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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:10pm On Apr 14, 2018
MetalJigsaw:
parasitic eediot

Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 6:10pm On Apr 14, 2018
bammy777:
common don't do this. didn't u read what u posted, u made priority by connecting everything to returning the favour of supporting FINANCIALLY
does that mean I’m ONLY dating you for your money? Your top priority in a girl can be a cook good. Does that mean you’re only dating her for her food lol?
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 6:11pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
hahaha,oya let's enjoy the thread together.


while I get the pop corncheesy
I Don Carry my Full Bedroom come Keep Here
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 6:12pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
bia,boo goan rest o.cheesy
Just Want To Trouble Her Small... She Too Like Wahala...
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by graphicsgal3000(f): 6:13pm On Apr 14, 2018
I dont agree with him angry
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Impregnable101(op): 6:13pm On Apr 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Donstan who told you I'm single ? boy is trying to shoot his shot cheesy "it's better to be single than to date a broke guy" if actually I am


And you think you can describe me by my actions on social media....? you must be joking cool
u must be found here. Must! grin
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 6:13pm On Apr 14, 2018
DeadRat:
I Don Carry my Full Bedroom come Keep Here
hahaha,naso.cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 6:14pm On Apr 14, 2018
Enyi be careful, don't insult my friend
MetalJigsaw:
parasitic eediot

Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by bammy777(m): 6:14pm On Apr 14, 2018
Safiaa:
does that mean I’m ONLY dating you for your money? Your top priority in a girl can be a cook good. Does that mean you’re only dating her for her food lol?
well food isn't as sensitive has money so it's shouldn't be compared relatively.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:14pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
gringrin dancing shaku shaku.cheesy nothing for broke idiots queen.cheesy hahaha.
BROKE GUYS RIGHT NOW cheesy

Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 6:14pm On Apr 14, 2018
DeadRat:
I Don Carry my Full Bedroom come Keep Here
hahaha,naso.cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 6:14pm On Apr 14, 2018
DeadRat:
Just Want To Trouble Her Small... She Too Like Wahala...
grin
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 6:15pm On Apr 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
BROKE GUYS RIGHT NOW cheesy
hahaha,imagine. they should go and work and stop justifying their lazy life on here.cheesy I just tire joor.grin
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by UDUJ(m): 6:16pm On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18:
If you all check the first page of this thread, I booked a space,but didn't modify it for reasons best known to me.

I can authoritatively tell you all that most of these ladies you see here disturbing and obsessing for money don't have a man in their lives, they are just single and not getting proper attentions a normal lady should get from men.

Social media is just a small pretentious, boastful, predictable and hypocritical village , and it'll take beyond mere comments and posts to decode what is clearly tabled before you.
No one doubts that. A girl in a relationship will never spend countless hours online like you see these nairaland ladies do. They will be out on a date with their significant other or spending time doing more productive stuff. Not whiling away their time spewing trash on an online forum. Just reeks of frustration and desperation cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Shugavee(f): 6:16pm On Apr 14, 2018
greiboy:
The late Nelson Mandela once said" education is a powerful weapon which can be used to change the world".

It is a tool meant for liberation and self sufficiency.

Therefore, nobody should have a sense of entitlement after the acquisition of education, otherwise Mandela must have been lying when he made that statement.
i agree no one should feel any form of entitlement n not only when it come to money, but sex , ur woman's cooking, doing chores n etc but i put it to u that if u really love someone u would do any thing to make them happy as far its within ur power!!! It's a relationship, like it or not it's a responsibility for both party!!! And If u aint ready 4 that just stay single!!!
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 6:17pm On Apr 14, 2018
makydebbie:
Safiaa, hope you don't think sex is one sided too and it we giving the favor?
Both gain pleasure from sex, (even though it’s harder for women to enjoy it) yes. But who pursues and chases the sex 90% time? Who has the power to say no most times? Who begs to have sex most times? The man. Therefore I’m giving the sex, giving him my body and he is receiving.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f):
greiboy:
Where is the fact book so that I can get it right huh

Anyways, it's not peculiar to a particular background. it is more common among men and women suffering from self-esteem issues.
Like you told my friend highpriestess goggle is your friend wink




This aren't about self esteem issues from both parties but mistakes from the lady's side because she didn't chose wisely cool
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by olaboy1: 6:18pm On Apr 14, 2018
Hahahaha Nigerian girls desperately trying to corner the men into permanent provider roles without bringing anything to the table.
Only a low self esteem Nigerian guy would settle for the kind of crap I’m reading here. I consider myself to be 8/10 and I’m very rich and I don’t have a problem dating a dirt poor girl and will NEVER see myself as doing her a favor, but I will go on ghost mode once I sense any sense of entitlement from her.

You are not doing men any sex favor, and you girls need to stop acting like your clitoris don’t pulsate during ovulation, money can’t be the only thing that makes your kitten wet.

Na body go tell you when you get to 35yrs and your sexual market value starts dropping fast like bitcoin.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 6:18pm On Apr 14, 2018
whatever, nothing for broke idiots.cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 6:19pm On Apr 14, 2018
bammy777:
well food isn't as sensitive has money so it's shouldn't be compared relatively.
why? Money can be made, cooking can be learnt. They’re both very much motherly and fatherly characteristic, no?
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 6:20pm On Apr 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Oshie oya let's shake our bum bum for broke guys wink they can look but don't touch cheesy cheesy
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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:21pm On Apr 14, 2018
Impregnable101:
u must be found here. Must! grin
Never knew you can be this disrespectful.....why would you call her name's and upload it on a public forum ? so this broke guys can hale you I guess sad
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 6:21pm On Apr 14, 2018
What have I been missing for some days now cheesy?

I miss this section.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by princfred(m):
makydebbie:
Love, relationships and everything that comes with it should be mutual. I can't go into a relationship with the mentality that, I'm doing this guy a favor by dating him, then there's no love there. SUCH RELATIONSHIPS CANNOT WORK, because it's one sided. It means the love is one sided too.
For two individuals to come together, overlook each others flaws, whatever they feel should be mutual. The guy would've gone for that cute sexy girl in the street, so for him to choose you and start taking care of you, he's doing you a favor too because it could be anybody. It's better for a lady to remain single than to be in a relationship where she thinks she's doing him a favor. That's a different kind of pride and narcissism.

Lol, I'm trying to understand this, but like you said I really can't understand it, so I'll just respect your opinion. kiss
See how better babe dey reason. Better wife material not all these selfish, loveless semi-Bleep-mates disguised as lovers we have in Nigeria. Dont mind them o thats how 75% of Nigerian girls think. Egocentric, narcistic, selfish Bleep mates at best and in their unlovely minds thats wisdom and their own selfish interpretation of love. Me am looking forward to marrying from outside Nigeria.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 6:22pm On Apr 14, 2018
olaboy1:
Hahahaha Nigerian girls desperately trying to corner the men into permanent provider roles without bringing anything to the table.
Only a low self esteem Nigerian guy would settle for the kind of crap I’m reading here. I consider myself to be 8/10 and I’m very rich and I don’t have a problem dating a dirt poor girl and will NEVER see myself as doing her a favor, but I will go on ghost mode once I sense any sense of entitlement from her.

You are not doing men any sex favor, and you girls need to stop acting like your clitoris don’t pulsate during ovulation, money can’t be the only thing that makes your kitten wet.

Na body go tell you when you get to 35yrs and your sexual market value starts dropping fast like bitcoin.
One question. What else do you want on the table apart from sex? What else Is extremely valuable to you in a relationship apart from sex? Putting emotions aside and companionship.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:22pm On Apr 14, 2018
DeadRat:
..
Highpriestess come carry your boyfriend biko his jail time is calling him soon cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Shugavee(f): 6:23pm On Apr 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Domestic violence is common among poor homes not rich homes get your facts right cheesy
that's very very wrong ma'am!! Domestic violence is most common in Rich homes n comfortable homes!!! Very rare in poor homes!! Most women married to rich men , are likely not to talk much abt it cause they wont leave the marriage cause of money!!! Poor women talk abt it more cause they feel they got nothing to loose!!
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 6:24pm On Apr 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Highpriestess come carry your boyfriend biko his jail time is calling him soon cheesy
hahahaha,deadrat baby wants to flex for this thread.grincheesy

deadrat,goan finish the pop corn I brought for you.cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Impregnable101(op): 6:25pm On Apr 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Never knew you can be this disrespectful.....why would you call her name's and upload it on a public forum ? so this broke guys can hale you I guess sad
Did u mentioned anybody's name?

Plus my identity was hidden
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Safiaa(f): 6:25pm On Apr 14, 2018
Shugavee:
that's very very wrong ma'am!! Domestic violence is most common in Rich homes n comfortable homes!!! Very rare in poor homes!! Most women married to rich men , are likely not to talk much abt it cause they wont leave the marriage cause of money!!! Poor women talk abt it more cause they feel they got nothing to loose!!
and that’s why it’s important to have your own money, to have the strength to leave. You can’t be 100% dependent and stay in cases like that. That’s not very smart at all.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 6:26pm On Apr 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Highpriestess come carry your boyfriend biko his jail time is calling him soon cheesy
huh

Sharap there...


ishi okuko...
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 6:28pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
hahaha,imagine.
they should go and work and stop justifying their lazy life on here.cheesy
I just tire joor.grin
I've said it countless times here BROKE GUYS go and hustle hard and LESS MAKE POVERTY A HISTORY...... your opinion doesn't matter




Wait girl greiboy has pee on his body he can't stand the sight of your bum bum cheesy cheesy
Awww poor boy if only he was wealthy..... he should go and work hard biko

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