This is one of the reasons why marriage thoughts has never crossed my mind. I can't die young abeg

make u give am hot slap when she come back from hospital
but i know say that thought no go ever pass your head if to say the woman na machoo woman
even if devil push you,i know say you go swear for the devil
i no know why men pick on weaker women,if she do like that,jejely ask her,if she comfam am,send her packing sharp sharp

U should first use true caller and identify who own the number whether a man or woman name.Proceed from there.

If to say you sabi, you for just play along and act like nothing happened until you catch her red handed. If she wasn't cheating, you'd most definitely be hitting an innocent woman. If she was cheating and you ask her to explain aunty Grace, she'll definitely lie.

So my advise is that you catch her in the act. A little detective work won't kill you. Save yourself from contracting deadly sexually transmitted infections by doing what's right.

B

My friend a man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.
Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.
Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.
For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.
The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.
If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinarily criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can't detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.
That's why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can't handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.
That's the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect to their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.
Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife's behavior with regard to sex start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerate fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.
Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.
I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can't wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men cant allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.
A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.
Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.so I advice you to do the needful now before is too late Thanks

guy cool down, first of all ask ur wife, her response is what u will use to judge her, Dnt do something that will make you regret later o, pls

daxgud

The best advise i seen here the rest are just beating around the bush

jaychubi:


Hmmm dnt slap her yet infact play cool to unravel this misery. Watch her more closely n set traps for her so u can ve concrete evidence if she is cheating or nt.

U r still at the preliminary stage of this investigation. Like someone said what if aunt grace husband used anti grace phone to call her n u picked.

Save dt number on ur phone with WhatsApp to see if it's on WhatsApp, who kws u might see her/his WhatsApp dp pic.

Like I said dnt let ur wife kw until u conclude ur investigation n presume her innocent until u prove her guilty

Your wife knows that you are a big time slapper. if she doesn't hide name of sorcerer on the phone you will slap, if she hides name you will slap. I know that when she comes home, you are going to ask her questions that the answers can only lead to slap. And your wife will be giving answers to avoid slap.I know that you are sitting there checking the type of slap that will match the saving of the wrong name on her phone. If you have also seen her conversation with sorcerer, you will slap. Now that you don't see it, I know you will be sitting there checking the type of slap that will be suitable for that. May I ask if slap is your method of extracting truth from your wife. A you running a torture chamber marriage, why the slap?

EMPEROR48:
My fellow nairalanders, please I really need a good advice on my actions, my wife saved a male so called sorcerer with a female name.

She left her phone to be with her sister at the hospital that was how I discovered a number calling her line saved with aunty grace, on picking the call I discovered it was a male voice, then he was asking after my wive's sister's health because my wife called him to tell him that her sister was rushed to the hospital this morning, and what really struck me most was that my wife deleted all conversations btw them before leaving the house for the clinic, if not that the said man was calling to find out how her sister was fairing I wouldn't know who aunty grace is.

Now I am alone and so angry, I planned giving my wife a hot slap when she returns.

Please advise me...

Nope hot slap is not enough kill her . Be the first to harm ur wife ,if God has not caught u in infidelity ,extra- marital affair and or fornication . Mcheeew ! See yeye post .

WiLdFLame:

WDF is this? just listen to yourself? you sure ain't making any sense at all...wake up Lad! THIS is between Married people!! not bf/gf platoon relationships... gosh!...u sucks big time...mtchewww.
Emperor 48..no beat but don't take this lightly...and if beating is inevitable... do am slightly.... gentlemaniness no dey solve everything.

Oh get a life dude. YOU DECIDE HOW YOUR WIFE RUN HER LIFE UP TO HOW SHE STORES A NUMBER ON HER PHONE. What sort of paranoid , low self-esteem bullshits is that?
Has marriage becomes another name for bondage? No wonder dem women are knifing guys up and down.------

Biggers82:
My friend a man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.
Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.
Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.
For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.
The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.
If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinarily criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can't detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.
That's why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can't handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.
That's the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect to their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.
Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife's behavior with regard to sex start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerate fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.
Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.
I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can't wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men cant allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.
A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.
Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.so I advice you to do the needful now before is too late Thanks

Do you ever wonder why studies like this doesn't have quotes from dem "self-acclaimed" researchers? It is because they know that their studies are all full of sh!t and wouldn't want anybody naming them on something so ubiquitous and stvpid.

where is the op the story never finish.

Bro the moment you start noticing anything strange with a woman act on it. Giving her a benefit of doubt is dangerous to your health. The fact that she is keeping secrets would eat up little by little. I have a solution that would give you rest of mind as to know if she is cheating or not. But first ask her who the "female" is without letting her know you know it's a man's number if she lies about who the person is them know that something is up. Inbox me and I will share what I just got to know recently with you. I cannot share it publicly because some people might start doing evil things with the secret. if i had known this thing since I would have saved myself from heartbreak

Ask yourself this:
1, who is aunty grace?
2, why she told the man about her sister's health issues?
3, what if the man is acting on a story he already knows so as not to get caught

MrBottle:
Do you ever wonder why studies like this doesn't have quotes from dem "self-acclaimed" researchers? It is because they know that their studies are all full of sh!t and wouldn't want anybody naming them on something so ubiquitous and stvpid.

I think you have brain tumor
look for nearby hospital and get your skull examined
because you are one of them

Hot slap Kwa?

EMPEROR48:
My fellow nairalanders, please I really need a good advice on my actions, my wife saved a male so called sorcerer with a female name.

She left her phone to be with her sister at the hospital that was how I discovered a number calling her line saved with aunty grace, on picking the call I discovered it was a male voice, then he was asking after my wive's sister's health because my wife called him to tell him that her sister was rushed to the hospital this morning, and what really struck me most was that my wife deleted all conversations btw them before leaving the house for the clinic, if not that the said man was calling to find out how her sister was fairing I wouldn't know who aunty grace is.

Now I am alone and so angry, I planned giving my wife a hot slap when she returns.

Please advise me...

somebody is also fuckin ur wife

you never can tell whether the man used his wife's number to call. His wife could be the aunty Grace

Biggers82:


I think you have brain tumor
look for nearby hospital and get your skull examined
because you are one of them

You just bought market, you demented cocksurkeR

EMPEROR48:
What sort of xplanation will be melted on such an attitude? There is no justifiable reason she will give to me on why she encoded a number from her own husband, and also deleted all conversation regardin that particular number as to wht end?

Bro, I understand your pain, but I will like to share this with you; "I am a friend to a lady married to a soldier, we were even friends before she met this soldier though we never dated due to distance, everything just on phone/social media. Currently, she is going through hard times in her marriage and she always thought of doing silly/nasty things, but instead of me to allow her do that, I rather engage her on phone and make her say all the silly/naughty things that her hubby must not hear which she will later delete after we chat. There were even some conversations she forgot to delete and fortunately, they were talks about on advising her on why she need to talk to her man by herself, the hubby later read the messages and confronted her why couldn't she tell him instead of me. The soldier man corrected his mistakes and they are good now.

So, in nutshell, this same case of yours might be the same BUT the only red flag is the name and like someone earlier mentioned above, "What if the man is Aunty grace husband"?

Gruvychuky:
you never can tell whether the man used his wife's number to call. His wife could be the aunty Grace

Was actually thinking the same .

Oh dear , if I ever get married I hope my partner won't go bonkers and would understand that I save people's name in the weirdest way you can't imagine on my mobile�� lol

MrBottle:
Oga, you are just being paranoid. Are you guys using the same phone....I mean ----------- one phone? NIs the phone not hers and she is doing whatever she want with it like storing a number however she deem fit. You are just being over the top overbearing to also decide how you wife stores a phone number on HER OWN PERSONAL FVCKING PHONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kids all over NL, you don't know what marriage entails .help yasef n shut up

EMPEROR48:



what if its was anty grace husband call to check? it cant be, though i know the said man she is talking about but not facially, so grace husband is out of the equation

you better calm yourself and behave like a man.
you can't be a good Judge or lawyer as I dey see you so

Grafixnuel:

Kids all over NL, you don't know what marriage entails .help yasef n shut up

Nigerian marriage of bondage. Get lost.

highbee02:


and what if nobody goes by d name "Grace " among his sister's in-law?

that is why i use the term "What if"

MrBottle:
Nigerian marriage of bondage. Get lost.

You are a kid...argue with your fone.. Freedom means encoding names on your phone to deceive your partner..
You are a refined fóol..

MrBottle:
You just bought market, you demented cocksurkeR

I don't join issues with a Mad Man Please

Grafixnuel:


You are a kid...argue with your fone.. Freedom means encoding names on your phone to deceive your partner..
You are a refined fóol..

Get lost both of you.

Biggers82:

I don't join issues with a Mad Man Please

MrBottle:
Oga, you are just being paranoid. Are you guys using the same phone....I mean ----------- one phone? NIs the phone not hers and she is doing whatever she want with it like storing a number however she deem fit. You are just being over the top overbearing to also decide how you wife stores a phone number on HER OWN PERSONAL FVCKING PHONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Keep quiet. What do you know about marriage? Have you felt pain of heartbreak in marriage and not in relationships? Put yourself in the op shoes and you will understand what he's passing through. @OP simply use another phone and call the number to find out who is he? You can use a female to set him up and see who's he? Don't beat or slap her. Don't even discus it with her. Just make your investigation to get facts and don't behave like NPL.

Y'all should stop arguing on here....he has sorted it out since Sunday. It only beats me why he does not want to share the subsequent outcome. He keeps reading each post quietly. I guess his wife won him over with over with more lies or Aunty grace's husband was the caller!