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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Ebhod20(m): 1:03pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Gal is simple my parents are deeper life too bt i left also and dey ask me i told them i was big enough to decide good and evil and my decision is final and am going to a prayer and deliverance chuch now u can call me make i put u through ar add me up on fb jeremiah ehis ebhod |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Nobody: 1:05pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
iceadonis: You right about that! Very right! |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Kamsichime(m): 1:05pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Look for a bible base church attend their programmes and be committed and let ur life be the epistle ur dad read. Jst allow God to guide you |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by boxymccoy(m): 1:08pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh:While I understand what you are passing through, I will like to kindly implore you not to act unruly to your parents just because you have grown to make decisions for yourself as this can have some ripple effects years later. As a child of God, you are bound to obey your parents while you are still under their roof. You talked about your father’s anger issue, I know it’s not easy but I can assure you God can give you grace to bear with him. Jesus who was perfect in his ways had to subject himself to imperfect parents for 30yrs. He knew more than them and had more understanding than them but had to obey them for 30yrs that He was under their roof. My dear, the number of years remaining for you to leave their roof can not be compared with the years you have spent. Work at getting a good job, work hard and keep making progress. Don’t allow your dad’s attitude and church doctrines provoke you into making rash decisions that you will later regret, don’t just rush into marriage because you want ease yourself from the wahala you daily face at home. Do you know how many boring sermons that Jesus listened to from those Saducees and Pharisees yet he knew God more than them. But when his time came, None could stop him. See, when it is time you will make these decisions without having any hitch with your parents, and I think you are much more closer to the “liberation “ that your heart is longing for.......God bless you 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by donblazer10(m): 1:14pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
SAMBARRY:bro you've said it all...1000 likes from me 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Nathayas: 1:29pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
You have not told us the areas you have problems with your father. I know your father can not direct you to the wrong way. children use to be sturborn when they are university graduates. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by princessbarmie: 1:32pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh:I'm in the same shoe as yours a pastors daughter in deeper life but this was what I did I got a job out of the state my parents stay though close but the fact that we don't see daily was a plus I stayed with a neutral family friend who won't criticize my actions I still earned their trust i was going home every weekend later I stopped going my dear apart from your job get busy through on that can fetch you more money on the side give them cogent reasons why you can't come home during weekends gradually they'll detach it might not happen so soon reduce the way you call them not drastically but in a fair way detach yourself gradually when you go home attend their church it's not going to kill you join a church that preaches the word of God not through one that will take you away from God because despite all this you still need God join the workforce and serve God. don't let them know you've left the church until after like 2 or 3years. I hope with this few points of mine I'm able to convince you and not confuse you. P. S don't mind my punctuations I'm not just good at it. much love from a former deeper life girl 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Nobody: 1:36pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
SAMBARRY: Same issue I discussed with someone yesterday, some deeper life parents take it to the extreme. I'm proud of my parents where ever I find myself cause we were not caged, threatened or forced to attend Deeper Life. My dad always made us understand that we have to have a right standing with God and not about church. You haven't given your dad a reason to allow you attend another church, no matter his strictness. Stand on your words if you really want to leave the church. Who deeper life pastor pikin help? Your dad needs to be disciplined sef. I hate all this forced church nonsense, I love deeper life and if I see any genuine reason to leave, I WILL. Just have a right standing with God, no be only deeper life go go heaven ooo. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by princessbarmie: 1:39pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
boxymccoy:thank you I love your advice but I feel you do not understand how frustrating it can be sometimes as much as she wants to be free I won't lie to you your advice at the moment cannot help her to change the already made up mind instead you should advise that even in her quest of freedom she should make sure she doesn't miss her way I think that's the best |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by nwakaibeya1: 1:40pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
The >greatest gain and beauty of repentance or Christian Born Again locating real Jesus Christ is when you are led to repentance with transfer of unbelievable power >to you by whoever is leading you to Jesus Christ ,so that witches and wizards, evil people,all evil must fear you and you must have peace and Light the same Light Jesus Christ declared and said I am the Light of the world and afterwards the love of Jesus Christ begins to reign upon your life ,its a must for you if the person leading you to Jesus Christ has real Jesus Christ power, that is what we call being born again and meaning of born again Christian and not after claiming to be Bornagain as per your prophets and pastors traditions yet witches and wizards still feast on you and you can't sleep at night nor have peace. You must check your Bornagain if those are missing in your life. For you to seek the true Bornagain of power no matter your level it is your right to reign in peace,light&unbeleivable power as Jesus Christ declared and gives those who truly locate him .Behold the evil spirit said Jesus Christ I know Paul I know who are you it means you must have that light to be recognized and feared by evil .Mathew 13,13-15
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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by shumuel(m): 1:42pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh: his advise is the best, take a transfer even if it is to the Northern part of the country, that is the only way you can make it easy for yourself,, you can't change church while you are still under his roof and you can't leave to get a place for yourself in the same state; family, friends and society would not allow, so it is best you move far away first then you relocate later when you have changed church and find yourself your own place to leave,,, it is better that way . |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by amazon14: 1:42pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh:From this your answer, you're an adult there's no need for you to live under his roof. Get an accomodation and pack out of house, then u won't be needing anyones advice. Pick a good bible beleaving church and join. But in everything u do, dont make them feel u are out of the faith. I dont know if i made sense to but that what i will do. I will even resign from my job change my locality and settle, then do my own thing |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by donblazer10(m): 1:44pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Onnasucs1:lol..exactly.. they feel their church is the only road to heaven |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Bostin(m): 1:46pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
JusticeSeeker:You are on point. Though when I met my wife I asked her if she is born again, she replied she is not a born again but a Christian. But what do we say about mother inlaw who is also a women leader in Deeper life who says no man can stop her to do her self will . |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by donblazer10(m): 1:58pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Akinaukwa:I still don't understand why you would wanna punish the parents for the sins of the child/children.... It doesn't make sense to me tbh |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by samuelgambo(m): 1:58pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Bringing your father in this issue is not your main problem your main problem is, you cannot cope with the doctrines of the church. My friend you can go and marry a man from white garment church and automatically you will say bye bye to deeper life. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by adexontop(m): 2:00pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
It is very sad to know how youth of today are so rebellious.You see your parents love and they want the best for you.See don't be rebellious to them don't listen evil advice it surely end you in eternal doom.Live a Godly life obey your parents so that your children too will obey you.If not one day you will regret and that time you will wish to reinvent time but trust me it will too late |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Ageco(m): 2:03pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Leaving the Church can't be the way out. From your story, you don't have salvation & your aim is not heaven. Is your father Jesus Christ? Jesus is our perfect example. Please get saved & stay with Jesus for your good here & hereafter |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Stevebamdex(m): 2:07pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
emmalux2:Your comment reeks of spiritual ignorance and religious illegality..you are even judging and contradicting yourself in this same post thinking you are admonishing the OP.. That she is planning to dress like jezebel and planning to join the bbn crew.. That the devil mocked God because she wore trousers where she went to serve? Were you there with her during her nysc? Were you there when the devil was mocking God on her behalf ? You were even asking her if she has already tasted the forbidden fruit..what an effrontery..! Is this what deeper life is all about? The veil of religion has never made anyone spiritual,your spiritual ideas are too carnal,weak and hyper judgemental.. Your G.O once said tv set is a devil's box. And he said,he is convinced that God himself told him all that,the foolish people under him believed his testimonies because they lack spiritual understanding of God's principles..they followed suit with that belief until technology woke them up from their slumber..that tv set is now the channel through which they now preach the gospel after about 2decades of spiritual rigidity and enormous ignorance. That same religious veil that made kumuyi to say all that is gradually being torn off his face and he is now seeing things right although is almost too late. But unfortunately,the so called members still have their eyes covered with the veils of religion..and the perfect example here is you and your carnal ideas. May the lord help you..! 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Alexas58: 2:16pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
SAMBARRY:Wow ur dad must be a great man,for him to be the lion of the tribe of sambisa forest |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by anataala: 2:17pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Do you worship you father or you worship God? Flourishh: |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by gidjah(m): 2:18pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
kitaatita:this is the best advice @flourish,you have to be calm my Dr,despite your age and academic exploits in as much as you are under d roof of daddy and mummy, you have to go by the rules ,that's a one time honor you must accord them you won't like your kids in d future or even a younger one staying with u do d same to u or would u?That can only also happen if you get transferred from your current place of work and u have to relocate and live else where.but until either marriage or job relocation, pls cope for now.,be Godly lady that they so wish, you won't live with them for much longer, meanwhile improve on your looks,Behind up,you will be needing a clean tushed up guy too,so love-vendor up your wardrobe, if you know u can't be transferred due to the nature of your job then pls get another . 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by godliman: 2:22pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
If your father is not even tempered, that is a defect in him but understandably he is human and imperfect as we all are. My little sister, becareful about the steps you take today, the world is a globe, things that go round come around. there is always a pay back period.Treat your parents as you would your children to treat you. Firstly, it is not about your father's church but your father's God. If you know God as your father and Jesus as ur saviour, that is a good place to begin.If however your desire for independence is to "See all the wider side of life" then understand that such freedom leads to free -doom. Dont break your parents heart, be a fool today, and pray to marry a good man from a good church. Let no one decieve you, not all churches are good. A friend to me how her little sister attended a church and was impregnated there. Values change with time. You are not the CEO of your life God is and your parents and pastors and well meaning elders are God's deputies. Dont go the prodigal way, it always leads to shattered dreams and tears of sorrow. A lady once brought a man home and wanted marriage conducted against her mothers wish. The mother couldnt stand up to her, so escaped from the house. But for the intervention of some elders, this lady would have defied her mother to marry this man. That man was latter arrested with human parts: who is he?- a ritualist. I grant that parents may have some very obnoxious overbearing attitudes, but remember they are still parents. I was a bit heady to my dad some years back but now he is dead and gone to heaven, I miss him every day and sometimes wish He could come back and let me right my wrongs, but that cannot be. I have a mother who can get on my nerves and I am careful not to break her heart, she has a few years to go so I will endure with her the way she did with me in my childood. stay with your parents, endure their imperfections. If you are born again and you seek God, he wll give u a goodman and you will leave their roof and may be their church. Remember Lam 3:27 says it is good to bear the yoke in your youth. In life you are born a king(a baby-cared for), later you become a servant(a lad serving your parents), then a slave(a teenager serving parents, teachers, uncles aunties etc)and finally a king(the head of your own nuclear family). Finally, haveyou heared of child cycle? At the age of 7(a kid) Dad knows every thing, at age 17(a teen), dad knows nothing, at age 27(a tween), dad seems right, he knows something and at 37(a full grown and probaly himself a father), dad was perfectly righ,t all he said was true. Thanks God bless |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by gidjah(m): 2:24pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
shadeyinka:that's the best idea 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by gidjah(m): 2:25pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Thought I was the only one to observe that. Picking advice from such a one could be disastrous.... Flee.... shadeyinka: 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by mayblow: 2:27pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Is Deeper life your daddy's church or God's church? Looks like ur pro is wt ur dad, church and God...one day u wil remember ur dad for his trainings and u wud wish u had stayed more under him to learn!!! Quote me... |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by emerged01(m): 2:30pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
iceadonis:My response was to guy I quoted not the lady. You may not understand the tone behind his words. The guy sounded like he was the one that taught himself how to sit,crawl and walk when he was a baby. Parenting is not an easy task. All of you need to know that some parents will not make to Heaven because of the wayward life of their children. There is an ultimate task given to parent by God if they fail,they will dearly for it. I believe most parents know this that's why they make sure they guard you to the right path when you are under their roof. What I meant payback is that if he makes the his parents' task easy,the same he will experience. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Funkybabee(f): 2:36pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Einl: Can you mentions little out of nonsense church since you know good church and for people out here if they want to join cuz I don't know what u will say if non believers say this and maybe u are one self @op don't listen to what some uncultured children here say to disrespect or stand against ur father just becuz u want to cross to another church,my advice for u is to get ur own apartment far away from your dad church or go to another state to begin a new life but my best advice for u if u can marry from another or ur wish church and pray let holy spirit lead u for everything, I think its will be easier to convince him |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by sabichele: 2:39pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Point of correction, it is NOT your father's church but God's house where the truth is preach. Even the bible says .....many will develop itching ears for the truth...if you think you are in that church because of your father, then i am sorry to say you dont know the purpose of your creation then. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by sharpwriter(m): 2:43pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Dirkcoyt:This is the best comment that shows the issue here. Me, I'm waiting perfectly to strike... just like a snake |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by jacyhelen(f): 2:49pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
SAMBARRY: nice write up..My mother threw hatred at me cos i failed to attend church...I tire oooo 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 2:52pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
jacyhelen:lol *ignoring will quell the hatred.hatred only needs attention for it to be fuelled,if attention is not given,the hatred will die a natural death* |
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