Nigga u have been friendzoned , you sure its not the other way round?

Chatflick:
Hello guys it has been a while.... Please how can someone cope with his girlfriend having a male best friend? From my own point of view, I believe the boyfriend should occupy that space. Most times I call, she is always with her bestie and he tends to listen to our conversation and sometimes even interrupt it. Please serious and matured minds..

PS: She tells him everything, he knows stuffs about her that I don't. I'm not scared of him taking her from me just that I'm not comfortable with it all all and I'm loosing it gradually.

Last time a girl told me about having a male bestie who she was actually always hanging out with,they actually bleeped themselves. I think you should really be worried about who owns that pussy,or who gets more mileage off that pussy.

Bros get a female bestie too

schumastic:
IF YOU BELIEVE THEY ARE JUST BESTIE WITH NOTHING GOING ON BETWEEN THEM, THEN YOU MIGHT AS WELL BELIEVE THAT A COW CAN PASS THROUGH A NEEDLE.

OBVIOUSLY YOU MUST HAVE SEEN ONE OR TWO RED FLAGS AND THAT'S WHY YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE.

SAVE YOURSELF THIS STRESS AND UNNECESSARY HEARTACHE AND GET YOURSELF A FEMALE BESTIE, IF SHE FEELS INSECURE THEN LET HER KNOW THAT, WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS ALSO GOOD FOR THE GANDER.

Signed.

Vice Chairman,

Bachelor's Club, Lagos Branch.

you deserve an award �

She is not your wife!

Marry her then you can complain.

Omo kill the guy, case closed

Cowbuoy:


https://www.quora.com/Is-it-okay-for-my-girlfriend-to-have-a-male-best-friend


Check out that link above for many more matured responses, Bruv... 60-80% of the responses you gon get here are bullshît..

i love quora!!!!!
lemme give my nairaland response...introduce her to a close pretty female colleague of yours and tell ur babe shes your female best friend....infact tell her you are so close that sometimes you crash over @ her place once a while and nothing happens..see how she gonna take it
seriously though try and find out if this fella has a girlfriend?if he doesn't,why? is he secretly hoping for both of u to breakup so he can pick up the pieces? ask him this pointedly in the presence of your babe.if he has ask him to bring her along when next you meetup..maybe for a general hangout or group date?while on this date observe how he acts in front of his own babe...mention stuff of how ur babe was hanging out with him in one joint but u were sorry you couldnt join them as u had much office work but you were sure they had fun..emphasis on FUN...I bet you his girlfrds' eyes will narrow at this...his babe will di the rest for u when they get home ..in the midst of all these,if ur babe gets heated up or asks u to stop bothering the fella, then there's something going on

Shayneward1:
Kill him.

And go to prison if he loves her.

FrancisDozie:




You getting yourself worried over nothing.

I was the bestie of one of my female friend and she had a boyfriend too.

I know everything about her that even her parents don't know.

I didn't end up in bed with her.
You can't dictate who becomes her bestie when you have not walked her down the aisle, man.

My friend is married now, we are still sweet and close as before.

I am the one that's telling her, let the friendship die off since she got a husband now.

We never dated at any time , even the mum and siblings know me too.

Keep worrying yourself oh

a bro no be evrybdy be like you.....

The pussy is never yours. Use it well when it is your time.

Bros. Leave woman matter..

Thank me later...

lol..her blow mate. Op find another babe.

Make her bestie ur friend too... av been in dat shoes bfor

Cowbuoy:


[s] https://www.quora.com/Is-it-okay-for-my-girlfriend-to-have-a-male-best-friend


Check out that link above for many more matured responses, Bruv... 60-80% of the responses you gon get here are bullshît..

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trash. RUBBISH.

Tomoyayi:
Bros get a female bestie too

perfect. to balance the equation.

You can't have a chicken as a pet you'll surely kill it for Christmas or easter na

uzoexcel:



i love quora!!!!!
lemme give my nairaland response...introduce her to a close pretty female colleague of yours and tell ur babe shes your female best friend....infact tell her you are so close that sometimes you crash over @ her place once a while and nothing happens..see how she gonna take it
seriously though try and find out if this fella has a girlfriend?if he doesn't,why? is he secretly hoping for both of u to breakup so he can pick up the pieces? ask him this pointedly in the presence of your babe.if he has ask him to bring her along when next you meetup..maybe for a general hangout or group date?in the midst of all these,if r babe gets heated up or asks u to stop bothering the fella, then there's something going on

correct. Your head get better grease

It's all fun and games until you lose her to him. My ex girlfriend has a one-year-old now, courtesy of her "best friend."

ignore him, focus on your girlfriend. if you give her the attention, drag her along in your stuff she would spend less time with him. Trust me he already knows too much about you already so get her to bring him along and be a third wheel.

OneCorner:
Report him to the police station Or you call mopol or soldier

hahahaha u be confirmed werey

Chatflick:
Hello guys it has been a while.... Please how can someone cope with his girlfriend having a male best friend? From my own point of view, I believe the boyfriend should occupy that space. Most times I call, she is always with her bestie and he tends to listen to our conversation and sometimes even interrupt it. Please serious and matured minds..

PS: She tells him everything, he knows stuffs about her that I don't. I'm not scared of him taking her from me just that I'm not comfortable with it all all and I'm loosing it gradually.

as someone who has been a bestie too many times..

guy tell her to drop that guy and distance herself from him now or you will end the relationship!

you should be her BESTIE!!!

she is in love with him, he just doesnt have some things she needs, YET!

girls dont hang with guys they re not into! Doing him is just a matter of him asking or circumstances!!

she breaks it or you walk. SIMPLE

Oga mi.. I was in ur kinda boxers(or mayb shoe) bfor until I discovered d way out..
Feel free to Av one or two babes to occupy ut feeble mind small and let her Av her bestie for a while.. Guy Na she go do d running to u once d connection is a bit lost..
I hold all d cards now wen she see say e b like say na reverse gear I dey now..
Dats d way out if u wanto live long Oooo..
Find correct hot Chics as bleeping besties too to occupy ur mind and fank me later

If she truly loves u, she will know where and how to draw that line

Talk to the guy as man to man...... don't hide things for him, let him know the fact: if he want to date the girl make he koko have am than playing with someone heath,
tell him to distance himself from your girl.

tell your girl in mature way, who did I want to date between both of you guys. don't make her annoyed.

you too, give her most of your time for sometime to gain her heath completely.

Amakavula:
ignore him, focus on your girlfriend. if you give her the attention, drag her along in your stuff she would spend less time with him. Trust me he already knows too much about you already so get her to bring him along and be a third wheel.

bring HiM where?

is op going to marry THEM or her?

HE doesnt know anything about op. Otherwise he will know op doesnt want him around op's girl.

except the op is about just yanshing.. Then party and walk

Chatflick:
Hello guys it has been a while.... Please how can someone cope with his girlfriend having a male best friend? From my own point of view, I believe the boyfriend should occupy that space. Most times I call, she is always with her bestie and he tends to listen to our conversation and sometimes even interrupt it. Please serious and matured minds..

PS: She tells him everything, he knows stuffs about her that I don't. I'm not scared of him taking her from me just that I'm not comfortable with it all all and I'm loosing it gradually.

Guy..the truth is that you are not in a relationship. Dont deceive yourself. The bestie is the main guy and you are his assistant. Dont stress yourself leave her alone and find another girl.

I once dumped a girl sometime ago when i discovered her bestie nah guy.Eh!! I no just stress myself to dey monitor and scrutinize.. i just left her and found someone else. Most times these girls hoe around with the male bestie.

That is how the other day a guy caught his girl friend sleeping with her so called bestie guy. Na there the thing end.

pepethemaniac:


Most relationship advice on Quora comes from the "whiteman's" perspective or a "civilized" countries perspective. It doesn't apply when you're dealing with Nigerian ladies. Take note.

Offcourse for 9ja girls. Its different and we know why. Dont we.

There Is Nothing Like Male Bestie, I repeat, THERE IS NOTHING LIKE MALE BESTIE. Either he is banging her or he is planning to bang her.

I had same issue with my girlfriend, she was always with this guy though she knows his girlfriend. The guy tried to toast her but that brought an end to their friendship, and we are still together till now.

Chatflick:
Hello guys it has been a while.... Please how can someone cope with his girlfriend having a male best friend? From my own point of view, I believe the boyfriend should occupy that space. Most times I call, she is always with her bestie and he tends to listen to our conversation and sometimes even interrupt it. Please serious and matured minds..

PS: She tells him everything, he knows stuffs about her that I don't. I'm not scared of him taking her from me just that I'm not comfortable with it all all and I'm loosing it gradually.

Just ask her to marry him cos she is already fond of the guy and fondness is stronger than the I love you thingy...

If you can't do this then just cope and assume you have a rival.

Macgreat:
She is not your wife!

Marry her then you can complain.

thank you very much for this response.....

Chatflick:
Hello guys it has been a while.... Please how can someone cope with his girlfriend having a male best friend? From my own point of view, I believe the boyfriend should occupy that space. Most times I call, she is always with her bestie and he tends to listen to our conversation and sometimes even interrupt it. Please serious and matured minds..

PS: She tells him everything, he knows stuffs about her that I don't. I'm not scared of him taking her from me just that I'm not comfortable with it all all and I'm loosing it gradually.

Walking away is still an option; make her know how worried you are over her strange 'too close for comfort relationship' and allow her a chance to choose between you or the guy. If she still goes ahead to frolic around him, then you already know her choice, and
I can tell you from personal experience that these things never end well if you choose to still hang on.