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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by drbolade: 1:45pm On Mar 17, 2018
1. There is a God that ruleth in the affairs of men
2. When cheaps are down you are on your own
3. Law of karmal is real.
4.Power of positivity works
5.Givers never lack

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by blackbeau1(f): 1:45pm On Mar 17, 2018
Rapsino:

How do you know the person feels same way.. The world is a Photoshop my dear..
there are times when it's possible to know if the person feels the same way u do
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by emmanuelpopson(m): 1:49pm On Mar 17, 2018
sexybaby22:


Why do you call it diabolic. Do you also realise that someone from another religion might view yours as strange too. That is the way the Yoruba's worship and it works for them, respect it even if you don't want to indulge in it.

you can define yours as you wish. that is what I term mine... haven't you seen people doing Astra projection in Krishna, Indian worship... so diabolical or spiritism as you call it isnt my own concern.. I define it for the questionnaire... rituals, blood spilling, cannibalism etc. are they not diabolical.? aren't they also spirited? see,Voodoo, juju, Jazz or anything u name it..is diabolical and its all about spiritual realms. mind you.. I didn't say only Yoruba's indulge or do this.. All Africans in one way or the other had done or is doing this. ..as long as we have traditional beliefs...
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by DONADAMS(m): 1:52pm On Mar 17, 2018
don't TRUST anyone...NEVER!
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Blackfire(m): 1:55pm On Mar 17, 2018
Love those that love you...

Hate those that hate you...

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Mar 17, 2018
kaptaneSaka:
currently, it's killing me.... The girl now roll with another guy.. Painful
Never do more than you can for a lady, don't even compromise, she's never yours till you marry her + don't let a lady decieve you with her cool and calm face or attitude, when they show you their true color, you won't believe your eyes.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by viktor88: 2:07pm On Mar 17, 2018
omotuntun:
If you want to be successful, you must disappear for a while
I am working on this, sir.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by stepo707: 2:11pm On Mar 17, 2018
viktor88:

I am working on this, sir.
Working on it how? What does it really mean to disappear? From what or who?
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Cmyname(m): 2:12pm On Mar 17, 2018
=> God first

=>Never undermine the power of depression

=>Learn to be financially indepedent

=>Shun lies

=>Silence is gold sometimes

=>Celebrate peoples success, yours is near

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by CofOLandOfPeace(m): 2:17pm On Mar 17, 2018
emmanuelpopson:


you can define yours as you wish. that is what I term mine... haven't you seen people doing Astra projection in Krishna, Indian worship... so diabolical or spiritism as you call it isnt my own concern.. I define it for the questionnaire... rituals, blood spilling, cannibalism etc. are they not diabolical.? aren't they also spirited? see,Voodoo, juju, Jazz or anything u name it..is diabolical and its all about spiritual realms. mind you.. I didn't say only Yoruba's indulge or do this.. All Africans in one way or the other had done or is doing this. ..as long as we have traditional beliefs...
Vodoo.... Interesting.
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by clemmonce(m): 2:19pm On Mar 17, 2018
xmanco42:
What is the most important lessons you’ve learned from people in life?

Quora style if topic. good one bro. i don tire for nairaland topics

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Ramaa(m): 2:23pm On Mar 17, 2018
Don’t be too quick to judge people....

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by placeofallure(f): 2:32pm On Mar 17, 2018
A reoccurring lesson for me: The race is not to the swift..

Also learnt to take responsibility for your actions no matter what.

Respect is never asked or demanded, you earn it overtime

In any situation, I brace up for the worst. It has served as a very potent shock absorber. It helps to push through rough times with relative ease.

People are hypocritical in nature. Don't be deceived when they hail you, they don't really give a hoot about you. It's a spur of the moment kinda thing. Thank you.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Boyooosa(m): 2:33pm On Mar 17, 2018
That everybody is both good and bad... for a reason.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Chochovini: 2:37pm On Mar 17, 2018
TO BE Self dependend is golden.
Love more than you trust more.
Not everything that happen to a man in life is really from God, certain things are influenced by the devil. Therefore, if it is not GOOD then it‘s not God.
Try to steer clear of people who meant no good for your lie. You can‘t carry everybody along in life. Some people are just accidents in our lives.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by tete7000(m): 2:37pm On Mar 17, 2018
That God is all in all.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Adewunmibaba(m): 2:41pm On Mar 17, 2018
Chochovini:
TO BE Self dependend is golden.
Love more than you trust more.
Not everything that happen to a man in life is really from God, certain things are influenced by the devil. Therefore, if it is not GOOD then it‘s not God.
Try to steer clear of people who meant no good for your lie. You can‘t carry everybody along in life. Some people are just accidents in our lives.

How do we identify people who meant no good for us...This life is so complicated.
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Chochovini: 2:44pm On Mar 17, 2018
Exponental:
DO NOT MARRY MORE THAN ONE WOMAN!!!!!!!!
.
ABOKI MAN No go take that advice from you lai lai...
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by nlandgrandfada(m): 2:49pm On Mar 17, 2018
money first.

Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by queserasera217: 2:50pm On Mar 17, 2018
patience,what wil be will be,queserasera
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by freedomchild: 2:52pm On Mar 17, 2018
Etihadstore:
1) Physically attractive people will get respect, even if they did nothing to earn that respect.

2) Money is the only way to solve a great number of life's problems.

3) Heartbreak isn't a possibility, it's guaranteed.

4) Sooner or later you will have to stop caring. Not about your physical and mental health, but about other people. It doesn’t make sense to hang around those who aren't interested in cheering for you.

5) Teachers will love some students and won’t hesitate to criticize/insult others, and you might fall into the latter category (it happened to me). I wouldn't count on an explanation.

6) You have to honor yourself and your wishes. Nobody else will
(7) Apart from your family, nobody really cares
(cool Hardwork is overated, smart work is the bomb
I really love this bro...
you just nailed it
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Stevengerd(m): 2:55pm On Mar 17, 2018
RSVP:



Na 8 unit course bro.
But let's jzt slide ham.
Bro you mean to Ti Ese ile bo?
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by bettercreature(m): 2:56pm On Mar 17, 2018
1) Mind your own business

2) Never under-rate anybody

3) Forget Nigeria it will never be okay

4) The only thing constant in life is "change"

5) Your destiny is in your own hand

6) Some people have no mind to forgive,you are dead if you ever offend them

7) Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle

8 ) Think big

9) Women are very weak

10) What money can not do,more money can do it

11)If you dont know the main man,know the person that knows the main man

12) Maintain the 42 laws of power

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Ojuororun(m): 3:00pm On Mar 17, 2018
EagleScribes:
Run away when somebody says he's the messiah to fight corruption promises to bring change, backed up by myriads of propaganda.

Such persons and failures are like this
gringringringrin
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by n1ky(f): 3:00pm On Mar 17, 2018
Never make anyone a priority in your life when you are only an option in their life.
Forgive a person that offend you but never forget what it taught you.
A true friend is someone who works into your life and proves it.
Excellence is not an option, it is a prevailing attitude.
A devil can do everything but he can't pray, take a prayer life from a person then he is empty.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by ameri9ja: 3:01pm On Mar 17, 2018
sinkhole:
This thread has many sensible people there and I have learnt a lot of life's lessons already!
Thanks guys

This is NL??!! I'm surprised people didn't derail the whole thing with jokes as usual

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Chochovini: 3:01pm On Mar 17, 2018
Adewunmibaba:


How do we identify people who meant no good for us...This life is so complicated.
.
NEVER Met somebody who just hate you and everything about you for no just course? Life has taught me that everybody in life has three type of persons attatched to his/her life.
1) those who come to ADD to your life.
2) those who come to SUBTRACT from your life
3) those who neither add or subtract from you life.
So out of these set of people, who should you be closer to and make friends with?

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Crownbefitsme(f): 3:01pm On Mar 17, 2018
You reap what you sow...


Patience is virtue

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by ameri9ja: 3:05pm On Mar 17, 2018
Neurotika:
1. Life goes on...
2. There are no universal rules for anything.
3. Humanity is overrated.
4. Most people we respect/love greatly is due to our limited knowledge of who they really are.
5. It's lonely at the top
6. The journey can be more intriguing than the destination.
7. Your dignity doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth.
8. Happiness is simply the ability to give no fvcks. If you know how quickly people forget the dead, you will stop living to impress people.
9. Fear is an illusion.
10. Religion is a legendary fraud.

Actually it is not lonely at the top at all.
Am at the top. Everybody wants to be your friend. The problem is keeping them out.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by Chochovini: 3:09pm On Mar 17, 2018
: Despise free meal[/quote]. Good point there, especially if you are in yoruba land.

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Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by engrelvis(m): 3:09pm On Mar 17, 2018
People r nt who u think dey r especially here on Nairaland.2) discover n believe in yrsef.3) u don't need people to b happy .4)never accept failure,instead take it as a stepping stone
Re: What Are The Most Important Lessons You Have Learnt In Life? by puregrace(m): 3:11pm On Mar 17, 2018
[quote author=omotuntun post=65912929]If you want to be successful, you must disappear for a while ]please explain this better.

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