Hmmm
Me like

Adaumunocha:
A cross dresser cum drag queen.

Which one be drag queen again.

Toks2008:


Which one be drag queen again.

he a drag like Boy George.

Adaumunocha:
he a drag like Boy George.

All these names you are mentioning are strange to me..
How do you see this write up? be candid.

There is no way a woman with a cheating husband can be happy. Maybe you don't know the meaning of happiness.
Xcept her heart is totally with another man, not the kids please...the satisfaction from loving your kids is different from that for a partner.

Their unhappiness shows in later yrs. When their kids are grown and they start disturbing their marital lives.

For the sake of God the man should stop cheating and stay with his family. The effects of divorce is negligible when compared with children who grew up seeing no love within their parents. That's how another set of dysfunctional adults are raised.

jhudit:
There is no way a woman with a cheating husband can be happy. Maybe you don't know the meaning of happiness.
Xcept her heart is totally with another man, not the kids please...the satisfaction from loving your kids is different from that for a partner.

Their unhappiness shows in later yrs. When their kids are grown and they start disturbing their marital lives.

For the sake of God the man should stop cheating and stay with his family. The effects of divorce is negligible when compared with children who grew up seeing no love within their parents. That's how another set of dysfunctional adults are raised.

As I wrote,you owe yourself happiness and the earlier you know this the better.

lalasticlala I believe this is insightful.

cha:
The op is such a romantic... I think.

Confirm.

Divay22:
Hmmm Me like

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Divay22:
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Divay22:
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Toks2008:
lalasticlala I believe this is insightful.

Lala don't waste your time Biko

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Lalas247:

Lala don't waste your time Biko

Considering the rising cases of divorce I believe this will be insightful..
Lalasticlala

Toks2008:



Certainly.

Romantic. You poured plenty of emotions into this piece. God Bless You oP

I like this part :


You can never be too careful in choosing the right man and if you like wait a thousand years trying to be careful,it's never a sure proof that you will end up with the right guy.

Ladies must understand that marriage is a risk. There is no good or bad choice of man but what we have is "YOUR CHOICE" and what you make out of it so you must learn how to deal with it.

KreativGenius:



Romantic. You poured plenty of emotions into this piece. God Bless You oP

I like this part :


You can never be too careful in choosing the right man and if you like wait a thousand years trying to be careful,it's never a sure proof that you will end up with the right guy.

Ladies must understand that marriage is a risk. There is no good or bad choice of man but what we have is "YOUR CHOICE" and what you make out of it so you must learn how to deal with it.

That is just it bro. ..

Toks2008:


That is just it bro. ..

Too much fear of not making the right decision leads people into problem. Lack of due consideration also is another. Level-headedness is important. There's a risk associate with choices, and people should embrace this notion

KreativGenius:



Too much fear of not making the right decision leads people into problem. Lack of due consideration also is another. Level-headedness is important. There's a risk associate with choices, and people should embrace this notion

I always tell people that courtship is not required for a strong marriage but they never agree.

I know what I want in a lady,once I see it,I go for her and let tolerance set in.

Due diligence is the best and that is the secret of marital longevity of our parents

Toks2008:


I always tell people that courtship is not required for a strong marriage but they never agree.

I know what I want in a lady,once I see it,I go for her and let tolerance set in.

Due diligence is the best and that is the secret of marital longevity of our parents

I realized this too : I always tell people that courtship is not required for a strong marriage but they never agree.


" Choice " is the most important factor, if this is mutual other things can queue up, tolerance, companionship, but many times we complicate issues with too many rules and it strains the rule out of the relationship. I learnt this from my last experience. Once i meet a lady even if it's the first time, there's this thing that ticks and say she's a good catch, head up to her, and propose straight up. Courtship can come during the engagement process or after the marriage ( Zig Ziglar )

KreativGenius:


I realized this too : I always tell people that courtship is not required for a strong marriage but they never agree.


" Choice " is the most important factor, if this is mutual other things can queue up, tolerance, companionship, but many times we complicate issues with too many rules and it strains the rule out of the relationship. I learnt this from my last experience. Once i meet a lady even if it's the first time, there's this thing that ticks and say she's a good catch, head up to her, and propose straight up. Courtship can come during the engagement process or after the marriage ( Zig Ziglar )

Many ladies have been sampled and dumped in the name of courtship.

You meet a guy and you start screwing each other in the name of courtship and after he has gotten his fill he will give you one funny story then you move to the next guy and the cycle repeats itself.

Many courtship be temporary marriage cos you do what married people do and since no commitment yet,it's very easy to opt out.

Toks2008:


Many ladies have been sampled and dumped in the name of courtship.

You meet a guy and you start screwing each other in the name of courtship and after he has gotten his fill he will give you one funny story then you move to the next guy and the cycle repeats itself.

Many courtship be temporary marriage cos you do what married people do and since no commitment yet,it's very easy to opt out.

So what solution do you advice ladies who want to avoid such a scenario, cause been too careful also causes problem as they lose very good potentials in being too careful. I have some ideas, but i like to hear from you boss

I enjoyed your write up tnx.

KreativGenius:


I realized this too : I always tell people that courtship is not required for a strong marriage but they never agree.


" Choice " is the most important factor, if this is mutual other things can queue up, tolerance, companionship, but many times we complicate issues with too many rules and it strains the rule out of the relationship. I learnt this from my last experience. Once i meet a lady even if it's the first time, there's this thing that ticks and say she's a good catch, head up to her, and propose straight up. Courtship can come during the engagement process or after the marriage ( Zig Ziglar )

this is exactly how i feel bro. promiscuous and randy men and women will never agree sha. i told a friend i can marry a lady after meeting for a few months and he said i was nuts. it all boils down to choice.

Cuteamigo1:

this is exactly how i feel bro. promiscuous and randy men and women will never agree sha. i told a friend i can marry a lady after meeting for a few months and he said i was nuts.

Bros, i've proposed within four months, the downside is just that the other party may feel you're pressuring them for a negative reason and may feel afraid, so the best thing to do is, once you spot the lady no tell am, let her be the one to throw the offer, hesitate, refuse to talk about it like three times, before she finally agrees. See, a man of wisdom can know his wife within a day or weeks. Joseph,Issac all met who they married on such short notice, our generation is filled with too much insecurities that's why people are not getting married

KreativGenius:


Bros, i've proposed within four months, the downside is just that the other party may feel you're pressuring them for a negative reason and may feel afraid, so the best thing to do is, once you spot the lady no tell am, let her be the one to throw the offer, hesitate, refuse to talk about it like three times, before she finally agrees. See, a man of wisdom can know his wife within a day or weeks. Joseph,Issac all met who they married on such short notice, our generation is filled with too much insecurities that's why people are not getting married

you have spoken nothing but the truth.

Cuteamigo1:

you have spoken nothing but the truth.

KreativGenius:


Bros, i've proposed within four months, the downside is just that the other party may feel you're pressuring them for a negative reason and may feel afraid, so the best thing to do is, once you spot the lady no tell am, let her be the one to throw the offer, hesitate, refuse to talk about it like three times, before she finally agrees. See, a man of wisdom can know his wife within a day or weeks. Joseph,Issac all met who they married on such short notice, our generation is filled with too much insecurities that's why people are not getting married

You are so right....the problem is that most ladies are their own problems because they always try to rationalize too much.

This thing no get formula,no safe proof method but it's just risk all the way so why waste your time courting a man for years habba. .

rebirthforgoody:
I enjoyed your write up tnx.

If you are referring to this thread then it's a good thing that some ladies still see something reasonable in my factual articles.

Toks2008:


You are so right....the problem is that most ladies are their own problems because they always try to rationalize too much.

This thing no get formula,no safe proof method but it's just risk all the way so why waste your time courting a man for years habba. .

Too just speculation about the waves of the ocean, bro remember Nike's logo? Just do it.

My timeline is within the next two years, but if i meet her and she makes sense, i can propose within 5 months and then take a year to build emotional compatibility, with age, relationships is about emotional dexterity and soundness and not mathematical calculations, calculating odds that has forever keep people single, Just do it folks, just do this sh*t

Toks2008:


If you are referring to this thread then it's a good thing that some ladies still see something reasonable in my factual articles.

Lalasticlala i believe this is very realistic considering the happenings today in marriages.

It doesn't work anymore