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richythePH:
i know...... i know


needed to take care of some (alot): stuffs............,....................anyways i'm back now and i missed you like ______


infact thoughts of u was what made me come back



how's school,
hows lovely (not so sure i recall the mame ) ur cute dog, hows everything and most importantly how's lordcat

School is fine. My dog is also fine. Iono. Hope you good too?

Thegeneralqueen:
That was disrespectful I know you more than you could ever imagine

can we forget about this please?

greiboy:
lol. It has finished 3:1 to city

it's c*obvious*c totthenham is an average team and kane is a joke

i just hope arsenal do to mancity what liverpool did to dem when they meet for the 2nd leg epl match qsha

Impregnable101:
can we forget about this please?

Sure

MhisTahrah:
School is fine. My dog is also fine. Iono. Hope you good too?

"school is fine" then you add " " a crying emoticon...........................there a problem ya?


oya spill, i'm all eyes


and yea i'm good too

richythePH:


it's c*obvious*c totthenham is an average team and kane is a joke

i just hope arsenal do to mancity what liverpool did to dem when they meet for the 2nd leg epl match qsha

They won us already jare. We have already met like twice.

Kane has suddenly dropped in form, how strange. The British press has also suddenly gone quiet.

greiboy:
They won us already jare. We have already met like twice.

Kane has suddenly dropped in form, how strange. The British press has also suddenly gone quiet.

oh really.......................would check to confirm later


and why wont they be quiet when their players and referees are frauds


did you hear of the threats some anonymous guys sent to ref michael olivers wife?..........................the whites no just get joy at all

Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.

did i freaking force her? What kind of village mentality is this? So what of my time, my biological clock and my emotional well being too, aint they also at risk? This post of yours is selfish, silly and very naive makes one question your maturity.

Safiaa:
Well that’s your opinion. I’m just stating what naturally happens in a relationship whether it’s conciously or not. So whether you agree or not, indirectly you’re doing the guy a favour by accepting to date him.

doing the guy a favour? Girl?!

Safiaa:
What is the essence of a relationship if you’re not benefiting from it? I hate to sound somehow, but honestly I feel like you guys are not being honest with yourselves. Sex is not a favour to you guys, yet you persue it more than money sef. Sex is basically like food to men. After basic amenities like food and water sex should be next for men. Women don’t persue sex in the same manner.

The same way if you meet a woman who can prepare your favourite meal and coook better, throw it down in the bedroom more, looks better, wouldn’t you opt for the better option? Wouldn’t that be more of a ‘wife’ to you? Not justifying cheating but if she decides to leave for a man who can do a better job as a provider,she has the right to do so. Jeez you guys are becoming so sensitive.

Following this arguement of yours, if I am not asking for sex from my girlfriend or I do my cooking myself, am I free from these financial obligations? I had two relationships that were like this and they lasted two years each. Should they have stayed if I did not spend on them. It was only companionship that we derived from the relationships. Do they have any grounds to leave me for not spending?

richythePH:
oh really.......................would check to confirm later


and why wont they be quiet when their players and referees are frauds


did you hear of the threats some anonymous guys sent to ref michael olivers wife?..........................the whites no just get joy at all

No I am not aware of the threats, was Michael the referee for the just concluded city game

I am sure kane's Madrid dream move will have gone back to the cooler for now

I didn't even notice him through out today

Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.

poverty is a curse. Most ladies who sound lik dis are broke galZ.u think such reasoning is normal until u start making friends wit rich gal 4rm very rich home.such ladies like dis1 are very stingy.4 example u think otedola daughter go dey ask mr eazy 4 moni wen she can buy d guy nd have gone 2 places wer d Bobo Neva enta.d day wen a gal told me no b sey i no get moni.she have her own car work in a telecom film.get like 17k airtym anytym i call am she cut am call me back na dt tym i knw sey I jam beta babe.den 1pako broke gal cum nairaland dey yearn gibberish.sey na favour.rich ladies don talk lik dt only poverty mentality ladiez

Thegeneralqueen:
Sure

my nairaland wifey

Don't be mad at me. U know i can't stand u being angry

Impregnable101:
my nairaland wifey

Don't be mad at me. U know i can't stand u being angry

No mind me jare but just be respectful towards the right woman......



I also can't stand you being disrespectful

Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.

You just called women pleasure toys at the beck and call of men!

What a shame you just insulted the entire generation of women!

Hence you just agreed to the age old logic that women should be paid less than men, and treated inferior to men! You just classified all women as second class humans who should be subject to men!

You just called women slaves to men!

You did all the above without knowing you did so!

What a real shame!

Thegeneralqueen:
No mind me jare but just be respectful towards the right woman......



I also can't stand you being disrespectful

yes ma'am. Noted

Oya give boo boo a kiss na

Impregnable101:
yes ma'am. Noted

Oya give boo boo a kiss na

Oya chop the mouth

Safiaa:
The fact that a man chooses to woo me, it’s completly on his own basis. A man seeks for what he wants, not the other way round. He’s doing himself a favour by picking the girl that he wants, it’s not the other way round. Women normally have to settle for the options that come their way. Now after accepting this favour, the way to level things out is to receive something in return. I don’t think you can really understand this, but this is just the way I see things.

The person that gains most in the relationship is the one enjoying more favour. It may not always be money. Time, emotion etc which are not quantifiable may determine the one being favoured. The OP is trying to correct this money money mentality which has ruined so many potentially flourishing relationship.

Safiaa:
The fact that a man chooses to woo me, it’s completly on his own basis. A man seeks for what he wants, not the other way round. He’s doing himself a favour by picking the girl that he wants, it’s not the other way round. Women normally have to settle for the options that come their way. Now after accepting this favour, the way to level things out is to receive something in return. I don’t think you can really understand this, but this is just the way I see things.

This view will not go down well with feminist except the fake ones

Safiaa:
Didn’t read everything, but my opinion is that as a boyfriend you don’t have to spend your every dime on your Gf or cater to every single thing she wants to buy. However you need to spend money. If you can’t afford to date, stay single. It’s as simple as ABC. Nobody is putting a gun to your head to have a gf.

you just wake up one day and just be talking nonsense. What about girls that ask boys for relationship without them having any money in their account?
After reading all your comments I regret quoting you, but I can't help it. Doing the guy a favour. Okay let me ask you, I hope you're planning to get married and have kids, please when ever u are in a relationship, you don't think about where it is heading Abi. Your stupidity is just too much to bear. How can you ask question, that they are other pretty girls but can he get them? Are u okay at all? Do you know, I had a friend dating the ugliest girl back then in school, after he dumped the prettiest girl in class for her. Because of character. So you think because you're fine then that's why people date? If that's the case ugly girls won't stand a chance. I think you're more of money in a relationship, I hope u don't get married. Lol. Don't take it all serious.

[quote author=Thegeneralqueen post=66710293][/quote]Na u sabi

Safiaa:
Means a lot to me Sir.

I don't blame you all. Its those stupid dudes that think with their dicks ho are to blame. Nonsense

Thegeneralqueen:
Oya chop the mouth

that's my baby girl

Aiit, sleep well

AlPeter:
did i freaking force her? What kind of village mentality is this? So what of my time, my biological clock and my emotional well being too, aint they also at risk? This post of yours is selfish, silly and very naive makesYou get time to argues? one question your maturity.

You get time to argue. I blame we the guys. If half of them arevlike me those girls won't have this silly mentality

BiggyB242:
Yea so stupid of them. Funny enough they are girls who wouldn't ask dime from you. That's why I don't bother myself trying to convince a lady, I will simply walk away. There are ladies who don't have this mindset. Just search brothers.

she wont ask a dime from u and ur comfortable, enjoying her when your tired u discard her smh . some guys are just daft

Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.

but why not just go into big time prostituting and make that money rather than doing it codedly? poverty has turned Nigerian girls to prostitutes

Safiaa:
The fact that a man chooses to woo me, it’s completly on his own basis. A man seeks for what he wants, not the other way round. He’s doing himself a favour by picking the girl that he wants, it’s not the other way round. Women normally have to settle for the options that come their way. Now after accepting this favour, the way to level things out is to receive something in return. I don’t think you can really understand this, but this is just the way I see things.

its not your fault. poverty has eaten deep into your brain that you can't think straight again. you can't eat unless a man buys you food,you can't cloth yourself unless a man gives you money for it,you can't spend money unless its given to you by a man. I know girls like you,Pele. but don't get it twisted,your gender doesn't mean girls like you are not making it big,there are several female self made multimillionaires. do they have 2 heads. you should be ashamed you have the mentality of a common prostitute and a prostitute isn't different from a rag to we men,more like a dirty stinking toilet.

Safiaa:
ahn ahn all this for me. Well my dude is above average, not a millionaire but good enough lol. I’m only saying what people think in their heads but are scared to say. I also used to belive in only love when I was 15 but I grew up and realised there’s more to love. Love is not enough

that word says it all.

broke people always disturbing others.
if your bf isn't a millionaire so why all the noise since yesterday even my fiance is wealthier than him.


NB; never take some people seriously on social media.



some people have time to keep arguing with this broke this and that shít.

Thank God I stopped reading the comments and went to movies section.

henceforth I won't comment in any thread created because of broke guys / broke ladies, golddiggers or whatever shits because the people who propagate this topics and the posts within are not who they're trying to portrait in reality.

some people always tend to say things they're not just to impress others or make people think they're rich or something.


Conclusion; anybody that thinks he/she is rich, I'd like to book an appointment with such person.

some don't even have up to 300k in their accounts but the way the present themselves on social media, you'll think they're billionaires when in reality they got absolutely nothing.

mehn.. no time for fake shíts
I'm out, I've work to do..

Very entertaining

All Nigerian girls have this mentality e just pain me I discover late I bought two cakes for my babe and a new phone on her bday only for my bday to turn up and common card she no fit buy. Another one had up to 300k for account and we both Dey drink Garri infact she borrow me money wey me and am Dey use chop dat period. After all this I give my self brain now I got a babe in USA and SA love go sweet you do.