can you please share us her pictures

hibeekay007:
The fact that you would call a particular course useless is enough for me to know your level of reasoning nd intelligence is depths below that of your girlfriend's

God bless u for dis..

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

Did you actually mean to say "marrying "? Guy, you just made a major flaw.
As for he intelligence, well, it's your choice.

kimbraa:
I'm not here to type too much grammar just to drive home a baseless point. What do you mean by "I'll be smart for the both of us?" isn't your spouse given a brain by nature to function with?. That I said "Likes attract" doesn't necessarily mean a guy will have to be attracted to another dude simply because they've got same body features. When it comes to relationships, we tend to get attracted to those with whom we share some common interest. Something about t person spark your interest. It may not be pronounced but that's exactly what makes one pick interest in the other. Op may think he's intellectually sound but going by that law; he must have had a few conversation with her in their wooing stage to tell her IQ level but that he was ok with what her brain could produce simply means he isn't far off her IQ level.

Gbam! I assure u, u've been making sense, infact u deserve a medal for ur valid points. Dnt worry the few of us on earth with brain and reasoning. we get u!

You don't need intelligence in a woman...what you need is obedience

Cowbuoy:

Using her rituals will not fetch you a dime but making an impact in her life by raising her standard interlectually will earn you praise.

sexdoll:


Nice try.

but i guess i must let you know that when it comes to the issue of judging if someone is intelligent or not, you also have to consider what the persons knows or is supposed to know.

for instance, you might be an expert in numismatics but if i were to have a discussion with you now ranging from meteorology down to equestrianism, something tells me you won't even have anything to contribute in the discussion.

now to an onlooker watching us having the discussion, you might seem so dull but that doesn't mean you are a dullard because you are still an expert in your numismatic field.

i don't know if you get what i am trying to say.

now, to your second point, learning is actually a gradual process.

some people learn fast; some people don't.

if it so happens that i don't learn fast even though i will eventually learn the stuff, are you trying to tell me that i am not intelligent?

Hey... hey what a distraction!

You are diverting from the main issue at hand. How can you engage your girlfriend who is not a doctor about medicine? about neurology about metrology about econometric?

What are you talking about here or didn't you get it? Would you even engage a brilliant primary four student on the above issue??

Engage someone on simply issue.. something of common knowledge... chat freely in different aspects of life and not of something or a field of study or an occupation you know she has no knowledge or idea of.

Her response will give you a picture of what to expect or her level of intelligence.

Still don't get it?

clitlicker:
manners is not enough, our conversations are usually shallow.

every stupid thing she reads on whatsapp she believes

i hope they dont scam of all her fortunes one day.

with her course, of which she is not coming out with a reasonable grade, it means she will have to do business as no one will employ her.

Give me an illiterate who is loyal, has manners, has a teachable spirit and loves me 100% and I will marry her anyday.

Your girlfriend by not getting good grades may not secure good employment and have to settle for opening her own business and this alone is an asset as being an employee is a form of slavery as ALL employees can be sacked at the drop of a hat.

Regarding whatsapp and her believing everything thereon, you will have to wean her off whatsapp but it will be a tough task especially if you are still on it yourself.

QUESTION for you :- Can you marry a very ugly woman with very high intelligence

Love covers all faults and if you are already having doubts about your current girlfriend then maybe you should free her and let her be available to her own soul mate who will not even see the faults you are seeing in her.

There is no point in creating future unhappiness for both of you when you can avoid such.

Marriage is tough business and a case of fools rush in where angels fear to tread.

[quote author=dollyjoy post=64375695]What if I tell you there are flaws in you she is trying to put up with because she loves you? Every human has flaws,if you consider her intellectual shallowness as a deal breaker. Please take a walk. Thank you and God bless you.....Rubbing it on his face isnt the right approach to helping out, dont discourage or make him feel worse cox he really means well for the beb rather help me profer a good solution to his problems...thank you

U deserve 1001 likes
[/i]Cheers

KushyKush:
[i]Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.

SHOCK7:
Why 're you taking dis personally?

You think I am?

kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say, you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.

Modified.
The laws of attraction says "Likes attract" unlike your physics law that states that "Opposite attract". I wasn't the one that stipulated that law so get a grip of yourself while giving me stupid mention just to come off intelligent. Google is of help if you need an elaborate explanation.

You think love is science? Think again.

Intelligence is not for all. but if she is smart. take her like that.

honourable356:
Hey... hey what a distraction!

You are diverting from the main issue at hand. How can you engage your girlfriend who is not a doctor about medicine? about neurology about metrology about econometric?

What are you talking about here or didn't you get it? Would you even engage a brilliant primary four student on the above issue??

Engage someone on simply issue.. something of common knowledge... chat freely in different aspects of life and not of something or a field of study or an occupation you know she has no knowledge or idea of.

Her response will give you a picture of what to expect or her level of intelligence.

Still don't get it?

Get my point.

Before you can safely conclude that your girlfriend is a dunce, why don't you test her intelligence in the areas you feel she should be strong in namely her passion & interest/s?

And from there you can now diverge into other fields of study.

The op says his girl is studying a stupid course.

Now how does he know it's a stupid course?

The op is actually the one that sounds very stupid for saying that because I'm sure there's every possibility the op knows nothing about local government studies and his "dumb" girl might even give him a serious lecture on that.

Got it now?

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

ok.

personally, I say NO.
reason being that u should marry someone u can learn from because obviously you are not intelligent.
we are in 2018 and u ask questions as stupid as this. WHETHER YOU MARRY HER OR U DONT ,WE WON'T LIVE WITH YOU GUYS. DATZ UR PERSONAL DECISION,keep it Dat way, personal. . :/

Awww, my boo, he is such a perfect gentleman,every mention I get from you makes me fall inlove with you over and over again. My lord, the one that holds the key to my heart

IdeyFindWife:
Everyone chatting crap since.

Nobody remembers to tell the poor sod that you're primarily not in relationship to "change" your partner.

Real change will only come from within or given the right stimulus, change will come from your partner of her own will. Any other arrangement will lead to you building a Frankenstein. You're definitely supposed to be a positive influence but not to the level of APC's kinda change!

If true love cannot blind you to her flaws while all you hold dear are her beloved features that trip you, then leave her be! Don't make it your life duty to "change" her!

For instance, the Ineffable Love of my life, my Frenchy Buttercup, my life's very Garnet of grace and beauty, my garland of love's triumph, My #FrenzyDuchess of life; we're a match made in heaven.

I would've loved her warts and all even if she had humongous warts, in fact, popping her pimple-heads would've been my favorite pastime, but she has none. And I love her all the more still.

She's my life's very breath, because SHE IS MY SOUL MATE!

Dirkcoyt:


you don't need to justify your early comment with this.

I'm talking of people with responsibility, not a child who is still being cater for. everyone sane man with responsibility knows he needs to be aware of his environment. there is a reason why Government put a 18+ age clause.

haba oga or madam,


if you really, really read carefully I ask how old is she.


not everybody that is looking tall or in a relationship have any ideal about what is going on on the world okay.

ak22:


You can see that you are not intelligent has OP girlfriend . please try to contribute by saying meaningful word .

u wey u get intelligence.....who ur intelligence help.......if u no talk Ur mouth go smell abi......see human activist... ..gboromideleru....

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

never marry a girl for beauty alone, there is a lot that makes a marriage work, she must be intelligent, smart, have a strong personality, good character, a Christian and so on

a girl that will add value to ur life, and bring more to the table than just sex and food

a girl that you can both work and achieve great things together

get her a smartphone if she doesn't have one and make sure she visits nairaland atleast once a day, what I've learnt here for the past 8years, I no learn am for school for four years

ubunja:
learn to listen when we tell you these things. dont argue with a guy about what a guy wants.

Good advice

clitlicker:


manners is not enough,

our conversations are usually shallow.

every stupid thing she reads on whatsapp she believes

i hope they dont scam of all her fortunes one day.

with her course, of which she is not coming out with a reasonable grade, it means she will have to do business as no one will employ her.

That does it.... The girl is something else.

As for me, it's the brain I desire. She must be brilliant, intelligent, smart and highly knowledgeable.

Blackhawk01:


Awwwwwwwnnnn. I'm proud of you.

Op, be the change you want in her. Reading is the key point, help her build a reading habit and you should work on her circle of friends. She needs to be surrounded by intellectually sound people.

Is there any way I can transform you?

vislabraye:

Did you actually meant to say "marrying "? Guy, you just made a major flaw. As for he intelligence, well, it's your choice.

*did you mean to say* *as for the intelligence*

unilag olodo.

Chikita66:
Intelligence is one thing that attracts me to a person not cuteness, well I don't know about you.

this is interesting.

[quote author=clitlicker post=64399804]

*did you mean to say*
*as for the intelligence*



unilag olodo.[/quote)

Check again. What did you see? Don't try to be funny.

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

Its all on you,
Try to help her improve, you sound like u are intelligent tho, then Be her coach, mentor her. But if she isn't ready for improvements, Brother! Brother!! Run ooo. . . . . Beauty can never replace intelligence, they are not mates at all. If she truely loves you, then she would work on herself inorder not to loose you.

Bamz:


Is there any way I can transform you?

Depends on what you're transforming me to and why...

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.

If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

Hey man, I want to ask you a few questions. I should have asked them earlier.

What did you mean when you made the statement in indigo? Did you actually mean it, FOR REAL, or was it an HYPERBOLE, an exagerration, as it appears?

And for how long have you noticed your girlfriend's intellectual shallowness and laziness, and when did it start bothering you?

Have you been aware RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING?

kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say, you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.

Modified.
The laws of attraction says "Likes attract" unlike your physics law that states that "Opposite attract". I wasn't the one that stipulated that law so get a grip of yourself while giving me stupid mention just to come off intelligent. Google is of help if you need an elaborate explanation.

Hahahahahaha *ROTF*

ubunja:
give her to me. thats how i love them...hot and dumb.
i love a gal who doesnt even know what an enzyme is.she is the one i can enjoy.im smart so i dont look for smartness.i look for a pretty face.no matter how dumb a gal is she is my type.

correct guy