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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by LoveThemChubby(m): 11:43am On Feb 18, 2018 |
From what I can glean from your post, your dad's attitude is the main reason you want to leave. My take is that you patiently wait till you get married before leaving because leaving now will only serve to infuriate him more and those you leave behind (mom and siblings) will have increased trouble to deal with. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by bayulll011(m): 11:43am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh: If u are a graduate and working stand on your feet now or they will tell u when to get pregnant and have kids,the annoying thing is during their time they got all the free will that's why must of them marry early |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by samiegreg(m): 11:43am On Feb 18, 2018 |
see friends the thing is as long as you are a converted christian you will not be having conflicts with your dad being a pastor. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by JusticeSeeker: 11:43am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Bostin:You probably married a backsliden, Judas Iscariot or unrepentant member of the Church. The ones you will marry and have no problem with by God's grace will refer you to their spiritual fathers (Pastors) thereafter, the marriage committee of the church will interact with you and in most cases God helps them to know whether the outsider like you may be a wife beater or not. I mean they are able to discern who you are, born again or not. I'm a member of the church and I have this to say. 99% of Deeper Life members who refuse to subject themselves to marriage committee supervision are mostly the shallow Life members. Compromising or not outrightly born again like Judas Iscariot. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by mudiana(m): 11:43am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Some parents are bondage sha! 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by newoffer: 11:46am On Feb 18, 2018 |
You better leave because u cannot change anything . |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by KennedicalEnergy(m): 11:47am On Feb 18, 2018 |
I Must Tell You The Truth: I Am Not A Member Of Deeper Life Bible Church But, That Church Is One Of The Few Churches In Nigeria Where The Truth Of The Word Of God Is Being Heard And Practised. You Are Free To Go To Any Other Denomination Of Your Choice, But I Must Tell You That Churches Like Deeper Life Are Few. Most Churches In Nigeria Are More Of A Social Club Where People Are Being Entertained. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Onnasucs1(m): 11:51am On Feb 18, 2018 |
KennedicalEnergy:It means you don't know "The Truth Of The Word of God" then 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by emmalux2(m): 11:51am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh: YOU DO NOT HAVE YOUR LIFE TO LIVE BUT THE LIFE OF JESUS, HE OWNS U, UR FATHER IS JUST A CARE TAKER. You cant hear from God through this platform, satan will end up advising u like Demas. Many are hear to counsel u badly. Your dad did not die for u on thr cross but Jesus. Honour ur parents as bible admonished, carry the cross b4 u regret in future. Did u not read a comment someone telling u that soon they will advice u on what to wear, how to dress? u wore trouser during NYSC and u have not asked God to forgive u, satan mocked God for it, now u want to go away from ur faith to other places so u can appear half nude like BBNija house mates, paint ur face like Jezebel.Did u ask God on what to do? or u want to hear from satan by asking the world... 90 percent of the replies u will get hates that church ur dad pastors at. Where do u want to go? u want to join Jezebel in other denominations? go on then. Is ur father the owner of the church? JESUS IS THE OWNER u want to run away from the truth and join the worldly churches? Did u taste the forbiden fruit already? Pastors children are satans target, so be wise and re dedicate ur life to Jesus so u can have a direction. REMAIN WHERE U ARE, SWALLOW YOUR PRIDE, TURN AWAY FROM THE WORLD. Call or whatsapp me on 08034342755. GOD LOVES YOU SISTER. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by princeayz(m): 11:52am On Feb 18, 2018 |
things end...
people change....
Patience is key. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Analysiscorner: 11:54am On Feb 18, 2018 |
shadeyinka:But at 24, she is an adult who could choose her own religion. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by doctimi(m): 11:55am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Please stay a little longer till you are independent. Do him that honor, along the line, you can attend programs from any other denomination you feel like. Their (Your Parent) number of years will become fewer as time comes by. Just help them live it in peace and rest. God bless you dear. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by arryjosh(m): 11:55am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh:You dnt have to leave dear...I am also a pastor's son in the same church! |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Akinaukwa: 11:55am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Am sorry i picked holes in what you said. I personally seen ladies born and brought up in Deeper Life getting married outside the church. Has anyone turned up for marriage and your parents rejected him cos of church stuff. Check up your life very well, something is wrong with it. I may not also blame your dad. Pastors children are supposed to live an exemplary life. Churches like Deeper Life discipline their Pastors for their wards wayward behaviour. Thus the strictness some of them employ in child training. Being a matured adult, talk things over with your dad and i believe he will see things wt you. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Jokerman(m): 11:56am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Lol... my own is I attend one of such churches, and I am getting married to another lady from another church... and I know church will over talk, buh its their business anyway... For you dear, church no be by force.... Go to where you are fulfilled.... |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by twosquare(m): 11:58am On Feb 18, 2018 |
shadeyinka:Don't also forget Colossians 3:21 @Flourishh too |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by poka7(m): 11:58am On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh:pm me..09039605856 |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by sexdoll: 12:00pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Are you asking because you're bent on leaving or are asking because you want to play it safe by finding out the consequences of leaving "the faith" first? Well, the truth is that like all cults, if you dare leave our brotherhood, we will make your life so effing difficult for you. A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by mrghost: 12:00pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
I was in a dilema as yours, I just recently lost the true love of my life because of the fixation of policies I got stuck in my brain through deeper life doctrine. I let her go because I know my mum and dad will reject her because she is too beautiful and from a Christ embassy. I was weak to hold on to what makes me happy because i was scared to be named as a cast away....but right now, I bluntly told myself and parents, that I got my life to live, I already left the church. Why? 1. Because I want to be in a an environment where I can sing and dance to worship God, because it makes me happy. 2. I want to be free to make a choices that makes me happy. 3. I truly want the directions of God to choose the best woman to marry and not policies... And so on. Talk to me on WhatsApp... We are like minded, let's help each other. 0 7 06 60 40 6 4 5 |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Jokerman(m): 12:02pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
emmalux2: Can you please list some worldly churches, so I can avoid them?? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by youngshegoal(m): 12:02pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
However, as long as you are under his roof and
dependent upon him for sustainance, you are
required to be obedient to his rules. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 12:02pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
luvablesam:hi luvable sam.so you're still on nl and you didn't ask after me abi And to your comment EVERY family member is an architect to every child's LIFE.but I'm sure the prostitutes touts and pickpockets don't have family members that are architect to the child's LIFE.continue deceiving yourself. Ever heard every man is responsible for his success or failure in life? Anyway op you're the owner of your cross.na you know where the shoe dey pinch you,so do whatever you want to do.it's not your life anyway,it's your parent's.you're just a spectator |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by ZionG: 12:03pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Jokerman(m): 12:03pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
sexdoll: Lol..... 1 Like
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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by sexdoll: 12:04pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
mrghost: Liar. You left because of pussy. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Man2utd(m): 12:06pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh: Basically, you are the architect of your own life, if your mind is not in that church anymore, it might be better to move on, the back bone of religion is to set you free and not enslave you in anyway, but you also have to be wise about it, because your dad is involved, look for a church that feels right with your spirit and start attending their mid-week service, but make sure you don't become a rebel. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Nobody: 12:07pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Everyman got the right to decide his own destiny |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Taywon: 12:08pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
i do not think its the church you have a problem with but ur disciplinarian dad.... You see my dear ... deeper life to me is one of the few churches that doesn't dilute the true word of God... Your focus should be 'Heaven' and not changing church... I believe every church has its own grace ... you might not be aware of the grace u are enjoying there until you leave .... and about marital life ... Pray and don't loose focus |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by gentlegenius(m): 12:08pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
AishaBuhari:Same here... Why should someone be a religious fanatic when the truth is that THERE IS NO PERFECT RELIGION ON EARTH. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Actionleap: 12:11pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
I would advise you not to take a confrontational approach. Ask to speak to your dad when he is in a good mood. Praise on how he has raised an intelligent and responsible kid. Ask him if he thinks he is proud of the person you have become and can entrust you to make your decisions in certain issues. Most probably, he would say yes. Then, break it down gently for him and let it hang as if you will respect anything he decides. |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 12:13pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Nodogragra4me:exactly.even.God doesn't want you to worship him because your parents insists.he WANTS a willing,free will worship from the heart and not to satisfy your parents.hence my statement if you're going to church to please your parents you're wasting your time.If There's a compulsion or an external influence pressuring you to go to a particular church there is likelihood that you won't receive anything because everything the pastor is saying will be irritating YOU But when you are in a place you feel fulfilled in,nobody will tell YOU.it's you that will knows and that's when you can flourish thrive and have a Better understanding of the bible.not Nigerian cultural understanding of the bible.There's a difference 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by chrisooblog: 12:13pm On Feb 18, 2018 |
Flourishh:hi hope you're ok I've read your brief write up what you are going through is not unique and has happened to many christians. I also used to attend deeper life many years ago so I know where you're coming from. First off make sure you're leaving the church for the right reasons at the end of the day when you go to meet your maker he will not ask you which church you attended but rather how you lived your life as a christian. To answer your question specifically I would advise you adopt these two options number one call your parents especially your father being a pastor I assume and hope he's reasonable. Sit him down and explain to him why you don't want to attend his church again be very clear about your reasons because he will obviously want to counter yours explain to him that it will be hypocritical of you to continue to attend a church whose doctrines you don't completely agree with. Apologize to him that you know because he's a pastor how bad he will look that as an adult you feel you would want to explore your spiritual journey in another church but you will always look up to him as your father both spiritually and biological and also you will always love him. If option number one doesn't go to plan and as Yorubas say 'o da si rough' I will suggest you find your own place and move out of his house. Please don't abuse or disrespect your parents as calm as possible continue to state your reasons why you came to this decision. Before taking this above mentioned steps I would suggest you pray and meditate on your bible may the good lord guide and direct you God bless |
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