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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:12am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Lawlahdey:What part of nature suggests that a woman needs to depend on a woman? Who is this nature and who decides what is natural and what isn't? It falls back to society wether you like it or not. Yes it doesn't need to be a competition but when a group of people are constantly pushed to the bottom of the barrel and taught to accept that place, you can't blame them for having a paradigm shift and refusing to remain at the bottom 4 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by AHCB: 8:16am On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess:The bolded gave away your deepest thoughts/feelings about the type of feminist you are. 8 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:17am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Lsofdk:Equality. A world where everyone is treated fairly, allowed to make their own choices in life and have equal opportunities regardless of gender, race, nationality, age, etc. That's what I clamour for. Gender equality is just a small part of it 1 Like |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:19am On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess:Accept it or not, you are naturally wired to depend on a man. A man needs to find solace in a good woman too. There's what is called Nature, you should look up a dictionary. But Gender equality has been achieved. At least I'm here chatting on Nairaland and fighting with some dumb male specie without being beaten up. The society protects the interest of the female now. So, what are you all still clamouring? Asides from opening threads on NL, what else have you done to champion your cause? Nothing, I presume. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by AHCB: 8:20am On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess:What you clamour can only be achieve in your dreams. It is simply a utopian idea because you forget, even in this world, some men are even not equals. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by pocohantas(f): 8:32am On Nov 02, 2017 |
makydebbie: You're not lying my sister. Once you get a boyfriend, all your problems are over... |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:32am On Nov 02, 2017 |
AHCB:Exactly! When "Class" has been eradicated. We will talk about absolute equality for women and men. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by pocohantas(f): 8:32am On Nov 02, 2017 |
makydebbie: You're not lying my sister. Once you get a boyfriend, all your problems are over... One is asking God to bless me already, say what they wanna hear and you are a wife material. I love NL guys... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by AHCB: 8:36am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Lawlahdey:Class can never be eradicated. It's one of this vagaries that made Marxism collapse almost completely, because a classless society and a society where everyone is equal is towing the line of Marxist thoughts and ideals. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Chommieblaq(f): 8:36am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: Babe you are so on point! Women are naturally wired to depend on men, same way men are wired to find comfort in women. The society now protects the right of women, also there are many perks that comes with being a woman but some of us are so fixated on championing for equality. In our now society is there anything that the men do and women ain't allow to do? Equal pay, advancement careerwise, contesting for electoral position etc The question is what actual do some female want? Do they want to relegate the men to the background? 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by AHCB: 8:37am On Nov 02, 2017 |
makydebbie:How can you use tosy.ne2much as a yardstick to posit your points? Or are you being sarcastic? |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:40am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Lawlahdey:There's this mystical thing called nature which everyone seems to talk about but cannot really define. If by nature, you mean genetics, then please which part of the X chromosome codes for dependency on males? It's all in your head. Perfect example of what society can do to you. Wake up and break the paradigm. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:42am On Nov 02, 2017 |
AHCB:Exactly. Even one breast is bigger than the other. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:42am On Nov 02, 2017 |
AHCB:It's not impossible to achieve. Humans just need to get off their high horse and realise that we're all humans and so should have an equal level of respect and opportunities. When you say some men are not equal, in what sense? 1 Like |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by makydebbie(f): 8:44am On Nov 02, 2017 |
pocohantas:Hahahaha. Then the slayqueen will dress to impress them and they'll call her olosho, is she not looking for a guy that'll give her fulfillment? She knows she's incomplete but these guys will still insult her. Me I'm here trying to be independent and make a name in the society and someone will say all my achievements will be nothing without a man who'll make me happy and fulfilled. 1 Like |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by makydebbie(f): 8:45am On Nov 02, 2017 |
AHCB:Yes nah. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:45am On Nov 02, 2017 |
pocohantas:It's so sad that you think that way! A boyfriend takes away all your problems? How? |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:48am On Nov 02, 2017 |
AHCB:I was waiting for someone to point that out. It seems like the joke went over your head. It was meant to be funny so lighten up. |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:48am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Chommieblaq:I don't understand too oh. |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:50am On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess:Mystical thing? Nature is in the dictionary, look it up. |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by pocohantas(f): 8:51am On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess:With his prick...that's what he uses to take away your problems. How do you want me to think naw? Get a boyfriend joo! Be submissive to him and milk him in return. makydebbie: Independent? You want to be independent? Nigerian men love dependent women o...it boosts their ego. How many times have you seen them praising an independent single woman? They only praise the married ones because they can easily attribute her success to the husband, "a man". Debbie go and marry biko. Marry before you reach menopause. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by BluntBoy(m): 8:52am On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess: The reason why I don't like feminism is because I am yet to meet a really liberal feminist. All I see everywhere are angry and bitter women claiming to be feminists. I have had the opportunity of engaging many on Facebook and all you get for having a different opinion are insults and anger from every angle. Sometimes, you wonder if their lack of patience or respect for differing opinions is their own idea of liberalism. Or maybe they confuse aggression for assertiveness. And what many of them preach is acidic. You begin to wonder if feminism is another word for misandry. And when it matters most, you don't see them. We didn't hear them when Ese needed them in a fight against Biodun of COZA. Same during the Otobo-Suleman scandal. A man stood by Ese and later married her. A team of male lawyers stood by Otobo while many women sided with Suleman even before hearing some of the deeper stories. Should a woman presidential candidate come out now, the feminist groups we have would all go mute and their members would rather cast their votes for a man rather than their fellow woman like they just enjoy doing. They will do this and still come out to talk about how men are sidelining them. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by AHCB: 8:52am On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess:This same reason is why your thoughts/feeling can never be a reality is the same reason why Islam frown against other religion. When you start wishing for people to think and believe in what you believe, you invariably make yourself no different from Idi Amin Dada. Without guns and murder, that is. As regard the bolded. All men aren't equal in every sense of the word. E.G, I and seun aren't gifted with the same intelligence, neither are we gifted with the same finance, level of tolerance etc. Even you, who live in the U.K, if you and Azizat Oshoala write a letter to visit Theresa May, who do you think the Prime Minister would see first, you or Azizat? 2 Likes |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 8:53am On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess:Okay. But please tell me one thing you have done to champion this cause apart from this thread you opened? 1 Like |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by 2dice01: 8:55am On Nov 02, 2017 |
pocohantas:what if he is broke |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by banre(m): 8:56am On Nov 02, 2017 |
makydebbie:makydebbie u too fine i swear op so wetin u want make we do now abeg i no gt data |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by AHCB: 8:56am On Nov 02, 2017 |
trustyshoess:Then again, you forget, what's funny to one might be offensive to another, so there goes your attempt at dark humour... down the drain. |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by AHCB: 8:57am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Lawlahdey:Shuoooo! . Chai! How come I haven't notice this? Ye kpa. 1 Like |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by makydebbie(f): 8:59am On Nov 02, 2017 |
pocohantas:Poco, you're a changed person. You're now a wife material and I want to be like you. Lemme goan marry oo, all my problems will be solved and I'll find fulfillment. 1 Like |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by pocohantas(f): 8:59am On Nov 02, 2017 |
2dice01: Why should he be broke? He is the superior gender, he has to hustle, make money and take care of the delicate woman... makydebbie: I'm changed dear. I love Nigerian men because they are the easiest to fool. Watch their general consensus, tweak your character a bit towards that angle and you're a wife material... Pls marry, marry and stop being bitter. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by makydebbie(f): 8:59am On Nov 02, 2017 |
banre:Thanks. |
Re: I Am A Feminist!! by ElDaIllest(m): 8:59am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Lawlahdey:hmm
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