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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by chibabe259(f): 2:49pm On Oct 31, 2017
Nonsense
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Thiannah(f): 3:17pm On Oct 31, 2017
Had to stop reading when I got to #3 undecided,waste of time reading the whole shit that's up there.

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jeff1607(m): 4:51pm On Oct 31, 2017
it's not possible to follow all these rules but one can use these as a guide

all these kept marriages and families together for generations but since women now believe they have been short changed all we see is divorce, some men aren't worth giving all these to. in other words



CHOOSE YOUR LIFE PARTNERS CAREFULLY

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Dnockeror333(m): 5:14pm On Oct 31, 2017
tycoon3:

Sure they are but maybe 2 in 100 very scares
If any girl should tell you there is noting difficult in it I can go by the rules bro check her age maybe 40+ and still single"desperation

And I pray to meet that 1 of the 2 in 100! Brother please, pray for us against fastness and despiration.
Why go despirate, visit a woman tomorrow and tell her covenant-words; while your real woman, born for no other than you, will visit you for the first time as a stranger or not a stranger, just next week?

God, please, help me...
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Dnockeror333(m): 5:23pm On Oct 31, 2017
rebirthforgoody:
Taking permission before going to bed you are really not serious.I can't take that shit

Why not? Like "Dearest, am dozzing, why dont we go to bed? Or should I go first or sleep on your lap?" ... `Oh ny geéni! Jéz! My blood go rush like wiliwili!'

This is the woman that serves me as her god! Indéed she is my little reward for waiting for God as a virgin! What can I do enough to show this woman that I love her, than to lay down my all for her!
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Dnockeror333(m): 5:24pm On Oct 31, 2017
rebirthforgoody:
Taking permission before going to bed you are really not serious.I can't take that shit

Is this poo? Woman come down from your high horse if you have an humble husband. Let him know you are his greatest gift on the Earth for him!
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by iamJ(m): 5:33pm On Oct 31, 2017
IamKashyBaby:


To the LOVE OF MY LIFE ...IamJ,

be ready at all times coz we gonna settle everything in our bedroom each & every night wink kiss

grin
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Dnockeror333(m): 5:33pm On Oct 31, 2017
WOMEN OF TODAY are in the trousers of men, haggling out the authority of Adam.

Shamefaced? Never!

Sobrierity? Never!

Humility? Never!

Patience and praying? Never!

Open eyes? Ah, many!

Talkactive? Why not!

Manliness? Like pride!

Pompous? Aplenty!

Eh, the 80% girls of today her spoiled beyond repair because our parents are leaving behind the old rugged way of raising children.

Look out and see our young women walking with pride, proud like pouncing lions!

I cried heavenward every day I passed by these eye sour ones!

Ayé awôn Omô bùrùkù atî Alàyô!

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by pocohantas(f): 6:02pm On Oct 31, 2017
LordKO:
Nonsense! Nothing pleases beta and omega classes of people than when they're successful in domineering and subjugating others around them (of course they do only have their way when dealing with those of these same lower classes too), which is as a result of the innate timorous attitude that runs in their blood veins - small-mindedness is a disease. @OP, you ought have boldly postulate, without meandering, that a woman must be your slave in order to fit into your small-minded class.

As far as I am concerned, any relationship that doesn't encourage/accept as norm mutual conscientious libertarianism and reciprocity of goodness is far from being healthy, therefore, should be equated to slavery.

Na only you get sense for here...

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 7:17pm On Oct 31, 2017
LordKO:
Nonsense! Nothing pleases beta and omega classes of people than when they're successful in domineering and subjugating others around them (of course they do only have their way when dealing with those of these same lower classes too), which is as a result of the innate timorous attitude that runs in their blood veins - small-mindedness is a disease. @OP, you ought have boldly postulate, without meandering, that a woman must be your slave in order to fit into your small-minded class.

As far as I am concerned, any relationship that doesn't encourage/accept as norm mutual conscientious libertarianism and reciprocity of goodness is far from being healthy, therefore, should be equated to slavery.
I know you only meant to embrace the occasion to put your fairly impressive eloquence on display. Guess what? You succeeded. Thumbs up.

And to your seeming argument, this write-up is not mine. A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN WHO ENJOYED 82 YEARS OF MARRIAGE WROTE THIS DOWN, SAYING IT WAS HER SECRET TO DOMINATING HER HOME (WHICH IS WHAT NEARLY ALL WOMEN WANT).

She chose to use SUBMISSION to get what she wanted. Other women use REBELLION. But the fact is that they all want the same thing. This was this woman's way of getting it.

Always try to get the point before opening a debate; MR. GRAMMAR

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 7:18pm On Oct 31, 2017
pocohantas:


Na only you get sense for here...
Excuse me?? Do you know my mom from somewhere?? Why not focus on answering the question on ground than judge a woman you do not know??
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jorion(m): 8:07pm On Oct 31, 2017
Heheheheheh. It's like reading Barney's bro code. Real funny
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by alexis22(f): 8:20pm On Oct 31, 2017
jezuzboi:
I know that young ladies may never agree with me. But whoever will implement these points in her marriage will be the happiest of all and shall make a nice home; unless otherwise. This was established by Mrs. Martha de Purenez, who died at the age of 104. She spent 82 years in marriage. In her lifetime, she noted the following;

1. The husband is always right.

2. The husband is always the master of the family even if he has no job and NO MONEY.

3. The wife must ask for permission from the husband before going to bed if the husband isn't yet in bed, as well as before turning her face away from him on the bed. The husband is still the master and has full control on all the operations even in bed.

4. If there is a quarrel with the husband and then a visitor comes, the wife should smile as if nothing happened.

5. Anytime the wife thinks she is right on a matter, she should refer herself to Article number 1.

6. A good wife must go to bed in her nightdress with no panties or bra, (except during your monthly flow, which he must know about) to allow the husband access to her at any time he feels like (NOTE: All women should note that this is a man's greatest desire in marriage - especially if he loves the woman).

7. A woman MUST NEVER refuse her husband's romance expect on the grounds of health and prayers. Even in such cases, she must POLITELY and LOVINGLY explain to him.

8. When the husband is shouting, the wife keeps quiet and that is the time to apologize for whatever has upset him. (NOTE: Apologizing to him after you have shouted back and insulted him DOES NOT WORK!) .

9. The wife should always seek the husband's permission before making any decision except where he has previously granted you the permission on that particular issue.

10. A wife should always excuse the husband to the children if he comes home late.

11. Even on a personal matter a wife waits for her husband with her ideas but must take those of her husband when he is back home.

12. The wife must never use work in the day as an excuse to deny him at night. Let him be the one to say, "Oh, you must be tired after all the stress of the day!" It is best that way.

13. The wife never goes to sit down in her husband's office unless in an urgent case or an emergency. A good husband too will not come and sit in your office.

14. A good wife does not embark on any kind of expenses without consulting the husband even if it is your own money. A good husband too will not control your money.

15. The best way to settle misunderstandings is in the bedroom. If a misunderstanding lingers and he does not make a move in bed, a good wife should make the move.

16. The wife never refuses to prepare his meals, even if he is refusing to eat due to annoyance. When he has refused 2 meals, prepare his favorite, with tempting treats.

17. The wife has no orders to give to her husband, but she receives orders from him.

18. The wife must always respect the husband. Next to freedom of access to his wife's body, this is a man's most important concern.

19. The wife has to control her jealousy and never show it in public.

20. The good wife pays visits to her parents as well as to her in-laws only with the permission of the husband. And under normal circumstances, accompanied by the husband.

21. A good wife never entertains guests in her home without the husband's knowledge and consent. Not even your own relations.

22. NEVER ENTERTAIN ANY MALE GUEST WITHOUT HIS KNOWLEDGE. Not even his own blood brother He may not talk or complain about some, but be sure he has counted it against you.

23. The wife never goes out anywhere without permission from her husband.

NB: Dear woman, know that THE POWER OF A GOOD WIFE IS IN HER WEAKNESS. Please, as stupid as this may sound to you, use it and watch your husband become your lover once again. This was Mrs. Martha de Purenez’s secret recipe for a happy marriage and full control of her home.

She did all the above and was the one running the home; NOT HER HUSBAND!!! His love and respect for her were second to none!!! If you wish to marry well and have all that control over your home, you might want to consider taking this to heart. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WOMAN WHO IS WISE!!!

I support this 100% and tho am not yet married but the times I was very submissive in my relationship it was wonderful and peaceful..... please ladies let's not dwell on equality!!! tried it and trust me it only brought unnecessary fights

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by alexis22(f): 8:43pm On Oct 31, 2017
tycoon3:
Hmm...I don't believe any lady of this generation will accept and adhere to this, it sounds rigid


no it doesn't sound rigid..... I have been submissive to my man and it's so wonderful he appreciates my humility all the time and the rules sure works. although a time I was influenced by this gender equality stuff I started misbehave and honestly I almost lost my bf .. and please note I wasn't doing that out of desperation neither am I getting old and looking a husband sharp sharp.... am just 22

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 8:51pm On Oct 31, 2017
alexis22:


I support this 100% and tho am not yet married but the times I was very submissive in my relationship it was wonderful and peaceful..... please ladies let's not dwell on equality!!! tried it and trust me it only brought unnecessary fights
May the almighty God bless you and give you a man that truly deserves your kind!!!
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by lilmax(m): 8:54pm On Oct 31, 2017
lol...the husband is always right? grin

that 82yrs marriage must be in suffering

I stopped reading immediately I saw the first rule....

I don't just know why guys keep lacking brain needed to think these days though

mods should close this thread, it's disgusting

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 9:15pm On Oct 31, 2017
lilmax:
lol...the husband is always right? grin

that 82yrs marriage must be in suffering

I stopped reading immediately I saw the first rule....

I don't just know why guys keep lacking brain needed to think these days though

mods should close this thread, it's disgusting
Can you come up with a thread that's worth reading which you think the mods should leave open?
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Jman06(m): 9:22pm On Oct 31, 2017
alexis22:



no it doesn't sound rigid..... I have been submissive to my man and it's so wonderful he appreciates my humility all the time and the rules sure works. although a time I was influenced by this gender equality stuff I started misbehave and honestly I almost lost my bf .. and please note I wasn't doing that out of desperation neither am I getting old and looking a husband sharp sharp.... am just 22
Submission in marriage should be a mutual thing. Men are not more intelligent than women neither are they better decision makers. As such, it is inappropriate for all ladies to just submit to the whims and caprices of men just because they are men. The society will be better for it if ladies learn to stop living in subjugation to the menfolk.
Men should come down from their high-horse and treat the ladies as equal partners whose view s should count when such views are superior. And don't even think that the status quo is the natural order because matriarchal societies have shown that men are indeed not naturally wired to dominate the womenfolk. It is all human(men) arrangements.

Mutual submission is the way!

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Nobody: 9:39pm On Oct 31, 2017
crap! sounded as if your proposal
na passport to heaven undecided

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by lilmax(m): 9:41pm On Oct 31, 2017
jezuzboi:

Can you come up with a thread that's worth reading which you think the mods should leave open?
in a marriage where the husband is always right, what exactly are you teaching the children? grin

guy, seriously we need to start reviewing what ever crap we've read from anywhere before taking it in
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by MissRaine69(f): 9:44pm On Oct 31, 2017
Out of curiosity how many young ladies who subscribe to this school of thought have been successful in their endevours?
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Babybunny(f): 10:20pm On Oct 31, 2017
Trash!!!
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by LordKO(m): 10:48pm On Oct 31, 2017
jezuzboi:

I know you only meant to embrace the occasion to put your fairly impressive eloquence on display. Guess what? You succeeded. Thumbs up.

And to your seeming argument, this write-up is not mine. A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN WHO ENJOYED 82 YEARS OF MARRIAGE WROTE THIS DOWN, SAYING IT WAS HER SECRET TO DOMINATING HER HOME (WHICH IS WHAT NEARLY ALL WOMEN WANT).

She chose to use SUBMISSION to get what she wanted. Other women use REBELLION. But the fact is that they all want the same thing. This was this woman's way of getting it.

Always try to get the point before opening a debate; MR. GRAMMAR

You amuse me. Submissiveness is different from subservience. The characters of the two people involved in the article are that of a beta man and an omega woman - omega people and ass-licking are like bread and butter, while beta people and domineeringness are also like bread and butter, so when these two classes of people meet, harmony is certain. But such harmony is not achievable when a beta person meets with a fellow beta or its superior an alpha person.

Meanwhile, my opposition to the article and usage of the term OP is not directly towards your person literally, even though you concur to the article.

No vex too much you hear.

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by tycoon3(m): 11:37pm On Oct 31, 2017
alexis22:



no it doesn't sound rigid..... I have been submissive to my man and it's so wonderful he appreciates my humility all the time and the rules sure works. although a time I was influenced by this gender equality stuff I started misbehave and honestly I almost lost my bf .. and please note I wasn't doing that out of desperation neither am I getting old and looking a husband sharp sharp.... am just 22
Thank God I'm hearing this; wish we have more ladies with ur philosophy and ideology...
Ur bf is lucky tho...wishing I can get som1 like you smiley

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Donjazzy12(m): 11:39pm On Oct 31, 2017
QueenSekxy:
mtchew..people that cant even afford to woo a girl outside NL gives rules about how women should live their life. ...go and sleep abeg
That's why you will die single!

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Donjazzy12(m): 11:40pm On Oct 31, 2017
Babybunny:
Trash!!!
You are the trash!
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Donjazzy12(m): 11:40pm On Oct 31, 2017
Jman06:
Submission in marriage should be a mutual thing. Men are not more intelligent than women neither are they better decision makers. As such, it is inappropriate for all ladies to just submit to the whims and caprices of men just because they are men. The society will be better for it if ladies learn to stop living in subjugation to the menfolk.
Men should come down from their high-horse and treat the ladies as equal partners whose view s should count when such views are superior. And don't even think that the status quo is the natural order because matriarchal societies have shown that men are indeed not naturally wired to dominate the womenfolk. It is all human(men) arrangements.

Mutual submission is the way!
Woman wrapper!

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by tycoon3(m): 11:41pm On Oct 31, 2017
MissRaine69:
Out of curiosity how many young ladies who subscribe to this school of thought have been successful in their endevours?
U can try it and see if it work or not...
U will get ur answers and primary information through that

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Dmgboss1(m): 11:43pm On Oct 31, 2017
[quote author=alexis22 post=61953324]


no it doesn't sound rigid..... I have been submissive to my man and it's so wonderful he appreciates my humility all the time and the rules sure works. although a time I was influenced by this gender equality stuff I started misbehave and honestly I almost lost my bf .. and please note I wasn't doing that out of desperation neither am I getting old and looking a husband sharp sharp.... am just 22[/quote
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by tycoon3(m): 11:51pm On Oct 31, 2017
Dnockeror333:


And I pray to meet that 1 of the 2 in 100! Brother please, pray for us against fastness and despiration.
Why go despirate, visit a woman tomorrow and tell her covenant-words; while your real woman, born for no other than you, will visit you for the first time as a stranger or not a stranger, just next week?

God, please, help me...
I pray to be lucky aswel noting can be compared to having a beautiful and peaceful home
May God help us

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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by PenisCaP: 12:22am On Nov 01, 2017
alexis22:



no it doesn't sound rigid..... I have been submissive to my man and it's so wonderful he appreciates my humility all the time and the rules sure works. although a time I was influenced by this gender equality stuff I started misbehave and honestly I almost lost my bf .. and please note I wasn't doing that out of desperation neither am I getting old and looking a husband sharp sharp.... am just 22

Wow commendable which part of the country u from
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Nobody: 12:51am On Nov 01, 2017
If I have to go by even 1 of these rules, I'd rather remain unmarried. Marriage is not prison abeg.

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