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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Safiaa:I will try |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Ifakiland(m): 8:12pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Divay22:Go ask ur papa for airtime, no be me bring u come this world...I'm not working cos of a gf...I'm working cos of me. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Dasherz(f): 8:12pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
@ lawlahdey I don't think it's got anything to do with her resilience... shes not a random lady to him but a date of 3 years ... from the look of it the dude is just stuck up on spending or maybe he has a logic of not spending on a lady OP .. I believe you should complain to him in the calmest manner possible, don't raise your voice at him and don't put up any fronting attitude .. just tell him this is what you want calmly and let him do the thinking AmazingM: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Safiaa(f): 8:12pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Piiko:thank you |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Ifakiland(m): 8:17pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
All this chew gum gals wey u go spend on them finish them go go marry anoda guy, them go come open mouth say "how much did u spend on me sef?" Na Thunder go fire una...come and collect money from my account na.... 14 Likes
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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Divay22(f): 8:17pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Ifakiland:But you'll admire a slay queen when you see one, is somebody not taking care of that queen you admire,will the heavens fall on you if you take care of your own for others to admire. The truth is bitter, accept it..you're stingy.. My last reply to your mention. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Ifakiland(m): 8:20pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Divay22:If ure not my gf and I admire u, trust me I just wanna fork u #case closed# and point of correction not all slay queen is a money hunting hoe....most are from rich homes. 12 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Centrallock: 8:36pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
AmazingM:Am suprised with most comment on the thread, biko o.p before you take any action ask yourself what love is all about to you, compare that with his behavior.. The truth is a guy in love can't test you for long and no matter how he pretends or try's to hide it that caring part of him must always show up once in a while or else you're not that important to him. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Blackhawk01: 8:43pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Haaaa! Tosin, I love you tonight. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 8:50pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
AmazingM:How much do you need? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Adaumunocha(f): 8:56pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Men can snatch their fellow guy gf like its hot.... |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Adaumunocha:Hahahahaha. You sound funny. That guy doesn't love the chick. A man who likes you would spend money on you. Trust me! 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Adaumunocha(f): 9:07pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
DeeTus:So you wanna entice her with money?? The guy is simply stingy. She should just stop making any effort. That kinda stingy guys can roughen a lady's speedometer eh. Caring guy drop something for d op 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Adaumunocha:Hahahahaha. Please I am not trying to entice anyone. I was only kidding. Don't put me into trouble! |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Adaumunocha(f): 9:20pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
DeeTus:Which trouble? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 9:36pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
I can't marry a stingy man who doesn't spend on me, if he is not spending it on you, he is spending it on another girl. A guy I know collects money from a rich girl he doesn't love and use it to buy gifts for a girl he love. That's love, love is not stingy, nothing is too little. AmazingM 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Dillusionist:Exactly babygirl, these kind of guys will expect you to pay the bills in marriage and spend their own money on side chicks. Babes need wise up, I hate stinginess cos am not stingy. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Dillusionist(m): 9:45pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
MaritzaNL:honestly..he is this stingy in relationship, what will now happen to her and her children when she finally marries him ...all girls should start thinking straight... |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Dillusionist:The guy no even love am sef, if a guy love a girl, he will go extra miles to care for her. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:34pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
I wouldn't marry that man if I were you. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by CHAIRMANMAO(m): 10:42pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Gal! a reasonable guy wouldnt be that insensitive 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by chikachike86(m): 11:10pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
AmazingM: Nna lekwa nu anya o! Inasmuch as I might react differently faced with this issues you raised, it will be tantamount to "diamond" digging if you remotely think that your life baggage is to be shouldered by a "mere boy friend"�. My friend! Be creative with yourself and stop using job hunting as an excuse to become an unnecessary burden. My 2cent. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
Op... kindly disappear from that crappy relationship! Ok bye |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Dillusionist(m): 12:31am On Oct 12, 2017 |
MaritzaNL:my thoughts exactly |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Shawnnn01: 2:29am On Oct 12, 2017 |
AmazingM:Sweet@ for God sake u have been broke for3 years that is a lifetime for some 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Shawnnn01: 2:36am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Safiaa:She should open her mouth ask, talk the situation over with the guy it's that simple. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Shawnnn01: 2:47am On Oct 12, 2017 |
MaritzaNL:Talk about things you know I dated a girl close to 5 yrs. Got her into leadcity paid part of her tiuition if not all. 50K pocket money monthly though not regular. This girl never open her mouth to ask I did all this instinctively after graduation she queried if I wanted to force her into marriage. Now I know beta any girl that can not be submissive enough to open her mouth and ask whatever she needs will not get a dime from me. The girl should open her proud mouth n beg for the money if she truly need it. Not to come here and be forming like she as a right to the guys money. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by imustsaymymindo: 3:15am On Oct 12, 2017 |
If you want to recieve op, you have to give, that is the principle. For the fact you have no source of income does not mean you can't give him something. Give him qualitative time, give him attention, you can decide to cook his favourite meal for him, you can go to his house and take care of it for him. He would reciprocate by giving you something in return and not neccessarily money. Be contented with what you have @op. If you are afraid that he may be the stingy type, find out how he gives to family, friends and strangers before you judge. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by ufedob(f): 5:37am On Oct 12, 2017 |
My darling,am sorry you have to be careful,cos if you get married to this kind of man it wont be funny. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 6:13am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Shawnnn01:But he should at least show concern. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 6:45am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Dasherz:I know, dear. I was actually kidding. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by tosyne2much(m): 7:10am On Oct 12, 2017 |
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