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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Nobody: 10:24am On Nov 01, 2017 |
frankkydee:Awww...yes baeby. |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Nobody: 10:29am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: Thanks princess |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 10:54am On Nov 01, 2017 |
trustyshoess:You'll sure get what you're asking for |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by frankkydee(m): 10:56am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 11:04am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Joy1706:Hope you read rule #2. In case you didn't, it says; 2. The husband is always the master of the family even if he has no job and NO MONEY. So if you're thinking you have the right to trash-talk your husband simply because you contribute to payment of house rent, think again. Mind you, he could pack out and leave you there alone. The bottom line is DIVORCE, not being SENT OUT OF THE HOUSE. Abi a man cannot divorce a woman who jointly pays house rent?? Nawa ooh... Just look at what you are leveraging on... HOUSE RENT |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 11:09am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Joy1706:How many are enjoying in the name of REBELLION 1 Like |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by odutolasodiq(m): 11:15am On Nov 01, 2017 |
QueenSekxy:the recipe is very true ma'am |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 11:17am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Lawlahdey:God bless you!!! The only argument I expected to get from this post was that NOT ALL MEN DESERVE THIS, PERIOD!!! But I see lots of girls coming here to suggest that the idea is absolutely odd. In order words, even if they happen to get hooked with a man who'll treat them as Queens for abiding by these rules, they'd rather be REBELLIOUS and INSOLENT!!! What I can say about those girls is that they don't even have the capacity to live well, and it's not just when it has to do with a man. If you look at their lives in general, dem no follow. That's why they hate rules like this. Anyway, everyone will always get what they deserve... You can't be a deliberate REBEL and marry a LOYALIST. Those who want to fight will always be found by fellow fighters. And those who truly yearn for peace and are ready to do all it takes to live simple, will always find peaceful fellows to match up... |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Nobody: 11:18am On Nov 01, 2017 |
frankkydee:What date should we pick? |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 11:19am On Nov 01, 2017 |
tosyne2much:My brother, even if I can't find a woman with these traits, let her at least be willing to cultivate these traits. The main thing is the WILLINGNESS. |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 11:31am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Joy1706:If any woman abides by these rules and got ill-treated, look at the men they married. If you make a resolve to have a good home (even without intending to abide by any of these rules), you will sure be careful in picking a man in order not to end up with a freak. Why then shouldn't you be more careful in your choice of a life partner when intending to live by these rules? The truth will always be that THE POWER OF A GOOD WIFE IS IN HER WEAKNESS. Some men take advantage of women (both the weak ones and the self-acclaimed COMMANDOS). And some men get taken advantage of by women, am I wrong? So it's not that they kept the rules and suffered for it. They simply kept the rules with an immature man. Locate a man who intends to live peaceably and keep these rules, and you'll share this same testimony before you die. But be a feminist and marry MIKE TYSON, I swear, we will be hearing your rants on the media like TONTO DIKE and that other MERCY whatever... In any case, this rules are for women who intend to be GOOD WIVES. So I can understand where all these arguments are coming from. |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Nobody: 11:34am On Nov 01, 2017 |
jezuzboi:Makes no difference to me. My life is not dependent on marriage so if it never happens, I'll be perfectly content. God forbid that I'll ever be dependent on a man or any other human for that matter |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by frankkydee(m): 11:36am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Nobody: 11:41am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Any healthy relationship Is built on mutuals mutual respect, Mutual understanding mutual give and take, mutual communications and mutual whatever else MAY APPLY ACCORDING TO THE RELATIONSHIP MUTUAL. Stay the fùck away from narcissists who demand absolute submission and obedience, who believe they are never wrong, who believe they can control your whole life even. You have a whole life before them and you will still have a life after. Don't lose yourself trying to stay in a relationship at all cost. 7 Likes
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Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Nobody: 11:48am On Nov 01, 2017 |
frankkydee:That's early oohhh |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by frankkydee(m): 11:51am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 11:55am On Nov 01, 2017 |
trustyshoess:No wonder you have a contrary view of things... You are not sure of marriage... |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Humanistme: 11:55am On Nov 01, 2017 |
jezuzboi: are you a good man? A mature man will never demand too much and this is too much. 1 Like |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by tycoon3(m): 11:56am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Joy1706:So u aren't like her? Then you are nt virtues lady |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by tosyne2much(m): 11:59am On Nov 01, 2017 |
jezuzboi:Women wey dey outside now na the ones wey go lash out to you when you just do one small thing wey dem no like |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Humanistme: 12:00pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
tycoon3: virtue means different things to different people. I say the woman in this write up is not virtues but simply a mindless weak robot at the mercy of her husband's whim. |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 12:07pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Humanistme:But she succeeded in RULING HER HOME AND HUSBAND. Whatever your idea of A VIRTUOUS WOMAN is, can that woman succeed in marriage Or will she only succeed in waging wars against her husband all in the name of #OurMumuDonDo By the way, who even talked about MUMU here You see how you are calling yourself names by yourself After you'll say it's a man that called you so. |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 12:09pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Humanistme:How little will a mature man demand, please? |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by tycoon3(m): 12:13pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Humanistme:We aint seeing the write up with same view...thank God we've seen people(ladies) who are in support and practicing it does that mean they are mindless weak robot "No"... Actually we see things diff ways |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Humanistme: 12:21pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
jezuzboi: My idea of a virtuous woman can succeed in a marriage. |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by tycoon3(m): 12:21pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
jezuzboi:Don't mind those feminist hoping for equal right. That's why we have so many divorces and seperations and even baby mamas this days just because they don't want to be submissive, even bible says man is the head while the woman is an help mate. I pray they listen so we can have a better world where marriage works and less divorce |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Nobody: 12:36pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
frankkydee:January should be. |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by jezuzboi(m): 12:40pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Humanistme:What's ur idea of a virtuous woman biko? A rebel? A husband fighter? A disrespectful lady? What please? |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by izaray(f): 12:53pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Trust me, any lady dat will practise the aforementioned, is going to end up, making her relationship/marriage bored...Men like a submissive and respectful woman as a wife...But not when the woman is too SOFT..Haba!! The marriage will be bored na, her man will be tired of the whole thing even. 1 Like |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Humanistme: 1:02pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
jezuzboi: 1. The husband is always right. the husband is mortal who is imperfect so he isn't always right. a mature man knows that he is not perfect so he seeks out a partner that complements him. he doesn't demand mindless control because he is kind and loving and not a tyrant. demanding another person to be subject to a flawed person who makes mistakes is asking too much. 5. Anytime the wife thinks she is right on a matter, she should refer herself to Article number 1. no 5 is a definition of foolishness. unless he married a mindless slowpoke a mature man would want to do right and he wouldn't reject good advice from his wife. 8. When the husband is shouting, the wife keeps quiet and that is the time to apologize for whatever has upset him. (NOTE: Apologizing to him after you have shouted back and insulted him DOES NOT WORK!) . a mature man knows how to communicate effectively without shouting at another adult. and does not demand apology when he is wrong only a narcissist does that. 9. The wife should always seek the husband's permission before making any decision except where he has previously granted you the permission on that particular issue. a mature man will not get married to a brainless individual who cannot think for herself and make right decisions in his absence. 10. A wife should always excuse the husband to the children if he comes home late. note a bad idea 11. Even on a personal matter a wife waits for her husband with her ideas but must take those of her husband when he is back home. a mature husband knows marriage is not all about him.it is about mutual love and respect. the wife's feelings and idea matters because she is a human being just like him. 12. The wife must never use work in the day as an excuse to deny him at night. Let him be the one to say, "Oh, you must be tired after all the stress of the day!" It is best that way. a mature husband know his wife is not a log of wood with no feelings even machines get wear and tear. so a mature husband encourages his wife to voice her feelings and he respects it. 13. The wife never goes to sit down in her husband's office unless in an urgent case or an emergency. A good husband too will not come and sit in your office. not bad 15. The best way to settle misunderstandings is in the bedroom. If a misunderstanding lingers and he does not make a move in bed, a good wife should make the move. recipe for disaster. sex doesn't fix problems effective communication does. 16. The wife never refuses to prepare his meals, even if he is refusing to eat due to annoyance. When he has refused 2 meals, prepare his favorite, with tempting treats. a mature husband does not throw childish tantrums 17. The wife has no orders to give to her husband, but she receives orders from him. a mature husband is not a tyrant. 18. The wife must always respect the husband. Next to freedom of access to his wife's body, this is a man's most important concern.a good marriage is built on mutual love and respect not no slave and master relationship. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by frankkydee(m): 1:08pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: Ok agreed. Let's create a date for ourselves. Like we meeting in an exotic place. What do you think about that? |
Re: Any Lady Who Isn't Ready To Live By These Rules Is Not Worth A Proposal!!! by Nobody: 1:10pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
frankkydee:Hmmm. Exotic place? Like where? |
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