honestly i don't see anything wrong with him buying hes daughter a car..
its welcomed..
buh as a sign of respect to the husband he should be informed
small thing na dere take dey see person finish

ewizard1:

Sir, I think which ever way, He, the husband is to be informed!

@ the bolded, yes, that too requires informing the husband! the koko is that the Lady is now a "wife" who's hand has been given to a Man who is the "Husband" and head of the home.

So the father in law will call his own son and say I want to dash your wife xyz, can I go ahead.

Issorait

So a father inlaw can not just randomly transfer some money or buy stuffs for his sons wife, his son ( Her husband) has to be notified.


You guys should continue deceiving yourselves oo

Mother's in law that package foodstuff and soup things from the village nko? They should have sought wifeys consent before sending because kitchen is her territory abi.

tempem:


Even your sisters over your wife? Boss have a rethink! If you will be getting married, your number one woman is your wife, others in fact your mum follows!

So ur saying a woman who saw you with all ur 32 teeth after you have already made it in life is better than your mom who born you & also struggled to make you the man you are today. wow, you must be a very good son

Nigerian men with their low self-esteem!! Smh. If my FIL buys my wife expensive gifts I really won't give a F*CK! I'll be happy for my wife.

Oh so supposing your mom wants to buy you gifts as her son does she have to inform your wife first?!. Stupid double standards we Nigerian men display at times. Totally moronic!

We should stop this primitive thinking that women will get arrogant when she's wealthy. Low self-esteem n*ggas in Nigeria! You do not OWN your wife! She's not a piece of furniture in the home!

ewizard1:

Oga na lie!!! E get where you go collect reach, shingbain, you no go talk!

Or you think the adage that "When the mouth is full, it becomes difficult to talk..." wasn't verified before approved for usage!!!

That's for lazy people.

why is the car for his daughter and not the husband

Who cares . What's the difference between his buying her small gifts or expensive ones? Does it mean your lordship should be informed if her father buys her food etc too? You should only be alarmed if she gets it and you don't know the source.

This guys are funny o, she was the mans daughter before she married u. Some guys here have never left the shores of this country all their lives. So primitive mentality.

trustyshoess:

Doesn't have to inform the husband at all. He's still my father and doesn't need a gatekeeper before doing anything for me. I definitely will not have this problem because insecurity in men is a big turn off.

Any man/woman that want you to dissociate from your family is a bad husband/wife. A father has right to monitor his daughter's welfare married or unmarried.

Now u see y the rich want to get married to their kind? Some guys here are so scared of getting married to a rich kid all because owuu! Don bolw sence comot there head

Macgreat:


That's for lazy people.

Might not be about laziness! All these our political madness, you don't think there's a case of someone eating and not being able to talk?

When you keep collecting, which proceeds come from a dirty root, when deal is about to explode, you wouldn't want to talk so not to expose your oga, because if them hold am, na either your chopping stops flowing or them nab you sef join!

So oga, e get the kind chop, your mouth no go fit talk!

DrinkLimca:
So because his daughter is married to you..

A proud father can't buy gifts for his daughter again...

The husband should know that the Father inlaw is rich Even before he got married to the girl.. A real husband should be happy for his wife..

He will have to deal with it for the rest of his life, the best he can do is man up and be richer than the Father inlaw, so next time, the father inlaw will have no need to buy a car for his daughter because the husband can do all that..

I have two younger sisters that I love More than life itself and nothing will stop me from buying the whole world for them Even if they are already married or not..

Family over everything...

no woman on earth can take the place of my sisters.. and i mean it..

Not after everything we have been through..

modified and Note: if you are a lady reading this and will probably be my future wife tomorrow, don't be scared, my sisters are good and God fearing ladies..

I will love you as I love them..

Abomination!

Incest at play here. Future wife run o!

So when do we get married?

DrinkLimca:
So because his daughter is married to you..

A proud father can't buy gifts for his daughter again...

The husband should know that the Father inlaw is rich Even before he got married to the girl.. A real husband should be happy for his wife..

He will have to deal with it for the rest of his life, the best he can do is man up and be richer than the Father inlaw, so next time, the father inlaw will have no need to buy a car for his daughter because the husband can do all that..

I have two younger sisters that I love More than life itself and nothing will stop me from buying the whole world for them Even if they are already married or not..

Family over everything...

no woman on earth can take the place of my sisters.. and i mean it..

Not after everything we have been through..

modified and Note: if you are a lady reading this and will probably be my future wife tomorrow, don't be scared, my sisters are good and God fearing ladies..

I will love you as I love them..

NoToPile:



So the father in law will call his own son and say I want to dash your wife xyz, can I go ahead.


Issorait

So a father inlaw can not just randomly transfer some money or buy stuffs for his sons wife, his son ( Her husband) has to be notified.


You guys should continue deceiving yourselves oo

Mother's in law that package foodstuff and soup things from the village nko? They should have sought wifeys consent before sending because kitchen is her territory abi.

@ the bolded.

What is happening with Nigerians and not being able to distinguish between words nah!!!

Now, the owner of the matter was hitting on it... A whole lot of people here did the same thing!

We say INFORM / NOTIFY Not PERMISSION .

Now that said!!!

About MIL sending food stuff from village! Oga, you said SENDING food stuffs not cooking and bringing for the son. A mother would even gladly call a wife and tell her to get ready for the big big SNAILS, BUSHMEAT, FARMSTOCK, YAM she is sending and make sure she prepares fresh meal for her son.

What you are comparing are 2 different things. Oga calm down!!!

Thegeneralqueen:
Nah I didn't mention your name he did..... better get your facts right

alright alright.. My apologies still..

And for the dumb ladies doing mouth like stockfish's. How would you handle your MIL showing up at your home which luggages to stay for a month without informing you?

After all, is the home not her son's?

A good MIL would NEVER ask PERMISSION from her DIL but would atleast INFORM her/them about being their guest soon!
(@NoToPile You can see I had to bold it out for you)

dingbang:
alright alright.. My apologies still..

You're welcome do have a nice day ahead

na stupid ego dey kill our men, if ur wife no get sense even if the FIL didn't buy her a car she go still use the fact that her father is richer take insult u....
it all depends on the wife ,so u mean if ur FIL get his daughter a more paying job than u nkor ?? she should reject it abi ?? radarada

Pls my father in-law should come and buy one for his daughter ooo

Rada rada iranu oshi
My father named our street after me, bought a property in my name. Men and their insecurities. If you have a good relationship with your father in-law this is no issue at all.

remsonik:
Rada rada iranu oshi
My father named our street after me, bought a property in my name. Men and their insecurities. If you have a good relationship with your father in-law this is no issue at all.

smh!

Let alone a car, a street in your name? Even residents on that street no go fit follow you talk anyhow?

LMAO!!!

Learn from the man how you can do same for your daughter.... the father is clearly a man willing to do anything for his daughter regardless the presence of another man in her life. He is passing a simple message, my daughter is a princess, I didn't sell her to you. You mess up, I come get her. Nigerians, instead of listening, they talk more!

Only a dumb FIL or a FIL dat has ZERO REGARDS for the marriage institution would gift his legally married daughter a car without a heads up from the husband!

DrinkLimca:
So because his daughter is married to you..

A proud father can't buy gifts for his daughter again...

The husband should know that the Father inlaw is rich Even before he got married to the girl.. A real husband should be happy for his wife..

He will have to deal with it for the rest of his life, the best he can do is man up and be richer than the Father inlaw, so next time, the father inlaw will have no need to buy a car for his daughter because the husband can do all that..

I have two younger sisters that I love More than life itself and nothing will stop me from buying the whole world for them Even if they are already married or not..

Family over everything...

no woman on earth can take the place of my sisters.. and i mean it..

Not after everything we have been through..

modified and Note: if you are a lady reading this and will probably be my future wife tomorrow, don't be scared, my sisters are good and God fearing ladies..

I will love you as I love them..

get married first, after 2years come and repeat the same statement

My married sister got a brand new Rav 4 from my Dad as a wedding gift, the guy she was getting married to had no car at that time and we all knew its not as though he could not afford one, he was building their house then. It was never a big deal, he drove her car that period before he got his own. No fight, no quarrel. All those talking about the wife will start disrespecting you. if you marry a disrespectful lady, whether her papa buy her car or not, she go still disrespect you.

Then buy her a 2018 escapade jeep. Or a bugatti Chiron. So he father would know, u are up to the task. #mumuDeySmell

Keep forming with pride and poverty. Mtcheeeeeeew

APL33:
Then buy her a 2018 escapade jeep. Or a bugatti Chiron. So he father would know, u are up to the task. #mumuDeySmell

don't mind the arrogant fool

9jayes:
You will end up marrying your sisters if care is not taken.

No, he will not. I pray he ends up with a Godfearing intelligent woman, who is beautiful inside as well as outside.

He has learnt to respect women and shows it, by treating his sisters well. It goes without saying, that he is likely to treat his wife even better. He deserves a good woman. I hope he gets one!

spiritedtete:
Be careful of this you say... When you get a wife please... This you just wrote is enough to threaten any woman. If you dont want to lose your wife... Dont tell her you will give your sisters the whole world. Bewarned!!

Only an insecure woman will feel threatened by such talk. There are things she can do for the husband, that the sisters cannot.

Well... All depends on your Present state of Wealth.
1st. Let me ask you this. Would you feel Disrespected if he had bought her a 2010 Tokunbo Toyota which you can gladly afford easily.
If you wouldnt feel disrespected by that then what is wrong with you is the fact that you cant afford a Range Rover, you then feel oppressed not disrespected.

TRUTH BE TOLD. IF YOU CAN AFFORD A FLEET OF EXOTIC CARS. This wouldn't be an issue to address in the 1st Place.

YOU ARE POOR AT HEART AND COMPLEX DEY WORRY YOU