DrinkLimca:
lies! !!
Truth is that, you guys can't live without us and our money.

Money??

It's the 'Mumu men' that i blame for always rewarding women with money for the possible possibility of having sex with them

I see a lot of poor guys roaming the street everyday...Guys that can't even brush and floss their teeth properly These are the same set of guys that will come online and say we can't live without them and their money...Which money??

Wake up!! This is 21st Century,women have so conditioned their mind to be financially independent....Any woman that waits for a man's money go hear am especially the broke ones screaming up and down on nairaland

Ladyhippolyta88:
It is the one's you have seen not all of them are like that.Okay a man that earns more than a woman can he not also make her life a living hell?

No, we men are designed to bear the weight of achievements...Ladies, aren't, earn just 50k monthly, a man no go hear word !

Mhissgaga:

Money??

It's the 'Mumu men' that i blame for always rewarding women with money for the possible possibility of having sex with them

I see a lot of poor guys roaming the street everyday...Guys that can't even brush and floss their teeth properly These are the same set of guys that will come online and say we can't live without them and their money...Which money??

Wake up!! This is 21st Century,women have so conditioned their mind to be financially independent....Any woman that waits for a man's money go hear am especially the broke ones screaming up and down on nairaland

Osanobua, you don finish men. K.O. !

I'm sorry but i don't know that feeling. I for one specifically target women with financial stability or those who have rich parents. lol.

WebSurfer:

It’s like you are from delta

Yes
How come u knw i'm from Delta

Safiaaa:
Yes some love dependent women. Very few love independent women, realistically speaking. But most if not all of you claim women have nothing else to offer but pussy? Can you please explain this?

the claim that women have nothing to offer by nairaland guys is just rubbish talk,its nt a typical mindset of many nigerian guys,most nairaland guys are very dull dont follow their talk.that statement doesnr make sense.you gals shouldnt access nigerian men through ds nairaland guys,most of them are a shame to realmen out there

Jupxter:




No, we men are designed to bear the weight of achievements...Ladies, aren't, earn just 50k monthly, a man no go hear word !

Come I don't like that it is plain double standard.And please I don't like such kind of mentality.

Penisinpenisout:
I'm sorry but i don't know that feeling. I for one specifically target women with financial stability or those who have rich parents. lol.

Na your type dem dey find Kwanu !

Mhissgaga:

Yes
How come u knw i'm from Delta

Your name.. Ogaga

Ladyhippolyta88:
Come I don't like that it is plain double standard.And please I don't like such kind of mentality.

Ouch, that hurts !

But when it hurts, it's close to the truth my lady

babasolution:


the claim that women have nothing to offer by nairaland guys is just rubbish talk,its nt a typical mindset of many nigerian guys,most nairaland guys are very dull dont follow their talk.that statement doesnr make sense.you gals shouldnt access nigerian men through ds nairaland guys,most of them are a shame to realmen out there

Lol.

WebSurfer:

Your name.. Ogaga

Finally, you don find wetin you dey find. Carry am go offline. No loud am

Jupxter:




Na, i don't believe in controlling/manipulating people...What's the way out for having a stable, healthy relationship ?

Hmmmm this question hard small ooo but in my own way sha!

Sometimes relationships can seem like a lot
of work until you sit back and realize just
how much you've been given. A thriving,
healthy relationship requires some give and
take, and is absolutely within your reach if
you and your partner are willing to do a bit
of work. If you and your partner are right for
each other, all the work will definitely be
worth it in the long run.
____________________________



Things You Must Do Independently
Take responsibility for your own
happiness. Save yourself several
hours of arguing by remembering this
one rule: it's not up to anyone else to
make you happy. In a relationship your
partner will try to please you and make
you happy, but in the end you are
responsible for your happiness.

Make good on your words. Follow
through on your promises. When you
say you're going to do something, do it.
Don't say that you'll cook dinner, or get a
birthday present, and then blow it off or
simply forget about it. What this does is
systematically destroy trust. And
relationships need trust in order to
thrive.
__
If you're bad at remembering things,
write it down on a personal planner
or calendar, and set up reminders on
your phone.
__
Think about what your saying.
Think of the good and bad parts
about the topic. If you can't
keep your word why promise
something to someone when
you know you will fail them.

_____________

Admit your mistakes. If you know
you've done something to hurt your
partner, intentionally or not, own up to it.
Humble yourself and apologize sincerely,
without making excuses or justifications
like "I'm sorry you made me angry." you
have to be responsible for your actions
and cannot make anyone else feel guilty
for what you have done or didn't do.
Commit to changing your behavior. If
you notice yourself apologizing for
the same mistake over and over,
step it up a level. Tell your partner
that you recognized this mistake
keeps happening, and you want to
train yourself to stop. Request help
and ask for him or her to gently
point it out to you when you're
making this mistake again.

______________


Be realistic.
______________


Every relationship has
disagreements and days when staying
isn't the easiest choice. But what makes a
relationship healthy is choosing to resolve
those problems and push through the
hard days, instead of just letting issues
and resentment faster. Working through
your problems will help you be a more
positive person.


• Review your expectations. Do you
see your partner as a person, with
both winning qualities and flaws, or
as someone you expect to be
perfect? If your expectations are so
astronomical that no one could live
up to them 100% of the time, you're
setting up your relationship for
failure. Learn to embrace their
differences. You can learn a lot from
them.


• Accept that conflict happens. If you
expect to be in a long-term
relationship, you're bound to have
the occasional disagreement.
Remember that one argument isn't
the end of everything, and there's no
person on earth that you'd agree
with all the time.


• Always ask yourself whether you're
better off in the relationship than
out of it. If you don't think you're
better off in the relationship, then
you probably should have a serious
discussion with your partner. In a
loving relationship, this question
almost always gets a simple "Yes."


Na the small one wey I know be this ooo me sef still need to learn from una oo!

Penisinpenisout:
I'm sorry but i don't know that feeling. I for one specifically target women with financial stability or those who have rich parents. lol.

See ya life....May God help women

Jupxter:



Ouch, that hurts !

But when it hurts, it's close to the truth my lady

Oya nor vex sorry.I don't believe that you can say some but not all.

WebSurfer:

Your name.. Ogaga

Okay??
Are you from Delta too?

Martin0:




Hmmmm this question hard small ooo but in my own way sha!

Sometimes relationships can seem like a lot
of work until you sit back and realize just
how much you've been given. A thriving,
healthy relationship requires some give and
take, and is absolutely within your reach if
you and your partner are willing to do a bit
of work. If you and your partner are right for
each other, all the work will definitely be
worth it in the long run.
____________________________



Things You Must Do Independently
Take responsibility for your own
happiness. Save yourself several
hours of arguing by remembering this
one rule: it's not up to anyone else to
make you happy. In a relationship your
partner will try to please you and make
you happy, but in the end you are
responsible for your happiness.

Make good on your words. Follow
through on your promises. When you
say you're going to do something, do it.
Don't say that you'll cook dinner, or get a
birthday present, and then blow it off or
simply forget about it. What this does is
systematically destroy trust. And
relationships need trust in order to
thrive.
__
If you're bad at remembering things,
write it down on a personal planner
or calendar, and set up reminders on
your phone.
__
Think about what your saying.
Think of the good and bad parts
about the topic. If you can't
keep your word why promise
something to someone when
you know you will fail them.

_____________

Admit your mistakes. If you know
you've done something to hurt your
partner, intentionally or not, own up to it.
Humble yourself and apologize sincerely,
without making excuses or justifications
like "I'm sorry you made me angry." you
have to be responsible for your actions
and cannot make anyone else feel guilty
for what you have done or didn't do.
Commit to changing your behavior. If
you notice yourself apologizing for
the same mistake over and over,
step it up a level. Tell your partner
that you recognized this mistake
keeps happening, and you want to
train yourself to stop. Request help
and ask for him or her to gently
point it out to you when you're
making this mistake again.

______________


Be realistic.
______________


Every relationship has
disagreements and days when staying
isn't the easiest choice. But what makes a
relationship healthy is choosing to resolve
those problems and push through the
hard days, instead of just letting issues
and resentment faster. Working through
your problems will help you be a more
positive person.


• Review your expectations. Do you
see your partner as a person, with
both winning qualities and flaws, or
as someone you expect to be
perfect? If your expectations are so
astronomical that no one could live
up to them 100% of the time, you're
setting up your relationship for
failure. Learn to embrace their
differences. You can learn a lot from
them.


• Accept that conflict happens. If you
expect to be in a long-term
relationship, you're bound to have
the occasional disagreement.
Remember that one argument isn't
the end of everything, and there's no
person on earth that you'd agree
with all the time.


• Always ask yourself whether you're
better off in the relationship than
out of it. If you don't think you're
better off in the relationship, then
you probably should have a serious
discussion with your partner. In a
loving relationship, this question
almost always gets a simple "Yes."


Na the small one wey I know be this ooo me sef still need to learn from una oo!

BROS WE PRACTICE ALL THESE THINGS, I'M A COOL GUY LIKE YOU KNOW ME. IT'S ALWAYS TWO IT TAKES TO TANGO. LIKE DIVORCE, ONE PARTY USUALLY DO NOT MEET UP WITH THEIR OWN END OF THE BARGAIN

Mhissgaga:

Money??

It's the 'Mumu men' that i blame for always rewarding women with money for the possible possibility of having sex with them

I see a lot of poor guys roaming the street everyday...Guys that can't even brush and floss their teeth properly These are the same set of guys that will come online and say we can't live without them and their money...Which money??

Wake up!! This is 21st Century,women have so conditioned their mind to be financially independent....Any woman that waits for a man's money go hear am especially the broke ones screaming up and down on nairaland

I like ur ability

Abeg make money ooo coz me dey come marry u coz of that money oo!
But hope say u hear the amount wey davido talk ooo

Ladyhippolyta88:
Oya nor vex sorry.I don't believe that you can say some but not all.

All well, many ladies can't carry weight of many achievements without character flaws, it's a burden they don't have the character to carry. Character plays a vital role in bearing the burden of future achievements. With humility comes the ability to carry greater achievements.See, if a lady earns 20k monthly and becomes proud as a result of her financial standing, what happens when she earns 500k per month?

Jupxter:



Finally, you don find wetin you dey find. Carry am go offline. No loud am

Lol, see wahala o, someone cannot ask a sister question again?

WebSurfer:

Lol, see wahala o, someone cannot ask a sister question again?

I get your file for hand..You want make i open am here?

Carry am go private Ogaga

Jupxter:


Osanobua, you don finish men. K.O. !

Wait oo u na Edo man?

Mhissgaga:

Okay??
Are you from Delta too?

Yes I am, based there ?

Martin0:



Wait oo u na Edo man?

not Edo...i'm a Christian....tradition can kiss mah foot

Jupxter:


I get your file for hand..You want make i open am here?

Carry am go private Ogaga

You ain’t got nothing on me bro,, just an innocent convo

Ladyhippolyta88:
I believe in equal pay for equal work and you maybe right when you said we have men in tech Careers more than women.I am sure you have heard of STEM for women.There are some women in technology who have foundations built for girls,there is this particular woman I think she hails from the middleast I can't remember her name she spoke at The recently held misk global forum encouraging girls to participate in STEM related courses.You may say the pay gap is not possible but what about the women in media this year BBC released it's pay for workers and the pay made no sense.And I don't believe a woman should be paid what she did not merit.But the people who support the equal pay have good reasons to as they believe that some women are actually qualified to get such pays.Apart from motherhood being the reason equal pay might not be possible for some, there should be no other reason why they should not be paid equally.And believe me some women can date and marry a guy they earn more than.

It made sense. The employees who bring more viewers to the screen deserve more than others. It is simple economics. You bring more clients, you get more paid. That is how showbizs work. It is same reason Nadal and Federer matches get more viewers than Anna Ivanovic vs Serena, and as such you cannot allocate more earnings to the females, when they brought less. No, it goes against meritocracy. Simple economics dictate how people should be paid not gender. If Wizkid gets invited to a show, ditto Cynthia Morgan. Who gets more? Wizkid, because he'll attract more spectators and tickets' buyers. Not Cynthia as she will bring less. What the vast majority of today's agitators are asking is for Cynthia to be paid same as Wizkid. Meanwhile, if it is Tiwa Savage, she will get same pay as Wizkid. Economics not emotions.
http://www.businessinsider.com/harvard-economist-explains-the-gender-wage-gap-2016-3?IR=T

Yes, the originators of the computer industry are females. However, "I get before no be property". Who dominates the sector today? Men. Who constitutes more than 70% of Comp.Sci/Physics class? Men. Where do tech firms recruit from majorly? Comp.Sci/Physics/Maths' classes. Who earns more in tech firms? Coders. Who constitute more of coders? Men. Who are more likely to work long hours to finish a project? Men. Who is not affected by motherhood? Men. Why then should females earn more than males? Why do companies not employ only females since they earn less - thereby cutting employees' wages - propping up profits the more - sole aim of businesses?

The fight to encourage more women to enter the industry is commendable and in the right direction. However, you cannot force someone to study what she doesn't desire (I can understand cultural differences). If the majority of females desire less paying and stressful sectors than males even with the high pay in those sectors, then there is nothing one can do.

As for ladies marrying men they earn more than, that is an exception not the norm. I ask, what is the percentage?

babasolution:


the claim that women have nothing to offer by nairaland guys is just rubbish talk,its nt a typical mindset of many nigerian guys,most nairaland guys are very dull dont follow their talk.that statement doesnr make sense.you gals shouldnt access nigerian men through ds nairaland guys,most of them are a shame to realmen out there

Thank you for saying the truth
WebSurfer, Ladyhippolyta88, Jupxter, Martin0,Good night guys...DrinkLimca You are very funny

Jupxter:



Finally, you don find wetin you dey find. Carry am go offline. No loud am

Carry who?

All these ladies belongs to me!
I wan marry dem all!

WebSurfer:


You ain’t got nothing on me bro,, just an innocent convo

Na wa, you dey forget quick sha...Trust me, i know..You sha remember popsi's rule sha..Aka where dem must come from

WebSurfer:

Yes I am, based there ?

No...Lag but visit

greiboy:
can the loyalty of a broke girl be trusted or isn't that "words on marble"


I am asking as a member of broke men association

Lmao! There's plenty room on the marble, so there's no reason to be competitive.

To some extent, it does cut both ways. The chances of a broke girl staying broke and dependent after you marry her though, are greater than the chances of a broke guy staying broke. He's bound to upgrade himself and when a person has got money, you begin to see their true colors. But a more accurate comparison would be if a girl suddenly went from ugly to stunning. A guy would likely worry about her loyalty then. She may start to feel that she can do much better.

Martin0:


Carry who?

All these ladies belongs to me!
I wan marry dem all!

Stop being friendly, choose one bra