tosyne2much:

goodmorning

Dillusionist:
goodmorning

How are you jawe?

tosyne2much:
How are you jawe?

great,trust you slept well

Adaumunocha:
I typed based on observation and research. I don't actually know what you talking about .

i am igbo but this guy is saying the gospel truth.

vingeophysicist:
i am igbo but this guy is saying the gospel truth.

Eheeeen? I've never noticed

AmazingM:
Good evening my dear nairalanders. Please I need your honest opinion on this issue because I am very confused now that I don't know what to do.
I have been dating a guy for about three years now. Every thing has been going well. He claims he loves me but he doesn't spend on me. He knows I am still job hunting that I don't have any means of income of my own but he doesn't care at all. How I feed, cloth, recharge my phone, he doesn't know. He doesn't even ask how I cope with all my basic needs as a woman. He doesn't recharge my phone and when I manage to recharge with the little money I have and call him, he won't even reject or ignore the call and call me back knowing well that I don't work. He will make sure he exhausts the little airtime. It is not as I he doesn't have the money, he has it. In fact he is very comfortable but he doesn't spend on me. I am a type of lady that doesn't know how to ask for money but I expect him to know that since I am not working yet, he should assist me with some of my needs but if I don't ask, he will do nothing. I am thinking of leaving him because of this attitude I feel he is taking advantage of my nature. Please help me out. I want to know your take on this issue before I take action. Thank you.

Leave him but before u do, ask him of assistance and if he refuses, u know what to do.

Adaumunocha:
Eheeeen? I've never noticed

we have the cheapest milf because our ladies run after money.i can't count the number of igbo girls i have seen with boyfriend and one abroad dude will just appear and whisk her abroad.

vingeophysicist:
we have the cheapest milf because our ladies run after money.i can't count the number of igbo girls i have seen with boyfriend and one abroad dude will just appear and whisk her abroad.

OK

Adaumunocha:
Its you westerners that are championing this broke girls nonsense. Right from time we know you people don't take care of ladies. Very stingy set of people.

what brot westerners and ur discussion with this guy togeda.....i just dont get how people like you think...smh

MhizzAJ:


See u r so biased...will u allow ur sister marry a guy like that...a guy that doesn't give...

A real man would give no matter how little it is

The lady in question doesn't have a job yet and the guy knows but he's just pretending..thats very bad...he's not the girl's father but relationship comes with responsibility and sacrifices and the lady in question is trying on her own path

Don't get me wrong...Am not in support of girls that depend on guys for everything but to an extent a man should be ready to take care of his babe and a woman should equally support her man

So u dont agree with gender equality ...hmmm

sweet7oyin:
what brot westerners and ur discussion with this guy togeda.....i just dont get how people like you think...smh

sweet7oyin:
So u dont agree with gender equality ...hmmm

It depends on what u mean

Men and women should be given equal opportunities that's what i believe.

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Adaumunocha:
Marrying a stingy man has it pros and cons.

Are u for real? Are there pros?

Emasel:


Are u for real? Are there pros?

I guess so.

OP there is no way a man would love you without spending on you, even if you have your own money he will still give you. Love is giving.

Adaumunocha:
I guess so.

Please elaborate

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Emasel:


Please elaborate

No extravagant spending, saves. Frugality is sometimes needed in order to grow especially for businessmen.

Adaumunocha:
No extravagant spending, saves. Frugality is sometimes needed in order to grow especially for businessmen.

That's a good point. Not just for businessmen though, for people trying to actualize their dreams with limited resources

BenShammer:
That's a good point. Not just for budiness men though, for people trying to actualize their dreams with limited resources

True

And I dey toast Lizzy d oda day, she never even agree yet....She don already d tax me 1k without fear


But if a guy man ask for sex from ladies without toastin first, den yawa go gas.....den start callin names like "fuckboy, Irresponsibleboy, Ashewoboy....

Lawlahdey:
He's testing your resilience

It is stupidity

Divay22:
Just be contented with what you have,live as if he doesn't exist...
I pray you get a job soon...

I love this

is it possible?

GOFRONT:
And I dey toast Lizzy d oda day, she never even agree yet....She don already d tax me 1k without fear


But if a guy man ask for sex from ladies without toastin first, den yawa go gas.....den start callin names like "fuckboy, Irresponsibleboy, Ashewoboy....

What are you saying self.
All these small boys on nairaland
Mtcheew

If you need money @op ask your bf... Simple... Guys are not mind readers... Tho every guy shuld spend on his gal once in a while...

AmazingM:
Good evening my dear nairalanders. Please I need your honest opinion on this issue because I am very confused now that I don't know what to do.

I have been dating a guy for about three years now. Every thing has been going well. He claims he loves me but he doesn't spend on me. He knows I am still job hunting that I don't have any means of income of my own but he doesn't care at all. How I feed, cloth, recharge my phone, he doesn't know. He doesn't even ask how I cope with all my basic needs as a woman. He doesn't recharge my phone and when I manage to recharge with the little money I have and call him, he won't even reject or ignore the call and call me back knowing well that I don't work. He will make sure he exhausts the little airtime.

It is not as I he doesn't have the money, he has it. In fact he is very comfortable but he doesn't spend on me. I am a type of lady that doesn't know how to ask for money but I expect him to know that since I am not working yet, he should assist me with some of my needs but if I don't ask, he will do nothing.

I am thinking of leaving him because of this attitude I feel he is taking advantage of my nature. Please help me out. I want to know your take on this issue before I take action.

Thank you.

Girl. I sent you an e-mail. If you really want an answer from one with a similar experience, reply.

He is trying to make you an independent woman,i guess

tosyne2much:
Don't let anybody fool you that you shouldn't be bothered if he doesn't spend a kobo on you since he's not married to you.

I mean, how then do you express love when the person that claims to love you is not sensitive to your needs? What kind of a man will watch his lady go stranded when he's financially buoyant to bail her out but will keep claiming that money does not equate love?

I will advise you to thread carefully cos love is not expressed with stinginess.. The worst that can ever happen to a lady is to marry a stingy man.

Marry him at your own peril

God bless you. You have spoken my mind. I advice the lady to quit and stop wasting her time

AmazingM:
Good evening my dear nairalanders. Please I need your honest opinion on this issue because I am very confused now that I don't know what to do.

I have been dating a guy for about three years now. Every thing has been going well. He claims he loves me but he doesn't spend on me. He knows I am still job hunting that I don't have any means of income of my own but he doesn't care at all. How I feed, cloth, recharge my phone, he doesn't know. He doesn't even ask how I cope with all my basic needs as a woman. He doesn't recharge my phone and when I manage to recharge with the little money I have and call him, he won't even reject or ignore the call and call me back knowing well that I don't work. He will make sure he exhausts the little airtime.

It is not as I he doesn't have the money, he has it. In fact he is very comfortable but he doesn't spend on me. I am a type of lady that doesn't know how to ask for money but I expect him to know that since I am not working yet, he should assist me with some of my needs but if I don't ask, he will do nothing.

I am thinking of leaving him because of this attitude I feel he is taking advantage of my nature. Please help me out. I want to know your take on this issue before I take action.

Thank you.

3 years abi
Continue.
Leave after 10 years
Person wey no even no whether you exist claiming him as boyfriend