nairanaira12:
Set

Can you show me where I said waking up early should be left to only one person? You will live better if you read with more understanding before commenting. In my own home, my parents taught us, both male and female, to wake up early. A mature woman sleeping till 7am when she will resume at work by 8am is an irresponsible woman with poor upbringing.

Mynd44:

She does not have a job. If she wakes 5am, what will she be doing ooooo?

Humanistme:


The op did not say she goes to work late. the time she wakes up does not affect her work. The op is worried about her waking up early to take care of imaginary children she hasn't given birth to yet. when her responsibility increases she will adjust. you do not know her to call her irresponsible.

Aleora:
lmao singing praises

Realitycheck007:
he mynd44 didnt read the post, i said she has a day job

nairanaira12:



The way you act during relationship will show what you will do in marriage. I'm sure you are wise enough to know that

TemmyTee82:


It does. I use scented water to clean up. You can come and smell it if you doubt.

ofonike:
Buy alarm clock for her.

Xcelinteriors:
Are you marrying her because you love her or because you want to turn her to maid. That girl should dump you as soon as possible. I am self employed and it is my husband that do prepare my baby for school every morning. I will just wake up like 7am and prepare breakfast but he will be the one to bath him and feed him. We brought the baby into this world together and should take care of him together, omolomo o le wa pa iyaoniya( ask any Yoruba to translate it for you)

SmellingAnus:
Lol... I will gladly do that... are you currently serving ? ( Jesus Corper) ?

Realitycheck007:
he mynd44 didnt read the post, i said she has a day job

nairanaira12:
It is not just an individual thing. It is a norm in a safe society. A sensible woman won't be sleeping till 7am when she has to get to work by 8am

Is she sick or went on a vigil the previous night?

nairanaira12:
Set

Can you show me where I said waking up early should be left to only one person? You will live better if you read with more understanding before commenting. In my own home, my parents taught us, both male and female, to wake up early. A mature woman sleeping till 7am when she will resume at work by 8am is an irresponsible woman with poor upbringing.

fpeter:
Marry a Vigilante

Realitycheck007:
I would have to oppose this mister.... 5-5:30 am usually up. have i ever slept till 6? maybe when i was med. but the normal me i cant recall anymore

SSAwhistleblowe:
In my opinion I feel the op is reacting based on the kind of upbringing he had.. maybe he grew up in a home where you have to wake up early to do house chores and so he thinks that is the standard for everyone so we shouldn’t crucify him.. but oga you have to understand that we have different backgrounds and upbringing..your fiancé may have been brought up in a house with maids and she didn’t have to wake up so early... you have to understand that you can’t find a perfect person and marriage is about learning to accommodate one another...so oga find a way around it instead of dumping her no one is perfect sure she has some negative things to say about you too...but if you know you can’t put up with the so called flaw you can dump her for your queen that has all the qualities you want... but remember that the grass is never greener on the other side.

Realitycheck007:
Good day,

Good people of nairaland, I am new to the thread so please bear my mishaps. Nairaland was Introduced to me by a colleague of mine at the office yesterday. So i said i should seek your advice on an issue bothering me.. Back to the topic.

Name withheld, My fiancee has been my girl for over 4 months now, and by early next year am thinking of taking it to the alter by God's grace but here is the problem....

On 3 or 4 occasions i have invited her to spend the night at my place, she do agrees but the problem is she over sleeps. She would sleep from 11 till 7am, A working class lady. I dunno how to tell her again, Cause i told her jokingly she laughed about it and said Is It my sleep. Imagine marrying her and she wakes by 7 or 8, Were is the time to take care of our kids nd d home I.E, Preparing breakfast and bathing the kids and also preparing for her work hour..... Please Nairalanders, Your opinions will be highly welcomed.

Mods please push to front page for more assistance

Mynd44:
She wakes up 7am……yen yen yen

Is there something that needs doing that she doesn't do?

lazygal:




I don't even know how people can be clicking like for your comments ...maybe becasue you managed to be a moderator ..the day God will reveal you to me face to face ko hmmmm....

Till that day

lazygal:
I don't even know how people can be clicking like for your comments ...maybe becasue you managed to be a moderator ..the day God will reveal you to me face to face ko hmmmm....

Till that day

LaudateII:

Oh, are you referring to the "Chairman of unfair banning and vindictiveness..?"

TemmyTee82:


And you're not afraid to smell Jesus corper's anus? What is this world turning into?

I'm done with service.