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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Einl(m): 8:06pm On Feb 18, 2018
Funkybabee:



Can you mentions little out of nonsense church since you know good church and for people out here if they want to join cuz I don't know what u will say if non believers say this and maybe u are one self


@op don't listen to what some uncultured children here say to disrespect or stand against ur father just becuz u want to cross to another church,my advice for u is to get ur own apartment far away from your dad church or go to another state to begin a new life but my best advice for u if u can marry from another or ur wish church and pray let holy spirit lead u for everything, I think its will be easier to convince him

You haven't said anything.
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Einl(m): 8:11pm On Feb 18, 2018
ladiesreject:

Did she tell you that she needs suggestions as to which church she should go next after she leaves deeper life? What do you mean by she should find a nice Catholic or Anglican Church? Catholic Church na church? I'd rather be a deeper lifer for 10 years than to be a Catholic for one day.

I no de advise you.

No carry the girl matter for your head.
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 8:11pm On Feb 18, 2018
luvablesam:


fine....mind sending me one then?
very well then
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by emerged01(m): 8:17pm On Feb 18, 2018
fabre4:


Stop this useless emotional blackmail there is nothing like payback for leaving a church. Besides most of these pastors left their parents church so unless this payback is starting from the parents forget it... She is leaving church not christ.
Bros chill! Most of you that quoted me never read the posted I quoted. I wasn't referring to the lady that owned the thread. I was referring to the guy I quoted. He sounded harsh trying to justify his action against his dad.
What I meant by payback is near was that the journey of our own parenthood will be determined by our behavior toward our parents. He chose to go to gospel but his own daughter may choose to go celestial.
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 8:17pm On Feb 18, 2018
Dirkcoyt:


I remember telling my mama that I'm not getting married but I will bore children. come see emotional blackmail! she was like all her friends are doing wedding for their children say wetin make she talk? she said people will say because she's a single mother that's why he doesn't want her child to marry also.

I just dey laugh, I no gree ooooh, when she see say I no gree she begin dey soft. I also started pointing to some of her friends that were married but later left the marriage, I told her what's the point. I think parents are just funny set of control freaks generally in Africa.
it's that negative perception of thinking they own you.that's the genesis,like a property.I think the root cause is from culture
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by GoodMuyis(m): 8:18pm On Feb 18, 2018
SAMBARRY:
exactly.even.God doesn't want you to worship him because your parents insists.he WANTS a willing,free will worship from the heart and not to satisfy your parents.

The bold is not not True, God is super happy when parents insists that Children must serve the God of their Father. That is why He is proud to reveal himself to Israelite as God of Abraham ....of Isaac...of Jacob.

He is willing to secure the Kingdom for David's lineage ONLY is they serve him the way David did.

Do you remember what provoke God to secure covenant with the Children of Rechab? Yet the Rechabite did not claim to follow the commandment of God, but of their father.

Do you know why Ali was condemned? Figure that out yourself

Truth be told you lack Biblical knowledge No thanks to you for teaching the OP rebellion witchcraft against her father
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 8:21pm On Feb 18, 2018
emerged01:

Bros chill! Most of you that quoted me never read the posted I quoted. I wasn't referring to the lady that owned the thread. I was referring to the guy I quoted. He sounded harsh trying to justify his action against his dad.
What I meant by payback is near was that the journey of our own parenthood will be determined by our behavior toward our parents. He chose to go to gospel but his own daughter may choose to go celestial.
and so what? If I attend 4square and my daughter decides to attend Methodist and so what?as long as the virtues of Christ is shown in her,I don't give a damn.it's when she decides to attend all these questionable churches like ekankar,gurumaraji,all those churches where they wash head in the stream or pastor will be conducting deliverance for you and ask you to bring 30k,3 strands of your pubic hair,toe nails and red candle and all those kinds of nonsense etc that I Will raise brows
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 8:25pm On Feb 18, 2018
GoodMuyis:


The bold is not not True, God is super happy when parents insists that Children must serve the God of their Father. That is why He is proud to reveal himself to Israelite as God of Abraham ....of Isaac...of Jacob.

He is willing to secure the Kingdom for David's lineage ONLY is they serve him the way David did.

Do you remember what provoke God to secure covenant with the Children of Rechab? Yet the Rechabite did not claim to follow the commandment of God, but of their father.

Do you know why Ali was condemned? Figure that out yourself

Truth be told you lack Biblical knowledge No thanks to you for teaching the OP rebellion witchcraft against her father
Lmaooo.enforcing your standards is witchcraft? grin

What brand of weed do you take? grin

Please if you don't have anything reasonable or edifying to quote,you don't have to quote me.thank you for complying
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by GoodMuyis(m): 8:28pm On Feb 18, 2018
shadeyinka:


That is why I subscribe to cutting off dependence from parents as soon as they have done their best to fund your education.

He who pays the bill makes the rules...it just fair

Before you waste your time on her check her profile 1st grin grin grin grin

Then you shall laugh with me

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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by arrestdarrester: 8:30pm On Feb 18, 2018
First, pray off the pressure you're feeling now so that you don't desperately get hooked for marriage out of survival needs. Avoid talking back to your parents if your words are going to be invectives. Get a diary and start writing things down especially your feelings about what's going on. It will help you get to know yourself and what you want out of life. Believe me, for now it feels like it's freedom you need. No. Its Purpose asking questions of you.

And thats the next thing, find your purpose in life. If you find your purpose it will give you joy and whatever your dad does will mean nothing to you.

Finally, start praying concerning the will of God in marriage. Your future husband will match your Purpose. Please watch with your eyes open while praying. Do not leave one spiritual covering without moving to another. The woman was created to be covered. For now, your dad is that covering. Your future husband should be spiritually sound enough to provide the next spiritual covering.

I have so much to say to you. But for now, no hasty decision please.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by GoodMuyis(m): 8:32pm On Feb 18, 2018
SAMBARRY:
Lmaooo.enforcing your standards is witchcraft? grin

What brand of weed do you take? grin

Please if you don't have anything reasonable or edifying to quote,you don't have to quote me.thank you for complying

Ok grin grin Repent and Give your life to Jesus

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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 8:36pm On Feb 18, 2018
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GoodMuyis:


Before you waste your time on her check her profile 1st grin grin grin grin

Then you shall laugh with me
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 8:38pm On Feb 18, 2018
GoodMuyis:


Ok grin grin Repent and Give your life to Jesus
it's already with Jesus.it's not you who will tell me that
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by emerged01(m): 8:41pm On Feb 18, 2018
SAMBARRY:
and so what? If I attend 4square and my daughter decides to attend Methodist and so what?as long as the virtues of Christ is shown in her,I don't give a damn.it's when she decides to attend all these questionable churches like ekankar,gurumaraji etc that I Will raise brows
Lol! Questionable churches u said? That was the same way your dad felt. He has seen what you have never seen in your life that was why he was trying to show by all means where you should go. Deuteronomy 4 vs 9. Don't think he was being domineering.
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by GoodMuyis(m): 8:43pm On Feb 18, 2018
SAMBARRY:
it's already with Jesus.it's not you who will tell me that

(1John 5:21 [KJV]) - Little children, keep yourselves from idols. Amen. grin
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by emerged01(m): 8:49pm On Feb 18, 2018
Dirkcoyt:


Me oooooo , person nofit manipulate my emotion, if person dey choke me I dey comot am for road. African parents need to take a crash course in child development.
Lol! You can always be whatever you want to be under your own roof but under their roof you keep to their rules and principle. It is not only African thing,it is everywhere.
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Dirkcoyt: 8:51pm On Feb 18, 2018
emerged01:

Lol! You can always be whatever you want to be under your own roof but under their roof you keep to their rules and principle. It is not only African thing,it is everywhere.
not always. rules are meant to be broken
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by emerged01(m): 9:16pm On Feb 18, 2018
Dirkcoyt:
not always. rules are meant to be broken
Rules broken is at your own detriment.
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Dirkcoyt: 9:31pm On Feb 18, 2018
emerged01:
Rules broken is at your own detriment.
rules of myth were broken to birth science
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by excel123: 10:13pm On Feb 18, 2018
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by FOLLEY20(m): 10:22pm On Feb 18, 2018
My Own advice is this; going to deeper life or leaving the place is not what matters but ur personal relationship with God. I had seen several cases of people who left this church because of its doctrine regarding marriage & broke themselves free from the church but held on to Christ. Now, they are doing fine in Christ even after marriage & some went back to that same church after their wedding. All depends on you & ur faith but never fight ur father or the church. Use wisdom & understand to overcome this challenge. God bless u.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Ken4Christ: 10:25pm On Feb 18, 2018
Flourishh:
As we all know, many people believe the children of pastors are mostly wayward.
I for example, I'm a female and my dad is a pastor in Deeper life Bible Church and trust me I've been looking for ways to leave the church. My dad isn't even helping matters, he has serious temper issues that makes him say things that gets me, my mum and siblings angry. I really do not see myself getting married in his church. Please tell me if I'm doing the right thing. Because i feel we all have our lives to live.
I need your advice because I'm already fed up of my dad's attitude and the church's doctrines.

You can also share similar experiences. If you have any
Thank you.

It will be disrespectful to attend another church as long as you are still under his roof. Have you discussed it with your mother? You may just have to endure until you get married. Once in while, you could attend weekly meetings in any other church that you choose to attend.
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by opezy: 10:49pm On Feb 18, 2018
Hey sis,
question 1: ARE YOU GENUINELY BORN AGAIN?
question 2: DO YOU READ YOUR BIBLE?
question 3: DO YOU BELIEVE THE HOLY SPIRIT LEADS MEN?
Now please don't deceive yourself, going to church does not take you to heaven, either deeper life or ur new church u want to attend. But a serious relationship with JESUS is ur ANSWER because HE can provide peace in d midst of the storm.
Note this rebellion or stubbornness are not the way of GOD. Whereever GOD wants u to be, HE can put u there with or without ur effort.
Please on issue like this, nairaland is sincerely not the place to get an answer but the HOLY SPIRIT
Flourishh:
As we all know, many people believe the children of pastors are mostly wayward.
I for example, I'm a female and my dad is a pastor in Deeper life Bible Church and trust me I've been looking for ways to leave the church. My dad isn't even helping matters, he has serious temper issues that makes him say things that gets me, my mum and siblings angry. I really do not see myself getting married in his church. Please tell me if I'm doing the right thing. Because i feel we all have our lives to live.
I need your advice because I'm already fed up of my dad's attitude and the church's doctrines.

You can also share similar experiences. If you have any
Thank you.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by ThinkSmarter(m): 2:18am On Feb 19, 2018
Flourishh:
As we all know, many people believe the children of pastors are mostly wayward.
I for example, I'm a female and my dad is a pastor in Deeper life Bible Church and trust me I've been looking for ways to leave the church. My dad isn't even helping matters, he has serious temper issues that makes him say things that gets me, my mum and siblings angry. I really do not see myself getting married in his church. Please tell me if I'm doing the right thing. Because i feel we all have our lives to live.
I need your advice because I'm already fed up of my dad's attitude and the church's doctrines.

You can also share similar experiences. If you have any
Thank you.
summon d courage and leave bf they will frustrate u with late marriage. if i shud guess, u re likely a virgin or might hv had sxx on few occns. try n date a smart guy outside ur church and if pos connive n get preg wit d guz b4 weddi proper inorder to resist his/church pressure. note, i am a xtian

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Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 2:30am On Feb 19, 2018
emerged01:

Lol! Questionable churches u said? That was the same way your dad felt. He has seen what you have never seen in your life that was why he was trying to show by all means where you should go. Deuteronomy 4 vs 9. Don't think he was being domineering.
he was.
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by SAMBARRY: 2:31am On Feb 19, 2018
GoodMuyis:


(1John 5:21 [KJV]) - Little children, keep yourselves from idols. Amen. grin

WHO ARE the "little children"
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by shadeyinka(m): 6:18am On Feb 19, 2018
GoodMuyis:


Before you waste your time on her check her profile 1st grin grin grin grin

Then you shall laugh with me
I just did that Thanks. Is he/she male or female?
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by stephenajana: 10:15am On Feb 19, 2018
Remember the story of prodigal Son
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by GoodMuyis(m): 11:06am On Feb 19, 2018
shadeyinka:
I just did that Thanks. Is he/she male or female?

Either gender, Staying away from appearance of evil is a Christian Manna
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Nobody: 11:20am On Feb 19, 2018
Are you Genuinely Saved?
Why do you want to leave?
Why don't you want to marry in His church?
Why areyou confused
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by mechanics(m): 11:22am On Feb 19, 2018
So which church do you intend going to?
Re: I Want To Leave My Father's Deeper Life Church. Is It Right? - Pastor's Daughter by Nobody: 12:04pm On Feb 19, 2018
ThinkSmarter:
summon d courage and leave bf they will frustrate u with late marriage. if i shud guess, u re likely a virgin or might hv had sxx on few occns. try n date a smart guy outside ur church and if pos connive n get preg wit d guz b4 weddi proper inorder to resist his/church pressure. note, i am a xtian
I'm sorry to burst your bubble you're not a Christian (just by profession). If you were you won't advice her to have premarital sex.

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