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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by noyen(m): 5:59am On Oct 13, 2017 |
AmazingM:iit's a matter of choice |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by GCsomething: 6:01am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Divay22: You have talked like me. I tell my friends this even girls. Create value for yourself. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by dazzlingd(m): 6:08am On Oct 13, 2017 |
AmazingM: what have you contributed to his life.? Why are most girls liabilities to men? You are not his wife hence not his responsibility. It's not all about money but what value have you added to his life? As girls dislike broke guys, guys despise broke girls as well, worst of all liabilities that add no values to them 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by cutieme(m): 6:12am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Adaumunocha:Adaumunocha hi,relate with me ,let's take it from there biko |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by lovingyouhun: 6:12am On Oct 13, 2017 |
kimbraa: @ dating yourself in the relationship which is very true |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Slayer2: 6:13am On Oct 13, 2017 |
AmazingM: He is not helping you but he is sleeping with you whenever he wants? Hmm |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by dazzlingd(m): 6:14am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Ifakiland: As in, these girls cases tire person oo. Until their thinking mentality is changed, girls can do great things, but the mentality to always receive limit their potentials in life. The thirst to be successful and fear of being left behind bring out the best in people |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by chillychill(f): 6:14am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Lawlahdey:ha! For three years? Iyen Na da |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by lazeal: 6:18am On Oct 13, 2017 |
AmazingM:do you have other people asking you out? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by kaydp: 6:19am On Oct 13, 2017 |
cristianisraeli:hahaaaA |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by don4real18(m): 6:20am On Oct 13, 2017 |
OrestesDante:And you believe the OP |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Slayer2: 6:22am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Ifakiland: Kai. This guy, you wan kee me with laugh, be like girl don do you strong thing before o |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by benebaby77: 6:22am On Oct 13, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Boss, The man might be acting it... There abounds many fair-wealther friends - males or females. The experience he had might have changed how he think about 21st-century Nigerian girls which men's love are measured by how much they spend on them. There are many other things the lady should take into cognizance apart from spending on her. Spending is not a strong determining factor of love... |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 6:22am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Authenticity(m): 6:23am On Oct 13, 2017 |
is he the only guy after you?are you saying that you dont have other gentle men ready to spend the cash on you , even asking you out ,,,i think you enjoy it? why complain? ladies like bad guys ,,so thats why you dont feel like letting go even with all the caring ,,,,,,,,just my opinion though dont hang me yet. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by don4real18(m): 6:23am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Slayer2:Isn't she sleeping with him? If she was the one with the job and he was in her position, will she bear his financial burden. I do not believe he doesn't spend at all... She probably just wants more 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by lazeal: 6:26am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Ifakiland:come on bro. You and your likers are horrible. I am a guy and I know that a girl I don't spend means I don't love her. Simple. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Slayer2: 6:27am On Oct 13, 2017 |
don4real18: That's why I always tell my niggaz. Date working class ladies, bankers, nurses, female docs, most of the ladies you see working and living comfortable have no man in their life, you know why? They spent the last years working and didn't really put much into relationship so it didn't pay off for them, now they are single, they need love. Not all these Nigerian girls wey no get job, join this harsh naija economy, you go just turn her father. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Jonzingmaster(m): 6:28am On Oct 13, 2017 |
jashar: The Most sensible comment i have seen on nairaland. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by reality17(m): 6:31am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Divay22: Are u sure this is ur real face sorry i mean is this ur real self? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by TiffanyDavies(f): 6:31am On Oct 13, 2017 |
It's ok if he doesn't spend on you as long as you guys don't have premarital sex. Anytime he asks for that, remind him to accept you the way you are just as you have accepted that he is Silas Marner. Also, stop performing other widely duties. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by reality17(m): 6:32am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Dillusionist: I can see u are only 15 |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by emmyasam0: 6:33am On Oct 13, 2017 |
jashar:God bless you. I wish nigerian ladies will understand this |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by bodmas119(m): 6:34am On Oct 13, 2017 |
but he dey give u cassava and cucumber |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by karkel(m): 6:39am On Oct 13, 2017 |
AmazingM:he taking advantage of my nature. What nature if I may ask |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Marsnizz: 6:39am On Oct 13, 2017 |
put it in mind that you are not marrying him because of his money.He don't need to buy something as cheap as recharge card and in case he did who will you call with the card,is it him or another friend? But just a minute if the guy is stingy naturally, don't consider him for marriage because you will suffer with your children.Study the guy the way you did to A,B,C and find out if really he is spending on himself,if he owe people debt or people owe him debt,is he the type that doesn't want to pay back his debt? if he is not paying, back, having querrel with people cos of it then the guy must be stingy.Run away from the pending nemesis that may later befalls you in the future.minus money and recharge card has he ever buy you gift or offered good things or an opportunity for your job hunting, helping you to search for one?I mean put something like this into consideration and you will find out his real colours to decide either to run away or not.Pls don't ask money for recharge card from your man.Show him that little affection with the small one you have and do not expect anything in return if you don't want to be considered as cheap and broke because 95% of guys hate buying card for a lady. I am one of the example but I can opt to buy something more expensive and lasting than recharge card..E.g undies like pants, bra,cosmetics and any good clothing material she may desire. Finally, if a guy cannot comfortably do some small stuff for you then you have to be very careful |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 6:41am On Oct 13, 2017 |
A lot of young men these days are just trying to Dodge their responsibility, shebi our grand dads and even some of our dads were sole providers, if you check, most of such marriages are still intact. Young men want women who are not "liabilities" mostly because they want to eat their cake and have it. I'm all for financial independence as a woman, but be sure you're not dating or planning to marry a man who sees a lottery ticket in you. Such men will abandon their financial obligations to you after marriage. My aunty dey suffer am now. You want a woman to submit to you, love you, Cook for you, get pregnant, give birth, raise your kids and yet, you are demanding she shares ur financial obligations with you. If a woman decides to help out in a marriage financially, its a choice, its not an obligation. It is the man who is obligated to provide financially. If the man is not married to you yet, pls look out for signs that he'd be able to take care of you and your kids when you're married. Its when you're dating or courting that you should be able to enjoy the money and gifts of your partner because marriage is financially demanding. Love is giving, i ain't saying women should be gold diggers, heck, women make their own money these days, I'm just saying just cause you have your money as a woman doesn't mean you should marry a stingy man. You'd go broke marrying such a man. I believe the reason there is a high rate of divorce these days is because women have become financially independent and can walk away from a marriage they are no longer tolerant of. In the past, because woman no get means of training her kids, she go manage the marriage. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 6:44am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Dillusionist:The OP said boyfriend and you are saying marrige,look for your eyeglass jor,besides which man will be stingy to his wife? the guy may not be as buoyant as she thinks ,it cud be packaging |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by kizyalex10(m): 6:46am On Oct 13, 2017 |
AmazingM:my dear,every man has his own testing method,nd I fall into the category of nt giving a woman money,for me I don't do that because iam stingy but to know her ability to cope with me when iam broke nd her ability to manage situations,most ladies have failed this test,even d one gainfully employed.(thou mine started with a bad experience I had while growing up)a man most times love to marry a lady who love is greater than his.if a lady loves a man more,she will tolerate his short comings ndd d marriage will last till eternity.believe me,most men that do it even d rich re nt. Doing because they re stingy but the ability to knw if u can manage d whealth when u see them,cos if money doesn't thrill u,when u see plenty of it,it won't still change u or ur personality.am nt saying for sure that he is testing u but thatz what happens in most cases.the girl iam dating currently,i don't give her money,neither is she gainfully employed yet.still job hunting.but I don't spend on her either,i jst do it once in a blue moon.nd it's jst little ones I do.nd she have proved beyond reasonable doubt that she is a wonderful creature.iam gonna propose to her very soon.i promised myself that am gonna buy her a car on the wedding day.like I said,most guys do it but must have their reasons like I have mine,nd d few guys I encountered have d same mentality as I do. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Nobody: 6:48am On Oct 13, 2017 |
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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Blessingbenson(f): 6:50am On Oct 13, 2017 |
Run for ur dear life nne.Even if he marries u,he's not gonna change |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by Morenikeji090(m): 6:52am On Oct 13, 2017 |
OrestesDante:mostly this shits happening within Nigeria lady's a lots all there life is moment money money |
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