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Hello NL,
A sincere advice pls, what do you do wen your woman does all to show she loves you but still keeps some familiar guys around?
By familiar I mean, you hv noticed a particular person or persons she still keeps tab with....
Could she be forming the same love with him or them and should it matter to me??

guy jst cut ur hope in 2...
dats mah kinda advice

DiDeBee:
Hello NL,
A sincere advice pls, what do you do wen your woman does all to show she loves you but still keeps some familiar guys around?
By familiar I mean, you hv noticed a particular person or persons she still keeps tab with....
Could she be forming the same love with him or them and should it matter to me??

It's possible they are just buddies, it's possible there's nothing going on with them too, guess u have to trust her bro, she's entitled to have friends sha,
U can always communicate, or tease her about her 'familiar friend', to find out things.

May the force be with you

∆ Free Zoned... Don't be surprised ∆

It simply means
you are not worthy of being
the only one.

Craziestgirl:
It simply means
you are not worthy of being
the only one.

lol...badt gial

AlexCk:
It's possible they are just buddies, it's possible there's nothing going on with them too, guess u have to trust her bro, she's entitled to have friends sha,
U can always communicate, or tease her about her 'familiar friend', to find out things.

May the force be with you

it's also possible she's just 'freestyling'

AlexCk:
It's possible they are just buddies, it's possible there's nothing going on with them too, guess u have to trust her bro, she's entitled to have friends sha,
U can always communicate, or tease her about her 'familiar friend', to find out things.

May the force be with you

Thnks...but Would hv thought of 'just buddies' too, not until I accidentally bombed into some of their conversations ....dats wen her sincerity became questionable

free yourself from such disastrous mind set..
I think you are just acting so insecure

She is good at cheating, you can't do anything about it. Lolz.

moshood521:
guy jst cut ur hope in 2...
dats mah kinda advice

Hmmm,...very sad most possible option at d moment...might even ruin us mehnnn

if she loves you but insists on keeping others then demote yourself to the level of others and still stay on good books with her.
there is no point in paying to be with someone who others get to be with for free.

sekxyqueen:
free yourself from such disastrous mind set..

I think you are just acting so insecure

Hmmmm, don't think dis is insecurity thanks....how do u explain sm other person expressing affectionate feelings to your spouse and she kips absorbing them and roll along wit d person?....is dat supposed to b overlooked

It may surprise you that they are jst friends and nothing attached....
But wait o, is she your galfriend or yr friend that's caring and u think she's showing u greenlight?
Be sure.

ubunja:
if she loves you but insists on keeping others then demote yourself to the level of others and still stay on good books with her.
there is no point in paying to be with someone who others get to be with for free.

Thinking if dat too but will being her second -class citizen make me feel better?? It doesn't feel like it will

cerowo:
It may surprise you that they are jst friends and nothing attached....
But wait o, is she your galfriend or yr friend that's caring and u think she's showing u greenlight?
Be sure.

My real bae.....as in point 1.....no second.
And trust me their conversation is deeper than jst frnds

DiDeBee:
Hmmmm, don't think dis is insecurity thanks....how do u explain sm other person expressing affectionate feelings to your spouse and she kips absorbing them and roll along wit d person?....is dat supposed to b overlooked

was that what she told you,you just fabricate such intuitive just to lament on


there are still girls that role with guys and still have nothing to do with them in terms of emotional attachment. .

though I wouldn't advice a lady in relationship to be rolling with numerous guys cos at one point in time...the tendency of going out of the initial lane will be high...

just be sure of the kinda things they discuss and the type of places that intersect and all whatnot...


do not be led by hallucinations anyway..

sekxyqueen:
was that what she told you,you just fabricate such intuitive just to lament on


there are still girls that role with guys and still have nothing to do with them in terms of emotional attachment. .

though I wouldn't advice a lady in relationship to be rolling with numerous guys cos at one point in time...the tendency of going out of the initial lane will be high...

just be sure of the kinda things they discuss and the type of places that intersect and all whatnot...


do not be led by hallucinations anyway..

Fabrication - Nope
Hallucinations - Not even close

Thanks but I intercepted their deep conversations, the only missing part is their MEETing...but wen I mean deep it was deep, if they havnt met before they will definitely meet sooner

obviously,deres a problem..talk 2 her abwt it,tell her u dont like it.
if it where to be u dats doin that,hope she'l b fine about it.

xrisdgreat:
obviously,deres a problem..talk 2 her abwt it,tell her u dont like it.

if it where to be u dats doin that,hope she'l b fine about it.

dont do that mahn!...thats when she'll do more either to piss you off or make you to jealous,stand up and be in charge,there are many other ways you could send that message....

FiringSquad:
dont do that mahn!...thats when she'll do more either to piss you off or make you to jealous,stand up and be in charge,there are many other ways you could send that message....

be creative,wat way do u think
VIOLENCE or?

FiringSquad:
dont do that mahn!...thats when she'll do more either to piss you off or make you to jealous,stand up and be in charge,there are many other ways you could send that message....

Exactly, dats y am here...other ways like??

gabinogem:
it's also possible she's just 'freestyling'

lol, na y trust important, see the pix below, lol.
'Trust', could be nothing. Lol

DiDeBee:
Thnks...but Would hv thought of 'just buddies' too, not until I accidentally bombed into some of their conversations ....dats wen her sincerity became questionable

Bummer,
Well, cuz u say she shows u that she' really loves u, that's y i feel she may just be having harmless funny chats with the buddy. I could be wrong tho, na y trust important, like i wrote b4, tease her about it, make we hear wetn e go tawk.

DiDeBee:
Hmmm,...very sad most possible option at d moment...might even ruin us mehnnn

abi nah..
nah to hustle 4 nw ni jawe...
i gt gal mk dea try do dat kinda shit wif me sef..
buh me nah gt all dat kinda tym

xrisdgreat:
obviously,deres a problem..talk 2 her abwt it,tell her u dont like it.

if it where to be u dats doin that,hope she'l b fine about it.

Thanks...did dat some tym ago and she stopped.
Probably bcus i was around.
Surprisedly she is still doing it discreetly

DiDeBee:
My real bae.....as in point 1.....no second. And trust me their conversation is deeper than jst frnds

Then why don't sit her down nd talk sense into her

cerowo:
Then why don't sit her down nd talk sense into her

I did dat thanks.
Jst observed she still went back to it, dats y it baffles me

Come guy, m

DiDeBee:
I did dat thanks.
Jst observed she still went back to it, dats y it baffles me

Then it means she aren't bothered if you are affectd or not.
If possible why don't cut her off, cause it seems she's interested with the other guy

cerowo:
Then it means she aren't bothered if you are affectd or not.
If possible why don't cut her off, cause it seems she's interested with the other guy

Really wish she accepted that. Would have been much easier for me to move on if I need to.

DiDeBee:
Really wish she accepted that. Would have been much easier for me to move on if I need to.

Man up dude