tosyne2much:
And he had to publicize it? To attract sympathy or what?

Heart break is what virtually every guy will experience at least once in his lifetime
before your head go correct


I shake my head for the childishness and stupidity of this guy

I have never experienced heart break.

yebzman:
A Man Tea Gomos has called out his Ex-Girl friend Ndonima Micah Enoch on Facebook for allegedly deceiving him during the course of their five (5) year relationship. During which he cared and support all through her university days and introduced her to family and friends only to find out she was engaged to someone else, shortly before the wedding.
He claims to have forgiven her and Invited all his friends to her wedding.

Oga ur a bomkum.
Ur intimate girlfriend for 5 years was dating another Man to the extent that he engaged her n u didn't know.... Tufiakwa.

truthsayer009:

I have never experienced heart break.

Congrats baba

U all will b supprise wen d lady gives her own part of d story... Whatever d case may b, my take is dis: d young man is immature posting dis online. And lets watch n c if he wont dump d current one later n cook up anoda story abt her n post online. Grow up man

YoungDaNaval:
your post is irritating

very disgusting like a disease- infested bitcch

BrainnewsNg:
I hate it when a man trains a Lady in school so as to marry the Lady and vice versa.

Esp if the man isn't educated and train a lady in school in order to marry an educated wife.

Ladies, It is as simple as don't allow him over spend if you aren't ready for his demands or what you feel his intentions are...

And guys, guys, guys... When you are in a relationship always weigh your partner's effort and sacrifices, you arent Jesus, you aren't to carry her cross if she isn't making effort for that size for you... Her school fee isnt your role at all, even if her parents are gone, she has relatives... And if you are to pay for such make sure her efforts merits it...

If relationship is 1-sided it's always easy to quiz

OrestesDante:





This is one of them

don't mind the fish brained girl

tosyne2much:
And he had to publicize it? To attract sympathy or what?

Heart break is what virtually every guy will experience at least once in his lifetime
before your head go correct


I shake my head for the childishness and stupidity of this guy

Walahi, if u have never experience a break up relationship, u might not knw wat loving life is. Is a crazy world mehhh.

tosyne2much:
And he had to publicize it? To attract sympathy or what?

Heart break is what virtually every guy will experience at least once in his lifetime
before your head go correct


I shake my head for the childishness and stupidity of this guy

when the girl sees it now, she will use this as an evidence to convince herself and others why she refused him... but won't state that she used him for 4 YEARS... that is what they are good at.

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

I talk am... see the excuse coming in.. if the table is turned, do not scream "men are dogs" cos ogun go kill u that time.

Benita27:
Look up the meaning of a "Thief". Spending on a woman is a product of your benevolence, and not stealing. You can't sue her 'cause she rejected you after spending on her 'cause she didn't ask for it. It's not a loan. That's the more reason why some of you should spend wisely, and not use money to make ladies feel they're indebted. Once they feel indebted they may be dating you for that reason and not because they genuinely want to which is a redflag in any relationship.

but if it were sex, u would claim he used and dumped you and you won't hold same view that you gave in willingly and u both enjoyed it. oshi

OhiOfIhima:
Walahi, if u have never experience a break up relationship, u might not knw wat loving life is. Is a crazy world mehhh.

Abi ooo

robotix:
when the girl sees it now, she will use this as an evidence to convince herself and others why she refused him... but won't state that she used him for 4 YEARS... that is what they are good at.

biacan:
So sad she took him by surprise

Actually its not a surprise in Nigeria the high chance of that happening is high, women will always have sponsors at every point, now mix that with the fact that she's a student, which is why when I don't help a lady, I don't feel bad I know another capable guy will handle that. Lol women got it good though.

I'm here to learn.
I'm also spending on my girl.
Not school fees oo but her family is financially buoyant, so I do help most times.
I hope I ain't missing it

Benita27:
Look up the meaning of a "Thief". Spending on a woman is a product of your benevolence, and not stealing. You can't sue her 'cause she rejected you after spending on her 'cause she didn't ask for it. It's not a loan. That's the more reason why some of you should spend wisely, and not use money to make ladies feel they're indebted. Once they feel indebted they may be dating you for that reason and not because they genuinely want to which is a redflag in any relationship.

I am Lady too and I don't support you at all. why will you be collecting and asking for money and everything from a guy and you are not marrying him. Even to the point of the guy paying your school fees and you have parent at home and now you said he is not your type again. God knows how to deal with ladies like that without the guy doing anything.

Aww..I really do think she is the one for you.
You found your twin.
You guys look so alike already.
Indomie(?) please have a rethink. Thenk.

The geh teeth plenty sha

The deceit is both ways
Guys do same to ladies too.
It's only unfortunate he was open and truthfully

I was once in this though for 3 Years, I felt bad cause not even a goodbye. I had to put myself together and asked myself what i did wrong to deserve this. Sure there must be something wrong, not in all cases though.

yebzman:
A Man Tea Gomos has called out his Ex-Girl friend Ndonima Micah Enoch on Facebook for allegedly deceiving him during the course of their five (5) year relationship. During which he cared and support all through her university days and introduced her to family and friends only to find out she was engaged to someone else, shortly before the wedding.
He claims to have forgiven her and Invited all his friends to her wedding.

the guy is pained...did u see the word for Karma

take heart and move on believing that she wasn't meant for u.Goodluck

tosyne2much:
Congrats baba

lol

pcguru1:


Actually its not a surprise in Nigeria the high chance of that happening is high, women will always have sponsors at every point, now mix that with the fact that she's a student, which is why when I don't help a lady, I don't feel bad I know another capable guy will handle that. Lol women got it good though.

Eh even if you said so it's actually bad for you to say you don't feel bad when refuse to help a lady as a man which you are one of your responsibility is to help a lady be it your friend or your spouse that's one of your duty don't answer the name man for nothing

989900:


GBAM! #koko

Man! We need to know who you are. You an hacker or something? 989900? For real bro !

correctguy101:
All these childish talk and self pity just because a girlfriend left you for another maga like yourself?

How many girls me don leave I no fit count, how many don leave me I no fit count.

But any guy that can't spend on his girl, which kind person be that? Just cos you don't plan to marry her or you're insecure she'll leave someday is just an excuse for being irresponsible....

I spend on anyone if I have the dough on me, be it a guy or a girl, whether I'm fccking the girl or not. I spend when I see anyone in need and it's within my means to help out.

Must you get something in return?
I've kept a girl in my house for 2days when the madman that invited her from PH had to throw her out cos she can't cook simple Ofe-Aku to please his ego. And I didn't touch her, even gave her money 2days later to go back to port-harcourt without touching her...
She learned that same Ofe-Aku from my sister and visits me for regular fvcking these days. No strings attached....

Men just dey do anyhow, if a woman spends a million for you, be ready to spend a million million to show you are not only a man but an Alpha male.....

Even now in my trying times, I still spend a little but my girls no dey let me down. They've been taking care of me since....

Don't you think you deserve a cake or something? Crap

koife:
I've been there so I totally understand!
Forget what others are writing here, the diff bw yours and mine is the guy she left me to go and marry started sending per marriage plans sent emissaries to her village, but wen he returned from getting her bride price list problem ensued from inability to agree on a particular date. Dude insulted her mom she backed her mom and insulted dude mom back. Long and short dude called it off! All of this took a yr+ I was suprised one day a particular num called and she was the one. She asked for forgiveness and came to my city ...( don't ask me what we did... your guess is as good as mine). God knows I've forgiven her but each time I remember I feel like strangling her. Ontop it God brought this good lady my way soon after I forgave her, I didn't think twice to go for the new good lady and still keep her for other duties!
Pls don't call me name, Heavens knows I loved her but she messed up big time

definition of a cheater karma will visit you

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

This is how you become a used up sack with no resale value. Keep deceiving yourself.

Take hrt bro,so sad.Your story just make me dey reason my girlfriend now o, I need to start investigating her.But that chick no fine oooo

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

This is how you become a used up sack with no resale value.It's hardly surprising as we know your type too well. Soon, you'll start running from church to church to cast and bind the demons, when in fact it is you who have squandered your prime fertility years by being dumb as a box of rock. Keep deceiving yourself.

biacan:
definition of a cheater karma will visit you

g wait did u use the word cheat? I said u forgave her but never said I took her back. She agreed we should be friends, so which one be cheat again. Pls don't go where you're not invited next time. Swerve!

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

You really disappoint me by your write up. Nonetheless, I am man of few words, besides I really don't know what transpired between these duo. make no mistakes, these things happen.. All I can say is, a woman in a relationship with a man undoubtedly knows the plans such man has for her even in the nearest future..not to talk more of one actively contributing to your well being with plans of marriage in view (of course the lady is duely aware of) and all of a sudden, she backs out with no cogent reason..it is morally wrong and if you ask me an act of fraud. Every man wants his future wife to be of value so when someone comes around saying the man is an illiterate or semiliterate, such excuses are born on the altar of selfishness and greed because the problem (illiteracy) was clear and evident from the onset. Why give someone falsehope?
Wisdom is profitable

Hehe training girlfriend in this day and age.she no get parents? Some guys think using money to get a babe automatically means she will stick to u.if u like buy her a brand new ML jeep and give her 150k as monthly allowance.at d end of the day if she no get feelings for u she go waka go marry the man she loves.money wey u for use to establish or even further urself abroad in education if need be ..u Don use am turn fada Christmas for one babe cos she promise to marry u.sorry abt ur loss sha.