Henitan24:

You ehn you sa don't want me to join but don't worry I've enough money to take flight as often as I want to.

lmao, who am i to stop you... you know what, send me a message lets work something out.

schumastic:


lmao, who am i to stop you... you know what, send me a message lets work something out.

it ends with

i caught you ...edit it now pls we've thousands of intelligent people here. Don't fall prey

Henitan24:


i caught you ...edit it now pls we've thousands of intelligent people here. Don't fall prey

how did you figure that out quickly lol, i was thinking you would ask ?s

schumastic:



how did you figure that out quickly lol, i was thinking you would ask ?s

As I said earlier we've hundred of thousands people here that are very intelligence so definitely I should be one of them

Henitan24:


As I said earlier we've hundred of thousands people here that are very intelligence so definitely I should be one of them

hahahaha that was faster than a light

if a gf isn't ready to be committed and start flirting with male friends simply because a ring hasn't been slipped on her finger is not only naive and deluded but doesn't know what she wants in her life....

What wud happen when the guy no longer gets committed,won't the same lady complain of being abandoned and not treated right?

U don't want to be committed but when it comes to payment of bills,u remember U have a tag called a relationship with sum one!

U wanna it ur cake and have it....so that ur friends will hail U as a smart babe!

A matured guy or lady will not go through all dese bestie stuff....

"Define" ur relationship with ur partner and stay faithful and committed to the relationship!

schumastic:
IF YOU BELIEVE THEY ARE JUST BESTIE WITH NOTHING GOING ON BETWEEN THEM, THEN YOU MIGHT AS WELL BELIEVE THAT A COW CAN PASS THROUGH A NEEDLE.

OBVIOUSLY YOU MUST HAVE SEEN ONE OR TWO RED FLAGS AND THAT'S WHY YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE.

SAVE YOURSELF THIS STRESS AND UNNECESSARY HEARTACHE AND GET YOURSELF A FEMALE BESTIE, IF SHE FEELS INSECURE THEN LET HER KNOW THAT, WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS ALSO GOOD FOR THE GANDER.

Signed.

Vice Chairman,

Bachelor's Club, Lagos Branch.

I dey tells u.otule my great grand mother for Uganda

FrancisDozie:




You getting yourself worried over nothing.

I was the bestie of one of my female friend and she had a boyfriend too.

I know everything about her that even her parents don't know.

I didn't end up in bed with her.
You can't dictate who becomes her bestie when you have not walked her down the aisle, man.

My friend is married now, we are still sweet and close as before.

I am the one that's telling her, let the friendship die off since she got a husband now.

We never dated at any time , even the mum and siblings know me too.

Keep worrying yourself oh

See what this 1 is saying biko.
Please bros tp don't take this guy's advice abeg.
Just talk to her about it abeg.
Nothing like privacy in a relationship abeg.
Every little thing hat u do should be between u and her pls

FrancisDozie:




You getting yourself worried over nothing.

I was the bestie of one of my female friend and she had a boyfriend too.

I know everything about her that even her parents don't know.

I didn't end up in bed with her.
You can't dictate who becomes her bestie when you have not walked her down the aisle, man.

My friend is married now, we are still sweet and close as before.

I am the one that's telling her, let the friendship die off since she got a husband now.

We never dated at any time , even the mum and siblings know me too.

Keep worrying yourself oh

dat u respected urself towards her doesn't mean other guys would do same. moreover,it's not advisable for an opposite sex to be besties when both are into respective relationships.even churches do persuade dia bachelor pastors to marry to avoid falling into temptation of dia church sisters who always visit for counseling

Most times these male besties don't admit to having a girlfriend thereby giving the girl an option whenever things with you go sour

uzoexcel:



i love quora!!!!!
lemme give my nairaland response...introduce her to a close pretty female colleague of yours and tell ur babe shes your female best friend....infact tell her you are so close that sometimes you crash over @ her place once a while and nothing happens..see how she gonna take it
seriously though try and find out if this fella has a girlfriend?if he doesn't,why? is he secretly hoping for both of u to breakup so he can pick up the pieces? ask him this pointedly in the presence of your babe.if he has ask him to bring her along when next you meetup..maybe for a general hangout or group date?while on this date observe how he acts in front of his own babe...mention stuff of how ur babe was hanging out with him in one joint but u were sorry you couldnt join them as u had much office work but you were sure they had fun..emphasis on FUN...I bet you his girlfrds' eyes will narrow at this...his babe will di the rest for u when they get home ..in the midst of all these,if ur babe gets heated up or asks u to stop bothering the fella, then there's something going on

Tell her about the nonsense she is doing.If she doesn't stop, you can either have your own female bestie or quit the relationship.

Kenzico:


hmmm...this is pure jealousy...Tell ur Gf how u feel about her male friend..If she no gree....Just know she doesn't respect ur feelings....my 2cents

Must you comment? #bunkum!

richard870:
Must you comment? #bunkum!

I find ur mention rather unexplainable...Cos its filled with both hate and absolute psychosis

Kenzico:



I find ur mention rather unexplainable...Cos its filled with both hate and absolute psychosis

That's cuz u re too D.umb 2 b rational... beta go do psychoanalysis

richard870:
That's cuz u re too D.umb 2 b rational... beta go do psychoanalysis

Ok.....i hear u Sir!
Make I make my money today finish...Maybe we can continue when I come back from work.

I prefer u inbox me, if u more jabs to drop....

Kenzico:


Ok.....i hear u Sir!
Make I make my money today finish...Maybe we can continue when I come back from work.

I prefer u inbox me, if u more jabs to drop....

Lol..funny dude. Didn't mean 2 insult u, just dat ur comment was a bit unrealistic as no man would welcome d idea of their woman having a male 'bestie'

It would amaze u hw devastating d result of ladies having these so called male 'besties' whilst dating cuz it usually turns out 2 b some sort of 'ambush cheating ' tactics employed by ladies.... enuff said

schumastic:
IF YOU BELIEVE THEY ARE JUST BESTIE WITH NOTHING GOING ON BETWEEN THEM, THEN YOU MIGHT AS WELL BELIEVE THAT A COW CAN PASS THROUGH A NEEDLE.

OBVIOUSLY YOU MUST HAVE SEEN ONE OR TWO RED FLAGS AND THAT'S WHY YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE.

SAVE YOURSELF THIS STRESS AND UNNECESSARY HEARTACHE AND GET YOURSELF A FEMALE BESTIE, IF SHE FEELS INSECURE THEN LET HER KNOW THAT, WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS ALSO GOOD FOR THE GANDER.

Signed.

Vice Chairman,

Bachelor's Club, Lagos Branch.

you don talk am finish