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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by walepackage(m): 11:16am On Nov 03, 2017
Jupxter:
Allow me re-brand it. I stand with you 100% as you've expressed the thoughts of so many male-folk here



Many people who really practice the tenets of "feminism"hardly have a successful "relationship" or "marital life" which manifest into divorce or single family.



To me, all individual has a ROLE to play which should not be contradict in order to avoid "role conflict".



If you make use of ur potentials be it a man or female u will achieve greater height and earn urself respect and authority even among the male-folks.



Feminism breeds egoistic,atheism,lesbianism and its anti humanism which was the basis of those who propagate it.
you are granted sir,many of these females really dont know the root of "feminism" they just jump unto the concept without really do their reseach.Any of them can counter me and am available to educate them on the "ulterior motive" of the movement how it emerge in Europe and other part.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by AHCB: 11:18am On Nov 03, 2017
Jupxter:
I have found another genius. I'm clapping at my base. Perfect delivery

Those who have too much self love do need the gratification of others, if they don't who else will the use to inflate their over bloated ego?

Narcissists don't have fragile egos, they have huge egos

They are loveless, selfish, emotionally deprived and narcissistic

They don't need love from others because they locked themselves up and think and feel they are so indispensable and don't need people to fill them up. In the end, they exhaust themselves of the boring self-brainwashing routine after a very long period. Spot on bro
It is well.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by BasketballGURU(m): 11:18am On Nov 03, 2017
TimeMod3:
Cucumbers deserved better holes, not all dem smelly dead holes oozing stench between their thighs.
[color=#2211FD] Hahahahah! you're right you know. Poor cucumbers sad sad[/color]
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Doctormarvin(m): 11:19am On Nov 03, 2017
CentaurXLV:
Who's to blame for your air-headedness? The old, scruffy looking, pot-bellied individual dicks you deep throat weekly or the horse dicks you deep throat Saturdays and Sundays. It's obvious one of them has left a huge hole in your head leaving nothing but 'cum'. I've ignored your fugly ass for sometime now since the last time I burnt your hairy ass but you've been seeking to be reanimated, Thread along this path once again and I'll burn you to the earth leaving nothing but ash in my wake.

#Attention-starved Ibadan Whôre!
Honestly bro, this is not the way to go about confrontations...she called you 17,are you really 17huh...it's like calling me a bricklayer,lol...the only thing you'll get out of this is a ban...learn to let things slide
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Doctormarvin(m): 11:20am On Nov 03, 2017
CentaurXLV:
Who's to blame for your air-headedness? The old, scruffy looking, pot-bellied individual dicks you deep throat weekly or the horse dicks you deep throat Saturdays and Sundays. It's obvious one of them has left a huge hole in your head leaving nothing but 'cum'. I've ignored your fugly ass for sometime now since the last time I burnt your hairy ass but you've been seeking to be reanimated, Thread along this path once again and I'll burn you to the earth leaving nothing but ash in my wake.

#Attention-starved Ibadan Whôre!
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:20am On Nov 03, 2017
walepackage:
you are granted sir,many of these females really dont know the root of "feminism" they just jump unto the concept without really do their reseach.Any of them can counter me and am available to educate them on the "ulterior motive" of the movement how it emerge in Europe and other part.
As a student of history, i know how feminism started in 1950s,the purpose, how it was formed, how bills were passed on the ground of the house in US, and how it reached other parts of the world. Till date, i'm yet to see any feminist that knows the root of feminism intimately.

They come here with some form of knowledge without detailed understanding about how it got started. Sadly, it's we males that dig deepinto its origins and have this understandingand even clamor for some of the benefits these waliers cry for.

Funny enough, ask them what's it about, what are you agitating for, and tey'll say, go and read. They can't intellectually debate their stance without quoting third parties, so petty !
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:21am On Nov 03, 2017
AHCB:
Well, I've long learn you just can't convince a woman who is Hell bent on doing/believing what she wants to believe.
True. It's the mould in their minds. Done with them
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:26am On Nov 03, 2017
AHCB:
Not entirely true. Those who have too much self love do need the gratification of others, if they don't who else will they use to inflate their over bloated ego?

Narcissists don't have fragile egos, they have huge egos. That's what they use their self love for, to fuel it and rub it in people's face.
An over bloated ego can be fragile but an over bloated ego is not the same as self-love. I know people often think that narcissists love themselves too much because of the term, which was derived from the figure of Narcissist, a figure in Greek mythology who fell in love with his own self-reflection, which eventually led to his death but in clinical term a narcissist is someone who does not love him-/herself too much but too little.

"It may surprise you to hear then that, as Erich From put it, from the psychological point of view narcissists don’t love themselves too much they love themselves too little. In this sense narcissistic behavior is a compensatory strategy meant to try to make up for what is felt to be lacking."
https://evolutioncounseling.com/narcissists-love-themselves-too-little/

"Sometimes, you might think they love only themselves. That’s a common misconception. Actually, narcissists dislike themselves immensely. Their inflated self-flattery, perfectionism, and arrogance are merely covers for the self-loathing they don’t admit – usually even to themselves."
https://psychcentral.com/lib/do-you-love-a-narcissist/

"Narcissists need to love themselves more, not less."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201410/narcissists-need-love-themselves-more-not-less
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by FTrebirth(m): 11:28am On Nov 03, 2017
Blackfyre:
Wha makes you so sure she is the twitter snitch?
one of her followers (whom she later unfollowed after the expose) told us. moreover, she's not denying it...the only thing she's denying is her pregnancy.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:28am On Nov 03, 2017
Blackfyre:
I think self love should not be confused with being self obsessed.
Exactly!
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Doctormarvin(m): 11:31am On Nov 03, 2017
Jupxter:
As a student of history, i know how feminism started in 1950s,the purpose, how it was formed, how bills were passed on the ground of the house in US, and how it reached other parts of the world. Till date, i'm yet to see any feminist that knows the root of feminism intimately.

They come here with some form of knowledge without detailed understanding about how it got started. Sadly, it's we males that dig deepinto its origins and have this understandingand even clamor for some of the benefits these waliers cry for.

Funny enough, ask them what's it about, what are you agitating for, and tey'll say, go and read. They can't intellectually debate their stance without quoting third parties, so petty !
like I said,once they run out of reasonable things to point out, they start with the maturity card...let them do their research,look into the lives of their feminists role models and note the difference between their lives.. But you mention this to them and they'll jump at you,take you for a hater or in their words "you've yet to attain their level of maturity"
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:32am On Nov 03, 2017
FTrebirth:
one of her followers (whom she later unfollowed after the expose) told us. moreover, she's not denying it...the only thing she's denying is her pregnancy.
Went back to her post and she denied being any of it.

However, i know for a fact that she is not the one.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:33am On Nov 03, 2017
Jupxter:
As a student of history, i know how feminism started in 1950s,the purpose, how it was formed, how bills were passed on the ground of the house in US, and how it reached other parts of the world. Till date, i'm yet to see any feminist that knows the root of feminism intimately.

They come here with some form of knowledge without detailed understanding about how it got started. Sadly, it's we males that dig deepinto its origins and have this understandingand even clamor for some of the benefits these waliers cry for.

Funny enough, ask them what's it about, what are you agitating for, and tey'll say, go and read. They can't intellectually debate their stance without quoting third parties, so petty !
When did feminism start? in the 1950s? grin
You are a student of what again? grin


A Brief History: The Three Waves of Feminism

While the roots of feminism are buried in ancient Greece, most recognize the movement by the three waves of feminism. The third being the movement in which we are currently residing.

The first wave (1830’s – early 1900’s): Women’s fight for equal contract and property rights

Often taken for granted, women in the late 19th to early 20th centuries, realized that they must first gain political power (including the right to vote) to bring about change was how to fuel the fire. Their political agenda expanded to issues concerning sexual, reproductive and economic matters. The seed was planted that women have the potential to contribute just as much if not more than men.
[...]

The second wave (1960’s-1980’s): Broadening the debate

https://www.progressivewomensleadership.com/a-brief-history-the-three-waves-of-feminism/


The term itself is said to have been first used in the 1940s.

Now tell us who are you superior to again? grin
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:33am On Nov 03, 2017
Doctormarvin:
Honestly bro, this is not the way to go about confrontations...she called you 17,are you really 17huh...it's like calling me a bricklayer,lol...the only thing you'll get out of this is a ban...learn to let things slide
He is actually 17, no jokes.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by AHCB: 11:34am On Nov 03, 2017
Mindfulness:
An over bloated ego can be fragile but an over bloated ego is not the same as self-love. I know people often think that narcissists love themselves too much because of the term, which was derived from the figure of Narcissist, a figure in Greek mythology who fell in love with his own self-reflection, which eventually led to his death but in clinical term a narcissist is someone who does not love him-/herself too much but too little.

"It may surprise you to hear then that, as Erich From put it, from the psychological point of view narcissists don’t love themselves too much they love themselves too little. In this sense narcissistic behavior is a compensatory strategy meant to try to make up for what is felt to be lacking."
https://evolutioncounseling.com/narcissists-love-themselves-too-little/

"Sometimes, you might think they love only themselves. That’s a common misconception. Actually, narcissists dislike themselves immensely. Their inflated self-flattery, perfectionism, and arrogance are merely covers for the self-loathing they don’t admit – usually even to themselves."
https://psychcentral.com/lib/do-you-love-a-narcissist/

"Narcissists need to love themselves more, not less."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201410/narcissists-need-love-themselves-more-not-less
Then I'm forced to ask Eric from how he came about that conclusion. I'm sure he must have conducted experiment(s) (like psychoanalyze people) to arrive at that conclusion. I wouldn't mind knowing.

All in all, I wonder what you'll call someone who spend all their time admiring themselves, talking about themselves, their achievment, cars and what have you.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:36am On Nov 03, 2017
Doctormarvin:
like I said,once they run out of reasonable things to point out, they start with the maturity card...let them do their research,look into the lives of their feminists role models and note the difference between their lives.. But you mention this to them and they'll jump at you,take you for a hater or in their words "you've yet to attain their level of maturity"
Looking into their lives, you'll find the secret there.Shattered existence
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by CentaurXLV(m): 11:36am On Nov 03, 2017
Doctormarvin:
Honestly bro, this is not the way to go about confrontations...she called you 17,are you really 17huh...it's like calling me a bricklayer,lol...the only thing you'll get out of this is a ban...learn to let things slide
You'd seriously believe those claptraps uttered the huge mouth of that Horse côck sucker? That's just the local Ibadan whôre seeking for my attention. She requires the number of a Horse seller that I am withholding. grin
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by walepackage(m): 11:36am On Nov 03, 2017
Jupxter:
As a student of history, i know how feminism started in 1950s,the purpose, how it was formed, how bills were passed on the ground of the house in US, and how it reached other parts of the world. Till date, i'm yet to see any feminist that knows the root of feminism intimately.

They come here with some form of knowledge without detailed understanding about how it got started. Sadly, it's we males that dig deepinto its origins and have this understandingand even clamor for some of the benefits these waliers cry for.

Funny enough, ask them what's it about, what are you agitating for, and tey'll say, go and read. They can't intellectually debate their stance without quoting third parties, so petty !
You are so on point.When the "women's liberation movement" emerged;they fought for civil rights i.e equality for all adult regardles of sex.Thou,they won at britain and later in america.But it was more of papaper sign,not achievable in reality.feminism is evil
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:39am On Nov 03, 2017
CentaurXLV:
You'd seriously believe those claptraps uttered the huge mouth of that Horse côck sucker? That's just the local Ibadan whôre seeking for my attention. grin
Handsam.

Have you heard about the NL party? How about you come there and get the privilege to call me a wh0re to my face? That is, if you will have the guts to?

Don't worry, I might even pay your gate fee.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:40am On Nov 03, 2017
walepackage:
You are so on point.When the "women's liberation movement" emerged;they fought for civil rights i.e equality for all adult regardles of sex.Thou,they won at britain and later in america.But it was more of papaper sign,not achievable in reality.feminism is evil
Now, in 1957 the move facilitated a push for the G.I. Bill, that so much impacted on a lot of things. No time to break it down,new marriages sprung up, rules and guidelines on roles amongst other issues, financial empowerment of women, in fact, loan were granted to men so they could marry.

But some 30-40 years down the line came in regret, many Americans of that generation regretted it, because it metamorpohosed into the form we now see it, it crushed family values and core principles that kept family together, ( as more women attained financial standing, it became too difficult for them to stay in a marriage, because they didn't see the need for men in their lives), not like it's initial form, where women refused to stay in marriages and surging rates of divorce, brought about by greater " independency " something that emanated from this move.


Hardly do we find feminist in a happy home, the ones that do, watch them, the hubby hangs around like a Prada bag. God help us
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Doctormarvin(m): 11:40am On Nov 03, 2017
Lawlahdey:
He is actually 17, no jokes. grin grin
lol..Some people actually look up to you on this forum,please don't engage in E-fights!..

And please I'm sorry for the bricklayer comparison guys...if there's any here please know I am not in any way disrespecting your hustle
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:41am On Nov 03, 2017
Doctormarvin:
lol..Some people actually look up to you on this forum,please don't engage in E-fights!..

And please I'm sorry for the bricklayer comparison guys...if there's any here please know I am not in any way disrespecting your hustle
Ugh...even if I'm gonn fight, it's not gonn be with that teen.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Doctormarvin(m): 11:42am On Nov 03, 2017
Jupxter:
Looking into their lives, you'll find the secret there.Shattered existence
their disciples follow them without understanding their original motive...quit sad

If you're a girl and you're fulfilled both maritally and emotionally kindly desist from leading the little ones astray all in the guise of feminism
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:43am On Nov 03, 2017
Doctormarvin:
secrets their disciples may never know...quit sad
Like this one :

https://www.nairaland.com/3320355/see-wedding-look-feminist-claims
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Doctormarvin(m): 11:47am On Nov 03, 2017
CentaurXLV:
You'd seriously believe those claptraps uttered the huge mouth of that Horse côck sucker? That's just the local Ibadan whôre seeking for my attention. She requires the number of a Horse seller that I am withholding. grin
The anger you're feeling now ain't worth it...Anger leaves a trail in the brain which never fades,now know that whenever you're feeling happy and you remember this incident you'll get bitter and angry again,that feeling will always hang around bro,now ask yourself..is it all worth it??
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:51am On Nov 03, 2017
TimeMod3:
Mindfulness needs some Education.
wink You're good with words,i've been following you.
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by boiz2men(m): 11:52am On Nov 03, 2017
Lalas247:
Trust me when you face daily struggles you realise it’s a waste of time we cannot change this ... it’s impossible same way when women play football it’s not taken as serious as men FACT does that stop the ladies from doing their thing NO !!! ... do u see them insulting up and down like jobless beings No ... some feel feminism is to attack men and literally oppose anything to do with males and that’s wrong ! Maybe the few have ruined what women fought for many Years ago ...... even when God created the first Human it was a Man ... woman was an after thought ( did EVE fight God and Adam because they were not created the same time No! instead we became the back bone of every man ... we need each other and add value in different ways .. )

Anyway hate this topic lol
Hmmm....
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 11:53am On Nov 03, 2017
I'm aware oyb. I only quoted the modern movement. Thanks for sharing anyways
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