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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by walepackage(m): 11:58am On Nov 03, 2017

@jupxter.your last post just did a justice to this concept.I did a "research" on "divorce" and i was dumbfounded at the rate in which divorce/failed marriage has sky rocket in our society in mordern age.many of the "predisposing factors" that leads to it, are among the so much principles of the so called feminism.However,it can bring about a break than of morality,emotional,psychological,unsympathetic offspring and lack/less conscience in the part of the child and at large a threat to the society.Stratification has make individuals in society to all have "role and responsibilities" in which we all fit in regardles of the strata or sex u are.

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:04pm On Nov 03, 2017

walepackage:
@jupxter.your last post just did a justice to this concept.I did a "research" on "divorce" and i was dumbfounded at the rate in which divorce/failed marriage has sky rocket in our society in mordern age.many of the "predisposing factors" that leads to it, are among the so much principles of the so called feminism.However,it can bring about a break than of morality,emotional,psychological,unsympathetic offspring and lack/less conscience in the part of the child and at large a threat to the society.Stratification has make individuals in society to all have "role and responsibilities" in which we all fit in regardles of the strata or sex u are.

First, It is a startification system, even used to discriminate fellow women who they feel don't have similar social standing

Second, they don't see the downsides of their actions. Watch out, especially among the ones that " feel they are okay financially", they are cocky, and easily feel they can move on, they have a "divorced" mindset. Easily think, they can move on mentality, it makes them have high levels of in satiety, intolerance, lack of empathy, emotionally unavailable, arrogant, bossy.

Their mindset causes them to fall out of relationships needlessly casually, though they are self-induced to belief it's as a result of their high standards, they swing like pendulum and confuse themselves, between varying ideology, they swing left and right and don't even know what they want.

It forces a mindset on them that they don't see, this mindset makes them unfit for marriages, cause they lean on themselves and don't like to make much adjustments to accommodate another individual. I dare anyone to do a thorough studies on the rate of divorce in the U.S. between the 60s and the 80s to see how this movement left a trail of problems that still hasn't been fixed till date.

I've been observing the ones in Nigeria, why they put up a happy outlook, you can't help but notice the saddness in their soul even beneath the wild grin. I won't waste words on them. Life will humble and teach them.

They set up diverse psychological bobby traps and look out for the worst in all things. Their mental posture is that of an insecure wealthy guy in a poor town, their soul knows no satisfaction, they are restless and can't fix their heart on a relationship, cause they're always looking out the window because even in a relationship their hearts is on the exit door.

What hope is there in such a movement?

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by BasketballGURU(m): 12:06pm On Nov 03, 2017

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by ProudtobeaMUMUM(m): 12:11pm On Nov 03, 2017

This is why I want baba to create more jobs apart from npower, How would grown up fools be insulting them selves, and this is the 31st page, Let me hear any fool saying him or her have a life outside nairaland

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:20pm On Nov 03, 2017

TimeMod3:
Mindfulness needs some Education.

You need to be slapped.

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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by shaybebaby(f): 12:20pm On Nov 03, 2017

Jupxter:
I'm cool. Not bad. I'm watching, i've got planks and spades, and bows and arrows, if you're disturbed, just quote me, and i'll bring in my goons right away. I've got ricky, and charlie, and thomas, and these guys ain't friendly.

It's alright but thank you. If it was in the real world, yeah I may require backup but on this virtual platform? Nah.
Especially as the discussion is so far removed from what I'm actually doing in that moment.
Negativity expressed on here would not facilitate or hinder the knight eating his breakfast without threats and pleas. grin

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:22pm On Nov 03, 2017

AHCB:
Then I'm forced to ask Eric from how he came about that conclusion. I'm sure he must have conducted experiment(s) (like psychoanalyze people) to arrive at that conclusion. I wouldn't mind knowing.

Boy, I have cited articles based on psychological research.

All in all, I wonder what you'll call someone who spend all their time admiring themselves, talking about themselves, their achievment, cars and what have you.

The person could be a narcissist. They need the bragging to fill in the void that is the result of a lack of self-love. Complicated, I know. Take your time to process. wink

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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by ProudtobeaMUMUM(m): 12:23pm On Nov 03, 2017

Mindfulness:
You need to be slapped.

Come did your yoruba lesson teacher not come today, Vacte this useless thread, what do you people stand to gain from insulting each other

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:23pm On Nov 03, 2017

shaybebaby:
It's alright but thank you. If it was in the real world, yeah I may require backup but on this virtual platform? Nah.
Especially as the discussion is so far removed from what I'm actually doing in that moment.
Negativity expressed on here would not facilitate or hinder the knight eating his breakfast without threats and pleas.

KiKiki. Cyber-negativity and bullying is something else. Wonder why guys are always intimidated by intelligent ladies

@ The knight crying, it's cool. It's part of the bonding process. Enjoy it

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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:24pm On Nov 03, 2017

ProudtobeaMUMUM:
Come did your yoruba lesson teacher not come today, Vacte this useless thread, what do you people stand to gain from insulting each other

How is it your business?

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Re: I Am A Feminist!! by ProudtobeaMUMUM(m): 12:26pm On Nov 03, 2017

Mindfulness:
How is it your business?

It's my business because all of you both the opposers and the supporters are all saying rubbish, A thread on its 31st page without a business idea been shared is totally useless and the occupants of the thread are useless

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by ProudtobeaMUMUM(m): 12:31pm On Nov 03, 2017

Seun and mynd44 why is this useless thread still in existence

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Kimcutie: 12:39pm On Nov 03, 2017

Holy blood of Satan this thread is hot like hell fire Yeye people everywhere

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Draei: 12:42pm On Nov 03, 2017

FTrebirth:
i know you're enjoying this.

Yea, been a while real war visited here.

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Nobody: 12:44pm On Nov 03, 2017

The person who reported my account. It is well with your soul.

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Asianguy(m): 12:47pm On Nov 03, 2017

Mariinee:
The person who reported my account. It is well with your soul.

I am the one grin

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by ProudtobeaMUMUM(m): 12:51pm On Nov 03, 2017

FuhckYhu:
You should make use that & stop being a retàrd, GTF outta here Kid.
https://www.nairaland.com/business

Now you have gotten my attention, who released you from the asylum are you mad, How dare you talk to me in such manner your parents are shameless for bringing you up this way

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by ProudtobeaMUMUM(m): 12:55pm On Nov 03, 2017

Kimcutie:

Boy who told you to mention me

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Kimcutie: 12:56pm On Nov 03, 2017

Mariinee:
The person who reported my account. It is well with your soul.

Your other one was banned?

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Kimcutie: 12:57pm On Nov 03, 2017

ProudtobeaMUMUM:
Boy who told you to mention me

Look below, aren't your mate...

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by walepackage(m): 12:58pm On Nov 03, 2017

@Jupxter,thats why i say its evil,cos any idea or dogma that threating the "values of family and make it looks like obsolete or unfunctional" is faulty and uncalled for .Family has play a pivotal role in replacing the dead ones and rearing the new ones in a value laden way acording to the prescription of that society.Most feminist believe you can be a single mother,insemnation,lesbianism,love machine,drugs and all sort of self satisfaction without the coexistance of man,while they forget the psychological,emotional and social effect on the part of the "child".The liberal ones agree, to be with a man but in a 'bossy' way just as u mentioned earlier on.You can be "boss and be respect" when you earned it,not when you think you are a lady and deserves special treatment or playing victim card without anything in ur upper chamber.Two sailors cant run a ship,if u wanna be a boss in a relationshp,work,school,and other facet of life, prove it.My take

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by ProudtobeaMUMUM(m): 1:00pm On Nov 03, 2017

Kimcutie:
Look below, aren't your mate...

16yrs old boy you ought to be in your class by now waiting for the next teacher that suppose to teach you, stop using mom's phone

Re: I Am A Feminist!! by Kimcutie: 1:03pm On Nov 03, 2017

ProudtobeaMUMUM:
16yrs old boy you ought to be in your class by now waiting for the next teacher that suppose to teach you, stop using mom's phone

hahahahahah... guess you have been a fan all this while bro, well am not the person you think I am... Like I said we aren't mates.

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