kingxsamz:


..Male Bestie....
another name for side Boo.

Chatflick:
Hello guys it has been a while.... Please how can someone cope with his girlfriend having a male best friend? From my own point of view, I believe the boyfriend should occupy that space. Most times I call, she is always with her bestie and he tends to listen to our conversation and sometimes even interrupt it. Please serious and matured minds..

PS: She tells him everything, he knows stuffs about her that I don't. I'm not scared of him taking her from me just that I'm not comfortable with it all all and I'm loosing it gradually.

mhizsuzzy:
Well my own piece....I had a male bestie.... though it was kul as u guys relate wella wella....I had no bf then and he had a gf....We flow better compared to with his gf....But the truth is that at a point my feelings for him began to loom a great heap but didnt realise until i always wanted to be with him almost all the time....

Why all these jargons up there....I am not scared of her having a male bestie but nurturing a lot of feelings for him and if care is not taken they may end up sleeping with each other.....You have to discuss it with her... Although I had to create a limit or boundary to our friendship cos I noticed it was mind draining hoping that something may work out soon....Pls if she is not willing to let go of him biko leave her... as far as that bestie figure is still in the picture you always come after him...

Chatflick:
Hello guys it has been a while.... Please how can someone cope with his girlfriend having a male best friend? From my own point of view, I believe the boyfriend should occupy that space. Most times I call, she is always with her bestie and he tends to listen to our conversation and sometimes even interrupt it. Please serious and matured minds..

PS: She tells him everything, he knows stuffs about her that I don't. I'm not scared of him taking her from me just that I'm not comfortable with it all all and I'm loosing it gradually.

Chatflick:
Hello guys it has been a while.... Please how can someone cope with his girlfriend having a male best friend? From my own point of view, I believe the boyfriend should occupy that space. Most times I call, she is always with her bestie and he tends to listen to our conversation and sometimes even interrupt it. Please serious and matured minds..

PS: She tells him everything, he knows stuffs about her that I don't. I'm not scared of him taking her from me just that I'm not comfortable with it all all and I'm loosing it gradually.

Henitan24:


Want to join your club, how will I go about it?

kay29000:

But you are a girl

Henitan24:


Don't let that be a problem pls OK. I sa want to join

Macgreat:


I agree, but is she in a relationship with him.?.

openmine:

she is...thats even the more reason who its painful!
most ladies don't know what they want....
If she can tell the male bestie everything about her life history,she can as well date or even marry him instead of suffering another guy whose fatekk is yet unknown!

Cowbuoy:


You're welcome, Bruv...


BTW, if you're still kinda confused on how to go about it... There are 2 things involved I could tell you right now..


1. You should try and confront your girlfriend in a more gentlemanly way and ask her about it... She might spill and she might not, either way you shouldn't turn it into a fight..


2. You should try and find a way to make that Nigga (her bestie) a friend of yours too or probably your own "bestie" too... Keep your friends close and your enemies closer"

Henitan24:


Want to join your club, how will I go about it?

jy2kbeyond:





Bros I need membership form o

schumastic:



That's nice, would love to have you as member but there is just one problem

Henitan24:


Tell me what the problem is pls, I'm all ears

MrRichmond:


So far nobody wants to tell you the truth.
You better listen up and be wise!
There is a 90% chance that the so called bestie is banging your gf while you are simply taking care of the bills.
No woman who truly loves her man would keep someone like that around, except she is using him for sex.
This is 2018, wise up!

schumastic:


i don't know if you are a guy or a girl and if a girl, then it will be hard to trust you with the guy's code.

for instance there are some things i would have told that guy to check out for based on experience but i can't cus this is a public forum and some girls can pick it up and learn.

also, where is your location?

Henitan24:

I'm a girl just love to be in the midst of guys that's the reason why I'm interested. Living and working in Yola, Adamawa state but I'm Yoruba by tribe.

Macgreat:


It is better to be friends than be in "relationship" if you ain't ready for marriage why get into emotional relationship.

Kenzico:


hmmm...this is pure jealousy...Tell ur Gf how u feel about her male friend..If she no gree....Just know she doesn't respect ur feelings....my 2cents

Shayneward1:
Kill him.

uzoexcel:



i love quora!!!!!
lemme give my nairaland response...introduce her to a close pretty female colleague of yours and tell ur babe shes your female best friend....infact tell her you are so close that sometimes you crash over @ her place once a while and nothing happens..see how she gonna take it
seriously though try and find out if this fella has a girlfriend?if he doesn't,why? is he secretly hoping for both of u to breakup so he can pick up the pieces? ask him this pointedly in the presence of your babe.if he has ask him to bring her along when next you meetup..maybe for a general hangout or group date?while on this date observe how he acts in front of his own babe...mention stuff of how ur babe was hanging out with him in one joint but u were sorry you couldnt join them as u had much office work but you were sure they had fun..emphasis on FUN...I bet you his girlfrds' eyes will narrow at this...his babe will di the rest for u when they get home ..in the midst of all these,if ur babe gets heated up or asks u to stop bothering the fella, then there's something going on

schumastic:



that's cool to know, well i guess that's fair enough. also don't you think the distance would be an ish for you cus sometimes we do hang out like clubbing and beach party stuffs ?

whodeyhere:

An honest one spotted.... thank you