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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by steve13(m): 1:44am On Oct 26, 2017
Louis Vuitton was named the world's most valuable luxury brand. Its 2012 valuation was US$25.9 billion. The 2013 valuation of the brand was US$28.4 billion with revenue of US$9.4 billion,The company operates in 50 countries with more than 460 stores worldwide And yet some yeye people won't create us some brands like this , they want to get a degree and get a job.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by steve13(m): 1:46am On Oct 26, 2017
You have no idea , We do not operate on the same frequency. Won't you run your mouth, ain't you on nairaland.

pocohantas:


You read all my post from first page and that's all your brain could come up with it? I clearly stated it, that I prefer professionals, not just the degree, it's my choice. Not because I feel people without degree are not intelligent.

Now, did you read the opening post before hopping on my comment. The OP said ONLY SSCE certificate, then some people start mentioning Zuckerberg and Gates, does that correlate?

You missed all that and you are on my post to tell me what your B.Sc friends earn? Did I at at any point tell you my problem is their earning capacity? All my responses as regards financial worth were in response to people and not my stand.

Pray tell me, how your post take concern me based on my stand?

I'm so little for you to care about, but you quoted me and typed all that epistle. You read all my posts from page 1...wonderful grin



What have you produced? Mr smartypants? cheesy
I never said I am better than people without degree, show me where I explicitly stated that and I will address your stupidity.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 1:48am On Oct 26, 2017
steve13:

You have no idea , We do not operate on the same frequency. Won't you run your mouth, ain't you on nairaland.

Next time read from the beginning, don't be too forward. You can be Zuckerberg on Nairaland, it's allowed.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 2:07am On Oct 26, 2017
HRHQueenPhil:


In this age, i cant do it. there are uncountable stories of people who struggled 2 train themselves through school. he didnt do it, not because of money BUT because he thought it was not necessary. Any man with that mentality is not fit to be my husband and life partner. when we get married, i would have submit to him, i cant marry such a man only for him 2 tell me my children does not need to do BSc or MSc is a waste of money.
Your sense of reasoning seems to amaze me, you lack exposure and your mindset and understanding are greatly impinged by the messed up country you live in. Do you know how much you get paid for an hour work minimum without a degree in Sweden? $13, how about with a degree? $13. How about a technical education of the required field you work in? $15, $17,$18,$20, how about with years of experience and technical education? $100k per annum. Your country is messed up, out there no one cares about your degree, as long as you know how to do the job, that makes you qualified. Nigeria is messed up and incredibly corrupt, the reason why a lawyer can be the minister of power and housing. There is a huge difference between being educated and owning a degree, you simply have a flawed mindset of what a dropout should look like. I have a friend who dropped out of a uni in Nigeria because he is too intelligent to be schooled by Nigeria's applauding educational system. He went to a technical school for an IT course in the U.S.A and landed a job with a tech startup in bay area California (Silicon Valley), today he earns about $100k per annum. Of course, if he returns to Nigeria, he will be tagged an illiterate, why? over a worthless piece of paper that can be bought in Nigeria (literally), but in a developed country he's regarded a man of intellect. Back then in school I once had a heating argument with the most intelligent boys in my class, over an incredibly stupid statement. "Airplanes fly with black magic and demons make them fly", believe it or not, there are idiots like this with a first class in Nigeria, graduates who think javascript codes are spells or mathematics, graduates who think it's right for a military man to slap you for answering a phone call at a military checkpoint. You need a man who values education, but a degree? I'm not sure you know the difference.

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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Felixabel(m): 2:11am On Oct 26, 2017
Peachess:
No, fucking way, I can't do that. You don't expect me to go through the stress of getting a degree, then settling with someone lesser than I am. The truth is, there's always going to be jealousy and so many annoying shit like that. I want someone that reasons better than me, that I can have a reasonable conversation with. Most educated people can't even have a reasonable conversation not to talk of a school dropout.
Let me ask you one question, what if that same person that has no degree has investment and he has money, he even employ people with degrees wouldn't u marry him?
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by dikeigbo2(m): 2:23am On Oct 26, 2017
Peachess:
No, fucking way, I can't do that. You don't expect me to go through the stress of getting a degree, then settling with someone lesser than I am. The truth is, there's always going to be jealousy and so many annoying shit like that. I want someone that reasons better than me, that I can have a reasonable conversation with. Most educated people can't even have a reasonable conversation not to talk of a school dropout.






You have to wait till Jesus comes.....the certificate you got through the hook or crook you are ranting about here.....No sane ssce holder will take the risk of marrying you cos you are a complete liability to the core....

That means you gonna remain unmarried till Jesus comes........certificate you got through the hook or crook you are ranting about....no sane Ssce holder can even manage you cos you are a complete liability to the core
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by olusayeroyagi(m): 2:28am On Oct 26, 2017
Safiaa:
A degree is a certificate. Thats all. It really doesn't define a lot.
kai who be dis girl u too get sense jor
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by bkool7(m): 3:09am On Oct 26, 2017
Rubbiish:

Easier said than done
If u are educated, wont your parents question u for bringing an uneducated man home?

It depends on what you mean by being educated.
Would that be having a degree or being knowledgable and informed?
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by bkool7(m): 3:14am On Oct 26, 2017
Whats your definition of an " an ducated person?" Someone that went to a higher institution to acquire a worthless piece of paper ?
If thats it, then we have a lot to learn whether its your preference or not.
See your certitificate is worthless and useless if you dont know what to do with it. It's even more worthless and useless if you cant achieve anything with it.
You dont learn how to be successful in school and no employer pays you for owning a certificate, you only get paid for what can do with your knowledge and experience.
Need I say having degree doesnt have anything to do with success?
An over 30 year old lady actaully once regected me cos I didnt possess a Degree.
She's still not married now. I dont care about degree, just have some level of education, be knowledgable and informed.

The real experience on life and success is learned outside the school
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Smartii(m): 3:20am On Oct 26, 2017
QueenSekxy:
nope,,I don't think we can reason alike,,especially when I want to further my education.
And how does he prevent you from furthering your studies!?
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Smartii(m): 3:29am On Oct 26, 2017
MaritzaNL:
These folks you are calling up and down are in a civilized society, they are in developed country where they learn worthy skills without a degree and are very fluent in English, the non degree holders here mostly can't even make a correct sentence, most of them. So I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I will keep correcting someone's grammatical errors and blunders, thereby making me feel embarrassed and ruining my image which means a lot to me. Also why I said our thinking level won't be the same is because most of these non-degree holders perceive you as acting or feeling big because you have a degree and they don't, I don't know if you are getting my point, you can't give him your opinion or advice as a husband without him saying "Is it because I didn't go to school" or reminding you of him not being a graduate, there is this inferiority complex they carry around , I'm not cut out for that shiit.

Also I never made mention of one having a degree will make him automatically smart, going to school or being in school is a guide not really what makes you smart.
What of a situation he was rich, speaks good English and intelligent!? In this age of online studies..... Don't ever underrate and relegate any man, degree is a means to an end not the end itself. Infact, with his ssce, hardwork and determination, he would even employ graduates to work in his firm! And I've seen instances of this my dear. In Lagos where good English is said by people with little formal knowledge. If love hit you, u might even ask he proposes on time! grin
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Peachess(f): 3:31am On Oct 26, 2017
jamalchance:

i havent seen the 4 walls of a university but i reason better than you if am to judge with this post
You're just pained and it's obvious you have a low level of reasoning cos you let sentiments to cloud your judgements. Any sane person will know that's my opinion and respect it. Different people have different preference and only a bird brain like you will tell someone he reasons better just because she prefers something he's not, if you don't like it, well you can go go hell and kiss Satan's ass for all I care.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Joemavel(m): 3:34am On Oct 26, 2017
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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by yemmmydon(m): 3:37am On Oct 26, 2017
Academics qualifications is not a true test of knowledge neither a yardstick for success in life or Marriage... Entrepreneurship ti take over...Am new here though
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Joemavel(m): 3:37am On Oct 26, 2017
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Peachess(f): 3:38am On Oct 26, 2017
agarawu23:
yinmu

Even if the guy is richer than dangote? lipsrsealed
FFS ! When the Bleep will you guys stop asking this question? It's not all about money but preference!
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Peachess(f): 3:39am On Oct 26, 2017
princeadams11:

Having a degree doesn't make you reason better than the person without it.
I can't remember saying I'm better, it's just my preference so respect it.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Jrevelation(m): 3:43am On Oct 26, 2017
To be sincere with you

You can marry anyone but don't go for a poor man

You need money to survive in marriage not certificate if you think I lie ask my neighbor

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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Peachess(f): 3:43am On Oct 26, 2017
talk2percy:
and u forgot that there are people with SSCE that reasons more deeply and holds an interesting conversation more than graduates and even more focused? It all depends on what we want in life anyways. And nobi these half-baked gradutes wey our universities dey dish out yearly wey full everywhere??
There's are a lot of intelligence SSCE holder, but what I said is my preference. I can't (I wouldn't even do that ) tell you the kind of lady to date (fat, thin, dark, fair, beautiful or ugly) cos it's your preference, so please respect mine.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Peachess(f): 3:46am On Oct 26, 2017
Felixabel:

Let me ask you one question, what if that same person that has no degree has investment and he has money, he even employ people with degrees wouldn't u marry him?
I don't care about that, it's just my preference. I can't choose the kind of lady (thin, fat, fair, dark, ugly or beautiful) you want, so please respect my opinion.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Fantes(m): 3:46am On Oct 26, 2017
Which degree does buhari have?
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Peachess(f): 3:52am On Oct 26, 2017
dikeigbo2:







You have to wait till Jesus comes.....the certificate you got through the hook or crook you are ranting about here.....No sane ssce holder will take the risk of marrying you cos you are a complete liability to the core....

That means you gonna remain unmarried till Jesus comes........certificate you got through the hook or crook you are ranting about....no sane Ssce holder can even manage you cos you are a complete liability to the core
You're just pained nigga. I ain't waiting till Jesus comes cos SSCE holders are not the only men out there. They're so many people that fits my standard. You have a very low level of reasoning cos you let sentiments to cloud your judgment. I won't insult you just cos of the kind of lady you want (fat, thin, dark, fair, beautiful or ugly), because I'm sensible enough to know it your preference. Learn to respect other's opinions /preferences. If you're not happy about it, you can go to hell and kiss Satan's ass.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Peacefullove: 3:54am On Oct 26, 2017
tosyne2much:
I don't even think I have posted up to 8 pictures on my Facebook page ever since I started serving. I've got friends who nor dey let people rest with daily selfies with their khakis

Education is really constituting nuisance lately bro

Tosyne keep up your humble attitude jare, considering the present Condition of the country , What is d basis of their Show off if at the end many of dem won't still get Job? is that Not even worst ?

Better to stay low key and let success do the rest. People need to start thinking
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 3:56am On Oct 26, 2017
Peachess:

FFS ! When the Bleep will you guys stop asking this question? It's not all about money but preference!
grin
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Rockyfancino(m): 4:00am On Oct 26, 2017
Peachess:
No, fucking way, I can't do that. You don't expect me to go through the stress of getting a degree, then settling with someone lesser than I am. The truth is, there's always going to be jealousy and so many annoying shit like that. I want someone that reasons better than me, that I can have a reasonable conversation with. Most educated people can't even have a reasonable conversation not to talk of a school dropout.
It means you can't marry people like Zuck or Bill. Goodluck with your life Mrs lesser than me
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by ireneidiva(f): 4:10am On Oct 26, 2017
yeyerolling:
is what we have in nigeria education no lie o. so person like Cosmos maduka of cosharis wey be houseboy and wey no go school till after he had built his empire nko
Calm down. Leave people to state thier opinion and leave.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by ireneidiva(f): 4:13am On Oct 26, 2017
Joemavel:
Smh for naija ladies, am doing great, setting sturvs up, and only planning to later do management programs/courses to better manage my companies, which i presently have one. Without any useless degree and you ladies think having a fake degree makes any fake dude better than me without one.

Was only doing ND when i realized making money was in my blood and school was hindering me, i carried over one course and knowing that as a Christian i cannot cheat to pass when my head no ready read their books again. Degree that money can buy anyhow. Schools where we have first class graduates(first class illiterates) School where you have mostly those who read to pass if at all.

What do we have in universities? No be mostly cheat or runs pple dey take scale through? Yeye.
Uncle go to school before it is too late. Bend down and read. If you read you will pass. You don't have to cheat. I didn't buy my degree.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by YelloweWest: 4:15am On Oct 26, 2017
yeyerolling:
which bsc does indimi, ahmed musa or emenike have . Having a bsc doesnt make u a beta or worse person. In the uk (who colonised us) secondary school education is seen as enuf. A female doc can marry a gardner or cleaner. And no fuss wud be made of it. We really have a long way to go in nigeria. Some have bsc they cant speak or write good english. All those expats in julius berger, cappa and d alberto, and those oil workers in PH . most dont have bsc just vocational courses. Smh for nigeria o
Have u checked the quality of their marriage regarding being married to an educated woman?
It's not all about money o in marriage.

You want to be able to reason with your partner on certain key issues... when one is educated formally and the other is not, hmmm big wahala dey be that!
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Joemavel(m): 4:22am On Oct 26, 2017
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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by YelloweWest: 4:24am On Oct 26, 2017
Peachess:
No, fucking way, I can't do that. You don't expect me to go through the stress of getting a degree, then settling with someone lesser than I am. The truth is, there's always going to be jealousy and so many annoying shit like that. I want someone that reasons better than me, that I can have a reasonable conversation with. Most educated people can't even have a reasonable conversation not to talk of a school dropout.
My dear I agree completely with u.
Marriage is not all about money and success. You want to marry a person whom u share common ground with and reason alike.
An educated woman with a non educated man is a bad mix!
1. His ego: everything she says will be met with "because I no go school abi" no matter her purest of intentions.
2: no amount of money can give a person the experience and exposure from the four walls of a university.

My sister with a masters degree married an oil worker with no university exposure.... that marriage is just hell to say the least!
There sense of reasoning is on two completely different levels.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by YelloweWest: 4:25am On Oct 26, 2017
Marriage is not all about money and success. You want to marry a person whom u share common ground with and reason alike.
An educated woman with a non educated man is a bad mix!
1. His ego: everything she says will be met with "because I no go school abi" no matter her purest of intentions.
2: no amount of money can give a person the experience and exposure from the four walls of a university.

My sister with a masters degree married an oil worker with no university exposure.... that marriage is just hell to say the least!
There sense of reasoning is on two completely different levels.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by ireneidiva(f): 4:26am On Oct 26, 2017
Joemavel:

Na lie you dey lie, you cheated one way or the order, carried expo, talk to colleagues asking about answers. Dey console yourself, did you not read am running a company doing well. What would i need this your paper for? Tell me, except you expect me to some day start going after paid job cheesy
Dat one go mean say u be winsh.
Because you run a company? Is that company Shell or Agip? Trust me, one day you will regret not going to school. Enough said.

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