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Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Jaynom(m): 3:20pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
fairytale:Awww! Thank you! |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Actuarydeji(m): 6:33pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Foodforthought:Why? |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Foodforthought: 6:48pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Actuarydeji:Most women are raised with the notion that they will be married one day to a man "that will take care of them". The society puts men as breadwinners. That is also the natural order of marriage. Most women have pride in them and always tend to belittle men whenever they fall short in any area. I'm not assuming, I've seen for myself. Most women are drawn to materialism Now tell me how does a husband control or demand submission from a wife who is doing much better than him in every respect...most women only submit if they are at least a bit dependent on a man.When they are not dependent they do not see any reason to submit. Let me ask you: Do you think Tonto Dikeh would submit to a man who earns #50, 000 a month teaching in a high class primary school? |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Joy1706(f): 7:01pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
boiz2men:Nobody should say those words to their spouse full stop. If you feel you have the right to say such things when you're the breadwinner, then she equally has the right to say such if she earns more |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Joy1706(f): 7:02pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Marcofranz:Pity yourself. He will move out na of he's tired of the marriage |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by tosyne2much(m): 10:48pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Foodforthought:My bro, you finish work for this comment oooo |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Reeberry: 11:14pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
fuckboys:That girl is super dumb. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Actuarydeji(m): 8:31am On Nov 04, 2017 |
Foodforthought:Tonto Dikeh! That is why my old man advised me not to marry because of beauty. He said that is"Deji anytime you wish to settle down, look for a pious lady". Tonto Dikeh is absolutely a materialistiic wife. Iranu |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Humanistme: 10:17am On Nov 04, 2017 |
Foodforthought: why are naija men obsessed with the need to exert control on another adult? |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Foodforthought: 10:31am On Nov 04, 2017 |
Humanistme:Ask God and our ancestors. The woman bears the man's name. A man pays dowry. If u don't accept a marriage proposal nobody will kill you. Please stay in your father's house. If u must enter a man's house u need to adhere to rules. Nobody is obsessed with anything , the most successful and fulfilled wives in our society are submissive to their husband. This is why their marriages are successful. If u don't submit don't expect a happy marriage. That's the way it is, If u don't like it please stay unmarried... It's your call. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by tosyne2much(m): 10:41am On Nov 04, 2017 |
birdsview:That's very true |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by tosyne2much(m): 10:45am On Nov 04, 2017 |
Marcofranz:
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Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Marcofranz(m): 10:49am On Nov 04, 2017 |
Joy1706:You are a witch probably from edo State. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Humanistme: 11:11am On Nov 04, 2017 |
Foodforthought: fallacy @ bolded. This happiness you throw around I hope is for the couple tho not for the man. p.s.. marriage longativity does not always involve happiness. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Foodforthought: 12:07pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Humanistme:I know longevity does not always involve happiness. I know also that some husbands are rogues whether the wife submits or not. But in the case of conflicts the couple should come together to strike a balance or one individual has to partially give in to allow peace to reign. That partial submission should first come from the wife. Ok which do u prefer? That a woman becomes headstrong and unbendable? What happens then to the marriage ? I tell you that men can stand every nasty attitude a woman shows except arrogance. Men hate it. After distrust, the next big factor that can kill a marriage is a woman's arrogance towards her husband. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Humanistme: 12:58pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Foodforthought: arrogance is not a positive trait in anyone whether male or female. we all hate arrogant people. why should a wife be okay with the arrogance of her husband towards her by seeking to dominate her into submission that's my point. submission is not the opposite of arrogance it is humility and modesty. There is something called mutual respect and understanding that is what is required in a relationship supposedly built on love. I just read a story on fp about a lady who left her boyfriend and married her ex because the boyfriend lost his job. Many people are bashing the lady. if I were to follow your logic then she did the right thing since marriage is not built on mutual love and understanding but on power play of dominance and submission and money gives the power. Unless it is a marriage of convenience then you guys can decide the terms and conditions That notion of dominance and submission is problematic in a so called loving relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Foodforthought: 1:09pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Humanistme:OK you win. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by PDPGuy: 7:19pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Foodforthought: Haha It will be difficult for Tonto to submit to such a man. But if they are truly in love, I don’t see why she wouldn’t respect/consider his opinions on any issue. By the way, there is a popular American TV personality called Megyn Kelly. While she was at Fox News she was earning around $15 million/year, while her hubby earns “only” $85,000. But you know what? She quit her job and moved to another network where she would work in the mornings. She said her decision was due to her desire to be with her young children at night (She used to host a nightly program on Fox). At her new job, she makes like $16 million/year. As someone who earns 188 times more than her husband, she could have easily told her hubby to take care of the kids at night. But she was humble enough to seek another job that will guarantee that she would be at home to care for the kids at night. The point I’m making is that if there is genuine love, a woman would still respect a man who is her hubby even if she is richer than him. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Nobody: 7:55pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
PDPGuy: They are not looking for women who will respect them tho, they are looking for docile women who they can intimidate into submission. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by tintingz(m): 8:30pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Foodforthought:At bolded very wrong. # A woman a taken up her husband's name is not ordain by abrahamic God to my knowledge, I'm not a religious person but I know this since I'm once religious. The name change after marriage for woman started by western countries (to my knowledge), in the middle Eastern culture a wife still bears her father's name, read both the Bible and Quran(or Hadith) and tell me if a wife is addressed by her husband's name. So if you are talking about God or ancestors that ordain the change of name after marriage, kindly name them. # As for dowry, not all culture practice the dowry by men thing, in country like India the woman pays the dowry not the man. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Foodforthought: 10:31pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
tintingz:Then all feminists can go to India and the western countries. Here in Africa and as Christendom permits, a woman does not trump her husband, the dowry payer ,in the name of equal rights. May I remind you that this same equality stuff is being spearheaded by the same Western countries as u mentioned When I say ancestors I mean my parents, their own parents and great grand parents...culture by any means . The bible clearly asks the man to love his wife and the wife to submit to her husband. That is all I need to know about. I follow tradition and above all, my faith. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Hopzyyy: 11:27pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
I don't see any problem with that, I will. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by tintingz(m): 11:38pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Foodforthought:The dowry paid by the bride's parents in india are result of women seen as liability, since women are seen as liability the bride's parents pay off the groom since the husband will be the one taking up the responsibility, so I guess feminist won't still like this. But now that many women are earning even more than some men, I don't see the relevant of this dowry thing but I guess it's thier culture. in Africa and as Christendom permits, a woman does not trump her husband, the dowry payer ,in the name of equal rights. May I remind you that this same equality stuff is being spearheaded by the same Western countries as u mentionedBut we see women taking responsibilities the husband suppose to have done. I believe in equal right, I believe everyone should have equal opportunities. Sorry, are you talking about the culture adopted from the western culture or which one? The bible clearly asks the man to love his wife and the wife to submit to her husband. That is all I need to know about.This is a good thing but where I've problem with is the submissive stuff, it has been abused, I'm not into religious nor traditional stuff, I believe many of these practice are patriach, archaic. My own philosophy is that the world is evolving and some practice are not relevant and doesn't make sense in this 21 century. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Tonytonex(m): 12:15am On Nov 05, 2017 |
mistel:I DON'T UNDERSTAND "shut your mouth and eyes". |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Nobody: 3:32pm On Nov 07, 2017 |
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Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Nobody: 3:12pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Tonytonex:that's the price you pay. don't correct her, don't say this is wrong or bad. don't be dad of the house. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Tonytonex(m): 7:59pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
mistel:U don't know me that's why. l gat swag, & my swag is hard to see. l am a Lion. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Tonytonex(m): 8:07pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Foodforthought:THIS IS WISDOM. OMG! |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Nobody: 10:40am On Nov 27, 2017 |
Tonytonex:when women are way richer than their husband, most of them tends to get out of control gradually. |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Tonytonex(m): 4:31pm On Nov 27, 2017 |
mistel:YEA YOU ARE RIGHT |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by SgtKisswhere: 11:15pm On Nov 27, 2017 |
sure, so long she knows her place |
Re: Guys, Would You Marry A Lady That Earns More Than You? (Video) by Bigprick9inches: 11:25pm On Nov 27, 2017 |
I won't even marry a lady that works to start with. If you are a guy in this century and u can't marry a wife, keep her at home and pay her triple of naija minimum wage, the u ain't a man but a.......... |
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