
Did you see my pm?

Durchess:
No I didn't

nikkyshyne:
'Hi dear, you are really handsome. I have been watching you for sometime now. I will be glad to be your good friend. Do you mind if we can hangout one of these days? I will be so elated if it can be this weekend. Please don't say no '

pocohantas:
This was the question,don't change it. I stated the moves I will make, he can stick to the lines if that's his forte.

If the feeling is mutual,there is no how the conversation will die. We are not talking of one time conversation here. If the feeling is mutual, the moment will bring the words from either party. They are not rehearsed from Mills&Boon. So, I can't start typing some elementary lines for you here, sorry. If no single word or action comes from him, then it's obvious it isn't mutual and you don't force such.

Some people just get that deeper connection and progress to date, without unnecessary lines. Connection first...every other falls into place.

bpee:
im not supposed to like you because sometimes you hit it really hard on the guys, but no matter how hard or harsh u might be in any of ur posts, u still manage to make grave sense with a show of high intellect (an e.g @ bolded) which still leaves me to hit another like

frenzyduchess:
I didn't say that, I am talking in the context of the thread, now if a lady asks a guy out, subconsciously, he believes you are into him, wiether you like to admit it or not, the stage in which the gets to prove that he likes you is skipped.This not about being bold, alot of Nigerian ladies I know are bold but the aftermath of it is what alot of ladies are skeptical about. Now I know people keep saying "approach a matured guy " and he will respect you for it but is there an X-ray for maturity cos I have met a 33 years old asshole so age can no longer be a criteria to determine maturity anymore. if Nigerian men want our ladies to change ,then they too should be ready to evolve like their counterparts in the western world

frenzyduchess:
it's not same, it's usually better if a guy is into you than the other way round,and let's not also forget that me asking a guy out ,in his subconscious, it is an easy ride to my vagina

hayfay:
I ve been crushing on u 4 a longtym nw,but dnt knw aw u wud react was y I kept it to myself,but I I can't hold it in anymore ( I luv u) do u feel d same .

ubunja:
Women will never ask a man out coz they are cowards all of them. And they can't take rejection well. My friend once turned down a proporsal from a gal and she was furious. Its like women think they are doing a man a favour by asking them out and when they are turned down they are angry! Women are pathetic.
Personally if a gal asks me out I will take her for cheap. I will even think she has an STI that she wanna give me. Why is she making it easy??
Gals must never ask a guy out.it will be a disaster.the best way to woo a guy is to do Inception. Put an idea into his mind in a way he thinks its his idea.how? Not with words. But with actions.if he's too blind he never was clever enough for u. Move on.

skylane:
I strongly and vehemently disagree with what you just wrote

donqx:
those days haa passed....ask a lady out ..wtf...

I never speak to these ladies...I let my money work!!! 100

I've been observing you from a distance and I have no choice than to fall in love with a sophisticated, enchanting, intelligent and tall guy like you, my love for you is like a copied assignment, I can't explain, I really hope you consider my humble request from a loving and caring heart, will you be the man for me?




Sorry short guys, I can only toast tall guys.

princ007:
Since from the day i set my eyes on you, my heart knew no peace, i tried to be just a friend to you but my heart would not let me be... It beats for you every second of the day. My day start and end with your thoughts.. I kept it to myself all this while cos i thought my heart was deceiving me.. But i have come to realize it was just trying to signify that it now belongs to you my love... Would you own my heart with utmost care and love? Do your heart beats for me just like mine?

0ldirtybastard:
You've always been a negative bastard since the creation of time with your left-handed reasoning. Were you abused as a child?

princ007:
No oooooo

Acidosis:
A woman should not ask a guy out. It will NEVER end well.

What a woman can do is to give the guy a "green light", and await a feedback. If the guy FAILS to see and acknowledge the "light", switch it OFF and go your own way.

Don't ask a guy out; don't force yourself on a guy. If you must do so, please ensure you're old enough to be a SUGAR MUMMY, make sure you're rich enough to cater for yourself and the guy's needs.

khiaa:
Dumb post. Just because a woman asked you out doesn't mean that she wants you in her bed, grow up. Imature boys complain about women being cowards for not asking a man out but if she has the courage to do so then you call her cheap.
Ladies you must learn how to separate the men from the boys.

ubunja:
Well if she is not asking me out for sex what's the point of me getting along?? Its not like I need any more friends

khiaa:
So do I.

skylane:
so do u really go for anyone youv some feelings 4

khiaa:
If I ask him out I wouldn't see him as anyone but someone special in my eyes. If it doesn't work out it would be ok because I would value his friendship.

Evaberry:
Ladies take this advise seriously


1. DONT ever ask a guy out


2. Don't ever tell a guy you love/like him.

Asking a guy out never ends well

hayfay:
I ve been crushing on u 4 a longtym nw,but dnt knw aw u wud react was y I kept it to myself,but I I can't hold it in anymore ( I luv u) do u feel d same .