lazeal:
come on bro. You and your likers are horrible. I am a guy and I know that a girl I don't spend means I don't love her. Simple.

Ifakiland:

I hope u choke out then, one less broke ass gal to worry about

jashar:
Concentrate on having a source of income and not bother yourself with what your boyfriend does with his money.


No man you're not married to owes you anything....

But, don't marry someone that isn't caring.

Joy1706:

Your bitterness will kill you first and you'll probably die alone. Money you no get. I pray your bitterness is sufficient company for you sha

Dillusionist:

he will exhaust your airtime but can't do the same for you? ?and he's probably doing all that for another lady
I hate stingy rats occupying space in my life and when it comes to marriage better pick race.

start thinking with your brain intact.

wendy241:
diz was exactly wot a guy asked mi if we cn date wtout him giving mi anytin bt I wil be dere for him even make luv to mi wen he wants is dat possible Wen am a student

Ifakiland:

Ure the one choking not me

cristianisraeli:


you just shoot yourself for leg here

gist2000:
Girl. I sent you an e-mail. If you really want an answer from one with a similar experience, reply.

Zanxx:


Love your determination, things will workout fine. Was once in a similar situaton. But through it all, i told myself once i get a job things will change. This was a man i cooked and cleaned for every weekend ooo yet he neglected me to the extent that he was ashamed of my appearance. By the grace of God i got a job and wrote him off. Success is the best revenge, don't ever give up

Ifakiland post =61329357:
All this chew gum gals wey u go spend on them finish them go go marry anoda guy, them go come open mouth say "how much did u spend on me sef?" Na Thunder go fire una...come and collect money from my account na....

tylesh:

Word!

AmazingM:
I have replied your message.

jashar:


Do I get an award?

Jonzingmaster:


yea..oya take am

OrdercityWeb:

And what will the lady be giving?

Please don't mention sex because: 1) Not all guys ask for sex ( I'm one)

2)Sex is enjoyed by both male and female.

So please answer my question. Thanks you

lovethchioma:
You can decide not to help your gf out with money when you're in a relationship.. No problem. Maybe she has nothing to offer... I can't come and be telling you what to do. Whatever rocks your boat.

I was only telling the Op that it isn't normal for a guy to be in a relationship with her and love her and not have cared to give her anything for the three years they've been dating... No normal guy will do that... That guy doesn't love her or he is just being stingy. I don't even know how to say this thing abeg.

If giving to the woman you love is such a big deal for you... My dear, I can't help you.

*** This is the much I can type.. I'm really tired, I'm off to bed biko

ImaIma1:
Op when someone loves, they give. Whether or not you are working, your boyfriend should be able to give no matter how little. It is a mindset problem. You don't need to be around that kind of person.
He might not be your father or caretaker but as long as he says he loves you, he has to give.
You tried to have stayed 3yrs with him. I can't stand stingy, selfish and small minded people.
It is your choice to continue with him but most faults are amplified in marriage. Look well before you leap.

OrdercityWeb:


And what will the lady be giving?

Please don't mention sex because: 1) Not all guys ask for sex ( I'm one)

2)Sex is enjoyed by both male and female.

Kindly answer thank you

LifeofAirforce:
I don't spend much on bae and she love me

ImaIma1:


Sex is not all women give and as you mentioned it is not enjoyed by only him.
They give gifts, food, financial assistance if needed, emotional support, advice, etc.
But the topic's reference was to a MAN who doesn't give. That's where my focus was

funmisticqueen:
she knows you are a mental case

Brugo:
How the hell do you know his financial.capability? Did he reveal his earnings to you? Do you even know whether he sends money to support his family?

Look, he doesn't "owe" you any financial support. If you were not dating anyone wouldn't you still take care of your basic needs? A boyfriend is not your atm.

This sense of entitlement is really nauseating.

The only thing I see wrong is the fact that he exhausts your airtime knowing that you don't have a job.

Maybe he doesn't want a broke girlfriend. A grown woman who cannot fend for herself is not an asset to any sensible man.

I have always dated ladies who are financially independent. They often accepted and appreciated my gifts without asking me or feeling entitled.

A sensible man is often attracted to a woman who can take care of herself.

OrdercityWeb:


Great! Cool.

You see what i noticed from all you mentioned most are intangible. This means a lady needs to spend time developing herself. Also from your answer i can sense you're an adult or at least reason like one.
The thing is all you mentioned are good but the problem is how many young ladies spend time to develop themselves to offer ththis things today?
This is why many of them think sex is a bargaining chip. Thanks for your response. Have a good day.

ImaIma1:


Sex is not all women give and as you mentioned it is not enjoyed by only him.
They give gifts, food, financial assistance if needed, emotional support, advice, etc.
But the topic's reference was to a MAN who doesn't give. That's where my focus was