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Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 8:16pm On Apr 14, 2018
I still dey talk am
my account is here for all the wealthy nairaland ladies
I wouldn't mind if you credit my account
I am using mtn 10MB sub
bikonu cry
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by donstan18: 8:17pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
lool,donstan,I have never talked about my guy on this forum,reduce the volume of your lies.

yea, I rather stay single than marry/date a broke idiot.my choice,my life.tongue

kee yourself.cheesy
But you are a working class lady, abi?
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 8:17pm On Apr 14, 2018
MhisTahrah:
undecided Prove it.
Which phone are you using? was it not me that bought the phone for you angry cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 8:18pm On Apr 14, 2018
princfred:
Most of the rich dudes were ones broke. If you reject them when they are broke, when they make it, they will be coming to just pay and do at most.
lol,what do you even think of me?that I'm a desperate babe that needs any kind of man in my life?

lool,far from that.

I am working on myself, I don't need any leech in my life.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by donstan18: 8:18pm On Apr 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Donstan you know I'm full of surprises wink


This food just came in now tongue
Madam, what food?
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 8:18pm On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18:
But you are a working class lady, abi?
ask me again.cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by donstan18: 8:23pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
ask me again.cheesy
Are you scared to answer that?
You don't want people to see what you'll say cheesy
Smh!
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by donstan18: 8:23pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
ask me again.cheesy
Are you scared to answer that?
You don't want people to see what you'll say cheesy
Smh!
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 8:25pm On Apr 14, 2018
greiboy:
Which phone are you using? was it not me that bought the phone for you angry cheesy
Na so, is it the one that was stuffed with fufu?
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 8:26pm On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18:
Are you scared to answer that?
You don't want people to see what you'll say cheesy
Smh!
lol,who are people? boy,I don't owe you any fùcking explanation about whatever I do for a living.cheesy

gat that??
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 8:26pm On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18:
Are you scared to answer that?
You don't want people to see what you'll say cheesy
Smh!
lol,who are people? boy,I don't owe you any fùcking explanation about whatever I do for a living.cheesy

gat that??
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by princfred(m): 8:26pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
lol,what do you even think of me?that I'm a desperate babe that needs any kind of man in my life?

lool,far from that.

I am working on myself, I don't need any leech in my life.
No, i didnt say nor imply that. I said that rich dude you desire was once in a leech state. And if you all regarded him as nonsense and leech as you call it then, when he makes it he will only regard girls including you as pay per play whores and make baby mamas of many girls or do you think all these rich dudes creating baby mamas here and there just woke one day and decided that's the way they want to live?. Imagine if a guy is bleeping you or demanding it on one hand and at thesame time claiming he is doing you a favor on the other hand. Because thats what the once upon leech buy now rich dude has to do to even up. Thats how it sounds to guys when you claim entitlement for "favor"
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 8:28pm On Apr 14, 2018
MhisTahrah:
Na so, is it the one that was stuffed with fufu?
cheesy grin
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 8:29pm On Apr 14, 2018
princfred:
No, i didnt say nor imply that. I said that rich dude you desire was once in a leech state. And if you all regarded him as nonsense and leech as you call it. When he makes it he will only regard girls including you as pay per play whores and make baby mamas of many girls or do you think all these rich dudes creating baby mamas here and there just woke one day and decided that's the he wants to live?. Imagine if a guy is bleeping you and claiming he is doing you a favor. Thats how it sounds to guys when you claim entitlement for "favor"
lol,abeg.
he should make money while I do same, we shall meet at the appointed time.


I'm not single, just laying out my opinion.cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by richythePH(f): 8:31pm On Apr 14, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
You are now female grin
Dpussyhunter indeed. huh
cheesy cheesy cheesy

yea..........,.....i've always fantasized being a lady embarassed


and errrh it seems u taking this whole pussy hunter ish too serious o cheesy 3d.......,................YOU dont think i'm a pussy hunter? angry
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 8:31pm On Apr 14, 2018
greiboy:
cheesy grin
Papi tongue
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Kingdante(m): 8:33pm On Apr 14, 2018
Safiaa:
What is the essence of a relationship if you’re not benefiting from it? I hate to sound somehow, but honestly I feel like you guys are not being honest with yourselves. Sex is not a favour to you guys, yet you persue it more than money sef. Sex is basically like food to men. After basic amenities like food and water sex should be next for men. Women don’t persue sex in the same manner.

The same way if you meet a woman who can prepare your favourite meal and coook better, throw it down in the bedroom more, looks better, wouldn’t you opt for the better option? Wouldn’t that be more of a ‘wife’ to you? Not justifying cheating but if she decides to leave for a man who can do a better job as a provider,she has the right to do so. Jeez you guys are becoming so sensitive.
I don’t seems to get you, the fact that men love sex ( let’s pretend as tho women don’t love, enjoy or demand for sex too) and demand for sex from their partner are you trying say for that reason it’s a favour ladies doing my having intimacy in a relationship? Wow I don’t know where this mentality came from, it is this kind of mentality that lead girls into asking to be paid for sex even when in a relationship......... like I said earlier if any girl feels or think after having sex she should be giving money i honestly respect such but let’s be plain about it, say it clearly and don’t hide behind “being in a relationship” just tell the guy the cost for a round and you get down to business.



You said what is the need of being in a relationship if you don’t gain anything from it..... your question you should have asked is what is the reason of entering a relationship? Is it for financial gain? Is it for companion ship which may lead to life long marriage ? Or is t for free food and gift? .......... mind you I am not saying couples shouldn’t spoil each other once in a while but that shouldn’t be the core of the relationship..



I see a lot of articles stating what a guy must do or must not do in a relationship, the ladies are always left in the background....... I asked some female friends if they could spend Money on their bf.... majority of the ladies I asked said “no” “never” one even said “God forbid” like seriously people? That mentality is a poverty mentality, mind you spending on your guys isn’t the guy’s right awell it’s a privilege when moved by the “ spirit” ...... same way it is for guys, spending on a girl isn’t a must it’s a privilege when moved by the spirit.

Also I need to say this, most ladies I have met lately believe that sex answers all things..... thus they see taking their bf out or getting him a gift, as “ over doing” they see it as being cheated in the relationship....... she see sex as payment for everything which is very wrong, what ever I do for my girl I do that out of love not because I am expecting to be paid in sex, mind you sex can be gotten from anywhere lately and trust me that shii is cheap lately.

I for one can’t cross an oceans for a person that wouldn’t even jump the gutter for me, I know what I bring to the table thus I don’t mind eating alone !!!


Also you said something about breaking up to date a richer guy and all..... I am totally not against that if you are truly in love and your heart truly wants that, but if all you see in him is his money and that’s the sole reason of leaving your man to date him.... then there is problem somewhere oooooo............ I leave you with this question what will you think of a guy that breaks up with you, to date another girl simply because she cane from a wealthier family than yours? What will you think of such a dude?



But in all do whatever you believe makes you happy..... That is my 10kobo piece of advice
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 8:33pm On Apr 14, 2018
MhisTahrah:
Papi tongue
How is everything now? School? wink
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by richythePH(f): 8:38pm On Apr 14, 2018
greiboy:
Manchester city Don dey enter spurs

2 : 0

controversial penalty
bruv i swear it's shocking how these english refs making rash harsh decisions all of a sudden


i just focus 4 the match since till i saw ur's and hippo's mention...........this game is hot and bloody


with this rubbish refereeing we could as well just give the trophy to man city there at wembley angry


mhistahrah the love omf my............ :*(
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 8:38pm On Apr 14, 2018
greiboy:
How is everything now? School? wink
Very fine, can't complain. smiley
Whispers in his ears,
*I hate school* lipsrsealed
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by donstan18: 8:41pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
lol,who are people?
boy,I don't owe you any fùcking explanation about whatever I do for a living.cheesy


gat that??
We all know what you do for a living, but just know that HIV is real
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 8:41pm On Apr 14, 2018
richythePH:
bruv i swear it's shocking how these english refs making rash harsh decisions all of a sudden


i just focus 4 the match since till i saw ur's and hippo's mention...........this game is hot and bloody


with this rubbish refereeing we could as well just give the trophy to man city there at wembley angry


mhistarah :*(
lol

Poor refereeing, but spurs have managed to pull one back.

City's poor defense may become problem for them.


Let us just wait for second half cheesy,
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 8:43pm On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18:
We all know what you do for a living, but just know that HIV is real
no problem, just after you are diagnosed negative.cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 8:43pm On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18:
We all know what you do for a living, but just know that HIV is real
no problem, just after you are diagnosed negative.cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Nobody: 8:43pm On Apr 14, 2018
MhisTahrah:
Very fine, can't complain. smiley
Whispers in his ears,
*I hate school* lipsrsealed
Funny enough, I use to love school. Most especially the library cheesy


You will get use to it jare, Don't worrywink
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by princfred(m): 8:46pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
lol,abeg.
he should make money while I do same, we shall meet at the appointed time.


I'm not single, just laying out my opinion.cheesy
Yeah i never said you a single. Am saying that if girls are entering and jumping from one relationships to another mainly for the money, men will also be jumping from one lady to another when he makes the money. In fact this is what is happening in our society. At a young age a girl will be calling all the guys broke and be jumping from one to another in search of more cash then the guys(including that rich dude you will later want and marry) will learn that such virtues like love loyalty, faithfulness and friendship mean nothing to girls when they make the money they will also throw away such virtues like friendship faithfulness and loyalty and start jumping from one fine girl to another .
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Thegeneralqueen(f): 8:46pm On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18:
Madam, what food?
This food....... don't be too fast donstan it's better serve hot than cool wink

Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 8:47pm On Apr 14, 2018
greiboy:
I still dey talk am
my account is here for all the wealthy nairaland ladies
I wouldn't mind if you credit my account
I am using mtn 10MB sub
bikonu cry
hahahaha,grey grey.cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by highpriestess: 8:49pm On Apr 14, 2018
princfred:
Yeah i never said you a single. Am saying girl enter relationships for the money men will also be jumping from one lady to another when he makes the money. In fact this is what is happening in our society. At a young age a girl will be calling all the guys broke and be jumping from one to another in search of more cash then the guys(including that rich dude you will later want and marry) will learn that such virtues like love loyalty, faithfulness and friendship mean nothing to girls when they make the money they will also throw away such virtues like friendship faithfulness and loyalty and start jumping from one fine girl to another .
lol, I can counter all these but no strength to write long stuff.
different strokes for different folks.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by donstan18: 8:49pm On Apr 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
This food....... don't be too fast donstan it's better serve hot than cool wink
Are you normal atall? cheesy
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by donstan18: 8:50pm On Apr 14, 2018
highpriestess:
no problem, just after you are diagnosed negative.cheesy
Yahoo guyz are everywhere looking for a lady to fry her kpomo pussy.
Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by richythePH(f): 8:50pm On Apr 14, 2018
greiboy:
lol

Poor refereeing, but spurs have managed to pull one back.

City's poor defense may become problem for them.


Let us just wait for second half cheesy,
2nd half just started and frankly i see tot pulling a liverpool/manu on man city


final score 2-2 or 3-2 to tot grin


Mhistahrah my ........,..... angry kiss p
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