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Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by mrphysics(m): 8:42pm On Jan 22, 2018
Zykod:


Yes Family section, Business, Webmaster, Graphics section are saner. Romance is a sh*thole, but that's why i like being here. It helps me de-stress
Whether you have a thick skin or not, every insult thrown to you must touch you with or without penetrating your heart or emotions.

First, when someone insults you, you become angry with the person, though you may laugh over it, you will still not be happy the person did insult you.
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by obiorathesubtle: 8:42pm On Jan 22, 2018
mrphysics:

Invariably, the insults is what keeps nairaland standing and running?

funny @the weak


What kind of society or community would nairaland be if everyone agreed on everything?


Look.. Everyone is different, don't expect everyone to have roses up their arse and be merry all the time..


If some come here to let off steam, good!
Some come to get educated? Good!
Some come to make friends and preach the gospel? Fine!
Some come to annoy, troll, demean, and exhibit bad manners? Wonderful!

Variety is the spice of life, the controversial and steamy varieties we have here are the extra spice on nairaland..
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Stevengerd(m): 8:42pm On Jan 22, 2018
Hmmm!!! see as i open mouth, punching words frm Makydebbie... Mehn Insult free forum QUORA.
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Romeo3(m): 8:42pm On Jan 22, 2018
mrphysics:


See, we all are in a group we don't insult people. We must have or been in a group/forum where insults are not allowed and we cohabited peacefully there. We can do that here too.

Though the world isn't clean but trust me, there is a part of the world that is clean. some sections of the world are clean.

They can be peace even in the midst of war. Let's respect each others opinion and criticize constructively
Have fun cleaning... cheesy
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jan 22, 2018
Lol cheesy

This is the most unrealistic thread I have ever read on Nairaland. So far human beings differ, so far there remains the intelligent, foolish, mature, immature sets on beings on here, There will never be an insult free nairaland.

The deal is, Ignore! If you can't or don't want to fight back, Ignore! Life is much easier that way cheesy

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Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by zicoraads: 8:43pm On Jan 22, 2018
Shortyy:
Hmm. Na today? The way boys, guys, men bully people ( especially women) on this app is mind blowing. And I've realized it's just for attention. Maybe they've sent you an email you didn't reply, or they've mentioned you, you didn't reply. The next way is insulting you. Some even do it for fun. It's sickening.

Well I'm glad I am the way I am. No amount of trolling gets to me, it's either I serve it to you hot or I just ignore your irrelevant ass.

Please learn to ignore it works like magic. They'll get tired eventually. Bunch of miserable keyboard warriors.
undecided undecided
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by HOLYDICK(m): 8:43pm On Jan 22, 2018
Observing u guyz in 5D ..tomorrow na same people wey dey preach here go do the same.!

But boy what do i know¿¿¿¿ lemme park for one corner sef

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Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by zicoraads: 8:44pm On Jan 22, 2018
obiorathesubtle:



What kind of society or community would nairaland be if everyone agreed on everything?


Look.. Everyone is different, don't expect everyone to have roses up their arse and be merry all the time..


If some come here to let off steam, good!
Some come to get educated? Good!
Some come to make friends and preach the gospel? Fine!
Some come to annoy, troll, demean, and exhibit bad manners? Wonderful!

Variety is the spice of life, the controversial and steamy varieties we have here are the extra spice on nairaland..
In your mind nau, you have sense undecided
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jan 22, 2018
mrphysics:

Whether you have a thick skin or not, every insult thrown to you must touch you with or without penetrating your heart or emotions.

First, when someone insults you, you become angry with the person, though you may laugh over it, you will still not be happy the person did insult you.


I agree. Then it's time for us to start growing, emotional control and stability is key, and it gets better under an abusive condition. I thinkwe should use it to our advantage, i take anything in life besides insults, but i've learnt that i also need to expect anything from people, this way i can work without hitches or destroying things that were painstakingly built up before moments of heated arguement, mastery will help us in working with people who differ with us on issues in real life, so there's opportunity in the e-adversity we experience.
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by obiorathesubtle: 8:45pm On Jan 22, 2018
mrphysics:

You are right. But they are other ways to make nairaland competitive and interesting without insults. You can't do bad to get good things.

In Family section, people actually comment without insults and you can go through those threads and enjoy a healthy conversation and also comment without fear or recourse.



The place is boring with less traffic..


Osewa can scrap out that section and still make his money comfortable without a dent in his net income.
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Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jan 22, 2018
Stevengerd:
Hmmm!!! see as i open mouth, punching words frm Makydebbie... Mehn Insult free forum QUORA.


Quora is absolutely cool
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by obiorathesubtle: 8:47pm On Jan 22, 2018
zicoraads:

In your mind nau, you have sense undecided


Your reply to me looking like..

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Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Nobody: 8:47pm On Jan 22, 2018
obiorathesubtle:



The place is boring, with less traffic..


Osewa can scrap out that section and still make his money comfortable without a dent in his net income.
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So you advocate monetizing thrash. That's why Politics forum became a blood zone. Na so e take start there too...
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by zicoraads: 8:48pm On Jan 22, 2018
makydebbie:


Lol, it's all good. A time comes when we get carried away. But we should also use our hearts and brain.

Situations like this, I'll never quote such monikers anymore. Such pettiness.
Heheheheheee grin

You are funny walahi. So you are suddenly the meek and gentle Debbie? cheesy Half of your comments on this forum are insult filled. All this niceness may only fool some few. A tiger doesn't exactly hide it's spots. We know your true colors undecided
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jan 22, 2018
The early nairaland was very matured, filled with serious minded people. The nairaland of now is flooded with riffraffs so don't expect much. We still have many sensible nairalanders though.
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by RoyalBlak007: 8:49pm On Jan 22, 2018
missyqween

Do you want an "insult-free" nairaland?cheesy
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jan 22, 2018
grin grin

Trolling is part and parcel of the internet, online forums, blog site etc


I suggest three rules

1)Trust no one on the cyberspace i.e. your best e friend might be your troll

2)Take no one serious on the cyberspace

3) keep an open mind and enjoy your time on the cyberspace

Sooner rather than later, we will all go back to our real lifes, which is the most important aspect of our lifes.
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Stevengerd(m): 8:50pm On Jan 22, 2018
Zykod:



Quora is absolutely cool
Bro i swear quora make lotta sense, intelligent comments. NL Person still chop ban if u tok truth, voice ur mind na ban ask Nwamaipke!
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jan 22, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
The early nairaland was very matured, filled with serious minded people. The nairaland of now is flooded with riffraffs so don't expect much. We still have many sensible nairalanders though.


2007-2009 Nairaland used to make serious sense, the politics forum, education, infact.... Chai... Thesedays, you comment you have to be afriad people would pick on your comments and misinterpret them
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Blackhawk01: 8:51pm On Jan 22, 2018
HOLYDICK:
Observing u guyz in 5D ..tomorrow na same people wey dey preach here go do the same.!

But boy what do i know¿¿¿¿ lemme park for one corner sef

cheesy grin cheesy lipsrsealed

No be today...

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Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by obiorathesubtle: 8:51pm On Jan 22, 2018
Zykod:




So you advocate monetizing thrash. That's why Politics forum became a blood zone. Na so e take start there too...


Call it whatever man..

The day nairaland stops being entertaining is the day osewa goes back to the streets to beg for money..


So live and let live..
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jan 22, 2018
Stevengerd:
Bro i swear quora make lotta sense, intelligent comments. NL Person still chop ban if u tok truth, voice ur mind na ban ask Nwamaipke!

I spend much of my time on Quora since November last year.//Will soon permanently move to Quora. The insults here is just too much. People can't express themselves without " forcefulness ", Nigerians are just too edgy abeg ! Too much sauce na him dey cause am !
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by makydebbie(f): 8:53pm On Jan 22, 2018
donstan18:


Trolls won't be fun if it's always witty.

Diss, troll, beef, slam, savage and clapback are cool if you view it from a different angle, you'll only detest it if you fall victim.

Let's be truthful.
Okay.
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by missyQween(f): 8:54pm On Jan 22, 2018
RoyalBlak007:

missyqween

Do you want an "insult-free" nairaland?cheesy


I don't really care.Lol
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jan 22, 2018
obiorathesubtle:



Call it whatever man..

The day nairaland stops being entertaining is the day osewa goes back to the streets to beg for money..


So live and let live..

I disagree, Nairaland was highly monetized before the insults and fights.

Do you know the Chinese sex doll hiring app in China that was turning over millions of dollars monthly closed down because the company says they didn't want to monetize " immoral behavior", it's like profiting from negative tendencies, trust me. Nigerians should learn to be expressive without insults. I bet you, many of those who throw insults can't express themselves freely and intelligently in the absence of insults. I can bet 50k on this NOW.
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by IamLEGEND1: 8:55pm On Jan 22, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
The early nairaland was very matured, filled with serious minded people. The nairaland of now is flooded with riffraffs so don't expect much. We still have many sensible nairalanders though.
Zykod:

Quora is absolutely cool
if NL has become so unbearable for you guys, you're more than welcome to deactivate.
or here's another suggestion- why don't you spend more time on those other great forums you keep going on about. it'll save you a lot of stress.

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Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jan 22, 2018
IamLEGEND1:
if NL has become so unbearable for you guys, you're more than welcome to deactivate.
or here's another suggestion- why don't you spend more time on those other great forums you keep going on about. it'll save you a lot of stress.



Feel free not to quote me on this forum forever. Thank you !
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by Stevengerd(m): 8:57pm On Jan 22, 2018
Zykod:


I spend much of my time on Quora since November last year.//Will soon permanently move to Quora. The insults here is just too much. People can't express themselves without " forcefulness ", Nigerians are just too edgy abeg ! Too much sauce na him dey cause am !
Lol, That why quora is the real deal. honestly speaking ever since i discovered quora 5yrs ago, i have learnt alot, widen my horizon. i keep learning new things day by day. Talk About The intelligent comments frm expert, it's mindblowing mehn!
Re: A Clean And Healthy Nairaland Is Possible by RoyalBlak007: 8:57pm On Jan 22, 2018
missyQween:



I don't really care.Lol


cheesy grin That's my

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