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TheUpsetGirl:
it's better to act real than being a fake bitch just to Garner likes and support on social media.

Shugavee:
get a hold of urself girl!!! Stop being bitter 4 nothing!!! It's my life right? Stop bothering urself abt it cause i care less abt ur life whether fake or not!!!

BabbanBura:
I see no where in your clarifying essay quoted herein that feminism or gender equality is 'a man taking all or some of the financial responsibilities of his girlfriend' - why then do you feminists keep insisting on this?

lwanga1993:
i love you... i logged in just to tell you this

BdorianGray:
Shugacane...abi na shugav..abeg no mind am... She likes you...That's the tactics she uses when she dey find person friendship... I know her..
So just consider her... she's isn't such a tired-axe lady afterall..

BdorianGray:
Abeg! I no know you oh! And no be say.. I wan fall 4u.. But this your leg..
As e fit into that tights weh u wear just dey too epic.. E wan be like Chike ike kind of legs.. My favourite kind of lady legs..
The only snag though...ur hair... E be like DAT of the witches weh dey always do meeting on top our transformer make we no get light...
Abeg no vex oh! I just dey play..truth...
Cheers...

TheUpsetGirl1:
nah, a man is behind this account.
because you guys think ladies are programmed to defend rubbish

Rubbiish:
Not really...Just that your view was somewhat different from what the average Nigerian lady would propagate....

TheUpsetGirl1:
okay, how're you doing

TheUpsetGirl:
I've come to understand what nairaland feminists mean when they talk about feminism, to catch them in the hook I decided to create a thread meant for bashing broke people and luckily they fell for it except Amarabae which I commend for her real advocating of the feminist ideology.


there's a lady called shugavee on this platform who usually run from thread to thread shouting ladies should be independent, ladies should embrace feminism and others.

it came as a bombshell when I saw a post where she said;
a guy must give his gf 3 to 5k every 2weeks for her hair

for a supposed feminist advocate to say this, I now understand what she has been preaching about.

a guy must be the one to spend on a date


a guy must purchase some clothes for his gf every month.

A feminist who said she's hardworking, independent and can cope 50/50 said this, it only shows that her hypocrisy is greater than the sins of Satan.


feminism doesn't exist on nairaland, there are few feminists I think are sincere, but only God knows what their true intentions are about.


it is better to say you're not a feminist and bash broke people, say your guy must provide what you need, truly I won't be offended

but when you create useless threads about feminism, always shouting equality and independence and you don't practice what you preach it only shows the kind of person you are and what your true intentions are.




gratitude to amarabae, ladyhippolyta, makydebbie, xhosanostra, rukkydelta, ladyF, and safarigirl.

the only people I think are real.


I don't believe men and women are equal, because even the Bible denotes that .
because of that I don't rant about feminism just because of likes because I know that I can't practice that independence stuff, that's me I like being real.

but you can't be ranting and making poor ladies feel bad when you create useless threads about feminism, advocating for gender equality and independence when you're a lazy fake bitch who can't practice what you preach in reality.


be real,

funmisticqueen:
this epistle is just your opinion which you can shove where the sun doesn't shine, you are not the judge and jury of feminism. You talk as if you dont know that the opposite sex like to eat their cake and have it and have been doing so for centuries. That women should be independent does not mean they shouldn't be treated right and pampered. Instead of preaching gender equality, why not preach gender neutrality.

TheUpsetGirl:
I've come to understand what nairaland feminists mean when they talk about feminism, to catch them in the hook I decided to create a thread meant for bashing broke people and luckily they fell for it except Amarabae which I commend for her real advocating of the feminist ideology.


there's a lady called shugavee on this platform who usually run from thread to thread shouting ladies should be independent, ladies should embrace feminism and others.

it came as a bombshell when I saw a post where she said;
a guy must give his gf 3 to 5k every 2weeks for her hair

for a supposed feminist advocate to say this, I now understand what she has been preaching about.

a guy must be the one to spend on a date


a guy must purchase some clothes for his gf every month.

A feminist who said she's hardworking, independent and can cope 50/50 said this, it only shows that her hypocrisy is greater than the sins of Satan.


feminism doesn't exist on nairaland, there are few feminists I think are sincere, but only God knows what their true intentions are about.


it is better to say you're not a feminist and bash broke people, say your guy must provide what you need, truly I won't be offended

but when you create useless threads about feminism, always shouting equality and independence and you don't practice what you preach it only shows the kind of person you are and what your true intentions are.




gratitude to amarabae, ladyhippolyta, makydebbie, xhosanostra, rukkydelta, ladyF, and safarigirl.

the only people I think are real.


I don't believe men and women are equal, because even the Bible denotes that .
because of that I don't rant about feminism just because of likes because I know that I can't practice that independence stuff, that's me I like being real.

but you can't be ranting and making poor ladies feel bad when you create useless threads about feminism, advocating for gender equality and independence when you're a lazy fake bitch who can't practice what you preach in reality.


be real,

MissJoy29:
These are my opinions about feminism;
*Strive for fairness especially in the way women are treated in marriage. For instance, it's not set in stone that a woman should be the only one doing house chores. A man can help out too without his manliness reduced. On the other hand, a woman shouldn't take his helping for granted.

*Be independent to an extent as a lady. In the sense that you can have your own money and pay up your bills without having to depend on a man. Depending on a man has levels. It gets really irritating seeing mature ladies begging for everything from a guy. A man that wants to help can help but don't beg.

*There's nothing wrong in helping out a man financially. There's nothing wrong in buying gifts for a man. There's nothing wrong in pampering a man & surprising him once in a while. But use your head. "Using your head" could mean a lot of things & could also prevent a lot of things.

*Be strong and firm yet feminine. That's a woman's strongest weapon, her feminity. Be sweet and gentle and cute.
Stop with the bitching & the bad attitude. That you can foot your bills doesn't mean you give oit that air that you don't need a man. Your independence should attract men to you not repel them.

*Finally, never look down on any man. Never broke-shame a guy because you think he's not up to a level you want. You see, no one knows tomorrow.

These being said, I am a feminist. The real one not the ones moved by hungry, frustrated leeches.

Shugavee:
she is fooling herself!!! Let her say all she wants!!! I won't even advise my enemy to date a man who isn't finacially stable!!! The lady self is a distraction to him!!! That does not mean u as a lady shouldn't hv something doing!! Feminism is not man hating, u can get gifts from men n vise versa!!! Let her say all the trash she wants to say!! My opinion is my opinion n it's not meant to be right or correct to anyone!!! Moreorless someone like this one!!

DeRay98:
You're very balanced thinker.
Some hard-core feminists aka men haters will not appreciate or accept you for this.

MissJoy29:
These are my opinions about feminism;
*Strive for fairness especially in the way women are treated in marriage. For instance, it's not set in stone that a woman should be the only one doing house chores. A man can help out too without his manliness reduced. On the other hand, a woman shouldn't take his helping for granted.

*Be independent to an extent as a lady. In the sense that you can have your own money and pay up your bills without having to depend on a man. Depending on a man has levels. It gets really irritating seeing mature ladies begging for everything from a guy. A man that wants to help can help but don't beg.

*There's nothing wrong in helping out a man financially. There's nothing wrong in buying gifts for a man. There's nothing wrong in pampering a man & surprising him once in a while. But use your head. "Using your head" could mean a lot of things & could also prevent a lot of things.

*Be strong and firm yet feminine. That's a woman's strongest weapon, her feminity. Be sweet and gentle and cute.
Stop with the bitching & the bad attitude. That you can foot your bills doesn't mean you give oit that air that you don't need a man. Your independence should attract men to you not repel them.

*Finally, never look down on any man. Never broke-shame a guy because you think he's not up to a level you want. You see, no one knows tomorrow.

These being said, I am a feminist. The real one not the ones moved by hungry, frustrated leeches.

TheUpsetGirl1:
Good morning @missjoy

donstan18:
Adanne

MissJoy29:

donstan18:
How you?

MissJoy29:
I'm fine and you?

donstan18:
I'm doing good

Iwu nwa afor ngwa?

MissJoy29:
Nope. I'm not

donstan18:
Alright, but you base there?

MissJoy29:
Yep

Cuteamigo1:
the lady could be the compass that directs him out of his financial instability to stability. it has happened many times so you are wrong on this one except if you are a man hater.

donstan18:
Faulks, Ph, Osisioma, Brass, Omuma, Ogbor hill,

Did I communicate?