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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Luukasz(m): 7:17pm On Dec 21, 2017
fayte341:
10 years! Jeez you had to waste her time for that long! Truth be told...you're finding a way out cuz you never loved her...
Imagine oo 10yrs... he's one of those lads who make some women generalize that all men are irresponsible and monstrous

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by bolt000(m): 7:17pm On Dec 21, 2017
IAMSASHY:
undecided after 10 years, u jst discovered u ain't sure u cn marry her, Wat exactly hv u both bin planning al dis years


Relationships isn't 4 kids, una no go hear.
For reasons unkown to me, this your statement just pisses the hell out of me!
you sound fvcking stupid and unreasonable.
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by africanusvu(m): 7:17pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:
I've known her for 10years ...We have dated on an off 3 times, she's the perfect wife material but she's 25 now and i am 28 planning to marry at 31.she love me and I feel the same way too .she want to wait for .me but i am not sure i can marry her by then. What and how do i tell her?
.Two of u ar bastards.dated for over 10yrs now 25yrs meaning u be been dating her from 14yrsthiss this sound healthy.wat ar ur achievement in academics. U must be a product of an irresponsible parents for sure

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by blesoh(f): 7:18pm On Dec 21, 2017
ubunja:
if u marry in your 30s always marry a girl in her early twenties. make sure the age-gap is more than 10 yrs. you need a young nubile princess to unite with your mature provider self.

go find something fresh, something with standing breasts.
Very true

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Fhemmmy: 7:19pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:
I've known her for 10years ...We have dated on an off 3 times, she's the perfect wife material but she's 25 now and i am 28 planning to marry at 31.she love me and I feel the same way too .she want to wait for .me but i am not sure i can marry her by then. What and how do i tell her?

State your reason why you are not sure if you will be able to marry her by then, that will make it easy to be able to advice

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by thanknairaland1: 7:19pm On Dec 21, 2017
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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by olureignforever: 7:20pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:





I really love her and I am scared of losing her at same time I don't want to disappoint her


You are confused.

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by veraiyke(m): 7:21pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:
I've known her for 10years ...We have dated on an off 3 times, she's the perfect wife material but she's 25 now and i am 28 planning to marry at 31.she love me and I feel the same way too .she want to wait for .me but i am not sure i can marry her by then. What and how do i tell her?
I only have one question: Why cant you marry her then if as you've said she is a perfect wife material?

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Mariangeles(f): 7:21pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:
I've known her for 10years ...We have dated on an off 3 times, she's the perfect wife material but she's 25 now and i am 28 planning to marry at 31.she love me and I feel the same way too .she want to wait for .me but i am not sure i can marry her by then. What and how do i tell her?
Then you don't really love if can't marry her by the time you're 31...LET HER GO!
Have you been sleeping with her? If you have then you're not being fair...
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Luukasz(m): 7:22pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:

the relationship was on and off...we temporarily dated other ppl during that period
Sorry bruhv seems you two are emotionally weak, who does on and off relationship.
Ones its over, its should be over forever going back to a relationship you left off just says you are weak at heart

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Safiaa(f): 7:22pm On Dec 21, 2017
ubunja:
if u marry in your 30s always marry a girl in her early twenties. make sure the age-gap is more than 10 yrs. you need a young nubile princess to unite with your mature provider self.

go find something fresh, something with standing breasts.
most girls in their early twenties are not thinking about marriage.

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by veraiyke(m): 7:23pm On Dec 21, 2017
africanusvu:
.Two of u ar bastards.dated for over 10yrs now 25yrs meaning u be been dating her from 14yrsthiss this sound healthy.wat ar ur achievement in academics. U must be a product of an irresponsible parents for sure
oga what has parents got to do in this please

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by erico2k2(m): 7:23pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:
I've known her for 10years ...We have dated on an off 3 times, she's the perfect wife material but she's 25 now and i am 28 planning to marry at 31.she love me and I feel the same way too .she want to wait for .me but i am not sure i can marry her by then. What and how do i tell her?
you cant marry a 31 yr Old? really? whats wrong in that? are you planning on having 67 kids?

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Bamz(m): 7:24pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:
she want to wait for .me but i am not sure i can marry her by then. What and how do i tell her?

I took your previous statements at face value regarding fact that you love her et al. I'm not going to debate all of that.

If what I quoted is the only problem,

The simple solution is to get committed. Get her engaged so you will only have eyes for her. Even if you're away for a long time, that feeling of engagement would suffice to get you to wait for her in the right way (hopefully).

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Dec 21, 2017
u dnt think u can marry her by then, after u don use her reach quarter final? evil men do go afta dem #lawofkarma
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by AreaFada2: 7:25pm On Dec 21, 2017
Uyi168:
hmm..na her kpekus i just dy pity for..the thing go don tear tear full everywhere..
Dude he said they never had sex. Even though the girl wanted it.

At 25 she can still find someone nice to marry. Not too late. The guy just need to be sure of what he wants. Either engage her or let her go.
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Blessograo(f): 7:25pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:
I've known her for 10years ...We have dated on an off 3 times, she's the perfect wife material but she's 25 now and i am 28 planning to marry at 31.she love me and I feel the same way too .she want to wait for .me but i am not sure i can marry her by then. What and how do i tell her?
Uncle just tell us the truth that you found someone else younger and you are already tired of her, stop the excuses and tell her the truth. Na you too delay her till 25.

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by ubunja(m): 7:25pm On Dec 21, 2017
chronique:



error 404. it might not really work out well. girls that age are highly unreliable and very unstable. just a few cut it.
then find those few.

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by pweetiedee(m): 7:26pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:


I don't know if I can marry her at 29
why can't you marry her at 29? She would be too old for you?
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by kennyblaze007(m): 7:28pm On Dec 21, 2017
Hmm
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Youngboss101: 7:29pm On Dec 21, 2017
Did u ever loved her....
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by arrestdarrester: 7:30pm On Dec 21, 2017
Its difficult to tell her simply because you have been sleeping with her. What ever you do, do quickly...
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Blessograo(f): 7:31pm On Dec 21, 2017
Finish what you started don't ask us for advice.

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by AreaFada2: 7:32pm On Dec 21, 2017
Safiaa:
most girls in their early twenties are not thinking about marriage.
My dear that was before. Majority I know are ready to marry from age 19 sef. Only their family kick against it, to finish studies first. If a guy is doing well he can marry a nice young girl easily. But I do not believe age is that important, young or older. Chemistry matters more.

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by ubunja(m): 7:32pm On Dec 21, 2017
kimbraa:
Wrong!. Even a virgin's breast must obey the laws of gravity as she ages.
kimbraa LOL
they will droop a lil but not so much it requires a bra. remember in the olden days virgins didnt wear bras or cover their breasts. coz breasts are a faithful indicator of the state of the pvssy.
standing breast = tight P
saggy breast = loose P.

plus breasts untouched too much have that hard stuff in them that makes them withstand gravity. but since u did say "as she ages" i will agree that maybe at 35 virgin breasts will have a problem. but in any case who needs a 35yr old virgin
virgins are hot property under 22.

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Safiaa(f): 7:34pm On Dec 21, 2017
AreaFada2:

My dear that was before. Majority I know are ready to marry from age 19 sef. Only their family kick against it, to finish studies first. If a guy is doing well he can marry a nice young girl easily. But I do not believe age is that important, young or older. Chemistry matters more.
Yup chemistry is more important. Marriage at 19? Not in this generation im sorry lool.

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Udumeze1: 7:35pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:
I've known her for 10years ...We have dated on an off 3 times, she's the perfect wife material but she's 25 now and i am 28 planning to marry at 31.she love me and I feel the same way too .she want to wait for .me but i am not sure i can marry her by then. What and how do i tell her?
Brother! Brother!! Brother!!! How many times did I call you? If you know what is good for you, hold that girl well with all your strength. Wife scarce for market o. I'm speaking from experience. I once made the stupid mistake you are about to make, as I'm typing this, I dey use red eye dey look for wife but all na rubish I dey see. The earlier you make your decision the better for you.

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 21, 2017
ubunja:

kimbraa LOL
they will droop a lil but not so much it requires a bra. remember in the olden days virgins didnt wear bras or cover their breasts. coz breasts are a faithful indicator of the state of the pvssy.
standing breast = tight P
saggy breast = loose P.

plus breasts untouched too much have that hard stuff in them that makes them withstand gravity. but since u did say "as she ages" i will agree that maybe at 35 virgin breasts will have a problem. but in any case who needs a 35yr old virgin
virgins are hot property under 22.
Jesus!. Who's giving you these wrong informations?. Well, you made it sound like girls in their early twenties all have firm boobs but it depends on individual's breast elasticity. There're ladies in their thirties whose boobs are firm.

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Manwisdom: 7:36pm On Dec 21, 2017
The earlier d better pls tell her on time, so she ll know her faith[color=#000099][/color]
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by remedick: 7:36pm On Dec 21, 2017
Oxster:
The game is dangerous..Better start pulling yourself off b4 next 3 years,,if you think you can't marry her,start giving her less attention and attitude don't just tell her it won't work if not you are GONE

Use your attitude to tell her that,There are many ways to do that!
if this was a woman doing all these, you all will call her names Abi?
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by donneco(m): 7:38pm On Dec 21, 2017
Passy089:
I've known her for 10years ...We have dated on an off 3 times, she's the perfect wife material but she's 25 now and i am 28 planning to marry at 31.she love me and I feel the same way too .she want to wait for .me but i am not sure i can marry her by then. What and how do i tell her?

oga, search ur heart and if u truely love her then marry her.
I am speaking from experience.
And pray about it,

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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by bs81(m): 7:39pm On Dec 21, 2017
It seems you are confused. Think very well man. wife materials are rare these days. Who says girls of 30-40 are not marriageable?

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