tosyne2much:
Don't let anybody fool you that you shouldn't be bothered if he doesn't spend a Kobo on you since he's not married to you.

I mean, how then do you express love when the person that claims to love you is not sensitive to your needs? What kind of a man will watch his lady go stranded when he can bail her out but will keep claiming that money is not love?

I will advise you to thread carefully oooo.. The worst that can ever happen to a lady is to marry a stingy man. Marry him at your own peril

Ifakiland:
Broke ass biitch....u still have the nerves to threaten to break up, please break up fast and move on Abeg.....help his life and move on....mr eazi doesn't have two head....may God never bring a broke gf like u into my life o....#spits#

AmazingM:
Good evening my dear nairalanders. Please I need your honest opinion on this issue because I am very confused now that I don't know what to do.
I have been dating a guy for about three years now. Every thing has been going well. He claims he loves me but he doesn't spend on me. He knows I am still job hunting that I don't have any means of income of my own but he doesn't care at all. How I feed, cloth, recharge my phone, he doesn't know. He doesn't even ask how I cope with all my basic needs as a woman. He doesn't recharge my phone and when I manage to recharge with the little money I have and call him, he won't even reject or ignore the call and call me back knowing well that I don't work. He will make sure he exhausts the little airtime. It is not as I he doesn't have the money, he has it. In fact he is very comfortable but he doesn't spend on me. I am a type of lady that doesn't know how to ask for money but I expect him to know that since I am not working yet, he should assist me with some of my needs but if I don't ask, he will do nothing. I am thinking of leaving him because of this attitude I feel he is taking advantage of my nature. Please help me out. I want to know your take on this issue before I take action. Thank you.

AmazingM:
I didn't pray to be in this condition. That I am broke today doesn't mean I will be broke for ever. There's time for everything and I know that when the time comes, God will take me to where I ought to be financially. Thanks for your contribution and God bless you.

AmazingM:
I didn't pray to be in this condition. That I am broke today doesn't mean I will be broke for ever. There's time for everything and I know that when the time comes, God will take me to where I ought to be financially. Thanks for your contribution and God bless you.

RETIREDMUMU:


oh sorry i don't know u r biafran descendants dat is how una roll from una side. bye broke sweet lady


but before u go, i command the spirit of dependent, liability Otta ur life ijn, amen

AmazingM:
Good evening my dear nairalanders. Please I need your honest opinion on this issue because I am very confused now that I don't know what to do.
I have been dating a guy for about three years now. Every thing has been going well. He claims he loves me but he doesn't spend on me. He knows I am still job hunting that I don't have any means of income of my own but he doesn't care at all. How I feed, cloth, recharge my phone, he doesn't know. He doesn't even ask how I cope with all my basic needs as a woman. He doesn't recharge my phone and when I manage to recharge with the little money I have and call him, he won't even reject or ignore the call and call me back knowing well that I don't work. He will make sure he exhausts the little airtime. It is not as I he doesn't have the money, he has it. In fact he is very comfortable but he doesn't spend on me. I am a type of lady that doesn't know how to ask for money but I expect him to know that since I am not working yet, he should assist me with some of my needs but if I don't ask, he will do nothing. I am thinking of leaving him because of this attitude I feel he is taking advantage of my nature. Please help me out. I want to know your take on this issue before I take action. Thank you.

RETIREDMUMU:


see this one, this is how liability wifey created, is he your hubby or ur fada, can you be independent without, baby i want to do my hair, i want to buy cream, bqby baby buy me sawama, hey baby my monthly pad is almost finished.....

try to have life yall broke girl

AmazingM:
I didn't pray to be in this condition. That I am broke today doesn't mean I will be broke for ever. There's time for everything and I know that when the time comes, God will take me to where I ought to be financially. Thanks for your contribution and God bless you.

Adaumunocha:
Its you westerners that are championing this broke girls nonsense. Right from time we know you people don't take care of ladies. Very stingy set of people.

Ifakiland:

I hate broke gfs telling guys how to spend the money he sweated to make....Infact any guy that's dating a broke gal is useless and will be useless for life.

Divay22:
Forget the idiot.. He's broke himself

MhizzAJ:


See u r so biased...will u allow ur sister marry a guy like that...a guy that doesn't give...

A real man would give no matter how little it is

The lady in question doesn't have a job yet and the guy knows but he's just pretending..thats very bad...he's not the girl's father but relationship comes with responsibility and sacrifices and the lady in question is trying on her own path

Don't get me wrong...Am not in support of girls that depend on guys for everything but to an extent a man should be ready to take care of his babe and a woman should equally support her man

Ifakiland:

U from the east that they take care of and still use ur hubby money to fork around nko?
Igbo married woman and the easiest milfs to fork cos they married rich old bastards as hubbys

MhizzAJ:


See u r so biased...will u allow ur sister marry a guy like that...a guy that doesn't give...

A real man would give no matter how little it is

The lady in question doesn't have a job yet and the guy knows but he's just pretending..thats very bad...he's not the girl's father but relationship comes with responsibility and sacrifices and the lady in question is trying on her own path

Don't get me wrong...Am not in support of girls that depend on guys for everything but to an extent a man should be ready to take care of his babe and a woman should equally support her man

Adaumunocha:
Its you westerners that are championing this broke girls nonsense. Right from time we know you people don't take care of ladies. Very stingy set of people.

RETIREDMUMU:


so u want to win me in argument ba??

Safiaa:
Being a stingy man is a terrible thing. That's what I can see from here. Honestly, this is a sign that you shouldn't ignore. Because it will only escalate, and probably grow into your marriage. Try and communicate your concerns with him.

AmazingM:
I didn't pray to be in this condition. That I am broke today doesn't mean I will be broke for ever. There's time for everything and I know that when the time comes, God will take me to where I ought to be financially. Thanks for your contribution and God bless you.

MhizzAJ:

Lol

No be competition nah

Piiko:
what if he doesn't have a lot of money at his disposal while dating

Ifakiland:

From all she wrote it's obvious she doesn't support the guy in anyway

Ifakiland:

U from the east that they take care of and still use ur hubby money to fork around nko?
Igbo married woman and the easiest milfs to fork cos they married rich old bastards as hubbys

pocohantas:


Well said. I am of the opinion that love gives, even if it's biro. In a scenario where the partner isn't overly demanding, once in a while...you should give something.

Safiaa:
Shes already said that he is comfortable and doing well for himself. If he doesn't have money, then thats understandable.

Ifakiland:

Go and work and stop ur sob stories...learn makeup or cake making, cos if u fink doing runs is easy....ask that she fool dat called her dad an idiot.

MhizzAJ:


She's trying her best nah at least she's not the demanding type..All she's asking for is a little bit of care.

The motive of some guys is just to take as much as they can from a lady.

Piiko:
I didn't read the story all through I thought it was ur cliche say no to broke boys, her concerns are valid, she should tell him upfront or leave the relationship, things can only get worse

Ifakiland:

All the males in your bloodlines are idiots....broke she human.