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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by ameri9ja: 1:49am On Mar 15, 2018 |
kushme:Children are ideally raised by two committed parents. Without this need - if there were no children, believe me, 99% of marriages would disappear. Of course there are exceptions, hence 99% not 100%. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by blackbeau1(f): 1:54am On Mar 15, 2018 |
I just pray I meet and marry the right person for me. That's all |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by bayocanny: 2:18am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Tinamoore:Too bad I really feel your pains...it heartbroken, I would advised you focus on your kids, it really tough being a single parent but with God by your side good things will come your way and you will never have reason to cry again, may God bless you and your kids ma 2 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Dalby(m): 2:22am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Amazing responses, but frankly NO. 1 Like |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Lizbeth7(f): 2:24am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Lol. Not married and not searching. Please, how can I also open a thread? |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Dalby(m): 2:30am On Mar 15, 2018 |
234GT:Correct but not as simple as that. After the wedding that start off line, one party begins to notice he or she is putting 70/30% percent then the crack begins. If not noticed and addressed properly it further degenerates. One party begins to nag, it irritates the other party or comes across as nagging too much bla bla bla, 8 to 10 year down the road and wonder r.... 2 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Nobody: 3:34am On Mar 15, 2018 |
kushme:I weak my person... Nigerians can advise u constantly to do wetin no get gain but wen e reach beta tin, ur nos no dey go for dis fone... 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by tealaw(m): 3:38am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Lizbeth7: I was almost proposing to u, but noticed u not smart. Dnt knw hw to open a thread. 1 Like |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by ajl: 3:42am On Mar 15, 2018 |
terrezo2002: What if your partner wouldn't stop messing up. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Okeikpu(m): 3:52am On Mar 15, 2018 |
I dey craze 1 Like |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by ameri9ja: 4:27am On Mar 15, 2018 |
blackbeau1: Hate to break it to ya - you'd marry the wrong person. Guaranteed. That's just how it's set up. _____________________________________ Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person May 28, 2016 IT’S one of the things we are most afraid might happen to us. We go to great lengths to avoid it. And yet we do it all the same: We marry the wrong person. Partly, it’s because we have a bewildering array of problems that emerge when we try to get close to others. We seem normal only to those who don’t know us very well. In a wiser, more self-aware society than our own, a standard question on any early dinner date would be: “And how are you crazy?” Show Full Article |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by sonofoluku: 4:57am On Mar 15, 2018 |
234GT: You get sense abeg.. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Bjgirl1: 5:02am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Yes,I will.Though he wasn't romantic but he tolerated me, he never bothered me but I lost him in September, Dear hubby, you're greatly missed. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by peacettw: 5:11am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Yes... |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by livinbygrace: 5:20am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Aremolekunowo: Sorry about that,but dont you go for medical test before your wedding day? |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by ochiosa(m): 5:32am On Mar 15, 2018 |
I will marry my wife over and over again, a special breed a wife, mother and a home builder. I CELEBRATE U 16YRS+ and there has never been one I mean one I nor gree. 8 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Nobody: 5:37am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Kingzy4pep:This one that many guys are sending me PMS, biko nu, no be advertisement, I just talk wetin dey my mind. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by vicben27(m): 5:46am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Liliyann:what are you bringing to the table? 1 Like |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Waffarianman(m): 5:53am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Donald3d: Guy marriage no b ahm pray you don't fall on the wrong wife. From delta got married to Igbo woman, bro d battle no b here they trying taking my kids away from me. Shapaly I remove my 2kids remaining our new born son... She decided to stay in her father's house but the battle continue.... Guys that never gotten married be praying oo women are wicked, D's 1 I jamm na Jezebel. Still know Oghene(God) pass dem 7 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by vicben27(m): 5:55am On Mar 15, 2018 |
sekundosekundo:well said! marriage should all about team work! no one 100% perfect |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Nobody: 5:59am On Mar 15, 2018 |
NothingDoMe:My dear her story ain't about short term dating. I'm sure most of our grandparents of those days never dated long but they stuck with themselves until death. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Olumyyde(m): 6:02am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Billyonaire:I totally disagree with your standpoint sir. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Nobody: 6:03am On Mar 15, 2018 |
janey1984:Just a simple nairalander dear. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Nobody: 6:05am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Chikita66: Mtcheeeeew cheap attention seeeker 5 Likes
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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by revolt(m): 6:19am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Tinamoore:if we dlg deep we may find out ure a very quarrelsome person or ure mkn his life a living hell. A lot of women try to control their husband's and when it doesn't work, they nag him to death. You didn't talk bout the sacrifices he probably made for you too. If we aSK oga now, a lot of details you hid will pop up. Takes two to wreck a marriage. The cause n effect. Its either this or oga is mental.. Cos nobody sees a woman he loved thts gvn him kids, peace n goes out. 6 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by revolt(m): 6:21am On Mar 15, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:cos everybody knew their place. Their responsibility etc |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by justmenoni: 6:22am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Been married is different from been in a relationship.... All those No no no might just be sidechickz |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by ASval: 6:23am On Mar 15, 2018 |
will marry her over n over again. infact, would have married her when we were kids. she is a superwoman! |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Silvano34: 6:30am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Tinamoore: Sorry to hear dear. The hearts of some human beings are wicked. There are some things we can do with impunity, but simply because of the consequences it culminate in for the person at the receiving end, a reasonable man would not take such decision. We know that after a couple has lived together for few years after the marriage ceremony, the tendency that the affinity between them would drop by almost 70% is certain, but this shouldn't serve as an excuse to start acting inconsistently all the time. And that's why we really need to be sure about the maturity level of whoever we intend dating. Don't allow love to blindfold logical reasoning and judgements. Marriage to me, is not a rocket science; it appears to me to be the easiest thing to deal with once you both are matured. Cheating can be done by any of the parties, but never should it be done with impunity. That impunity is what usually leads to issues. Many African men are found of thinking they can do whatever and act any how they like, as they have been made to feel this way by the society by the popular principle of they being the head of the family. Also, many married wives have unconsciously made their family a theater of violence. They are never going to be calm for one second before throwing caution to the wind at a spark of any little suspicion they observe about their husband. Your husband will have female friends, and that doesn't mean he's having extra marital affairs with them. You just have to learn more about him. And this goes with the wives too. Once you understand each other, no need of stealth monitoring. Be your self. Even if he's acting in a strange way, pretend you don't see it. And try to figure out why the new behavior is coming up at that period. Same applies to the man too. That's my little contribution to all prospective couples. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by OwoLee(m): 6:31am On Mar 15, 2018 |
all I know is , our Igbo girls tend to be more loyal and value marriages more... |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Evince(m): 6:31am On Mar 15, 2018 |
ameri9ja: U think am gullible? Oya define gullible first then we talk |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by streamsofjoy(f): 6:32am On Mar 15, 2018 |
Tinamoore: Maybe u rushed in soooo early not understanding what were getting into. |
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