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Run with your d*ck bro

sinaj:
Oya go get the flower quickly nd some cake too.

i have got everything ready..just waiting 4 her to turn up...the guest are tired waiting already...

hmmmmmm......joblessness everywhere.
Buhari, this is your fault o.

CrescentMoon:
Brained girls you meet online are usually not suited for dating. If they are, I would have landed a dream woman long ago. Benita27's case is not an exception. Just read their inputs and swerve. I'm a man who is always on the lookout for women with vast perspectives about life. After meeting two of these women from nairaland in Lagos, I gave up. Hope to meet a moderate pepper seller in the future.

Everyone with their preferences, don't use your story alone to jump into conclusions, the fact that it didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for others.

sinaj:
Oya go get the flower quickly nd some cake too.

damn mama you fine,you sexy..

makydebbie:
Everyone with their preferences, don't use your story alone to jump into conclusions, the fact that it didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for others.

Let me tell you why it always doesn't pan out as expected: until a man meets his crush in person, he is not in a position to think he has genuine feelings for someone. And the probability that a pretty girl you know in that street of yours is intelligent is almost zero as most of them turn out to be 'pepper them gang' mantra advocates. Besides, pretty, intelligent women are usually not found in the streets (married off or infront of computers in large corporations), and most of us combing nairaland for beauty-plus-brain designates are at present from the streets. You may ask 'what are you still doing in the street if you are truly wise?' And I will tell you that women stand a better chance with job opportunities if the brain and the beauty remain their exclusive preserve. What we see as beauty is never constant, no matter how pretty a woman is.

There was a time a girl missed her direction and entered our compound. I was stuned beholding such a gem. I asked who she talked to for her mission and I made efforts to cross her path again. When I finally had the chance to look into her eyes, I told myself she is not for me - I have a way of seeing what I want upon looking into a woman's eyes.

The first girl I met from NL never sent her pic to me. When we met, I backed off, despite her imposing academic exploits - more educated than my self. The second one works with a financial institution. She considers my physical form 'a threat' because hers is a very below average appearance. Now you may say why don't I go into prayer for God to help me. I will say God should answer my prayer for career goals first before I will have the energy praying for marriage.

As an aside, one NL prophet said you will marry a pastor. Considering the image in your profile, na for me to start application for the Seminary sure pass.

marvin902:
damn mama you fine,you sexy..

thanking u

CrescentMoon:
Brained girls you meet online are usually not suited for dating. If they are, I would have landed a dream woman long ago. Benita27's case is not an exception. Just read their inputs and swerve. I'm a man who is always on the lookout for women with vast perspectives about life. After meeting two of these women from nairaland in Lagos, I gave up. Hope to meet a moderate pepper seller in the future.

Please explain this. I'm interested in your line of thought....Why did you say they are suitable for dating? And what made you give up?

*Modified* Never mind. I have seen your explanation about it. Even though I don't totally understand.

Op you won toast my babe abi?

MissJoy29:
Please explain this. I'm interested in your line of thought....Why did you say they are suitable for dating? And what made you give up?

Let me tell you why it always doesn't pan out as expected: until a man meets his crush in person, he is not in a position to think he has genuine feelings for someone. And the probability that a pretty girl you know in that street of yours is intelligent is almost zero as most of them turn out to be 'pepper them gang' mantra advocates. Besides, pretty, intelligent women are usually not found in the streets (married off or infront of computers in large corporations), and most of us combing nairaland for beauty-plus-brain designates are at present from the streets. You may ask 'what are you still doing in the street if you are truly wise?' And I will tell you that women stand a better chance with job opportunities if the brain and the beauty remain their exclusive preserve. What we see as beauty is never constant, no matter how pretty a woman is.

There was a time a girl missed her direction and entered our compound. I was stuned beholding such a gem. I asked who she talked to for her mission and I made efforts to cross her path again. When I finally had the chance to look into her eyes, I told myself she is not for me - I have a way of seeing what I want upon looking into a woman's eyes.

The first girl I met from NL never sent her pic to me. When we met, I backed off, despite her imposing academic exploits - more educated than my self. The second one works with a financial institution. She considers my physical form 'a threat' because hers is a very below average appearance. Now you may say why don't I go into prayer for God to help me. I will say God should answer my prayer for career goals first before I will have the energy praying for marriage.

CrescentMoon:
Let me tell you why it always doesn't pan out as expected: until a man meets his crush in person, he is not in a position to think he has genuine feelings for someone. And the probability that a pretty girl you know in that street of yours is intelligent is almost zero as most of them turn out to be 'pepper them gang' mantra advocates. Besides, pretty, intelligent women are usually not found in the streets (married off or infront of computers in large corporations), and most of us combing nairaland for beauty-plus-brain designates are at present from the streets. You may ask 'what are you still doing in the street if you are truly wise?' And I will tell you that women stand a better chance with job opportunities if the brain and the beauty remain their exclusive preserve. What we see as beauty is never constant, no matter how pretty a woman is.

There was a time a girl missed her direction and entered our compound. I was stuned beholding such a gem. I asked who she talked to for her mission and I made efforts to cross her path again. When I finally had the chance to look into her eyes, I told myself she is not for me - I have a way of seeing what I want upon looking into a woman's eyes.

The first girl I met from NL never sent her pic to me. When we met, I backed off, despite her imposing academic exploits - more educated than my self. The second one works with a financial institution. She considers my physical form 'a threat' because hers is a very below average appearance. Now you may say why don't I go into prayer for God to help me. I will say God should answer my prayer for career goals first before I will have the energy praying for marriage.

I still don't understand. Especially your first paragraph. Where are pretty,intelligent women found? You only mentioned where they are not found...

in all, what are you saying in essence? Hit the nail on the head. Why are brained girls( like you called them) not suitable for dating?

sirBLUNT:
of course but there is always a new begining after to every end ..is my challenge accepted?
sinaj where are u?

Would you like to be my side nigga?.

CrescentMoon:
Brained girls you meet online are usually not suited for dating. If they are, I would have landed a dream woman long ago. Beni.ta27's case is not an exception. Just read their inputs and swerve. I'm a man who is always on the lookout for women with vast perspectives about life. After meeting two of these women from nairaland in Lagos, I gave up. Hope to meet a moderate pepper seller in the future.

Simply put, you're insecure.

kimbraa:
Would you like to be my side nigga?.

why not, if i will be the highest share holder

sirBLUNT:
why not, if i will be the highest share holder

Main nigga owns the majority share.

kimbraa:
Simply put, you're insecure.

i totally agree with you alot of men feel so intimidated by intelligent and successful and the reason is because they feel they cant control her,the want a woman that when they say sit down,dont work she will just obey without objecting or airing her opinion but why wil a man want to control his woman sef? na ur younger sister? some men just feel they must be richer than the woman because that is the only way the woman wil respect but dat is very wrong u dont nid money to let a woman dat you are the man...except you are suffering frm inferiority complex and deep insecurity!

MissJoy29:
I still don't understand. Especially your first paragraph. Where are pretty,intelligent women found? You only mentioned where they are not found...

in all, what are you saying in essence? Hit the nail on the head. Why are brained girls( like you called them) not suitable for dating?

Intelligent, beautiful women are predominantly found in best offices, movie and music industries, or as married housewives. Hardly will a woman with such credentials go for interviews and not get the job because getting connections is easier for them. Once they get into that office, their male colleagues become their targets as husbands. Once hooked up, you don't see them online contributing to ideals, philosophies - visiting shoprite and getting spoiled by the man becomes the order of the day. If they are unable to get a man with like mind in their job environment, they will become active and more involved in having a better society - contributing to anything that will make the earth a better place. While doing these, acquaintances will start multiplying for them. And after taking baby steps to see if the acquaintances of theirs will make better partners, and find out otherwise, they give up and rely on fate while their marital clock seems on a sprinting spree. If a genuine man shows up later online, he would become a victim of generalization of masculine stereotype. Like myself who likes to marry someone like Chimamanda Adichi, Angelina Jolie, or the woman who is the Queen of Iceland in the movie Dark Kingdom: The Dragon King, where will I meet such? And if there are nairalanders that have such potentials, they seem only coming here to read news and disappear into thin air. When suitors are already stumbling upon their selves to have the attention of these type of women offline, you don't expect them to give attention to those men in cyberspace except a supernatural force is playing a script.

Why I gave up

I have met three women that once held nairaland hostage in term of intelligence. I too had put more effort in appearing intelligent and won the attention of these women (I deactivated those accounts). When we met, their physical appearance is nothing to write home about despite my own imperfections. I mean their appearance is not what I can afford to live with forever. At present, I see pretty girls every second. But if anyone say I will choose a wife from among them, I will flick my left hand off my head as a way of dispelling evil omen in my corner of the world. Now my definition of a 'moderate pepper seller' is a pretty girl with ability to write and read well without higher education, and I still can't find that - hence the hope to meet one.

sirBLUNT:
i totally agree with you alot of men feel so intimidated by intelligent and successful and the reason is because they feel they cant control her,the want a woman that when they say sit down,dont work she will just obey without objecting or airing her opinion but why wil a man want to control his woman sef? na ur younger sister? some men just feel they must be richer than the woman because that is the only way the woman wil respect but dat is very wrong u dont nid money to let a woman dat you are the man...except you are suffering frm inferiority complex and deep insecurity!

LOL. You couldn't have said it better 'cause I feel his reason for saying "Brainy girls aren't dateable" could be that he perceives them as overbearing, egocentric, too opinionated, and not docile... Forgetting that these same traits could be found in a bimbo. These are the few that could explain his reason for feeling threatened/insecure by brainy girls. I think we all have our soft spot, and even the strongest of man has a woman whose biddings he does if he loves her and likewise women.

kimbraa:
Main nigga owns the majority share.

am not interested in been the main guy am only interested in winning your heart..because the main guy may not be the one who truly deserves u

kimbraa:
Simply put, you're insecure.

Define insecurity. When you meet a very intelligent but ugly (according to my on set standard) woman, is that insecurity? I won't deceive you, what any woman can have more than me is money and it's allowed.

sirBLUNT:
i totally agree with you alot of men feel so intimidated by intelligent and successful and the reason is because they feel they cant control her,the want a woman that when they say sit down,dont work she will just obey without objecting or airing her opinion but why wil a man want to control his woman sef? na ur younger sister? some men just feel they must be richer than the woman because that is the only way the woman wil respect but dat is very wrong u dont nid money to let a woman dat you are the man...except you are suffering frm inferiority complex and deep insecurity!

You're trying very hard to win your wooing battle or toasting challenge as you said. Good luck!

kimbraa:
LOL. You couldn't have said it better 'cause I feel his reason for saying "Brainy girls aren't dateable" could be that he perceives them as overbearing, egocentric, too opinionated, and not docile... Forgetting that these same traits could be found in a bimbo. These are the few that could explain his reason for feeling threatened/insecure by brainy girls. I think we all have our soft spot, and even the strongest of man has a woman whose biddings he does if he loves her and likewise women.

exactly every woman has a soft spot the problem is not knowing that she has one but finding that soft,now when you dont that is where is frustration and insecurities comes in because u feel she rude,opinionted and obnoxious...here am i praying 4 brain over beauty..here is someone feeling intimidated..oh lawd akant take this..sinaj come and hear something

CrescentMoon:
Define insecurity. When you meet a very intelligent but ugly (according to my on set standard) woman, is that insecurity? I won't deceive you, what any woman can have more than me is money and it's allowed.

The word "Ugly" is subjective, and likewise "Beauty". I don't know why anyone would say "Brainy girls are undateable" 'cause going by your explanation here you're invariably saying that all brainy girls are ugly if you're not insecure.

CrescentMoon:
You're trying very hard to win your wooing battle or toasting challenge as you said. Good luck!

this has nothing to do with the wooing challenge am just been pragmatic and until u elucidate on y brainy girls are not dateable i still on my words

kimbraa:
The word "Ugly" is subjective, and likewise "Beauty". I don't know why anyone would say "Brainy girls are undateable" 'cause going by your explanation here you're invariably saying that all brainy girls are ugly if you're not insecure.

You have a long way to go with comprehension ability.

"Brained girls you meet online are usually... "

Read the sentence in quote and interpret it again.

CrescentMoon:
Intelligent, beautiful women are predominantly found in best offices, movie and music industries, or as married housewives. Hardly will a woman with such credentials go for interviews and not get the job because getting connections is easier for them. Once they get into that office, their male colleagues become their targets as husbands. Once hooked up, you don't see them online contributing to ideals, philosophies - visiting shoprite and getting spoiled by the man becomes the order of the day. If they are unable to get a man with like mind in their job environment, they will become active and more involved in having a better society - contributing to anything that will make the earth a better place. While doing these, acquaintances will start multiplying for them. And after taking baby steps to see if the acquaintances of theirs will make better partners, and find out otherwise, they give up and rely on fate while their marital clock seems on a sprinting spree. If a genuine man shows up later online, he would become a victim of generalization of masculine stereotype. Like myself who likes to marry someone like Chimamanda Adichi, Angelina Jolie, or the woman who is the Queen of Iceland in the movie Dark Kingdom: The Dragon King, where will I meet such? And if there are nairalanders that have such potentials, they seem only coming here to read news and disappear into thin air. When suitors are already stumbling upon their selves to have the attention of these type of women offline, you don't expect them to give attention to those men in cyberspace except a supernatural force is playing a script.

Why I gave up

I have met three women that once held nairaland hostage in term of intelligence. I too had put more effort in appearing intelligent and won the attention of these women (I deactivated those accounts). When we met, their physical appearance is nothing to write home about despite my own imperfections. I mean their appearance is not what I can afford to live with forever. At present, I see pretty girls every second. But if anyone say I will choose a wife from among them, I will flick my left hand off my head as a way of dispelling evil omen in my corner of the world. Now my definition of a 'moderate pepper seller' is a pretty girl with ability to write and read well without higher education, and I still can't find that - hence the hope to meet one.

Ok, I get you now. You are in a way right. But why conclude with only three experiences?

Now, which is more important to you? The beauty or the intelligence? Cos from your write up, you have met the intelligent but they were not beautiful. You also mention that you see beautiful women every day and I guess they are not as intelligent as you want. And from your views too, the combination of the intelligent and the beautiful are not easily found. So, assume this is as real as it is, which would you choose?

CrescentMoon:
Brained girls you meet online are usually not suited for dating. If they are, I would have landed a dream woman long ago. Benita27's case is not an exception. Just read their inputs and swerve. I'm a man who is always on the lookout for women with vast perspectives about life. After meeting two of these women from nairaland in Lagos, I gave up. Hope to meet a moderate pepper seller in the future.

its true, most of them are 'dogmatic and highly principle' as such they are 'rigid and unromantic' in a relationship.But,if you have an exeptional quality in you,she can also switch or adjust some of her dogma's in order to have a smooth relationship.MAN is a 'social being' we aint static as such personality can be alter or change due to some variant factos irrespective of the 'lady' be it the 'brain lady or pepper seller' as u mentioned aboved.They can be groom,influence and reshape in their view towards a certain phenomena, in as much as you got what it takes.

CrescentMoon:
Intelligent, beautiful women are predominantly found in best offices, movie and music industries, or as married housewives. Hardly will a woman with such credentials go for interviews and not get the job because getting connections is easier for them. Once they get into that office, their male colleagues become their targets as husbands. Once hooked up, you don't see them online contributing to ideals, philosophies - visiting shoprite and getting spoiled by the man becomes the order of the day. If they are unable to get a man with like mind in their job environment, they will become active and more involved in having a better society - contributing to anything that will make the earth a better place. While doing these, acquaintances will start multiplying for them. And after taking baby steps to see if the acquaintances of theirs will make better partners, and find out otherwise, they give up and rely on fate while their marital clock seems on a sprinting spree. If a genuine man shows up later online, he would become a victim of generalization of masculine stereotype. Like myself who likes to marry someone like Chimamanda Adichi, Angelina Jolie, or the woman who is the Queen of Iceland in the movie Dark Kingdom: The Dragon King, where will I meet such? And if there are nairalanders that have such potentials, they seem only coming here to read news and disappear into thin air. When suitors are already stumbling upon their selves to have the attention of these type of women offline, you don't expect them to give attention to those men in cyberspace except a supernatural force is playing a script.

Why I gave up

I have met three women that once held nairaland hostage in term of intelligence. I too had put more effort in appearing intelligent and won the attention of these women (I deactivated those accounts). When we met, their physical appearance is nothing to write home about despite my own imperfections. I mean their appearance is not what I can afford to live with forever. At present, I see pretty girls every second. But if anyone say I will choose a wife from among them, I will flick my left hand off my head as a way of dispelling evil omen in my corner of the world. Now my definition of a 'moderate pepper seller' is a pretty girl with ability to write and read well without higher education, and I still can't find that - hence the hope to meet one.

sorry for jumping on your mention, but I just want to clarify something

so in essence you are saying that there are no beautiful and intelligent ladies active on naira land. You are also saying that most intelligent ladies active here are not beautiful or the beautiful one's are not intelligent.

CrescentMoon:
Why I gave up

I have met three women that once held nairaland hostage in term of intelligence. I too had put more effort in appearing intelligent and won the attention of these women (I deactivated those accounts). When we met, their physical appearance is nothing to write home about despite my own imperfections. I mean their appearance is not what I can afford to live with forever. At present, I see pretty girls every second. But if anyone say I will choose a wife from among them, I will flick my left hand off my head as a way of dispelling evil omen in my corner of the world. Now my definition of a 'moderate pepper seller' is a pretty girl with ability to write and read well without higher education, and I still can't find that - hence the hope to meet one.

Guy, this your reasons are just funny to me. You are not ready yet, Just pick one of those pretty girls you see every second & Marry them LOL.

Any woman can be dumb, Pretty or Not. Doesn't matter.

This Benita27 is surely not dumb. Pretty? I don't know.

but one thing I learn is never to Judge people based on looks, Nigerian men tend to shame Ugly looking women for no reason as If they popped out from the sky.

CrescentMoon:
Let me tell you why it always doesn't pan out as expected: until a man meets his crush in person, he is not in a position to think he has genuine feelings for someone. And the probability that a pretty girl you know in that street of yours is intelligent is almost zero as most of them turn out to be 'pepper them gang' mantra advocates. Besides, pretty, intelligent women are usually not found in the streets (married off or infront of computers in large corporations), and most of us combing nairaland for beauty-plus-brain designates are at present from the streets. You may ask 'what are you still doing in the street if you are truly wise?' And I will tell you that women stand a better chance with job opportunities if the brain and the beauty remain their exclusive preserve. What we see as beauty is never constant, no matter how pretty a woman is.

There was a time a girl missed her direction and entered our compound. I was stuned beholding such a gem. I asked who she talked to for her mission and I made efforts to cross her path again. When I finally had the chance to look into her eyes, I told myself she is not for me - I have a way of seeing what I want upon looking into a woman's eyes.

The first girl I met from NL never sent her pic to me. When we met, I backed off, despite her imposing academic exploits - more educated than my self. The second one works with a financial institution. She considers my physical form 'a threat' because hers is a very below average appearance. Now you may say why don't I go into prayer for God to help me. I will say God should answer my prayer for career goals first before I will have the energy praying for marriage.

As an aside, one NL prophet said you will marry a pastor. Considering the image in your profile, na for me to start application for the Seminary sure pass.

Okay, so I get your point and where you're coming from. Your post came off like brainy girls are undatable lol.

But then it's possible to find pretty intelligent women in the streets tho but what 'street' are you referring to? Is it some sort of euphemism? Maybe I didn't get that part of your post.

And jeez, I'll never marry a pastor even if he's the only option I've got left.

makydebbie:
Okay, so I get your point and where you're coming from. Your post came off like brainy girls are undatable lol.

But then it's possible to find pretty intelligent women in the streets tho but what 'street' are you referring to? Is it some sort of euphemism? Maybe I didn't get that part of your post.

And jeez, I'll never marry a pastor even if he's the only option I've got left .

Not even papas son

Spaxon:
Not even papas son

Not even the richest pastor in the world son.