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Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by BruncleZuma: 6:26am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Who are you? 1 Like |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by lonelydora: 6:26am On Jan 23, 2018 |
littlewonders: No matter how long. The right thing to do is call the hubby. Ordinary Phone...i almost smashed it the day my wife opened it. |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by tenmariner: 6:27am On Jan 23, 2018 |
wetin be disrespect for dis one now...papa buy hn pikin moto..so d papa for call and say; hello my in law, I wan buy moto for my daughter o.. mtchewwwww yeye deh smell. |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by theo1477(m): 6:27am On Jan 23, 2018 |
I may not feel disrespectfull if women are to be trusted with wealth and fame without being arrogant. But maintain a sort of dignity and respect for you from the woman, your father should carry you along. Not informing in everything that come into your house is not the best. 1 Like |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by EddieCAD(m): 6:29am On Jan 23, 2018 |
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Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Lexusgs430: 6:29am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Just kip kwayet and enjoy the RR togeda....... Complaining, can be very detrimental..... |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Bigsteveg(m): 6:30am On Jan 23, 2018 |
booqee:Initially i didnt want to comment, but on reading your post i have to give you a thumbs up. So many immatured kids on this forum, i will never stop my FIL from buying my wife gift, but i will feel disrespected if i was not informed. Its never about the gift, its about honour. Thank you. 5 Likes |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by littlewonders: 6:31am On Jan 23, 2018 |
lonelydora: Now you're talking. But what if 'your wife' has been over-pampered with such exotic life style. |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by onlyme07(m): 6:31am On Jan 23, 2018 |
booqee:Can we tag it insecurity? I don't tbink so, 'cos even in marriage,the parents are meant to stay away to avoid clash. A woman will always be a woman,a lot of ladies will capitalise on it and even go back to their dad if their is issue at home which can be seen with the high rate of divorce among the well to do in the society. To me,the dad can buy and give to the husband and or give cash to the wife has a price tag for making him proud. Let us learn to respect marriages to avoid divorce. No matter how rich our parents are,our husband is still the head. Be proud of your husband irrespective of your background. Goodmorning this morning. 2 Likes |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by nichole4dtop: 6:34am On Jan 23, 2018 |
I think the man in question should already know he is married to a rich kid and should be happy the father-in-law bought such an expensive gift for the daughter. Remember the two of you are now ONE. The range rover is for your family but the gift has to come through one of you, what if your own father is rich enough to buy you this car, will your wife complain at all? Just be grateful to God that you have such a wife, father-in-law, and privilege, provided your wife doesn't disrespect you. Take good care of your wife, appreciate your father-in-law and be grateful to God. Enjoy your marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:34am On Jan 23, 2018 |
EddieCAD:OMG this is so sweet I just feel like crying it's one of the best thing someone has done for me this morning..... you're a responsible man keep it up |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by darqly(m): 6:37am On Jan 23, 2018 |
If the husband's mother/father decides to purchase such a gift for the husband, do they have to call their "Wife" for permission too? Herein lies the answer to the initial question. Too many insecure people with warped ideas of how their spouses and in-laws should respect them. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Ellabae(f): 6:37am On Jan 23, 2018 |
DrinkLimca:Wow I just found my crush on Nairaland |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by adanny01(m): 6:37am On Jan 23, 2018 |
DrinkLimca: Imagine the tables turn. If the son in law was richer, and he buys a range rover and designer clothing for his mother-in-law and not even a call to the father in law, how do you think the father in law will feel. No one is against the gifts, but that gift can be a source of trouble for the couple. If i were the father in law, the love i have for my daughter is the love i will extend to her husband. Anything less breeds contempt. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by nduchucks: 6:38am On Jan 23, 2018 |
If the husband can afford or already owns a comparable vehicle, this should not be an issues. If the contrary is true, the father in law may end up destroying his daughter's marriage. 1 Like |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by BeijinDossier: 6:40am On Jan 23, 2018 |
It doesn't matter. What matters most is that you have your own money. |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:40am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Bigsteveg:What honour do you want again is the one from your wife not enough.....? 2 Likes |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by dingbang(m): 6:41am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Better sef... So she don't disturb my life again |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by onstelly(f): 6:42am On Jan 23, 2018 |
DrinkLimca: Awww I like the part were u said your sisters are God fearing cos if not eh |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Greyman11(m): 6:42am On Jan 23, 2018 |
500NLaccounts:u simply need to read an article and understand what the guy is saying, once he is well to do and he can carter for his family needs, he has d right to a call or heads up from the father-in-law before he makes such kind of presentation to his daughter who is his wife and who he legally handed over her responsibilities to... U cannot give someone a car and then come later without his consent and change the car seats for the person, it is disrespectful and u people calling it bad belle are just to dull to see the obvious. If it was money it is a different ball game, but bro clothes and a Range Rover ?? That im father in-law go die if him just call the son-in-law and say '' son, I want to surprise ur wife (my daughter) but I don't want her to get a glimpse of what's coming, don't worry u will see what it is'' simple.. No responsible husband will then see all dose gift items after receiving such heads up and feel disrespected. 5 Likes |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:43am On Jan 23, 2018 |
dingbang: |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by dingbang(m): 6:43am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen:yes na... Or are you a greedy wife? |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:44am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Greyman11:Stop spewing trash here 1 Like |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by jaxxy(m): 6:44am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Shitface: The op has his reasons for taking dat line that many guys have failed to see. If u hv ever heard of a controlling father inlaw u will understand. U act like because u married his daughter ure now his son and he will control u more than ur father sef. In such case u hv to put ur foot on the ground. Even when the daughter is respectful to u or else u turn from husband to baby. This happens alot with fathers who are well to do and connected. They will dish out orders to their daughter in ur house and because hes feeding u because of ur stupidity or lack of foresight and u can't say no to his commands. So i will say it depends on th type of father inlaw u have and also the understanding with ur wife. Just like u want ur mum to respect ur wife. She shud also want her father to respect u. So don't go eating smtn dat will hook u in the neck later. Lol I don't care if ure Adenuga or otedola u can't give my wife a huge gift without pre informing me. I wud feel totally disrespected and may even ask her to return it. Wifey take note! 2 Likes |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:44am On Jan 23, 2018 |
dingbang:dingbang e likely awoof |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Manasp: 6:47am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by amazon14: 6:49am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Your father in law didn't mind his daughter marrying a poor man like you, and also he did'nt feel disrespect that she didn't choose a husband from the circle of their rich friends , and you are forming what I don't know. What kind of ego and jealous is this? 3 Likes |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Nobody: 6:51am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Call the husband indeed. How many MILs call the DIL before doing things for their sons? How many men tell their wives, before doing things for their mother? Na when woman wan enjoy, una go remember protocol. Gerrarahere mehn!!! 5 Likes |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Bigsteveg(m): 6:51am On Jan 23, 2018 |
DrinkLimca:Ever wonder why only women are quoting you to have your back, i wont honour you with a comment. When you are of age, you will know how far. . . .. By the way, when you are married, your wife comes first and when your sisters are married, their husband becomes their number one. When they start dating, they will show you what i mean not to talk of when they are married. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Yonce(f): 6:53am On Jan 23, 2018 |
If the girl's father is truly an honorable man and remembers that his baby girl no longer bears his surname but her husband's, he'll be smart and mature enough to tell his son-in-law that he wants to get his daughter a car. He's not asking permission, just informing. Doing it out of the blue wouldn't be nice. 2 Likes |
Re: 'if My Father-in-law Buy My Wife A New Range Rover, I Will Feel Disrespected' by Bigsteveg(m): 6:53am On Jan 23, 2018 |
jaxxy:Thank you. 1 Like |
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